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Doctor Dre 12-23-2005 12:28 AM

I got top post for #250 now !

Quote:

Originally Posted by luv$
Actually, from the tone and content of the posts I'm pretty sure this would be classified as "trying to settle matters amicably" through the only resources left at bdjuf's disposal.

I could be wrong though.

This is what he's hoping to do. Hopefully this will be the case.

buddyjuf 12-23-2005 12:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
I've been talking to him on icq ... he'll probably make a statement until this is setup... we'll see.

Him and bdjuf got a lot to talk about I think.

I am more than willing to cover all grownds in order to prove that I am right.
I would not have made this thread unless I knew that I would come out "the winner"

I have nothing to hide, and I am patiently awaiting Chris's response!

Napolean 12-23-2005 12:28 AM

hi :) :)

dropped9 12-23-2005 12:28 AM

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pornstar2pac 12-23-2005 12:29 AM

damn, dre has woj's bot in this thread

chadglni 12-23-2005 12:29 AM

This thread just got it's second wind.

dropped9 12-23-2005 12:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornstar2pac
damn, dre has woj's bot in this thread


He has used wojs bot for the past 7 days... over 600 posts in 7 days... NICEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Doctor Dre 12-23-2005 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadglni
This thread just got it's second wind.

I don't think it ever slowed down...

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506


Just in case anyone missed it

chadglni 12-23-2005 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506

Man I'm not sure what you two have going on but I would never fly to another country (even next door) to get a refund or work out a deal. I also wouldn't deny someone money because they were an asshole on the phone. Not liking ones attitude is not a reason to not take care of them. :2 cents:

baddog 12-23-2005 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Varius
Few thoughts/questions:

1 - What gets hosting companies fined $5000?

spamming?

tical 12-23-2005 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506

Ah nice, so he needs to spend money to come see you in person to resolve the issue and get some (if not all) of his $ back? That's pretty fucked up.

SmokeyTheBear 12-23-2005 12:32 AM

lol this thread is out of control.. when a response is made its going to take 2 pages to catch up.

american pervert 12-23-2005 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506


wow, you're an asshole, nice work!

Webby 12-23-2005 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
As soon as Chris gets out of his 11:20PM (PST) conference he is going to set the record straight...or maybe not.

ADG Webmaster

Yea... these conferences are useful...

If someone had communicated a problem to the degree bdjuf mentioned - I'd be getting my ass outta any fucking conference and sorting the crap - weeks ago.

Ain't gonna do a hit Chris thing, - I'm sure they are OK folks, but already had enough of Splitinfinity in the 90's. The current pattern sounds very familiar.

Sorry ya got this crap bdjuf - I'm sure you will have a resolution or a court filing to give you a Happy New Year.

pornstar2pac 12-23-2005 12:33 AM

will his meals be paid for if he flys out to meet you? what about the holiday inn express room too?

Roald 12-23-2005 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506

Hmm so you wanted to get even to the bigmouthing partner by lying about the wire being sent out? Oh boy. I am sure there is more to this as there is always 2 sides of the story huh ;))))

Hope all will get solved.

High Quality 12-23-2005 12:33 AM

WHAT DID BDJUF DO TO CAUSE THIS PROBLEM???

Doctor Dre 12-23-2005 12:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash
Just in case anyone missed it

I did ... and I was all over . He posted at the wrong time lol

Doctor Dre 12-23-2005 12:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tical
Ah nice, so he needs to spend money to come see you in person to resolve the issue and get some (if not all) of his $ back? That's pretty fucked up.

You're reading skills are worse then my writing skills.
Quote:

I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here.

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:35 AM

Very nice post Chris. I think this more then shows Split is willing to resolve this issue and make it right for both sides involved.

I believe that not all the details are spilled here and I respect Chris for not turning this into a pissing match, or anything else, but to meet face to face and work it out.

I hope this all works out and both sides are happy and we can all get back to making money. People can bash on Split all they want, but they have been one of the most professional people I have come across in many years.

Bdjuf, if threats were made by your partner that could explain a lot of things. I hope you get on that flight and get this all worked out.

baddog 12-23-2005 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
This was about when I started loosing my hair too ... rofl


52, and not a hair missing

http://fubarwebmasters.com/current/krosh/100_4797.jpg

tical 12-23-2005 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
You're reading skills are worse then my writing skills.

Fuck you dickwad, just because a ticket is paid for doesn't mean that it's all expenses paid. Plus I'm sure he has better things to do than fly down to southern Cali and resolve something that could just as easily be solved over the phone or a secure IM session.

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tical
Ah nice, so he needs to spend money to come see you in person to resolve the issue and get some (if not all) of his $ back? That's pretty fucked up.


Hey my friend long time no speak, hope all is well. Chris said he would fly him out on his dime,

Doctor Dre 12-23-2005 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

And you haven't shaved since you were 12 ? lol

I wish I didn't have that problem. My hair used to be so nice.

Tempest 12-23-2005 12:37 AM

Wow..... Spend $8k... Get promised the servers will be up and running in 72 hours.. few weeks later only 4 are running.. then you're told there was a fine, but there's no proof... you give the company the benfit of the doubt.. you come to an agreement but it's not honoured since they don't actually send money back... then they admit they're fucking you over....

Well... That's one hosting company I'll never do business with regardless of how many buddies come out of the woodwork to say they're a top notch company run by stand up guys.. Since I don't "party" I suspect I would never be a prefered customer and so could expect this sort of unprofessional treatment.. Sounds like it's run by kids.

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by High Quality
WHAT DID BDJUF DO TO CAUSE THIS PROBLEM???

Yes this is the 6 million dollar question, but it's no ones business but theirs. We'd all love for them to start pissing over what happened, but at the end of the day what matters is both sides walking away happy.

pornstar2pac 12-23-2005 12:38 AM

this thread isn't about hair. save that for a rainy day

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
I did ... and I was all over . He posted at the wrong time lol

Yeah, crazy how that happens huh?

split_joel 12-23-2005 12:38 AM

Regardless of anything, I have nothing agaist bdjuff or his partner nor do i want to get inovled but what I would like to say is that we did indeed have more then 4 boxes up actually we had 12 up in the first week and no more then a day later they managed to get 8 of them compromised end result, with the 4 boxes they had or the 3 they had already owned i do not remeber one of them was ethier hacked and or they were sending out spam, and I do not judge let them do what they do, but in the end they ended up getting a hole class c blocked from our network, and caused us alot of grief. As I said, I do not hate bdjuf and him and I have talked and we get along but the truth should be told.

Biggy2 12-23-2005 12:38 AM

Rule #1 of schemers and scammers: When someone tells you the money is sent, and you don't receive it, your likelihood of getting paid is reduced to 50%. If it happens a 2nd time, your likelihood of getting paid is 5%, if not less.

stroker 12-23-2005 12:38 AM

That sucks man. I hope you get your money.

hershie 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash

Bdjuf, if threats were made by your partner that could explain a lot of things.

I don't see how that could explain lying repeatedly about wires going out. That reaks of unprofessionalism regardless of the commercial dispute between them.

Tempest 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash
Bdjuf, if threats were made by your partner that could explain a lot of things. I hope you get on that flight and get this all worked out.

Bullshit.. SplitInfinity could have made it all go away in hours if they had wanted. Instead, they appear to have decided to take the low road as "payback" to the guys partner.. Childish...

TheJimmy 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

damm this thread is flying fast........

Daruma 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog
spamming?

common you didn't know?

JD 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

not to be a dick or anything but, damn man! you're only 52? I thought you were like 65

Webby 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506



Sheesh... Bullshit my man!! :1orglaugh

chadglni 12-23-2005 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash
Hey my friend long time no speak, hope all is well. Chris said he would fly him out on his dime,

I don't have time to visit my mom an hour away, not a snowballs chance in hell I'd fly thousands of miles because somebody wants a meeting. Even if I was free 24/7 I wouldn't fly to work out something that isn't worked out because my partner talked shit. If you got a problem with my partner sue him and give me my fucking money. Simple enough?

clickclickclick 12-23-2005 12:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash
Very nice post Chris. I think this more then shows Split is willing to resolve this issue and make it right for both sides involved.

I believe that not all the details are spilled here and I respect Chris for not turning this into a pissing match, or anything else, but to meet face to face and work it out.

I hope this all works out and both sides are happy and we can all get back to making money. People can bash on Split all they want, but they have been one of the most professional people I have come across in many years.

Bdjuf, if threats were made by your partner that could explain a lot of things. I hope you get on that flight and get this all worked out.


hey
bring ur laptop full of content and every document saying u work in this industry and come meet me for a full refund in china,vietnam,north korea. i have to meet u to settle this.

would u do that?

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hershie
I don't see how that could explain lying repeatedly about wires going out. That reaks of unprofessionalism regardless of the commercial dispute between them.


I do agree that fighting someone unprofessional by being unprofessional is not the way to do business. Everyone does things there own way. If someone was calling and giving threats it might be easier to get them off your back by saying "hey it was sent" when it actually was not. I cannot really comment on this as I do not know the entire situation.

I do see someone from Split did post and say they got an entire class c blocked, this could explain the fine that was mentioned.

chadglni 12-23-2005 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadglni
I don't have time to visit my mom an hour away, not a snowballs chance in hell I'd fly thousands of miles because somebody wants a meeting. Even if I was free 24/7 I wouldn't fly to work out something that isn't worked out because my partner talked shit. If you got a problem with my partner sue him and give me my fucking money. Simple enough?

P.S. If I were being accused of spam the chances of my flying to California to "settle" it are negative 5000%. What kind of idiot would fly to California to get some cuffs slapped on him one foot off the plane?

SMG 12-23-2005 12:44 AM

It'd be nice if gfy implemented a sig whore filter ... would make reading threads like this easier O_O

Daruma 12-23-2005 12:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chadglni
P.S. If I were being accused of spam the chances of my flying to California to "settle" it are negative 5000%. What kind of idiot would fly to California to get some cuffs slapped on him one foot off the plane?

San Diego is not far from Vegas - same diff

kaori 12-23-2005 12:45 AM

although I don't know the full details, I don't agree that this has to be settled 'face to face'... I wouldn't want to leave my loved ones, especially so close to christmas, to get a refund that's apparently entitled...

chris even admitted "I fucked him over"...
threats and big mouth partners should have no impact on the business side of things.. assuming that the big mouth partner has no effect on the other's business..

we all work on the internet - it's a global business that 99% of us can do without ever leaving the house...

oh well.. weird stuff..

AdultMegaCash 12-23-2005 12:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clickclickclick
hey
bring ur laptop full of content and every document saying u work in this industry and come meet me for a full refund in china,vietnam,north korea. i have to meet u to settle this.

would u do that?


If it is not being resolved on the phone, and not via e mail or icq, what other choice is there. It's obvious both sides have issues with the other and it's not getting taken care of any other way then you do what you must do.

I am unsure why anyone would need to bring all of their content, and every document they have saying they work in adult to meet someone.

chadglni 12-23-2005 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daruma
San Diego is not far from Vegas - same diff

It's a big damn difference when they guy accusing you of spamming his class C's to booted is buying the ticket. Reaks of setup, I wouldn't go if I were promised a million dollars once on the ground. :2 cents:

hershie 12-23-2005 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash
I do agree that fighting someone unprofessional by being unprofessional is not the way to do business. Everyone does things there own way. If someone was calling and giving threats it might be easier to get them off your back by saying "hey it was sent" when it actually was not. I cannot really comment on this as I do not know the entire situation.

I do see someone from Split did post and say they got an entire class c blocked, this could explain the fine that was mentioned.

NOTHING can explain lying and stringing a client along for months because their partner made threats. Threats are to be expected in any service industry when stressed out people think they are getting screwed over.

If the service provider is a "stand up" professional, they will not take that threat as leverage and license to screw the client over and lie to them like that.

pornstar2pac 12-23-2005 12:47 AM

30000000000000000

chadglni 12-23-2005 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AdultMegaCash
If it is not being resolved on the phone, and not via e mail or icq, what other choice is there. It's obvious both sides have issues with the other and it's not getting taken care of any other way then you do what you must do.

I am unsure why anyone would need to bring all of their content, and every document they have saying they work in adult to meet someone.

That's good, so he can fly to Canada and meet bdjuf then huh? Oh wait, he wants bdjuf to interrupt only HIS business. :1orglaugh


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