Yes. But women let us get away with it.

I date girls WAY out of my league all the time, but with the right attitude and approach... anything is possible.

If my hubby wants a young tight bodied thing (which I am sure he does) he just needs to bring her home so that she can cook, clean, do the laundry, take care of the kids, camwhore and stroke his ego so that I can go play...I could use a hand around here and my pussy could use a break :1orglaugh

There is some truth to that.

Men are going to cheat. Period. But the better you look and the cooler you are means the better chance you have of not being replaced.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

All men want new women. Not to keep, but to have sex with. It is nothing personal, and we may still be very much in love with you but sooner or later we just want to have sex with other women.

So if he can have his main woman, then have something on the side, he is a happy (but busy) man. But your right, that fling will not do all the things you will do that is why they smart men go out of their way to keep what they have at home.

I am not worried about being replaced, My boyfriend is more financially dependent on me than the other way around. I am not intimidated by other girls, because I look young for my age ( I could pass for 18 or sometimese even under 18, or so I have been told) plus I'm thin, plus I'm rather cute, plus I'm more than financially independent. My boyfriend is more dependent on me than the other way around.

i'm fat and i have enough will power to work 80 hours a week, every week. i do good quality work, know my shit, and i value myself as a webmistress and a person.

a lot of the people on this thread have very narrow worldviews but that's okay. it only makes men like the one i'm with even more exceptional and wonderful :)

Phogirl, yes, new pussy is good. Yes, all men think this. We don't pass a hot woman without thinking what it would be like to fuck you, your friend and your friend's friend if you all are hot. Probably doing all of you at the same time would be the thought going through our minds. This is what single men think about, married men, even blind men.

When our wife is hot those thoughts are curtailed a bit. We are more prone to take that horniness home to our hot wives. I'm not saying that men always do, there wouldn't be so many chinese massage parlors and hookers in cities if we did. I'm just saying we are more likely to want to get it on with our loving wives when they take care of thier bodies.

I have never known any man to be faithful on a trip to Brazil, Thailand or The Dominican Republic. If that's what you wanted to hear about thirld world hookers than I'm happy to oblige. ;)

Amen. :thumbsup

There is a saying, I think it was Confucius or Buddha who said it:

"Show me the most beautiful woman on earth, and I will show you a man that is tired of fucking her."

Yes, I know all about you and your whores. I frequently visit websites such as usasexguide and worldsexguide to see what you dirty men are all up to. Plus I tell all my girlfriends so they all know too. I'm probably more of an expert on thirld world hookers than you are, I've spent hours and hours reading those boards and I know all the acronyms by heart now such as BBJ , Greek, CIM, and all that other good stuff... so we know your dirty secrets and we know what you're up to. We all know :winkwink:

Again... amen. There are just some places guys go and can not remain faithful no matter how hard he wants to be.

Thailand, Brazil, Colombia, Cuba, Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, Amsterdam, Cambodia, Philippines... I'm sure I am forgetting a few.

* If your man has ever been to one of the above countries without you, he cheated on you. :Oh crap

That's seriously fine with me! As long as the bimbos keep the shallow guys busy and not wasting my time it's a good thing :)

Back when I was young and cute I had my fair share of the "I like you because I think you're hot" dates and I was SO glad when the night was over and I could get rid of them and their self centered conversations, lol!!

I see a guy now I first started seeing about 18 years and 50 pounds (for me) ago. He's adorable and looks about 10 years younger than he is. I watch him play tennis and the women swoon over him. But he knows me and my personality and that's what he likes. He still likes to look at hot chicks - who doesn't?!??! - but like he told me: "Eventually you have to get out of bed and have a conversation." :winkwink:

Different strokes for different folks - I'm just glad the guys who DO want to take me out have some depth to their personalities and will like me if I'm fat, skinny, artificially enhanced, crippled, disfigured, old, wrinkled, saggy or dried up - and vice versa :)

Trust me when I say you don't know 10% of what's really going on. What you read is just what guys are willing to discuss in public. When a man is alone, with no one watching... the demon comes out and takes over. You don't know the demon, trust me. You don't want to.

Amsterdam isn't a country :1orglaugh

You missed the point Peaches. What we are trying to say is... he will still take you out and have a conversation with you. He will still love you when your old, fat and in a wheel chair. But he will still want to fuck another woman. What he does with you has NOTHING to do with this urge to have sex with others.

You know what I meant. "Places" is the word I should have used. :1orglaugh

You can add in any destination across state lines to be honest. Someone once said, men are only as faithful as their options. This is mostly true.

That's a whole different conversation though. I'm sure wyldblyss doesn't think it applies to her. At least Phogirl knows the truth now.

I'm just being a smartass, though :winkwink:




It really is a great place, though, I certainly wouldn't mind spending a month there.

I sell porn, so its not like I'm naive, I'm pretty sure I can imagine what's going on. I mean come on, I've read K-man's post. I imagine at worst it would include some trannies, anal fisting, fucking someone up the ass with a tennis racket, DP with one of your buddies, A2M, a gangbang?? That's about as extreme as my imagination can get, don't tell me it's worse than this when the demon comes out???? :1orglaugh

Shallow and not very bright usually go hand in hand.... :thumbsup

according to you guys.. my husband must be fucking around on me ..damn, why didnt I realize that ALL MEN ARE ALIKE ..:1orglaugh

I think I need to find me a multi millionaire on the side and keep hubby around to satisfy my sexual needs.

Also, why are people saying that they have a "great personality" and depth EVEN THOUGH they are old and wrinkled? Do you have to be old and wrinkly and fat to have a great personality? You can still be young looking and hot and sexy as hell and have depth and personality too and be financially independent as well. There are some women out there that actually have it ALL. Looks, brains, personality, depth and can support themselves as well.

I would agree with you on this. Many guys will cheat any chance they get as often as they get chances.

I cheat like this (regarding girlfriends)... I give each woman exclusive rights to her city. If I have a girl in Bogotá, she will be the only girl in Bogotá. If in Havana, she is the only one in Havana. No whores, no nada. That way you lower your chances of getting caught. It works out even better if you give out full country rights. If you have a girlfriend in Mexico, she is it. My cock will slide into no other pussy while I'm in Mexico.

Of course, these days I keep very few girlfriends because I'm a slut and I like to play. I'm too young and travel too much to be locked down with one woman. I'm a pig, what can I say?

I was about to type this. I'm glad I read your response first.

Peaches, I haven't said anything just for the sake of saying it. I am typing facts in this thread that are general 'men facts' meaning they pretty much go for all men. You think the guy you have is "special" in some way. That he's different from all the other guys. He makes you feel special and honestly speaking that is always an important thing to do. But don't think for a minute he's exempt from everything we are saying here. You have waaay too much experience for that naive romp in your mind.

Sure, having someone that knows you and that you know is what all of us want at home next to us... The comfort of a partner that cares for you and knows you is warm and beautiful... but the young hot thing, or at least pretty sexy (age notwithstanding) thing is what men want within arms reach at all times too, if that's not what we have at home. If you aren't providing that spark at home you can bet she's a phonecall away in town, out of town maybe even out of the country, but that other chick is there... somewhere.

After a man reaches a certain age 55+ it doesn't matter as much from what I've noticed but again the rule still applies: a man is only as faithful as his options.

oink :1orglaugh :winkwink:

That is true and there are a lot of women who do. Several in this industry :)

But, God forbid, what would happen if you or someone else who's petite and thinks they're really cute got ill, went through a windshield, had to have a colostomy, a mastectomy, etc? Should your man now leave you because you're not hot and aren't making any money?

I'd much rather find a man who likes my personality - it's the only thing that I'm going to have when I'm in my 80's :)

babe... I'm telling you, selling porn doesn't mean you can understand a man when he is alone, with sperm aching to get out of his cock. the lengths men will go to, the things they will do and probably be ashamed of later...

It's the things that guys won't talk about in public. Even to their friends. The things you won't read about in K-Mans posts. It's what K-Man doesn't say that should bother you. :1orglaugh

Actually... it's really not if you have the will to try. You don't even have to go to the gym. Your statement should read "it's fucking HARD to maintain a fit body while you're eating badly"

lol i saw that hehe although i think it is actually overweight just "normal" overweight..

When the hubby gets fat, and the wife don't wanna hit it anymore........
what should we do? Force him to get off of his lazy ass and work out? Or should we deny him the pussy?

Indeed. A pig of the worst kind.

If women really knew what was going on inside a mans head, you would have us ALL castrated.

150,.,,.... :arcadefre

I can't imagine what else it could be that they leave out ??? Peeing on her? Drinking her pee? Eating her poop? Sorry, what else is there??? Did I miss something? I don't mind knowing how depraved men could be...

That is a good question.

Maybe start cooking healthy food for him. Nag him to death to go to the gym. You nag anyway, adding the gym to it won't be all that bad. Close that pussy off until he loses some lbs.

Maybe play a game with him. Every 5 lbs he loses, he gets some pussy.

Oh, don't get me wrong - I know every guy out there would like to screw whatever they possibly can. It's why men with VERY hot women still screw around. When I was young, hot, and in a relationship there were always a lot of guys I could look at and say "Damn, I'd love to knock him around in bed a few times". But I didn't. Not because I couldn't but because I had respect for my partner and more importantly, respect for myself and what I personally believed was right and wrong.

Which is why I will always have much, much more respect for the man who knows how to say "no". And if you think there aren't any out there, you guys are kidding yourselves. There are tons of great, hot men who are faithful even though they could have their pick of women. It's what separates the men from the boys :)

That scares me to be honest. :Oh crap

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On another note, I think once Chase hits her stride on her new fitness plan she's going to have an insanely nice body. The waist to ass proportions are already nice, the tighter that gets the better! Keep it up Chase! I'm rooting for you!

It's nice to see webmasters getting fit, especially the ladies. :thumbsup

Your missing what I am saying. It's not the ACTS that define it. It's about the mans state of mind. What he is willing to do, lose and risk. How far he will go and how much he will spend when he is that dangerous state of mind. The thoughts that enter your head and how you try to justify them... evil shit, I'm telling you.

:thumbsup That was a great post, Peaches. Exactly right as well. Not all men's penises are out of control, some know how to keep theirs on a leash :)

yeah, I think Chase has an incredibly cute figure and great round booty now

FYI, 5 foot 5inches and 150 lbs is considered "overweight" by CDC:

http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm

and frankly, it "looks" overweight.

being a fatty ain't healthy, ain't sexy, and does not look so good.

lots of folks making excuses---only YOU are responsible for your OWN health, and it is not so easy staying slim in the western world.

clue: proper diet and 30 minutes of vigorous exercise daily.

look good, feel good, bang more beaver.

I have to go out but I want to end with this...

Ladies, you want to hear the truth. We give it to you straight and you don't want to agree with what we want to say. What's up with that?