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Single moms are some of the best kind of girls to date. They're appreciative, settled down and in most all case, don't cheat. Plus there's proof they love tube steak haha.
This one is a huge exception, every child she has had was based on either deception played on her part or against her.. her first child was fathered by a pedophile from the UK. The second one form a guy she was using while waiting until the pedo came back, pedo never came back, she kept using him and settling for him to help her out.. boom, preggers again.. a month after birth. Used him more until new baby was born so she can leave... he finally wises to her lack of attention and cheats. She cheats in retaliation and that's where the cheating all started. She has unprotected sex with him a couple years later and boom, preggers again. So she kept him around longer... Once she realized she can get better she gets a new bf,, moves him in.. while the kid's dad is still living there! Such a constant state of deception..
The only thing that is holding me to her now and I hate to say it, is the kid inside her but if she could prove she will be faithful and shows huge signs of change in the future if there was no baby.. I would take her back providing I haven't moved on by then.
I just had a long talk with her when she got home... wasen't just a "friend" she was out with. Was a guy she met from a dating site and "cant remember" when she met him. She doesn't call it a date but it is.. guy from dating site, out all night.. had the time of her life.. yeah. A date. And super defensive about it.
I told her I can tell she wants nothing to do with me and that it's probably not going to work out. I've accepted that and ready to move on but that I'd like to take it day by day as a friendship and when her shit is together and her whorish ways have changed.. id like to try again. She agreed she wants nothing of me for now until she gets her shit together but I told her I'm not stupid, I know she's looking and meeting people. There's more to the story than I've told. Sending me home early saying she's tied... but hearing her on phone making plans to meet someone, I caught her in other ways too.. I created a few fake profiles and she was saying what she's looking for in a man to these "guys".
Anyways.. I told her to come over tomorrow and ill put a movie on for the kids and for her to come with a pregnancy test for 100% verification and we'll go from there. She never did do a test,, just the morning sickness, hard abdomen, taste differences, all the symptoms. but I just finished reading up on it that stress and worrying about being pregnant can do that to a person's body.
My plan is if it's positive to put a bit of a squeeze on her to try and get her shit together sooner and see if we can get back to the way things were, and if not.. "get your kids and get the fuck out of here. I don't have to deal with your lies and trickery and using me anymore.".
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