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woj · 06-24-2005, 09:14 PM

50..........

Tala · 06-24-2005, 09:19 PM

Hi woj. Fucker, sit down.

selena · 06-24-2005, 09:21 PM

Tala, didn't I read somewhere that you had started a dominatrix blog?

I may be very confused. I get that way.

If I'm not, how is that going?

Tala · 06-24-2005, 09:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by selena

Tala, didn't I read somewhere that you had started a dominatrix blog?

I may be very confused. I get that way.

If I'm not, how is that going?

I did, and yet with all the upheaval in recent life, I just don't have the heart for it anymore.

I think part of my main problem is having too many interests. Thus I tried to do something with each interest. It proved to be too much.

Now I have ONE site I'm actually working with. ONE. I write for others, but my one site is my baby now and it's the only one I'm dealing with, which makes for MUCH less stress.

Funky Bastard · 06-24-2005, 09:26 PM

E-mailed you let me know!

selena · 06-24-2005, 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tala

I think part of my main problem is having too many interests. Thus I tried to do something with each interest. It proved to be too much.

You've just hit on something that is a huge issue for me, Tala. I have it outside of business. Then when you take it inside business, and you look at the vastness of the adult online industry, it can overwhelm and string you way too far in too many directions.

Or it did me. I got nothing done, for trying to get everything done.

MrAwesome · 06-24-2005, 09:37 PM

email sent, curious

2HousePlague · 06-24-2005, 09:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

hmmm, my son wants to start with this. . . maybe I should let you train him

An honor --

2HP

Tala · 06-24-2005, 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by selena

You've just hit on something that is a huge issue for me, Tala. I have it outside of business. Then when you take it inside business, and you look at the vastness of the adult online industry, it can overwhelm and string you way too far in too many directions.

Or it did me. I got nothing done, for trying to get everything done.

Ding ding ding, we have a winner!

Same shit happens to me. I have so very many varied interests that it's difficult for me to focus on one thing unless I absolutely have to.

I've discovered that I have to now. So here I am, learning as I go.

chase · 06-24-2005, 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by selena

You've just hit on something that is a huge issue for me, Tala. I have it outside of business. Then when you take it inside business, and you look at the vastness of the adult online industry, it can overwhelm and string you way too far in too many directions.

Or it did me. I got nothing done, for trying to get everything done.

Me, too.

Add onto that raising three kids alone, and I sometimes feel like I'm on Mr. Toad's Wild Ride or that crazy teacup ride at Disney.

Tala · 06-24-2005, 09:43 PM

The teacup ride kicks ass. But the Haunted Mansion rules.

selena · 06-24-2005, 09:46 PM

Thank God I'm not the only one who gets off track and unfocused.

I've given myself serious talkings to over being such a fuck up.

And I hear you, chase. I'm a single parent of 2, so that adds to the fun.

Tala · 06-24-2005, 09:52 PM

I don't have an children in my custody, so that knocks me out of that arena, however I begin to wonder if many of us lack the single-mindedness that so many others seem to have. This might be one of our problems, as well as one of our rare gifts.

chase · 06-24-2005, 09:57 PM

The only thing that helps me at all is to make a loose list of what I want to accomplish that day. Life is just too unpredictable with two toddlers to map out a set schedule, but at least if I have that list staring me in the face, it helps keep me from going off on a tangent....well, from going TOO far off on one anyway, lol.

Tala · 06-24-2005, 09:58 PM

See, the list thing doesn't seem to work for me. I end up ignoring the list.

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 10:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tala

See, the list thing doesn't seem to work for me. I end up ignoring the list.

This kills me alot too, i have so many pokers in the fire and so many jobs and ideas half mapped out that few ever make it off the drawing board. Dont kid yourself, this is procastination at its best. Its not easy to tackle and i found the best way for me (right lists dont work) but i try to label everything with a level of importance and try to spread my time across them, so i still tinker and fuck with ideas and plans that may not go anywhere, but at the same time am accomplishing and completing new things every week.

Works for me, atleast so far..heh

chase · 06-24-2005, 10:13 PM

I hear ya, that's why I have to put it up where its in my face all the time.

In fact, when I first started doing it, I would have to print off several copies and I would put one on the fridge, one on my door...even one in the bathroom, lol.

I do think though that if we can channel our scatter-brained selves, we will probably be more effective at multi-talking than the hyper-focused type. It's just getting it under control that is the hard part.

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 10:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chase

I hear ya, that's why I have to put it up where its in my face all the time.

In fact, when I first started doing it, I would have to print off several copies and I would put one on the fridge, one on my door...even one in the bathroom, lol.

I do think though that if we can channel our scatter-brained selves, we will probably be more effective at multi-talking than the hyper-focused type. It's just getting it under control that is the hard part.

In Chio The Pirates first serious post where he put asside the pirate for a minute, he mentioned a GREAT tool to set up your daily/monthly goals and tasks you want accomplished, it has multi user and security levels for companies as well...its sharp as hell.

Heres the link for it.

http://www.dotproject.net/ Its worth a look...

Thanks Chio

chase · 06-24-2005, 10:18 PM

I read once that it's not procrastication for the sake of laziness by any means, it's more procrastination because of perfectionism..you know, the "why start it unless I can finish it RIGHT".

I am guilty of that, like in housework..if I only have twenty minutes, I think, well, you know it will take me forty-five to clean the (fill in the blank here) so I'll just do it later, when I have the time. Then it's the next day and I'm kicking myself because now I have twice the mess to clean.

I am starting to see a parallel in work, and it's really hard to push part that and tell myself, well, yeah, but twenty minutes put in is better then none.

jwerd · 06-24-2005, 10:19 PM

I'm interested. I emailed you (jacob (at) sadsoft (dot) com). Anyways, I'll keep this thread open so I can check back as advised. Take it easy

Chio The Pirate · 06-24-2005, 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hardlinks

In Chio The Pirates first serious post where he put asside the pirate for a minute, he mentioned a GREAT tool to set up your daily/monthly goals and tasks you want accomplished, it has multi user and security levels for companies as well...its sharp as hell.

Heres the link for it.

http://www.dotproject.net/ Its worth a look...

Thanks Chio

YARGH! Welcome! Alas it wasn't me first serious post. I be doin' them all the time. Do a search for posts started by me (in my profile) and you will see the dashes to me red x's.

chase · 06-24-2005, 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hardlinks

In Chio The Pirates first serious post where he put asside the pirate for a minute, he mentioned a GREAT tool to set up your daily/monthly goals and tasks you want accomplished, it has multi user and security levels for companies as well...its sharp as hell.

Heres the link for it.

http://www.dotproject.net/ Its worth a look...

Thanks Chio

Thank you, and Chio, I'm checking it out now. Good friends of mine developed a fantastic project management software application, but I can't afford it, lol, especially since I'm the only user, ya know, so open source works for me, lol!

2HousePlague · 06-24-2005, 10:21 PM

Sorry to lapse so long -- trying to stay on top of those e-mails. Thank you --

The issue of women in the industry is truly a good place to start. So much of what is opined about this business derives from the ways our cilture and other cultures define the role of women. There are many places in the world -- some not so far away as you might guess -- where the role of women may be veneered in a rhetoric of reverence, but is harnessed, in practice, by their treatment as property, as a "reproductive resource", as the objects of men -- rather than something more balanced, more self-determining, more fulflled.

I have my own views on the subject, but rather than risk alienating anyone who may uphold a more traditional / conservative view of the gender roles, I will say simply that to understand our industy's situation in the national and global culture, you should study the ways in which gender biology gave rise to the fundamental behavior schism that exists in some way in all cultures of the world, and the ways in which that Basic Separation, present in each culture, has given rise to modern expectations of sexual propriety -- and therefore, to the various opinions of pornography you will encounter on the streets of the world.

The problem with the basic objection one hears about pornography is that it contains an enormous hypocrisy (or conflict of interest, depends how you look at it). It seems very few men are prepared to INTEGRATE WITH ALLOWANCE the behaviors in women they most appreciate in the pornographic material they consume. And for women, I would say the conundrum is knowing that their men will respond with sexual enthusiasm to one thing a woman may do at one moment, then condemn (to the point of the death penalty in some places) that same behvavior when observed at a less secure moment for him. Women also worry, I suspect, that even the most sincere demonstrations of approval during sex, veil a condemnation and misogyny that lies always ready to strike them at other moments. The combination of these two dynamics is what drives most men and women APART when they are pursuing sexual truth in themselves, even if they are in the same bed. Porn exists in the middle of that tug of war.

2HP

Missy · 06-24-2005, 10:22 PM

You've got my interest. Although (or quite possibly because) I've been working for an adult company for the last 4 years, I've done nothing on my own during that time, and have learned very little of value to myself. I'll send you an email shortly. But for now my man's calling me to help with the plumbing (literally).

kuthi123 · 06-24-2005, 10:28 PM

I sent you one email please pick me .
Thanks

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 10:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chase

I read once that it's not procrastication for the sake of laziness by any means, it's more procrastination because of perfectionism..you know, the "why start it unless I can finish it RIGHT".

I am guilty of that, like in housework..if I only have twenty minutes, I think, well, you know it will take me forty-five to clean the (fill in the blank here) so I'll just do it later, when I have the time. Then it's the next day and I'm kicking myself because now I have twice the mess to clean.

I am starting to see a parallel in work, and it's really hard to push part that and tell myself, well, yeah, but twenty minutes put in is better then none.

Totally agreed, my father used to say, perfectionism is just procrastination in french....heh no offence he married a french girl so he had internal knowledge

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 10:31 PM

Damn i fucked the quote right up...hahah

And my bloody head is pounding to much to remember it right!

chase · 06-24-2005, 10:32 PM

Ah, the eternal madonna vs. whore conflict.

I can relate to that. When I first decided to get involved in the industry, my husband was pretty excited about it. He enjoyed nice perks, too, like sleeping with two other women in the biz who needed a stunk cock. I was never insecure about how he felt about me, so I didn't over-intellectualize and emotionalize what was a purely physical reaction to another woman. As time goes by, and he sees the attention I am getting, he begins to think this is less and less fun...and before you know it, he's asking me to quit the biz. Which I did, as a last ditch effort to solve other problems in teh relationship.

Point being, that while he was excited about me exploring my sexuality, and he was proud that I belonged to him....the more HE over-intellectualized and emotionalized the idea of me having a sexuality that existed apart from him, and our relationship, (even though I was never with another man!), the less comfortable he was with that sexuality.

sean416 · 06-24-2005, 10:32 PM

Great job H2P.

I dont have much time to offer, but if you need my assistance in anyway I'd be happy to try and help.

Good luck to all those embarking on this new journey!

/edit probably wont be able to find this thread again, if you want to take me up on my offer contact me on ICQ.

2HousePlague · 06-24-2005, 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kuthi123

I sent you one email please pick me .
Thanks

You are ALL "picked" -- LOL.

It is that desire that no one be excluded which has lead me to the best idea I could come up with for achieving the objective I described at 5:15 this morning. If there were just 5 or even just twenty of you, I think I could still some time to each of you during the day or night. But, given the size of the interest, what makes best sense to me is that we convene here each day (on this thread) where we can have a general discussion and a Q&A. Then, during "off-hours" (whenever that is --lol) I will discuss goals and plans at the person-to-person level. One obvious benefit of doing it this way is efficiency, another is giving all who come later to benefit from all that has been (will be) discussed here, still another benefit is that by doing it this way, I can invite some of the industry's best minds to come share here with you also, in the areas of their special expertise.

This is a good time to put down what areas of the business you are interested in learning about, and I will do my best to bring the industry's best and brightest in those fields to share the value of their familiarity and experience with all who come to read and ask questions.

2HP

Tala · 06-24-2005, 11:15 PM

May I make a different suggestion?

While this board is a fantastic place to do biz and such, one thread over 60 days with all of us in it is not only going to get long as fuck, but tedious as well as we try to search through the thread to find the day's lesson.

How about making a thread per day? That lets us have the topic at hand and prevents us from possibly missing pertinent information that we may otherwise overlook.

riddler · 06-24-2005, 11:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tala

May I make a different suggestion?

While this board is a fantastic place to do biz and such, one thread over 60 days with all of us in it is not only going to get long as fuck, but tedious as well as we try to search through the thread to find the day's lesson.

How about making a thread per day? That lets us have the topic at hand and prevents us from possibly missing pertinent information that we may otherwise overlook.

how about we just have a 2HP irc class room of the day

Selected people get to sit down and ask questions etc and someone can log the whole "class" and host it some where for everybody to read

MrAwesome · 06-24-2005, 11:26 PM

rather than make a thread everyday, send us a carbon copy email everyday, i dont follow this board religiously and dont always have time to search the board for certain threads

Tala · 06-24-2005, 11:27 PM

I'd go for the irc thing, or maybe a yahoo group, where those of us who need the info can get it in email.

Or both. Use the yahoo group as a mailing list, and use their chat offering as the chat to be sent out to the group on a daily basis?

MrAwesome · 06-24-2005, 11:27 PM

curious to know as well, what is your income per week/wonth/year? is this proven methods or are you hoping to prove something?

riddler · 06-24-2005, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tala

I'd go for the irc thing, or maybe a yahoo group, where those of us who need the info can get it in email.

Or both. Use the yahoo group as a mailing list, and use their chat offering as the chat to be sent out to the group on a daily basis?

yahoo group would be wonderful..

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 11:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrAwesome

curious to know as well, what is your income per week/wonth/year? is this proven methods or are you hoping to prove something?

Quote:

Originally Posted by 2HousePlague

Just to prove a point, I'm taking on a handful of inexperienced "webmasters" who aren't making any money. Within 60 days, you should be making enough to occasionally reach for the check and take cabs home from the movies.

I think thats self explanatory :D

Nightwind · 06-24-2005, 11:31 PM

Haven't you guys heard of bookmarking? Just bookmark this thread and come back to it whenever you like without doing any searching. Irc could also work as someone suggested.

riddler · 06-24-2005, 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nightwind

Haven't you guys heard of bookmarking? Just bookmark this thread and come back to it whenever you like without doing any searching. Irc could also work as someone suggested.

Thread will become huge and sig whores will invade and everything else, Why not have it somewhere controlled so its not totally flooded with 50 pages of bullshit.

That way it can be summarized to see whats what.

Tala · 06-24-2005, 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by riddler

Thread will become huge and sig whores will invade and everything else, Why not have it somewhere controlled so its not totally flooded with 50 pages of bullshit.

That way it can be summarized to see whats what.

yepyepyep

HAPPYPEEKERS · 06-24-2005, 11:37 PM

It was a pleasure meeting you in SD.. You are a sweety and it is very nice what you are doing for these people..

Very Kewl
xoxo

mrkris · 06-24-2005, 11:38 PM

email sent

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 11:40 PM

Simple solution is to have it in the newbie forums where it will get less banter from the sig whores and more visibility to the newbies. And possibly have it "looked" over once and awhile by the mods to clean any shit out of it.

Also will keep the thread on the main page for months..heh.

riddler · 06-24-2005, 11:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hardlinks

Simple solution is to have it in the newbie forums where it will get less banter from the sig whores and more visibility to the newbies. And possibly have it "looked" over once and awhile by the mods to clean any shit out of it.

Also will keep the thread on the main page for months..heh.

The mods don't even clean up half the shit on GFY so what makes you think they will clean up a thread that is worth something?

Hardlinks · 06-24-2005, 11:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by riddler

The mods don't even clean up half the shit on GFY so what makes you think they will clean up a thread that is worth something?

Whether they do or not isnt really important, it will get maximum exposure to the people who need it if the threads are started over there. This thread here can be bumped as new or interesting developements happen in the other forum.

In a perfect world, they would set up a private forum for this to happen and make it a publicity deal for all. Giving the proper forum to do it in and also being the place where newbies could get a definate kick in the right direction.

Very good offer from 2HousePlague

Aly · 06-24-2005, 11:55 PM

There's part of me that really wants to sit down and stare at your chalkboard... But then I'll just end up rebelling and make the others lose their focus, and then you'll make me write lines or something...

It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class.
It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class.
It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class.
It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class.

...see, it's already a disaster! Good luck everybody!

MrAwesome · 06-24-2005, 11:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hardlinks

Quote:
Originally Posted by MrAwesome
curious to know as well, what is your income per week/wonth/year? is this proven methods or are you hoping to prove something?

Quote:
Originally Posted by 2HousePlague
Just to prove a point, I'm taking on a handful of inexperienced "webmasters" who aren't making any money. Within 60 days, you should be making enough to occasionally reach for the check and take cabs home from the movies.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hardlinks

I think thats self explanatory :D

actually doesnt answer anything i asked, looking for real answers, no where in there does it say how much he earns, and if he can reach for checks doesnt prove anything as well, i am suprised no one is skepticol and asking real questions rather than signing up for what you dont even know, this could be tony robbins just blowing hot air up your ass, i to have shown interest in this guy as well, but am more interested in knowing if he knows what he is talking about and if he has used his own theories and applications and made money from it, and how much

Hardlinks · 06-25-2005, 12:00 AM

Sorry i was only pointing toward the question if he had something to prove. He clearly said he did..heh.

I think most people either know who 2HousePlague is and what he does as well as what he has accomplished, or others, have simply takin the time to look for themselves and see who/what he is.

This is GFY, i dont know if any JoeBlow could have a 2 page thread offering to help without atleast one person calling him as a nobody, and it hasnt happened here, that in itself speaks volumes.

Also to add..i think its smart to think like you are, not knocking it in any way at all.

MrAwesome · 06-25-2005, 12:03 AM

yeah i dont wanna get knee deep in it just to find out its all bunk, there are things i could do with the time and dont want to waste it, i allready make good money and if this guy can show me how to make even more then good for him, im just asking questions no one else is, i personally dont know the guy but will give him a try

hope it works out

Nightwind · 06-25-2005, 12:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrAwesome

actually doesnt answer anything i asked, looking for real answers, no where in there does it say how much he earns, and if he can reach for checks doesnt prove anything as well, i am suprised no one is skepticol and asking real questions rather than signing up for what you dont even know, this could be tony robbins just blowing hot air up your ass, i to have shown interest in this guy as well, but am more interested in knowing if he knows what he is talking about and if he has used his own theories and applications and made money from it, and how much

Most people probably asked some more important questions in their emails, i still don't know what exactly the deal is here, but i am sure we will find out soon enough.

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chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	I hear ya, that's why I have to put it up where its in my face all the time. In fact, when I first started doing it, I would have to print off several copies and I would put one on the fridge, one on my door...even one in the bathroom, lol. I do think though that if we can channel our scatter-brained selves, we will probably be more effective at multi-talking than the hyper-focused type. It's just getting it under control that is the hard part. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

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jwerd Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Costa Rica Posts: 1,953	I'm interested. I emailed you (jacob (at) sadsoft (dot) com). Anyways, I'll keep this thread open so I can check back as advised. Take it easy __________________ Yii Framework Guru - Seasoned PHP vet - Partner @ XXXCoupon.com

06-24-2005, 10:21 PM	#73
2HousePlague CURATOR Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: the attic Posts: 14,572	Sorry to lapse so long -- trying to stay on top of those e-mails. Thank you -- The issue of women in the industry is truly a good place to start. So much of what is opined about this business derives from the ways our cilture and other cultures define the role of women. There are many places in the world -- some not so far away as you might guess -- where the role of women may be veneered in a rhetoric of reverence, but is harnessed, in practice, by their treatment as property, as a "reproductive resource", as the objects of men -- rather than something more balanced, more self-determining, more fulflled. I have my own views on the subject, but rather than risk alienating anyone who may uphold a more traditional / conservative view of the gender roles, I will say simply that to understand our industy's situation in the national and global culture, you should study the ways in which gender biology gave rise to the fundamental behavior schism that exists in some way in all cultures of the world, and the ways in which that Basic Separation, present in each culture, has given rise to modern expectations of sexual propriety -- and therefore, to the various opinions of pornography you will encounter on the streets of the world. The problem with the basic objection one hears about pornography is that it contains an enormous hypocrisy (or conflict of interest, depends how you look at it). It seems very few men are prepared to INTEGRATE WITH ALLOWANCE the behaviors in women they most appreciate in the pornographic material they consume. And for women, I would say the conundrum is knowing that their men will respond with sexual enthusiasm to one thing a woman may do at one moment, then condemn (to the point of the death penalty in some places) that same behvavior when observed at a less secure moment for him. Women also worry, I suspect, that even the most sincere demonstrations of approval during sex, veil a condemnation and misogyny that lies always ready to strike them at other moments. The combination of these two dynamics is what drives most men and women APART when they are pursuing sexual truth in themselves, even if they are in the same bed. Porn exists in the middle of that tug of war. 2HP __________________ tada!

06-24-2005, 10:22 PM	#74
Missy FLASHCA$H.COM Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: In my skin Posts: 1,257	You've got my interest. Although (or quite possibly because) I've been working for an adult company for the last 4 years, I've done nothing on my own during that time, and have learned very little of value to myself. I'll send you an email shortly. But for now my man's calling me to help with the plumbing (literally).

06-24-2005, 10:28 PM	#75
kuthi123 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 6,478	I sent you one email please pick me . Thanks

06-24-2005, 10:31 PM	#77
Hardlinks Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: Great White North Posts: 1,333	Damn i fucked the quote right up...hahah And my bloody head is pounding to much to remember it right! __________________ Find out how I make Fabulous Cash !!

06-24-2005, 10:32 PM	#78
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	Ah, the eternal madonna vs. whore conflict. I can relate to that. When I first decided to get involved in the industry, my husband was pretty excited about it. He enjoyed nice perks, too, like sleeping with two other women in the biz who needed a stunk cock. I was never insecure about how he felt about me, so I didn't over-intellectualize and emotionalize what was a purely physical reaction to another woman. As time goes by, and he sees the attention I am getting, he begins to think this is less and less fun...and before you know it, he's asking me to quit the biz. Which I did, as a last ditch effort to solve other problems in teh relationship. Point being, that while he was excited about me exploring my sexuality, and he was proud that I belonged to him....the more HE over-intellectualized and emotionalized the idea of me having a sexuality that existed apart from him, and our relationship, (even though I was never with another man!), the less comfortable he was with that sexuality. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

06-24-2005, 10:32 PM	#79
sean416 Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 3,633	Great job H2P. I dont have much time to offer, but if you need my assistance in anyway I'd be happy to try and help. Good luck to all those embarking on this new journey! /edit probably wont be able to find this thread again, if you want to take me up on my offer contact me on ICQ. __________________ ServerProvider.com

06-24-2005, 11:15 PM	#81
Tala Fucked if I know Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Do you have a flag? Posts: 23,368	May I make a different suggestion? While this board is a fantastic place to do biz and such, one thread over 60 days with all of us in it is not only going to get long as fuck, but tedious as well as we try to search through the thread to find the day's lesson. How about making a thread per day? That lets us have the topic at hand and prevents us from possibly missing pertinent information that we may otherwise overlook. __________________ ICQ: 11120676 \| Google: mindcrime \| Skype: suitemindcrime\|E-Mail: mindcrime AT gmail.com\|PR girl with great writing skills for hire!!!! Contact me to work for YOU!\|TECHIEMEDIA? 24/7 support from some of the best techs in the biz. Tell Jim that I sent you.

06-24-2005, 11:26 PM	#83
MrAwesome Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 898	rather than make a thread everyday, send us a carbon copy email everyday, i dont follow this board religiously and dont always have time to search the board for certain threads

06-24-2005, 11:27 PM	#84
Tala Fucked if I know Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Do you have a flag? Posts: 23,368	I'd go for the irc thing, or maybe a yahoo group, where those of us who need the info can get it in email. Or both. Use the yahoo group as a mailing list, and use their chat offering as the chat to be sent out to the group on a daily basis? __________________ ICQ: 11120676 \| Google: mindcrime \| Skype: suitemindcrime\|E-Mail: mindcrime AT gmail.com\|PR girl with great writing skills for hire!!!! Contact me to work for YOU!\|TECHIEMEDIA? 24/7 support from some of the best techs in the biz. Tell Jim that I sent you.

06-24-2005, 11:31 PM	#88
Nightwind Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: ICQ: 303-282-636 Posts: 4,786	Haven't you guys heard of bookmarking? Just bookmark this thread and come back to it whenever you like without doing any searching. Irc could also work as someone suggested. __________________

06-24-2005, 11:37 PM	#91
HAPPYPEEKERS Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Margaritaville Posts: 7,562	It was a pleasure meeting you in SD.. You are a sweety and it is very nice what you are doing for these people.. Very Kewl xoxo __________________ Please Read All Of My Posts In A Sarcastic Tone So You Get The Full Effect!! HappyPeekers - April

06-24-2005, 11:38 PM	#92
mrkris Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 2,737	email sent __________________ PHP-MySQL-Rails \| ICQ: 342500546

06-24-2005, 11:40 PM	#93
Hardlinks Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: Great White North Posts: 1,333	Simple solution is to have it in the newbie forums where it will get less banter from the sig whores and more visibility to the newbies. And possibly have it "looked" over once and awhile by the mods to clean any shit out of it. Also will keep the thread on the main page for months..heh. __________________ Find out how I make Fabulous Cash !!

06-24-2005, 11:55 PM	#96
Aly President, ePufferProfits Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 1,881	There's part of me that really wants to sit down and stare at your chalkboard... But then I'll just end up rebelling and make the others lose their focus, and then you'll make me write lines or something... It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class. It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class. It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class. It is neither appropriate nor amusing to distract the other students during class. ...see, it's already a disaster! Good luck everybody! __________________ . . Aly's ICQ: 51504163 . Aly's Email: [email protected]

06-25-2005, 12:00 AM	#98
Hardlinks Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: Great White North Posts: 1,333	Sorry i was only pointing toward the question if he had something to prove. He clearly said he did..heh. I think most people either know who 2HousePlague is and what he does as well as what he has accomplished, or others, have simply takin the time to look for themselves and see who/what he is. This is GFY, i dont know if any JoeBlow could have a 2 page thread offering to help without atleast one person calling him as a nobody, and it hasnt happened here, that in itself speaks volumes. Also to add..i think its smart to think like you are, not knocking it in any way at all. __________________ Find out how I make Fabulous Cash !!

06-25-2005, 12:03 AM	#99
MrAwesome Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 898	yeah i dont wanna get knee deep in it just to find out its all bunk, there are things i could do with the time and dont want to waste it, i allready make good money and if this guy can show me how to make even more then good for him, im just asking questions no one else is, i personally dont know the guy but will give him a try hope it works out