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Old 11-02-2006, 12:19 AM   #1
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Personal advice needed. Cheating girl.

I know I will get a lot of haters giving me shit and crying about personal stuff on the board but if I don't get this off my chest I will fucking BLOW a gasket soon and end up hurting someone BADLY.....

It all started when I met this girl online a couple months ago. We hit it off instantly. We met a couple days later and it was like I met an angel. We hit it off even more so. We stayed out until the sun came up. The next day, the same thing and I got a taste of what this woman has to offer in many ways. Everything was a perfect match, physically, personality and sexually.

After a few more dates like that she confessed she was falling in love with me and I confessed the same. I have never felt this way in my entire life. Never had I been so excited about a woman ever. The fact that she had 4 kids whom I adore and seemed to really take to me added to everything good about her.

The kid's father was the one watching the kids while she was out with me and when I was over at her place I was pushed a little bit by her to see how well the kids would take to me in daily routine stuff such as bed time, feeding times, diapper changes etc. I swear her 4 kids are less of a handful than my own son. Insane.

Anyways, planned dates started getting cancelled due to the father not willing to watch the kids for her. I figured that was understandable but I was willing to go over and see her at her place instead. Well, he was there. Ok.. he just didnt like the idea of her out on a date while he was stuck at her place. Fine.

He got a job out west and moved. Before he moved she turned very volatile and emotional. I couldnt understand it. She was starting to pick fights with me and eventually I had enough and confronted her and made her tell me what the deal is. This happened twice. First time it was because she felt she would just end up alone and never marry. She wanted to get me so mad that I would tell her how much i was in love with her and I promised to marry her a year from the day we met if our love for each other kept growing. Whichw as fine with me. This i the first time I ever though about marrying a woman and I was excited. The second time she became volatile was when she went from nice to very emotional again and told me it was because she didnt know how she was going to handle the kids alone without the kid's father around and was considering to move out west so the kids could be with him. I was invited to go but only a year later after she'd be settled out there. Then the topic of the wedding came up and she wanted ot marry in June and bring me back with her in June. Ok. I was fine with that. Then she'd wait until June tomove but marry first.

He was gone, I was over a few days later at her place to help babysit the kids while she picked up a few shifts from her old job. That few days turned into 3 weeks. Durig those 3 weeks she went from never wanting me away from her side to telling "dont fuckign touch me im too warm" or that she was too cranky. Ok.. this is how she deals with stress or not feeling well. Fine. I kept my distance but after a week of that I pakce dup my shit and told her I was going home and never comming back untils he learned to open up to me as to what's eating away at her.

A couple days later after having to convince her it's just an argument and wanting to give her time and not to dump me she came around and became cudly and affecitonate again and confessed the following:

She is still not over her ex. She depended and controlled him so much she cannot see herself ebign able to get by without him jumping at her every whim. She used him to go out, she used him as a babysitter and used him to do everything she wanted. Was like that most of their 8 year relationship too. She has no love for him, no emotional attahcment and no sexual desires for him and that she will get counseling to learn to deal with issues and how to set herself free of him. We agreed me moving in would be a bad idea this soona nd that we would step back a bit. I told her to take a week to herself.




continuation...
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:29 AM   #2
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Up til this point the sex went from amazing down to seeing she is not into it at all. 2 days pass and she wants me to go over and keep her company and make love. We never did make love. Girl thing. I ended up staying for 2 nigths and on the mornign after the second night I noticed she is pushing me away even more. This time I lay down beside her when we sleep and she turns away with me with a sigh of "disgust" so I got fed up and went to find my roomate's number from my chat logs on her computer to get a lift home. I was in no mood to wait around. i wanteched her kids for those 2 days while her guy friend was claling 10 times a daya nd her dissapearing to talk to him about a car she was buying from him. Also.. she has been talking to people int he bathroom and outside on her cell phone a lot. I felt something was really being hid from me and knowing her guy friend and her have fooled around int he past was makign me think something was up. When i went to look for my chat logs something fucked up in her dinosaure computer and a whoel slew of chat logs loaded form HER convos! The top msot one on the screen, one with her kid's father!

Suposedly they are together, he's comming home on xmas ot make love to her and give her a ring and that she has been sending him pictures of her pussy ... while i was there thinking she was in the shower!!!! i wake her up and make her explain why she was two-timing me. She tells me she nevera ctualyl sent them and that she is elading him on because the last time she refused his advances he abandoned the kids for a few months and she has to do what it takes to keep her kids from having a bad christmas and that she will nevera ctually do anything with him.

She drove me home and on the way I told ehr she either has ot make good on this or I'm gone. We went for a drive that night to talk and she agreed the pictrues and sex thing was wrong but the fake love for him was not considering it would spare ehr kid spain and that I will have to deal with it. A couple days pass and we decide she can take her time to make right on it and we'll keep building out relaitonship. That night she needs me to babysit so she can go out with an old highs chool girlfriend to unwind. I get there, she take s ahower, all dolled up, hair done up perfect, perfume.. nice lcothes everything. Didnt make sense.

As she laves she has a guilty look on her face that tells me she is about to do somethign wrong. She says she feels bad about leaving the kids with me but I say she always does so tell me whatt eh real issue is. She reverses the car.. stops, reverses.. stops.. shakes her head and scoots off.

I knew she was up to soemthing so I purposely checked for logs.. None.. all gone. I run an undelte program. She told EVERYONE she dumped me cause I w nted to get married too fast. She made me promise that to her. i never pressured her about it. Anyways. She was agreeing to meet this guy to have sex. I text messaged her and told her I know she's fucking "#####" and she sauys she made the logs on purpose to prove I wouldlook if I suspected her of something. I almsot fell for it. She took tow hours to get home and i freaked out at her as to how much the games she is playing is hurting me and how all this secret phone calls are way too much and that it's not as innocent as she makes it appear. She promised never to play tricks on me again and that she wa very sorry.

That nigth she wouldnt let me near her.. I got one hug and she smelle dliek sex and cologne. I knew something was up.. however.. her bodywash kinda smells like that sometimes when she straightens her hair with the iron.

She wouldnt even sleep in the same bed as me. The next mornign after arguing with her to give me proof.. i went home.. The next day she took me for a drive a few times and ont he last one she found out ehr gramma was dying when she got a call. She told me I have to watch the kids so I stayed off and on all that week and she turned alls weet and affectionate when she was home but I noticed when iw ent to use her cell that her calls logs were ALL erased.. something was being hid. By the time the funeral was done and all that for her grandmother I had enough and decided I wanted to cut my ties with her. We had sex the night before and I could tell she was disgusted by what she was doing.

That same night i ended it she told me she was going to hand out with "#####" the dude she fucked and that it's nt what i think. When she got back I freaked out at her on msn and she told me to call her. She answered every question. yes she fucked him that night of the logs, yes she fucked him this very night. Why? Because I would talk to my sons mom on the phone outside instead of around her. Something I do out of respect. Because she felt a distance between us and that all she knows is sex as a way to get away from shit when things get rough and becuase of shit that happend in her past. She wanted to work it out and be together, she would get counseling, I would give her a month to be alone and figure her shit out and she would let me keep tabs on her as long as I primised to relax on her once she showed I could trust her and she would confess to the kid's father soon.

Then it dawned on me.. as I am talking to her she is on the phone with me talking sweet and acting all sorry that she is full of this guy;s cum right at that moment. I could not handle that and starting going off how what she did was mean, evil, slutty and down right makes her a piece of shit at that very moment. I said I dont know if I will every talk to her again but said I imagine I would because I would forgive at some point. I was planning to at least be willing to talk to her more the following day to see how sincere she was btu we ended up hanging up.

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Old 11-02-2006, 12:37 AM   #3
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She then messages me on MSN asking what I would think if she was pregnant. So I asked her whos it is. She said Ill never know because I want nothing to do with her anyways. We bickered bakc and forth and the next day we talked again..

I wanted to work this out.. I wanted to be with her regardless once she got her shit together and proved she is going to be faithful to me. She is angry as fuck that her fuck friend won't talk to her anyone since I contacted him and filled him in on her two-timing. Turns out that night I busted her she cofnessed to him and that's why she took so long getting home.. aside from fucking him. I had to appologize to him for contacting him and suposedly giving the impression she gave him something!! Fuck.... how dumb am I?

Anyways.

She didnt want to work it out cause she was under the impression i would only be with her for the babya nd didnt beleive I could ever fogive her for what she did and would eventually get even and cheat on her. The whole time with her and through all this I never once wanted to be with anyone else. I love her that much and no matter what would work anything out if she proved she can repsect me and be faithful to me. All it would take is time, counseling on her part to deal with her shit and a regrowth of what we used to have.

The other day she said she felt liek we are just friends and that we are going day by day to see what happens. i cand eal with that. She then siad if she is pregnant that she will do whatever it takes to be with me and make it work because she doesnt want to do the same thing she did in the past (having a baby and being with another man who raised him and gave her more kids then splitting anyways) and I told her preggers or not. I want to be with her. Period. Just time and patience and eventually ill trust and forgove and forget again..

FF to today..
she sout with "friends til 12"

its 4 am.. no response to text.. got all dolled up ahao// repeated patterm

Im fed up.. she IS pregnant.

FUCK FUCK FUCK

I love her.. hate her.. etc
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:38 AM   #4
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:40 AM   #6
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ohh. and it is mine... timing would be just right when i was there for 3 weeks.


Anyways.. what do you guys think? wait it out and see what happens or wash my hands of it and inform the kid's father all the games she is playing on him? Or just wash my hands completely and come back in 9 months and get a court order for the child?
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:42 AM   #7
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:48 AM   #9
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If this story is real, you are a fucking idiot for being with this girl. She will cheat on you again and again and again. And you are being used as a fucking babysitter while she goes and fucks other men.
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Oh, and you have NO GAME if all you can score is a girl with 4 kids.
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:49 AM   #11
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She's got more baggage than an airport.

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Old 11-02-2006, 12:55 AM   #12
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Wash your hands. I read the entire thing and it sounds like this chick was using you from the beginning.
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Old 11-02-2006, 01:07 AM   #13
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well, seeing as during almost the whole relationship she played games why would you want to stay with that? Ya, you may love her, but is it really worth all of the shit? If she really wanted to be with YOU she would not have done any of the things that she did. She's lying her way out of everything, making excuses and whatever else. I don't care how much you love her. Love is not worth you being unhappy for the rest of your life in a fight that you will never win.

Leave her. you will be happier, trust me. At first you may hurt, but that will pass and your life will be much better without her games. She's done it before and no matter how much help she gets she will do it again.

Ask yourself, do you really need this shit in your life? Is it really worth feeling like this everyday just so you have "love? Does she actually love you or is she just using you? (babysitting while she fucks whoever, goes out drinking etc..) why is it always YOU that has to babysit? Doesn't she want to do things with YOU? Seems more like you are just her babysitter that gets to fuck her once in awhile while the other guys she fucks don't have to do shit and probably get it more than you do..

Let her go. She's not worth it.
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Please post a pic and so I can entirely evaluate the situation.
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Dude... all I can say is -- GOOD LUCK DEALING WITH HER!

The situation is not worth your time or worries. You are making a huge mistake by sticking by her side through all of this immature, selfish, ignorant, bitchy, whore-ish, and slutty nonsense.
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Get out and make sure you learn the lesson of NEVER getting involved with a single mother. I know they all have some story about how they were so perfect and the guy that left them was a total asshole but there is a reason they left even though there was a baby, most likely because she was fucking crazy. There are simply too many normal chicks with no kids on this planet to be wasting time with a single mother.
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I know that it's a lot easier to say you have to leave then to actually do it.

But she's full of shit man, and you just don't see it because you're in love with her. Let her go, there's plenty more..
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She depended and controlled him so much she cannot see herself ebign able to get by without him jumping at her every whim. She used him to go out, she used him as a babysitter and used him to do everything she wanted. Was like that most of their 8 year relationship too. She has no love for him, no emotional attahcment and no sexual desires for him.
She told you exactly what she wants from you.. how she'll treat you.. and what you can expect from her... she's already doing it to you.. run.. and if she says it's yours, you'd better get a paternity test.
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She'll never get over the father of her kids.

Get out while you can.

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Single moms are some of the best kind of girls to date. They're appreciative, settled down and in most all case, don't cheat. Plus there's proof they love tube steak haha.

This one is a huge exception, every child she has had was based on either deception played on her part or against her.. her first child was fathered by a pedophile from the UK. The second one form a guy she was using while waiting until the pedo came back, pedo never came back, she kept using him and settling for him to help her out.. boom, preggers again.. a month after birth. Used him more until new baby was born so she can leave... he finally wises to her lack of attention and cheats. She cheats in retaliation and that's where the cheating all started. She has unprotected sex with him a couple years later and boom, preggers again. So she kept him around longer... Once she realized she can get better she gets a new bf,, moves him in.. while the kid's dad is still living there! Such a constant state of deception..

The only thing that is holding me to her now and I hate to say it, is the kid inside her but if she could prove she will be faithful and shows huge signs of change in the future if there was no baby.. I would take her back providing I haven't moved on by then.

I just had a long talk with her when she got home... wasen't just a "friend" she was out with. Was a guy she met from a dating site and "cant remember" when she met him. She doesn't call it a date but it is.. guy from dating site, out all night.. had the time of her life.. yeah. A date. And super defensive about it.

I told her I can tell she wants nothing to do with me and that it's probably not going to work out. I've accepted that and ready to move on but that I'd like to take it day by day as a friendship and when her shit is together and her whorish ways have changed.. id like to try again. She agreed she wants nothing of me for now until she gets her shit together but I told her I'm not stupid, I know she's looking and meeting people. There's more to the story than I've told. Sending me home early saying she's tied... but hearing her on phone making plans to meet someone, I caught her in other ways too.. I created a few fake profiles and she was saying what she's looking for in a man to these "guys".

Anyways.. I told her to come over tomorrow and ill put a movie on for the kids and for her to come with a pregnancy test for 100% verification and we'll go from there. She never did do a test,, just the morning sickness, hard abdomen, taste differences, all the symptoms. but I just finished reading up on it that stress and worrying about being pregnant can do that to a person's body.

My plan is if it's positive to put a bit of a squeeze on her to try and get her shit together sooner and see if we can get back to the way things were, and if not.. "get your kids and get the fuck out of here. I don't have to deal with your lies and trickery and using me anymore.".
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The only thing that is holding me to her now and I hate to say it, is the kid inside her but if she could prove she will be faithful and shows huge signs of change in the future if there was no baby.. I would take her back providing I haven't moved on by then.
You must want to have a life of heartache... run dude... if it is yours, do what you have to for the kid but don't touch her ever again. She will never change "for" you.
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Dude, that took a long time to read, but i'm glad i read it. To be honest theres really only two options with her. She's either mental (probably from her previous ex) or she's just playing you and has been seaking a way to get out. If you do love her i would stay away and if she loves you back she'll come back. I know you said about the baby, but things can be done about that once its born.
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Get out and make sure you learn the lesson of NEVER getting involved with a single mother. I know they all have some story about how they were so perfect and the guy that left them was a total asshole but there is a reason they left even though there was a baby, most likely because she was fucking crazy. There are simply too many normal chicks with no kids on this planet to be wasting time with a single mother.
thats not true at all man

Lots of single moms out there that are great. It's picking which ones are the ones who are single due to the ex or due to themselves. I was blind to it with this one.. but wised up real quick.. problem was.. I was already madly in love with her.


I deserve soooo much better than this girl but it's hard to let go of something that makes me smile every time i see her face and cry like a baby every time I look at her pictures and pictures I took of her kids over the past few months.

Her 7 year old messaged me yesterday and told me she loves me and thinks im the best.. How the fuck can I deal with that? That's fucking heart breaking man... and her other 3 kids .. especially the youngest who nobody can even touch without her freaking out lets me take her out of the van and into my home as mommy drives away so I can hang out with her for a bit. NOBODY can do that with her except me and her father.


if any reason there is not to date single moms is.. guys.. you WILL fall in love with not only her.. but HER KIDS TOO!

I've never been this torn up in my life.

I lost EVERYTHING over this one. My landlord already made plans to rennovate so I have to be out soon enough, I missed so much time with work It's gone. I also lost my ability to trust another female in my entire life. How someone I loved so much could do the things to me that she has done is something I CANNOT understand at all.

I did meet some good people in the process of all of this though. I've been talking to a 34 year old milf that is going through a similar thing and we've been confiding and keeping each other's spirits up, in the process of scouring that dating site to figure shit out about her I ran into an ex girlfriend from many years ago whom we became pretty good friends again and a few others that are on the same playing field as me.

I'm going to end up going back to school and doing what I always wanted to do, eletrical wiring or computer network administration. Both my passions. I'm looking more towards eletricla wiring though, huge demand for electricians and the trade is drying up of qualified people to do the job. Great pay... really great pay.

In the meantime I'm going to be exploring different jobs I've always wanted to do and as well as take on orders for high end blog templates on a per person basis... I'm talking very high end.. Not this cookie cutter stuff the companies around here are building.


Anyways, maybe I didnt need advice.. but just a reassurance that leaving this girl in my dust if she proves negative is the right thing to do and if she is positive positive to at least make an attemp and if nothing changes leave her in my dust and only be there for the child. One thing's for sure.. she won't be raising it if she is pregnant and us not working out. I will NOT allow her to be the way she is now and influence that child into being like her. Her 4 kids she has now .... 3 of them are lying on a daily basis to get what they want. her oldest made up stories to ger her pissed at me before and I called him on it and proved to her that her actions and ways of life are affecting her kids in worse ways than what affected her upbringing.


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Old 11-02-2006, 02:07 AM   #28
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dude, i know you love her and all, but if you stay with her for a second longer, you are the biggest sucker ever. she will never change, despite anything she says, and she is just USING you for her own selfish purposes. hell, she basically admitted thats what she gets into relationships for. i fell in love with a girl that sounds a bit like your woman and i totally cut her off when she started doing shit like that...best move i've ever made. do the same.
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Please post a pic and so I can entirely evaluate the situation.
I got rid of every picture I have of her tonight. I tortured myself last night with them and it's too much.

Long blonde straight hair,, 5'7. D cup tits with rock hard massive nipples.. heart shaped ass.. AMAZING pussy (this girl douches and waxes EVERYTHING front to back to keep fresh) Big britney madisson style eyes... bright blue too. Big angelina jolie lips.. soft skin, average figure.. long firm legs. Not even any morning breath. Perfect looking wholesome appearing woman.
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oh and if she proves not preggers. I'm going to give her two weeks to make good on what she is doing to the kid's dad.. Or I'll call him myself. He may be an ass for abandoning the kids at once point but something tells me he probably needed to just get a way from it all for a bit to swallow everything she's done to him.
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and if she is.. he has to know before christmas because if she is 100% preggers she'll have to be moved into a biger place anyways and i dont want him tryign to stick his dick in there.. bad enough she already fucked anotehr dude when she felt she wqas pregnant and i had no clue of it at the time. forgot to add that in there.



Fuck.. i feel much better now after getting ALL this out at once. I was seriously ready to fucking snap big time
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bail... seriously

it will never work, she done it once she's gonna do it again
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Ya but do you know 100% that the baby is yours "IF" she's pregnant? For all you know it may be the other guy(s) she fucked..
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I got rid of every picture I have of her tonight. I tortured myself last night with them and it's too much.

Long blonde straight hair,, 5'7. D cup tits with rock hard massive nipples.. heart shaped ass.. AMAZING pussy (this girl douches and waxes EVERYTHING front to back to keep fresh) Big britney madisson style eyes... bright blue too. Big angelina jolie lips.. soft skin, average figure.. long firm legs. Not even any morning breath. Perfect looking wholesome appearing woman.
that right there tells me that she know how hot, attractive etc.. she is and she knows how to use it against guys. She's proving that with you because you are very hooked on the way she looks. Go beyond the way she looks and ask yourself if she's really "all that"
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My first thought is......if she didnt use protection with u during sex then she didnt use it with anyone else she was with. That means she don't care if she contracts an std and passes it on to you or anyone else for that matter.
Timing of the pregnancy thing means nothing, that baby could be anyones. Did you go into the docs office with her to determin when it was conceived?
If you didnt then how do you know that she is not lying to you about that too?
Definately have DNA test to prove that the child is yours, if you dont you may find yourself paying child support for the next 18yrs for some other barstards child!
Hello, wake up mate and get out while you can because she isn't going to change her ways. Why did her ex leave? Did she do this to him to?
She sounds like a head case that manages to find men that fall in love with her and then once she has them in her web she preys on another victim (fucks other guys) while the other guy has been spun into a cocoon and is left in the web waiting for her (while taking care of her kids).
My suggestion is to get some bug spray and kill the spider and look for a butterfly that has no baggage and no kids!
I'm sorry for being so blunt but you asked for ppls views.
What she is putting you through I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy!
No matter what you decide, good luck with everything!
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seriously man, i feel for you, and as someone who's been involved with a psycho girl like your woman, i know how it is...but really, you gotta peace her out...i mean if it turns out she's not pregnant, totally cut her off. don't give two weeks for anything, don't bother about her fucking ex-husband or any ex bf's or fuckbuddies or whatever...she's totally destroying your life and i guarantee your life will be much better and back on track with her out of your life. if you do this, in a month you'll be wondering why the fuck you even CONSIDERED giving her another chance. trust me.
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nope... the way it all timed out it would be me. I was with her every night or was on the phone with her ALL day and night until she fell asleep on the phone..


It was truly a movie perfect romance until she started her crap;... at which point i was with her for 3 weeks straight and fucked her every couple nights and had her gobling up my cock juices with her orgasms

Simultanious orgasms = Almost immediate insemination if fertile. Keep that in mind guys. REALLY dont want to get a girl preggers? Do NOT cum inside of her if she is cumming at that moment and dont let her cum after you cum. I know it sounds stupid but the mechanics of a cervix work that way and can bring large enough amounts of sperm to even meet the egg at the fucking ovarie.. pill or no pill! hence the 0.1% chance of fertilization when on the pill or other chemical controls.
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that right there tells me that she know how hot, attractive etc.. she is and she knows how to use it against guys. She's proving that with you because you are very hooked on the way she looks. Go beyond the way she looks and ask yourself if she's really "all that"
the girlwshe was a t first far surpased her looks.. now all she has going for her is looks and looks alone are never enoug for me.
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Holy. Fucking. Shit. I read every word of that, and ... DAMN .. you're getting played BIG time.
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seriously man, i feel for you, and as someone who's been involved with a psycho girl like your woman, i know how it is...but really, you gotta peace her out...i mean if it turns out she's not pregnant, totally cut her off. don't give two weeks for anything, don't bother about her fucking ex-husband or any ex bf's or fuckbuddies or whatever...she's totally destroying your life and i guarantee your life will be much better and back on track with her out of your life. if you do this, in a month you'll be wondering why the fuck you even CONSIDERED giving her another chance. trust me.

I hear ya on all of it.. problem is.. I love those kids dearly and what she is doing is leading them to beleive daddy is comming back to marry mommy. it's going to hurt them like hell once the truth comes out a year or so from now if she waits as long as she wants to to come clean. better to get it done with now befor it hurts them more in the long run. The oldest duaghter was i counseling the last time they split up.. this time will be worse... make it wait too long and she's going to go balistic.

besides... she started getting fucky once the truth about him came out to me and my reactions are her excuses for her pushing me away and cheating as well as previously mentioned ones. Maybe it's a bit of revenge I would be seeking? Or showing her how the truth may hurt but will set her and him and the kids free in soon enough time? Or really my love for those kids and not wanting them to be hurt more than is necesary? Dunno.. but I will make sure she knows that going out with me and professing her love for me at the same time as professing a "fake" love to someone else is NOT acceptable and wont get away with it.
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Holy. Fucking. Shit. I read every word of that, and ... DAMN .. you're getting played BIG time.
Oh fuck.. I got played BAD dude.... I have never ever been played like this before in my life and I was a top notch player back in my day!

Anywho.. im out for the night.. sleep needs to be slept. Will find out 100% for sure tomorrow and if negative.. she's G O N E !!!!! and if positive then shes to fuck off and get her shit together and come back to me and see if we can rebuild. if not.. she's G O N E for good and I'll fight to get the baby.
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Sucks for sure. Good luck with it.
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Wash your hands. I read the entire thing and it sounds like this chick was using you from the beginning.
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Oh fuck.. I got played BAD dude.... I have never ever been played like this before in my life and I was a top notch player back in my day!

Anywho.. im out for the night.. sleep needs to be slept. Will find out 100% for sure tomorrow and if negative.. she's G O N E !!!!! and if positive then shes to fuck off and get her shit together and come back to me and see if we can rebuild. if not.. she's G O N E for good and I'll fight to get the baby.
dude, be a top notch player today too.

This girl is gone. There is no more chances, forgiveness, waiting for calls or txts or anything.

Delete her number from your phone, give her the 2 finger salute and stay the fuck away from her. REAL MEN WALK AND NEVER GO BACK
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dont forget to keep us updated, how you are going to solve it.
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get out now, theres plenty of fish in the sea. She has issues man.
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If this story is real, you are a fucking idiot for being with this girl. She will cheat on you again and again and again. And you are being used as a fucking babysitter while she goes and fucks other men.
Well, I was gonna reply to the OP but then this cat read my mind.
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Wow, some women are plain evil...
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nope... the way it all timed out it would be me. I was with her every night or was on the phone with her ALL day and night until she fell asleep on the phone..
that's provided she is even pregnant, or isn't like 2-3 months further along than she's letting on. Sounds like getting a straight story out of her is as easy as getting money out of the tax collector
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Yes Im too smart to get dicked...or so the case may be
that's how the ho felt when she found at that she couldnt play me
I know the game and I know it rather swell too
Rubbin up on my dick and givin me hints that your interested
thinking first you'll kiss my lips and rub my hips, then he'll take a sip
of hennesey hit the buddha, pass out and i'll take his shit
HELL NAW monkey mouth trick, ya stupid ho
you must be a fool if you thinking that i dunno
But nah you broke ass hoes wanna come up, shaking that money maker
but i break her cuz the bitch is a faker
Or maybe she just dont know the formula
of how to get rich quick
without making happy dicks
That's all the bitch know is...
how to be a mega ho
i guess that just goes to show
that's she too ignorant to know
that i wont be played...or gay or dapper, but I aint perfect
I whip the dick out now and then and let em slurp it
but im careful, bein aware of the bitches
thats torchin niggas on purpose cuz they think they deserve it
yea thats some cold shit, my experience oughta learn ya
that if a nigga aint tryina smoke you a bitch tryina burn ya
So trust no

*Chorus*
Trust no... bitch (?funky cut? bitches)
Trust no... bitch (?funky cut? ho)
x2

(AMG)
I refuse to lose so I chose few and trust none
To my women I love, but to you bitches I aint the one
When i tell you to trust no bitch, It might not occur to you
females aint the only bitches that Im refering to
See you can help a bitch
let alone treat swell a bitch
cuz the bitch sold out...gon sell out...or the bitch gon snitch
Bitches wanna be and gonna always be around
Watchin what ya doin tryina use ya and keep ya down
bore ya with a story ya got ya own
Imma strengthn your conviction to give that dog a bone
And move on...for the motherfucker fakin you... fuck you
and make you take their punk bitch ass to the bank foo
see bitches get paid. these bitches got charms
I see em at the mall, on tv and on my homies arms
Just some of homies got bitches but we breaking bitches
so i come like dis bitch "act like you know me

*Chorus*


Eazy E the muthafuckin manipulator when it comes to pussy, hoes
just watch how my dick grows
but since all hoes fall in the bitch category,
trustin no hooker ass bitch is mandatory
how much do you want? bitch how much can you take
Cuz a nigga like the E you cant break
Put ya skinny little ass in my face and I'll slap it
Whip out my dick and let you lick before i tap it
My left hands on your ass my right hands on your head
cuz bitches get the nut.... and niggas get the lead
suckin my dick lickin my balls you know you are the master
suckin my toes lickin my ass you make me come faster
But it just dont stop
suckin everybodies dick...cuz its good to the last drop
but that shit dont faze me
I trust no car wrecking ho's this ones for you tracy

*Chorus*

Bitches aint nuffin but a hole in a 9 deuce
I'd rather make a mil while sippin a cold brew
Bitches aint shit...word to the digi-digi-dick
Eazy E PPC AMG and Quik
Bitch I aint babyface so save ya whip appeal
I neva go on dates with broke bitches, cuz free meals
are suppose to pay the way to lucrative panty deals?
Bitch please, you betta hit ya knees
and you can even touch ya toes
cuz im still playin yall punk hoes like dominios
and if you suck the dick right and the pussy tight
I might not beat you down til the 2nd nite
Once a dog always a dog, trick
ya little trick tramp slut with a big butt
cuz you aint shit bitch
I'd rather fuck ya then love ya
cuz bitch I neva trust ya

*chorus*

HELLL MUTHAFUCKIN YEA
This is one for all those trifilin ass, no good, riff raff, crab scratchin, one a month bleedin, no douching, disgusting bitches.You know you gettin this from DJ Quik, mah nigga easy muthafuckin e, AMG is definetly in the house, and the PPC is sending this to you


that bitch cindy is a muthafuckin funky cut ho
and mesha is a no good
that bitch fatal is a no good funky cut ho
robin is a trifilin ass funky cut ho
dana is a funky funky cut ho
novita is a trifilin ass funky cut ho
marcy's is a disgusting funky cut ho
karen is a funky funky ass funky cut ho
Easy said tracy is a no good funky cut ho
Deuce said april is a funky cut
and like I said before

AAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL BIITCCCCCCHHHHHHESSSSSSS AAAAAAIIINNNNNTTTTTTTT SHIT!


If you find some error in Trust No Bitch feat AMG and DJ Quik Lyrics,
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