when your opinion actually matters, i will let you know.

and the point you were trying to make with you used to say all women are whores and they make you money, blah blah blah. was there a point to that?

didnt think so.

Whatever hon, as long as you and Marc both agreed, then what the hell is the problem? I just don't get why some folks have to stir up shit.

This thread honestly should never have happened. *HUGS*

This is sickening. Sarah doesn't deserve this. Unbelievable that some of you are even getting involved and giving 2 cents.

swingers are cool

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sorry, I'm a few days late

if i had a wife and died i wouldn't want her to be misreable, from what i understand they had an 'open' relationship and i'm sure if was smiling from up above :Graucho

lol, dude you're a porn trafficker

How about because it was supposed to be a fun thread, and she had no reason to believe that she would be having to answer for her actions. Last I heard, she was an adult who could bloody well do as she needed, even if it meant a quick fuck.

How many times have you posted to a poll or in a thread about something that someone might find objectionable? Seriously, Tony, I'm not trying to bust your balls here, but each and every one of us has at one time or another posted something for which we could be blasted. All it takes is one person to read something that they don't like and suddenly we could all have multiple page threads of our own. Trust, I've been there.

So should we all stop posting in an effort to protect ourselves? No. There's always going to be someone who either doesn't like you or what you do. Don't let it stop you. Live your own life and let others live theirs.

(And that was a message to everyone, not just Tony, not just Sarah, not just Entropy, not just mrthumbs, ALL of us.)

now this is ridiculous!

btw...no one pays my bills but me. I do not have a partner..I had oral sex..geeze

My point is you cant post on a public board and then tell people you are not allowed to have opinions its my business. If its your business keep it to your self . I have been blasted on this board but its business or politics not my personal life .This is the gofuckyourself board not a aa meeting.

Very well written post.

they didn't have a 2 months ago option :food-smil

Did she reply to the post I am too lazy to look through everything.

Yeah pretty much.

Translation:

Fuck off you do not understand, you are not me! Fuck off I got a different life style than you bigots.

PS: Fuck Off and get a life.

HUgs!

All I read was MIND your own business. Its her own life bla bla bla, but she came to this board of business and cried looking for money. If she really banged a guy out that early after he lovers death, she needs to refund all the money that was raised because she is a piece of fucking shit. I am glad nothing slips by old wool eyes GFY.com :batman

how about you actually read my reply before putting words into my mouth. Oh and i never looked for money - ask anyone that was dealing with the collection if I asked for it and also it wasn't week after, thanks.

interesting thread. let's give sarah some privacy. :stoned

Tony, I have been around boards long enough to know that whatever is said is fair game. You are right, I shouldn't have posted in that thread and I should have known that not everyone would understand my life and it would backfire on me. However, I just came back from a friends house and what has probably been the first two days in a month where I didn't feel like my world was caving in and I was in a good mood and just posted a response without thinking it through. I know this is GFY and had I thought about it I would have maybe not posted. However, I did and as such I will take the heat, state my views and then whatever happens happens.

I have always respected you and Mandy so I am not taking what you have said as being particuarly personal but just saying maybe in the past when I posted about my life I haven't felt there to be anything shameful about it. I gave eight years to look after someone I consider to be the finest human being to walk the planet. I would have happily given many, many, many more. Trust me, I have by far not posted my most personal buisness on the boards with the firm exception of the night Marc died where I was just in some sort of trance (for lack of a better word).

See, to me sex isnt my most personal buisness. To me what is most personal are my thoughts, hopes, wishes and dreams and I don't post those anywhere. Only one person ever heard those.

I'm not telling you to be ashamed, I'm telling you this to protect yourself from very cruel people because I do like you :) Some of the most conservative minded people in the world post on this board.

oh boy ... can't believe someone started a thread on this *sigh* seriously is this any of our business ? :Oh crap :Oh crap

awwww, now I really feel bad for you. Give the money back and save any self respect that you have left for yourself.

Sarah - as someone who has also been in an open marriage I would not waste my time trying to explain it to those that can't understand it. Let them fuck off.

Tony stop tring to get laid.

stupidest fuckin thread ever.

Good advice...those who get it, just get it, even the ones who choose not to live it. And those that don't get it, either accept the right of others to choose for themselves, or they do not, and no amount of explaining will make someone realize their way is not the only way. That's something that comes with age and experience, and apparently they aren't old enough or haven't have the experiences supporting that wisdom.
That was the hardest life lesson for me to learn-that others do not perceive things the same way as I do, and they will not behave the way I think they ought to...but that is their right, and I have to accept it. My choice comes in whether I choose to have that kind of person around me or not, and that's where it ends.
Judgements are not something any of us have the right to make in a very situational thing like this.

You must be depressed ALOT

this is the most pathetic thread ever. you're an asshat mr thumbs.

damn, what the fuck is wrong with you?

Punk ass little boy....

hahahaha

I doubt *conservative minded people* are right words just people with opinions about dealing with death and posting on a message board.

Sarah could have ignored this or said silly me I was joking or could have just ignored the poll that many posters did. She chose to explain her actions, which I really don?t care to know or needed to know. That was her choice. I did see the poll thread where she posted and the one she started about the 19 year old?I chose to ignore.

Many people here do not nor wish to have fuck buddies outside their marriage and really can?t imagine losing one that is so dear and within weeks of ones death participating in a poll when was the last time you fucked.

I know if I lost my husband; best friend, the only person I ever shared my most inner thoughts with and was my fucking buddy, the last thing I would want is another man (friend or not) taking my pain away with an orgasm within a few weeks of his death and feeling proud of it. Not really sure what I would do, but I have feeling that I wouldn?t be posting on this board or others about sexual activities.

If that makes me conservative, I will live with it.

Well, people are different eh?

guess so.

And that's a good thing, isn't it? :) You people should give Sarah a break! if it makes her feel better be happy for her.. she's got it hard enough!

You are one compassionate guy. For me.....I have clearly told my husband that he better morn for me forever or I will haunt him for the rest of his life. =)

What Sarah does is no ones business but her own...I totally agree with that.

I think the main problem here is people are people and everyone reacts in a different manner and everyone has varying moral standards. We have people who are swingers and we have couples who believe in total monogamy. Each individual has to decide for themselves what is right and what is wrong for themselves.

After saying all of that....and knowing in my heart that none of this is anyones damn business but Sarahs.....I do have to say that in a small way I too feel cheated....no...it does not have to do with donations...it has to do with crying my eyes out while reading her story....feeling like it was almost a movie...a passionate love that would be with her forever...and then finding out that sex is sex and love is love. See...with some of us...there isn't a difference....and I think perhaps that is where the misunderstanding lies.

Thank you.

Its basically a difference of lifestyles, I would never have an open marriage nor would I go fcuk someone after my spouse just died but thats just me. Leave her alone, she can live her life however she wants.

I am not giving Sarah a hard time. If I wanted to, I would of posted in her 19 year old thread or the in the poll thread she posted in. Or even worse when she was talking about her husband death.

All what I am trying to say is that we all have opinions and thoughts about losing the one we love and dealing with it. If this is Sarah way, she knows how cruel GFY is and I doubt that I am bashing her because I just stated MHO. :)

At least she did not do anal.