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SomeCreep 12-23-2005 04:19 AM

I read this whole fucking thread and it is still missing so many facts, that one can not make judgement on who is guilty of wrongful doing.

So were these servers used for email spamming? If so, then that's against SplitInifinity TOS/AUP, unless SplitInfinity agreed to let Bdjuff email spam on them, in which case Bdjuff would have to sign a contract stating so, or else SplitInfinity's orignal TOS/AUP would still apply. I highly doubt SplitInfinity would create a contract that allows Bdjuff to spam, in which case, all they would have is a verbal agreement, which means nothing in the eyes of the law.

For Bdjuff to demand a full refund of his money when he was email spamming on the servers, even saying he will take SplitInfinity to court is just foolish. IMO, that's like someone who sells dope saying, "If you dont pay me for all the dope I sold you, I will call the cops." However, neither Bdjuff or SplitInfinity has come out and said these servers were used for email spamming.

Bdjuff, if you're going to make this situation public, you should make all the facts known from the beginning, so people can make judgement based on the facts and not just speculation.

sonofsam 12-23-2005 04:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ricks
If $8k means anything to you, you definately are in the wrong business. You won't even be able to afford lawyers or anything when you need them.

i think you are underestimating how many adult webmasters are under 10k/month :2 cents:

JFK 12-23-2005 04:45 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by bdjuf
alright, on a more relevant note, Chris and I have come to a little agreement where he will wire me a "fair" amount after christmas as well as fax me proof of the fine he recieved.

hopefully this will be taken care of early next week and this thread will only be a memory!

I hope so as well :2 cents:

FabianC 12-23-2005 04:52 AM

So much for keeping shit on the DL .. headlines are going to read "Canadian Spammer and San Diego web host receive 15 years in prison" ... :disgust

Gasper 12-23-2005 05:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FabianC
So much for keeping shit on the DL .. headlines are going to read "Canadian Spammer and San Diego web host receive 15 years in prison" ... :disgust

LoL good one :winkwink:

KingK7 12-23-2005 05:19 AM

Hahaha 12 pages...

darksoul 12-23-2005 05:35 AM

So he used the servers for spamming and prolly it wasn't optin like talked with Split.
What I don't get why it took so long to settle this.
No matter how this ends theres no explanation for how Split handled the situation.

Violetta 12-23-2005 05:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
*DRINK*

:-)

Well, im off to bed.
BDJUff, call me tommorrow 619-227-8845

ttyl

lol... is that a joke?

darksoul 12-23-2005 05:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rockatansky
lol... is that a joke?

I guess 80+ calls aren't enough already.

xlogger 12-23-2005 05:41 AM

How come these type of problems never happens to me? :1orglaugh O wait, thats right i dont let anyone bullshit me around. 72 hours mean fucking 72 hours, i wont fucking wait a second more for the servers to be online if i dont get what was promied to me. I cant fucking believe you waited this long.

You need to be fucking aggressive to get shit done, not a pussy.

spooky181 12-23-2005 05:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by swami
I don't believe you.

Fair dinkum, why not... :(

xlogger 12-23-2005 06:11 AM

ok let me just say one more thing..

Bdjuf, you need to grow some fucking balls.

I seen some of your threads, you let every one walk all over you. Whats up with that shit man? If you are running a business you need some balls. If people think you are week, chances are you will get ripped because they know you are not going do shit about it. I still cannot believe you waited 5 fucking months for this. :1orglaugh

Ps: Actually something like this happened to me once. A guy who was a (unofficial) reseller for a hosting company sold me some servers. I cancelled after a month, however, he still kept using it and after 3 months the hosting company wanted to charge me $3k (because he disappeared). I didnt pay for shit! They called me nonstop at wanted to send a collection agency. I dint wait fucking 6 months like you did though, i called my dads lawyer and got things sellted the same week. I didnt loose a fucking penny. Dont let people walk all over you, never let that shit happen.

Living For Today 12-23-2005 06:18 AM

great thread. good read!

Wiggles 12-23-2005 06:31 AM

damn this is some good drama, best in along time.

circlekhabib 12-23-2005 06:40 AM

I am pleased to say I have turned a many a spam email
originating from split over to the feds and spamcop.
what we have here is basically scammers bitching about
getting scammed by scammers
which
is what 99% of gfy is comprised of.
classic thread indeed

see sig

More Booze 12-23-2005 06:49 AM

fucking spammer, I hope you don't get one cent back

justsexxx 12-23-2005 06:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SplitInfinity
Wow, all this attention. I feel loved.
:-)

Yep, BDJUff and I have an issue. His post is 100% right.
I fucked him over.

Now with that said..... one must ask "why"?

I feel that both of us suffered damage in the transaction.
However, there is alot to this "drama" that I will not post for the simple reason
that I do not want to make matters worse for some parties involved.

This thread is fun by the way. I love you all, even the doubters.

This board would not be GFY without drama. I am happy to contribute.

If BDJuFF wants to solve this matter he must come to me.
I will pay for the ticket for him to fly here. I will not discuss this matter
outside of a face to face professional meeting between two businessmen.

Note: Alot of this would have been avoided if your partner didnt have such a big mouth. Threatining people is not a good business tactic. It surely didnt give him what
he wanted, did it?

Ill negotiate, its only fair to do so, but note this: I will not be threatened, if that happnens again, I will let this go to court. We can keep it out if you like and maintain
friendship, which, I always have liked you personally..... its someone else I have a
hard time dealing with.

Nevertheless, say what you like just spell my name right. :-)

Lets sort it out. Can you do lunch after Christmas Break?
No drama, we just need to sort this out. I want fair, not to defeat you.

I suppose we could do this over the phone.... I just would be limited on what I am
willing to discuss in that case. More professional to meet in person and negotiate.
Ill show you my papers, you show me yours, all will me merry.

Peace out.

Anyone wanna chat about this? I am on ICQ, AIM....

AIM: NJesterIII
ICQ: 64791506

Funny I can make a deal with you without face to face, but when I am not happy, I have to see you face to face....

webair 12-23-2005 06:59 AM

Sheesh lotta drama here....

From past experience anyone coming aboard with 20 servers should be a semi red flag that they MAY be looking to spam =)) A bit of enquiry may have be in order prior to approving the account...With that said Bdjuff and his metro self has been hosting with us for a long time and we have honestly never received one spam complaint with regards to any of his accounts, great guy to work with actually. None the less the Split guys are good people I'm sure they will work this out professionally. Good luck to all involved....

See ya all in Vegas Baby!!!

sonofsam 12-23-2005 07:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by circlekhabib
I am pleased to say I have turned a many a spam email
originating from split over to the feds and spamcop.
what we have here is basically scammers bitching about
getting scammed by scammers
which
is what 99% of gfy is comprised of.
classic thread indeed

see sig

You my friend, are a fucking rat

http://www.genome.gov/Images/feature.../rat_image.jpg

here you go, i even hotlinked that pic from a .gov site... just for you

darksoul 12-23-2005 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by webair
Sheesh lotta drama here....

From past experience anyone coming aboard with 20 servers should be a semi red flag that they MAY be looking to spam =)) A bit of enquiry may have be in order prior to approving the account...With that said Bdjuff and his metro self has been hosting with us for a long time and we have honestly never received one spam complaint with regards to any of his accounts, great guy to work with actually. None the less the Split guys are good people I'm sure they will work this out professionally. Good luck to all involved....

See ya all in Vegas Baby!!!


I think its a bit too late for the "professionally" part.

Deputy Chief Command 12-23-2005 07:16 AM

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Basic_man 12-23-2005 07:21 AM

I'm bumping this thread for bdjuf, because Splitinfinity fuckin' suck on this one.. host of the year.. MY ASS ! :mad:

Hope you can get your money back bro :disgust

adultchica 12-23-2005 07:26 AM

I think they should pay you back all of the money, and if they did get fined where is the proof? If they got fined and prove it, I do think it would be cool of you to take less the fine.

GOod luck bdjuf

Violetta 12-23-2005 07:40 AM

ohlala... :helpme

RawAlex 12-23-2005 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tempest
Maybe you should actually read before you post... The customer said they didn't use the servers (only 4 that they knew were online) other than to update the OS... SI said that what the customer said was 100% correct... Therefore, the customer wasn't spamming... SI also dropped a little something else later than someone may have hacked into those servers and were the ones spamming.

Tempest, you should read a little more closely too: Those same boxes that apprently did nothing also generated 350 spam complaints in less than 2 hours - and appear to have gotten an entire class C tossed as a result.

Please read all the posts, not just the ones from people you like.

Alex

sonofsam 12-23-2005 07:51 AM

the spam complaints are irrelevant.... splitinfinity knew what he was doing, so they should have made sure they would be able to handle the complaints that went along with it :2 cents:

Juicy D. Links 12-23-2005 07:51 AM

wow this is mad views!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KRL 12-23-2005 07:52 AM

All this spent energy and taking so many people's valuable productive time away from their business tasks to read endless pages on a thread about a server bill dispute.

Truly fucking sad. Life is so short folks. Move on . . .

sonofsam 12-23-2005 07:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KRL
All this spent energy and taking so many people's valuable productive time away from their business tasks to read endless pages on a thread about a server bill dispute.

Truly fucking sad. Life is so short folks. Move on . . .

I'm sure you've read every page of this drama also :winkwink:

gecko 12-23-2005 08:01 AM

holy crap 12 pages?!?!?

Easton 12-23-2005 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gecko
holy crap 12 pages?!?!?

yup, i was all over this first thing when it came out last nite... got some early sig spots it seems... it was only halfway down page 4 when i left off

WiredGuy 12-23-2005 08:54 AM

Wow, quite a bit of drama here this morning. I read thru bdjuf's story and Chris' response and I have to say the fact that Chris won't negotiate over the phone is rather disconcerning but I suppose after dealing with bdjuf's partner its plausible. Either way, if you're both in vegas it should be worth exploring having a sit down with each other to work this out. Hopefully you both can get this resolved.
WG

pornstar2pac 12-23-2005 09:18 AM

anyone watch queer eye last night? great show

Abyss_Vee 12-23-2005 09:22 AM

I hate working with scumbags like that... makes you fuckin think twice before dealing with anyone unless you know them very well...

pocketkangaroo 12-23-2005 09:33 AM

Quote:

If $8k means anything to you, you definately are in the wrong business. You won't even be able to afford lawyers or anything when you need them.
I think the people who get to the point where $8k doesn't mean much didn't get to that point by letting people scam them out of $8k (not saying they did, just for the sake of argument). $8k is a lot of money to anyone and I couldn't imagine seeing anyone sit back and say "shucks" and move on.

I work and have worked mostly in mainstream with many large companies companies, including contract work for companies like Microsoft. They are very tough to deal with and they demand that they get what they pay for regardless of the cost/work. Try spending a few bucks on Google Adwords and giving them a bad credit card. They'll shit down your throat till they get it.

I just can't find one example of a succesful company that will throw thousands of dollars around and not care. Regardless of if you are a millionaire or not, $8k buys a lot of shit and is not something to take lightly.

pradaboy 12-23-2005 09:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo
I think the people who get to the point where $8k doesn't mean much didn't get to that point by letting people scam them out of $8k (not saying they did, just for the sake of argument). $8k is a lot of money to anyone and I couldn't imagine seeing anyone sit back and say "shucks" and move on.

I work and have worked mostly in mainstream with many large companies companies, including contract work for companies like Microsoft. They are very tough to deal with and they demand that they get what they pay for regardless of the cost/work. Try spending a few bucks on Google Adwords and giving them a bad credit card. They'll shit down your throat till they get it.

I just can't find one example of a succesful company that will throw thousands of dollars around and not care. Regardless of if you are a millionaire or not, $8k buys a lot of shit and is not something to take lightly.

Excellent post :thumbsup

emthree 12-23-2005 10:01 AM

Page 13!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111111111

emthree 12-23-2005 10:05 AM

I take it budjuf's friend is the cause of all of the problems here.
Honestly, I think Split did the right thing. The way it's being dealth with is something else.

emthree 12-23-2005 10:06 AM

Growing............

emthree 12-23-2005 10:06 AM

Growing..............


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