Why do you care so much?


:uhoh

And a week later you were fucking someone else?

Whoah. :love-smil :waaaaahh
This thread exploded!

Yes, I do. I see dumb bitches in bars fucking anyone they can get their hands on. They aren't in porn. I've seen porn stars with better morals than people outside of the industry (and some of them have slept with less, too). If you think "society" has better morals than people in the industry, apparently you haven't seen too much of the world. Time to get off mommy's apron strings and see what's out in the jungle.

A few things if one wants their life to be personal dont post it on a fucking board. Secondly to this if someone dies you are not supposed to stop living. No its called respect for the dead, if my wife died I dont know if I would ever touch another girl again because she is truly my soulmate and part of my heart. When
Sarah posted not too long after her hubbys death about the 19 yr old that wanted her . I thought it odd but I kept my mouth shut. Im sorry for Sarah's loss and people do strange things while in pain but one thing I do recommend is you're not 14 yrs old keep it too yourself.

You know what, I can't say how I would handle it. But no matter what I did, being with someone else or not (in a sexual way only) would be MY business, and would be MY choice, and MY way of coping with things. Not you, not anybody else has the right to judge someone else based on YOUR life and YOUR experiences. The old saying "Don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my shoes" has been an old saying for a reason. It's flat out right.

if those bitches are looking good, can i have the address of those bars? :food-smil

Oh and with my first love, I spent a long time mourning, but then again I was young and I thought my life was over. It taught me a good lesson about how to live life to the fullest.

i hope i can have sex tonight

My wife says a couple of days tops! :cool-as-a

Thats right it would be your business but that arguement is weak once you post it on a board. You can see that right?

it's interesting to see her response in this thread

agreed 100%

Worry about your own problems you fucking loser. Its none of your business anyways.

Instead of sitting there trying to think of words to put in my mouth, why don't you actually focus on reading the words that are on the screen before you. I said that pornstars and non-pornstars have differents moral fibers. Nothing more, nothing less. Everything else is right out of your imagination.

I'm upset that the smiley faces don't work right when you click on them

You don't know how you would handle it. You're acting as though you've never been in that situation, when earlier you said you had...

From page 4 of this thread:

"I lost many people I've loved, including the first man I ever loved.. He died to a drunk driver. If I'd spent my life crying over his loss I wouldn't have my husband and three incredible children."

Is that a lie?

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OK....Question answered.

Hello pot. Meet kettle.

I have a question..

I guess all you guys "outraged" by this show of "sexual disrespect" wouldn't be doing any masturbating for months and months after your loved one's death? Absolutely NO sexual activity at all? It would be disrespectful to your loved one wouldn't it? For you to have sexual pleasure while they're now dead?

It's EXACTLY the same thing! Sexual release therapy! Sarah had a fuck buddy/buddies with her husband's consent. I see her engaging in sexual activity with said fuck buddy no different to any of you engaging in sexual activity with your right hand.

So would you be just as outraged if the poll would have been when did you last masturbate and she had answered the same?

Please tell me you're kidding.

Nope.. please tell me you're not going to be a hypocrite and claim one method of obtaining orgasm is better than another (in this situation)

You all need to thank god (or whomever) that you don't know what it's like to be in her shoes. I do and it's not a fun place to be. I didn't have sex the week after my fiance died, but I might have if sex was available. Instead I was all alone with no family support and no friends. I would have given anything to have someone hold my hand, let alone fuck me senseless.

People in mourning do some crazy things I don't understand, but that doesn't mean I'm allowed to judge them based on my own set of morals. If she's happy and comfortable with her decisions, then more power to her.

The rest of you need to GFY! :thefinger

I'm just someone living here in reality that knows masturbating and having sex aren't the same thing.

Then actually read it before you chose to talk about what you see or dont see in it.

I use to say all women are whores, but that's kind of a joke. But there are a lot of whores out there, and many post on GFY, a few of them in this thread. Who cares about them, they help me make a living, let them fuck whoever they want. If the guy knew she had a boyfriend before he died, he should expect her to fuck him after he's gone. A lot more.

This should be good..

Why not?

They're both sexual activity are they not?

They both involve orgasm do they not?

Why should another person/s being involved in the orgasm make a difference?

Man this turned into a long thread.

okay...I haven't even read the whole of this thread but I will say this:

A serious fuck you to anyone that would question how much I am hurting right now.


Secondly..I have NEVER hidden on this or any other board that I had a somewhat open marriage. NO ONE - and I mean NO ONE ever ever got my heart, my soul, my mind like Marc . However, we did have a play partner that was very close to me as a friend.

Now, I don't smoke, I have never done a drug and I barely ever drink. Sex is my therapy. The 20th was my birthday and I needed human contact. I spent the morning opening gifts marc had wrapped for me and frankly it was my lowest day since all of this happened. Now, my friend came over to check on me just as any friend would and he calmed me down.

I know for a FACT that Marc would have wanted me to have someone hold me and pleasure me and that it was someone that cared about me (not love..cared) would have made him feel better to. This friend 'with benefits', as I call it, has been my life support for the past month. He has stayed up all night with me when I thought I might not make it through the night. He is the one that had to dry my tears from his shoulder AND he is the one person I have talked to over the last month that knows the total real me...ie my parents and sister were great but don't know that side of my life. So, I let him go down on me when he saw I needed the contact,the release and to feel something other than pain.

You know, I had sex..I didn't make love and yes there is a damn difference. I don't know if I will ever get to make love again but I needed to feel something 'real'. Some people right now would slit their wrists. I needed an orgasm - the first i have had since this happened btw because I couldn't even touch myself without wanting to vomit until that point.

Wanna call me a slut? Fine but we work in the fecking sex industry. Not all of us live the same kind of sex life. Obviously I had no reason to think it was something wrong or I wouldn't have posted in that thread.

thank you..play partner/fuck buddy/whatever but I knew someone actually read my posts before.

Well said Serah.

Seriously, well said.

They're not the same because they're not the same. I don't know what you want from me dude. Should I really have to be explaining the birds and the bees on an adult webmaster board? They are two different physical acts.

According to your logic, steak and hamburgers are the exact same thing.

They are both food.

They both involve eating.

I don't get what is so hard to understand.

You are stupid, are you not?

Entropy,

please sig whore somewhere else.

Cheers

Sarah,

It pains me that you had to post in such a thread and explain your business :(

Sorry that you had to endure this soap opera..

Hugs

That would require a sig.

In all truth, I have no idea what I would do if, G'd forbid, Tev died.

Having said that, it doesn't matter. I'm not Sarah.

I hope I never face that dilemma.

That would require a sig to whore.

good response. and thats not only coming from a N00b. but someone who just dealt with the same thing you did.

It is sad but the question is why post your personal business on this board in the first place?