How about you all just leave her the fuck alone.

Let this thread and its bad intentions die in peace.

No Need to Assault me like that.. Oh fuck, cry me a river you wounded soul..

Grow the fuck up, you have better board drama skills then this, and I repeat who the fuck cares, and if you do care, it not your fucking business...

"respect" learn it and live it.

im glad i didnt donate any money to her. :laughing-

How dare you talk about respect LOL, you ain't showing much yourself mate.

The funny thing is this. If she were a he...and the same situation were here on this board...many if not all of the people in this thread who are arguing on her behalf would be carrying torches and demanding the guy be strung up. GFY never ceases to provide me my laughs for the day.

I'm guessing Sarah is the best judge of when a good fuck might do her a world of good. The rest of us should probably just STFU.

Ironically this is so true. But you know how it works dude, chicks get defended most of the time...

PP,

How dare I talk about respect. You don't know me at all matey.

When I see a thread posted about someone who works on our team and that we all care about, you think I will sit idly by and have some one question her morals, ethics, sex life, etc, etc.

Get in touch with reality, it's no ones business what she has or hasn't done.

This might be GFY, but this isn't the Moral Majority :)

Hi Nick. :zzwhip

For some reason, after reading all of this thread, I feel like I'm about the only one that understands where your coming from on this. It's not a personal attack!! She made all of this open to the public by posting it here. After reading her post, I was really touched and hoped to have what she had one day. Some of us like to believe there is still romance in this world. I like to think that if my "one true love" died, sex would be the last thing on my mind for a very long time. :2 cents:

What donations have to do with her sex life is beyond me. Did we donate so she becomes celibate?

I suggest you all go back and find out a little more about her story with the love of her life - the lifestyle they led and the boyfriend she had with his consent before judging her. (which contrary to your belief, your donation did not buy you a ticket to judge her lifestyle)

If she spent the money on crack house parties & drug fests, rather than getting his family there for the funeral, matteress, and other necessities, I'd understand - but continuing a relationship?

You must live in a glass house & generally, my rule of thumb, (pun not intended) is when you're ready to judge the world around you, you're not very happy with your own little world.

Oh I know. I just always find these battles of good and evil so entertaining. Continue...I didn't mean to stop anything. :glugglug

What some people do for attention ....man o man

Hola Tala :) How are you sweety?

Bingo.. again..

Its not about donations and not about her sex life :)

You are right, I don't know you mate. What I do KNOW is that you became personal towards mrthumbs for no good reason. What makes this YOUR business? :bigears

Yes Sarah made this issue public but it is still a personal attack in the way it has been handled. If you can't see that then oh well.

This is sooo none of your fucking business ...

M'aybe he couldn'T give her what she needed ... maybe she was fucking other guys while she was with him with his concent ... who cares. it's her life .

Ignorant people depress me

Its her life, she can do whatever the fuck she wants.

:party-smi

That's fine, no one is saying you should run out and jump in the sack with someone else to get over it...I think what most of us mean is that what works for you may not work for me, and what works for me may not work for her; and is it our place to judge her actions?
If it is anyone's "place" other than her own, to judge, I would say it would be the man in question, and considering their lifestyle, if there is an afterlife, which I believe the is, then I doubt he has the lest bit of a problem with her continuing to live as she sees fit.

Maybe you should go out a little bit more :ticking

no, this has turned into a mr. thumbs thread now.

Were all gonna discuss your ignorance, lack of respect for people and your board skills.

talking about her life on the board is ...

When you leave somebody you really loved, and fuck somebody the next day, is it wrong ?

Whenever there is a donation thing going on these type of things come up during or after the fact. That is why I stopped participating in things such as this when I was doing radio. Too much drama involved.

Depends on the person's own morals and values. Which none of us should really judge.

You are a true idiot.. now your statements arent even related but just plain
stupid and weak.

Its not about me thats very obvious.. even to most of the people that disagree with my questioning.

Jason,

you gotta admit though in the old days - we all gave alot to the kids and charities.

Remember with Dokk and everyone, raising over 250k in 1 night :)

"Webmasters with heart and class"

Bingo. :weihnacht

That was the good ol days Todd. We all knew each other and the adult web was much smaller.

Yanno what I mean?

No it's about you Boy, not showing and learning respect the first time I commented on it.

I am an idiot and stupid and weak, hahahaha - them's tough words there boy.

I think in the over 10 yrs I have been working online in our industry that is the first time someone has called me that. Alot of other names come to mind, but not stupid, weak or an idiot.

The stupid, weak one is the person who started this thread :)

Touche

Ok, you are right!!

Hey bro, I know exactly what you mean. It was a bit smaller, closer tight group of people.

Things have changed though, you know? We have to move with the times.

There still are tons of good, gracious people out there but more cactus to deal with..

Happy Holidays

i think if a person doesnt want their life to be public discussion then dont report it on a board. very simple.

ive been playing with chopsticks in my mouth for the last two and a half hours

There must be two mrthumbs then?

If you choose to take a long break between sexual relationships, that's fine, if that's what does it for you. She's alone in London, her closest relationship is with a boyfriend she had while her husband was alive & with his consent. Do you expect her to not see him? Do you expect her to wait, say...3 months? Will that bring him back? She is not disrespecting his memory or mourning him less by having sex with her boyfriend.

Mr. Thumbs,

I am not out to win or whatever on this thread.

My point only ----- Who are we to judge.. I learned this lesson many many years ago..

Exactly.

Here's to 2005! May it be better for all of us!