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Betty. I told my family I would die and I was dead nuts serious. I didn't scream or shout. I just told both my honey and my mother in law that this was it for me. I gave no choice to any of them. If they wanted something that was not nutritional, they were free to go to the store and buy it and eat it before they got home. When Mom wants candy, she keeps it in her room. If she wants junk, it has to be out of sight. Same with Tev. Fortunately, for me, he saw my progress and now is in the same program, trainer and all. We cardio together and train at the same gym. Mom's the only one here to complain and, well, she's not allowed. I AM the Alpha female here. So, with Tev on my side and in agreement...
Tony404..I agree with you. I am thankful, every day, that Tev is as supportive as he is. He does whatever he can to help me achieve my goals, as I do with him. That is part of the definition of a successful relationship, I believe. Fat people are under scrutiny and they are discriminated against. Since I am a woman, I can only speak from my experience...and, when I was lean and slim, I was treated differently than when I was obese. Now that I am more lean and trim again, the treatment, once again, has changed. It may have to do with my perception of me; but, I also believe there is an element of perceived opinions from others....fat people are looked at as lazy and unmotivated, sloppy and uncaring....that, if we gave a shit, we wouldn't look that way. While men, too, have trouble, I am reminded of a Russian saying, that loosely translated, means: "A man without a belly is not a man"...and, it goes toward the notion that men who have bellies have enough money and resources to feed their families well. |
Just to play devil's advocate - if a man approaches a woman he sees, or vice versa, because they are physically attractive, and that person later loses their good looks, it certainly does destroy much of what the relationship was founded on. :winkwink:
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And before you idiots start thinking/saying she must have married an ugly dude, her husband is quite the hottie!! :thumbsup |
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I remember the story about the woman who was gorgeous and burned severely in the 9/11 fire. Her husband was by her side and continues to be there. Focusing on looks is what 16 year olds do, not mature adults. |
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I like to watch BBW porn.
Does that mean my wife is too skinny? |
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Sadly though, there are a lot of much older men who share the same views. Then they can't figure out why all the chicks they go out with are psychos, the girls cheat on them, they can't find someone who cares about them and not their money, blah, blah, blah :upsidedow |
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When the plumbing wears out, you'd best be friends. Real good friends. |
Pretty good Raven, keep it up:thumbsup
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What's the difference between a girlfriend and a wife? - Thirty pounds!
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You quite clearly don't know what you are talking about. |
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"You gain weight when your body gets more callories than it spends." What part of this statement is false? Looks like youre the one thinking with your ass. Dumbfuck. |
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Do you understand things like thyroid diseases? While what you say is true, some people have diseases that cause massive inbalances in hormones that make it virtually imposssible to lose weight. |
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wyldblyss, great post. True love is the grand prize of the grand prizes and it sounds like you have found it. Good for you.
I specifically said exercise. Nothing more, nothing less. What I put in, I expect in return. That's all. If two people can't live a healthy lifestyle together than they shouldn't be together. If that kind of thing scares you then so be it. McDonalds needs great customers like you. I hear there's a new Gourmet McChicken on the way. Now, about the trophy wife taker being shallow, I already said that. nothing new there. There's no point to argue. Were you trying to imply it doesn't happen? Of course you weren't. You know it does. Fortunately it doesn't happen all the time but looking at the divorce stats there's about a 40-50% chance a couple will get divorced. It's definitely not always about finding the younger hotter wife but sometimes it is. I was simply giving one of the reasons it does. 16 years, that's a helluva gap. You have a special man. I'm pretty sure that even though you were older when you two hooked up, you were still very sexy and definitely pleasing to his eye... correct? You don't think he would like you to stay as sexy as possible for as long as possible? No? You must have a man from a different planet if you think he doesn't care about your appearance at all. We all have different tastes but when we see something we like it's nice if it stays that way to some degree or at least makes an effort to look good to us. I've heard the women in this thread complain repeatedly that men go bald, we get spare tires end etc. Just like we have things we don't like to see happen to your body, there are some things you don't like to see happen to us. The only thing about that is we are a bit more visual than you so it impacts us a bit more. But the bottom line is we can fight some of it (except baldness unless you like the Trump look). If it's possible why not do it? Wouldn't the women here like it if we kept a six pack until we were 50? It's possible so why not do it? Not that you would love us any less emotionally if we don't, but the sex would definitely be better if we had that six pack and a strong lower back. Right? Now just flip that in reverse and put yourself in the man's shoes. What would you want? Yep, exactly. I still say take care of yourself wyldblyss. Even though you think your man doesn't care about your appearance. If it helps keep the fires burning even hotter why are you faulting me for that? |
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Men get sick of fucking any girl, regardless if she is a super model or if she gained 300 lbs over night. Thats the truth.
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Note: I'm in my 30's and I should have known better than to add in an age related comment to a women's weight related conversation. To all the young guys reading this thread, never forget what just happened. It happens every time. Those two subjects combined are like dynamite in a conversation with any woman. Stay away from it or beware the consequences.
Actually, stay away from both topics because what you say will always be categorically wrong when speaking to your average woman unless you are lying a bit. Very few women are open minded enough to discuss the truth of those topics. Fortunately this business has a lot of open minded women. |
I don't really have much to say about the weigh issue, as I'm not overweight so it doesn't affect me (so therefore I have no strong opinions about it), but for those arguing with Pornwolf, I also want to add in that this is a guy who believes that men are ENTITLED to cheat on their wives as long as they are "good financial providers" while women were put on this earth for just one thing (childbirth).
He also believes that men need new and different pussy all the time, and any woman who denies her man that is being cruel. Just letting you know what kind of man you're dealing with :winkwink: |
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I am not saying that my husband does not appreciate a beautiful body, but a beautiful mind and spirit turn him on a whole lot more. When I slip in beside him in bed I'm not counting how much money I can get out of him in my head, nor am I timing how long he lasts or measuring how big his dick is. I'm looking him dead straight in the eyes and telling him I love him...and at that moment...all I see are his eyes...the rest of his body? don't even see it. So you have your outlook on life and I have mine....but when you get to a certain age, it doesn't matter how much money you have hon...no hot young thing is going to want to be with you.....and you will be alone...me...I'm gonna be spooning my man :) |
Pornwolf also believes that all men should have new pussy all the time (Even when married) so I don't see why he is arguing that wives should remain slender when the husband is going to have his "masculine right to new pussy" anyways?
What's the point of the wife having to stay thin of the husband is going to sample new pussy regardless? Because according to you Pornwolf, every successful man is entitled to new pussy regardless? So staying thin is still not enough to keep your husband according to Pornwolf. Pornwolf has explained to me numerous times that men are genetically wired to cheat, and that to deny any man that right would be cruel according to him. So pray tell Pornwolf, what is the point of a wife remaning thin when her man will wander anyways? |
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Stop fucking eating for two weeks and see if you gain or lose weight. Dumbasses.
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Aww fuck it. I give up.
Fellas, you know the truth. Wyldlyss is taking it personal. It always happens. The topics are like dynamite. Stay away. This topic will have you sleeping on the couch, going without pussy or worse for a day or two. :2 cents: I'm taking my beer, leaving the virtual kitchen here and I'm going to turn on the game. |
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You said it, you lost 75 pounds. You aren't one lazy fat obese cheezeburger eating people... and I'm sure your hubby would respect that if you weren't able to loose it. Because of the cisconstances... he would only gain respect for you. But if the wifey eats McDonalds everyday like so many do, that's not the same thing. And you can't deny the demographics... there is an obesity epidemy. I lost my share of weight too ... and it really wasn't that hard. |
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I can't stay away from this one
Wyldblyss, I can pretty confidently say your man is a MILF fan. No doubt about it. He is not like the rest of the male non MILF loving population. That means he doesn't have the same outlook on what is hot and what turns other men on. It's a whole different way of looking at things. He will probably develop into a granny lover. Which means the outlook on your relationship is unnaturally good. If porn has taught me nothing else it's that people's taste varies. When Milfhunter came out I thought it wouldn't convert well. Surprise, the MILF niche became one of the best converters out there which means there's a good number of guys who women do not need to fear getting out of shape in front of. But don't make the mistake of thinking it's the whole male population. The majority of us want to see a tight bodied woman in front of us for as long as possible. I see you have a real sensitivity to "hot young things." I have found this to be a common thing with women over 35. It's natural because they are very real threats. Men don't always leave for the hot young things but they damn sure want to cheat with one given the chance. Wouldn't you wanna do Brad Pitt just once if given the chance? Well, that's how we see hot young things. Same feeling. Now, if your man is a MILF fanatic as you seem to have gotten wyldblyss, you don't have to worry about the hot young things. Nope, that's not your problem. But If I were you I'd watch your man around senior citizen homes. And if you see Estelle Getty walking down the street take him indoors because Golden Girls is like porn for him and she's his Jenna Jameson. |
Hey Pornwolf, why don't you answer my question? You told me in another thread that all men NEED new pussy, and should have a right to that, so what does it matter if a woman is thin or not, because according to you most men need and will obtain new pussy regardless since their genetically wired to do so? So according to you there should be no need for a woman to stay thin because her husband will cheat regardless? And you also said that all men are entitled to fuck whores on the side as long as their financial providers no matter what their wives look like, so if that were the case, why is weight an issue?
I don't really care about the weight, because I'm naturally thin anyways so I'm not sensitive about that, but I'm wondering why your advocating that wives should stay thin when you are basically saying that the husband is entitled to fuck third world hookers regardless?? So even if they stay thin it wouldn't make a difference, because according to you the men still will and are entitled to fuck whores on the side for fun? So what your saying is that the wife should stay thin and hot but her husband will still be entitled to fuck whores on the side??? |
40% of all Americans are obese.
Not for one second do I believe this is an epidemic of hormonal problems. Yes, some people do have real difficulty keeping pounds off, but the vast majority overeat, don't exercise, and buy into fad diets and pills to try and lose weight. If there weren't so many lazy people, diet pills wouldn't do so well on my sites :thumbsup |
haha that is very know story...
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As for weight, I don't know what the problem is, could be hormonal or genetics. I know I'm no better than anyone else, but I eat a lot, and for some reason I'm barely 95lbs (I'm 5 ft), and I mean barely.... And some of my friends starve themselves and they weigh more, their 110 (also around 5ft or 5'1"), so I guess it's more of a luck thing.
And it's not an age thing as much for me, I'll be 30 in a few years and I'm still under 95 lbs and sometimes I don't fit in certain brands size 0 still, I wear size 00 (smaller than a size 0). I think it's just good genes. In some ways it sucks because it's hard to buy jeans, I don't fit in size 24 for certai brands like Seven Jeans or Rock & Republic, I don't even fit in their smallest size, I have to wear brands that make them extra extra small, and it kind of sucks. |
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