You're speaking YOUR truth. Not every man cheats. In fact, the highest statistic I can find is that 40% of men cheat (several put the numbers lower than that). That puts you in the minority, not the majority :thumbsup

What's funny is that now more and more women are cheating on their men. You guys are finally getting a taste of your own medicine - gag THAT down! :1orglaugh

Well, I was going to go but I read this first. :1orglaugh

Excuse me while I get on the floor and laugh until I shit myself... :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

The man you speak of is the ultimate player. He has led you to honestly believe his cock is on a leash. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

The exception to that rule is a man who has given up and has been defeated by his woman. He is on a leash, not his lenis.

Oh, I think I know what your saying now, I can think of an example, such as fucking a third world whore up the ass with no comdom and risking your life.... that sort of thing.. yea that's pretty depraved :(

Actually it shows even more how shallow men aren't very bright. :winkwink:

I hate all that new age "soul" shit, but the argument here is not really talking about picking someone up in a nightclub, we're talking long term relationships. In a long term relationship love should mean a hell of a lot more than looks. Really and honestly.. if you have a "soul connection" with someone you don't really care in a relationship sense if they pack on 50 lbs. Sure you can care in a health and lets do something about it sense, but not in a "hey you put on 50 lbs im going to fuck around" sense.

.1 is what separates it from going from normal to overweight ..oh my :1orglaugh

And some of us don't have to work to hard to make that happen :Oh crap

40% of men ADMIT to cheating. The other 60% are smart enough to ever admit to such a thing.

Every man I know or have ever known has cheated or is cheating.

Peaches, I do a lot of business with guys of all ages but most of my friends are between 35 and 55. In that crowd, I only know 1 (one) guy who is faithful that has the means to cheat. One. Uno. Ichi. Actually all the well to do guys I know over 50 cheat too. Now that I think about it the worst one is actually 77! He has homes all over the world with women for every house. Another is in his 70's and has a second wife in Brazil in a home he specifically bought for that purpose.

Again, I said that have the means to cheat. The ones that don't have the means (money, looks etc) are still trying.

Except 1.

Hun, I daresay the people you hang around with are the kind who are going to subscribe to your method of thinking. A good, honest non-cheating man isn't going to WANT to be in your circle of friends or business associates. :(

I have given up many friendships with men because of them cheating on women I don't even know. I don't have respect for that. Period. If you want to cheat, then don't have a relationship.

According to GFY my hubby is fucking around... I need to be filing for divorce and taking everything my hubby has and leaving him with the kids...hot damn..time for mama to have some fun!! :1orglaugh

That's true for us fat girls, too. I have boys who never thought they'd find a girl over 120 attractive eating out of my hand. :winkwink:

haha, bingo.

There's nothing wrong with your outlook but really, take a good look around you.

I know you have some affluent friends, are they really all faithful all the time or are they just not getting into those kinds of conversations with you about the infidelities. I'd bet dollars to doughnuts it's the latter instead of the former.

Shhh - it only works the other way, donchaknow? The old, saggy, fat, balding dudes can get hot girls, but the old saggy women have to scrape the bottom of the barrel in order to find a movie date. Tis' the World According to GFY :1orglaugh

Not every man cheats...but the ones that do are stupid if they think their woman doesn't know. And if she does know, she's probably cheating on you too :-)

No, if you have a slow metabolism, you WILL have to bust your ass, no matter how little you eat.

In fact, because I was skipping meals and so on before, I had to eat MORE to meet what my eating plan requires, lol. My body thought it was starving and was hanging on to every last calorie for dear life. I've figured out that it happens after I stop breastfeeding..I barely gain any weight while pregnant, because I eat healthier, so my body weight drops as the baby's grows, and we wind up about even at delivery. I gained 7 lbs with my older daughter and lost 4 lbs with my youngest. I breastfed and was looking really good within a month. No belly, even after three c-sections. Then when I stopped breastfeeding, my appetite went waaaaaaay down because I didn't need all those extra calories, but it went so far down that my bod thought it was starving and so it slowed waaaaaay down, and I put on weight after.

Not that I have any more kids planned, but now I know how to avoid the trap again.:thumbsup

?? All it takes is "hey i think we should start getting healthy, we can spend time together going on walks and stuff" bullseye.

well, i believe strongly in fidelity. but what this poster opines is the absolute truth.

(but then again, i am age 55 married to a 20 yr old hardbody, so right now i ain't looking so much :thumbsup )

Here's a good example - someone who is a male friend of mine, very attractive, very wealthy, been married for 14 or so years. He likes to go to strip clubs - wife knows he goes. She also knows he's coming back home, which he does. He said to me once "I have the greatest wife who I love. Why would I risk losing her forever just to screw some cheap bimbo?". He's not stupid. He knows he could cheat on her 100 times and she probably would never know. He also knows that if she finds out about ONE time, she's gone forever. He's smart enough and cares enough about her not to risk that.

Men who cheat on their wives are pussies. They are too afraid to be single and too weak to be faithful to their wives.

Heh, thanks. I think you're right. I had a reallllly nice figure when I was a teenager....and you know what? I still weighed 140 lbs, lol. Some bodies are more dense somehow and firm. :winkwink:

No you don't, but your sex life is going to change. So are your sexual habits. That's what we are talking about here. What you do at that point will be determined by a number of things.

Thanks, hun. :)

No, I wouldn't say thats it. Many of them are opportunists, pure and simple. If they see the chance to get some pussy with no repercussions, they'll go ahead and do so.

Oh good grief, you can speak for yourself, you can speak for the men you know of personally, but you can't speak for every man on earth, the same as I can't speak for every woman on earth.

To be honest, I don't think my husband is a MILF lover, until we got togther ever girl he had ever dated was a few years younger than him. I am the total and complete opposite of any chick he had ever gone out with.

Believe it or not, some men can go away to Brazil or whatever and NOT cheat, they are just the kind of guy that would never cross the line. I would never cheat....I do have a friend that has always cheated on her husband. Each person is different and while you base a great deal on looks, others don't. I have never met you but you give the impression that you have low self-esteem. You know, the kind of guy that worries more about what the guys think about the chick on his arm than what he thinks himself. The kind of guy that finds it important to impress other guys...that in doing so he thinks that he will have more value to them.

Aww c'mon Peaches. You really believe that shit? I bet you also believe there's no sex in the champagne room too huh?

I am brokering the sale of the Brooklyn Bridge. Send me $400 Paypal for the whole thing. Are you interested.

Dude, that was just one example. There are lot more decent men in this world than there are cheating men who are too afraid to be on their own and get divorced :)

My thin girlfriend got really fat. She gained about 50 pounds.
I actually liked the sound her fat ass made doing doggy style so
I kept fucking her until the weight came off. It was cool.

I am kinda on the fence about the cheating debate. I do think that people will want to cheat eventually. I just am not sure if everyone succumbs to the temptation, because I know I can resist, and I seriously doubt I am the only one on the planet, lol.

Still, I would rather have a semi-open relationship, face the temptation and explore it together, then have secrets. It's not the cheating that would make me leave my guy..it would be the deception.

Ok, when you find that guy let me know. Oh, the Dalai Lama doesn't count.

I like pretty women this is true. That's all to it. Need there be anything more than this?

But I will add this, who you will fall in love with is never something you can predict. So ya never know what I will end up with. It might be a woman with "stretch marks and saggy breasts" that's 16 years older than me. Ya never know.

I don't consider an open relationship "cheating". If your spouse knows what you're doing and all is OK, then it's not cheating. Like you said, once deception becomes part of it, THAT'S where cheating enters into it, IMO.

And then there's Pornwolf's buddy who has the two wives, lol! When you cross into breaking laws then you know you have zero control over yourself :1orglaugh

You want me - just admit it :winkwink:

Yeah, that's what I mean..I'd rather it be something we are open and honest about then something that is hidden. Wanting outside stimulation doesn't HAVE to be the end of the relationship if you can handle it and agree on it.

But if a guy went behind my back and lied, or wasn't willing to give me the same freedom I give him, then I would be off like a shot.

Your sex life changes no matter what.. it's not the fat that does it though.. Since when has 50 pounds of fat got between a man and pussy EVEN WHEN ALL OF IT IS DIRECTLY IN FRONT OF IT? lol. A guy will fuck a blow up doll, a fleshlight, a rolled up pillow and then his hand only to give it ten minutes and be able to nail his wife's overweight body.
If theres a pussy attached a guy will fuck it. If it even faintly resembles the basic function of a pussy a guy will fuck it. 50lbs ain't shit. If you're married YOU TAKE WHAT YOU CAN GODDAMN GET. ;)

You could be my Demi, and I could be your Ashton. But ya gotta get some surgery first... have you seen Demi's knockers! :1orglaugh

Bwahahahahahahaha! :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Not a problem! I am getting my boobs lifted and reduced. But for me, not for anyone else. 99.9% of the people who see them don't even know they hit my knees - thank you Victoria's Secret!! :winkwink: I'm just tired of having to hold them everytime I run down the stairs, lol!

BULLSHIT... obesity can be gentically inherited as well.. Do some reasearch before you open your mouth and insert your foot. Would you like some salt with that?

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That's why I pick my hubby's girlfriends... that way I can enjoy them too :P