Poeple find comfort in what ever way they can.

Many people grieve differantly...some just need to get laid to help with the process

Yes.. i could have asked it without naming individuals.. but what fucking difference would that make?

You think i care if you fuckers think im an asshole?

Your very welcome. This was your first lesson in learning "respect"

yup i agree.. its just not what i expected from 'love' so like i said.. my fault.

This is GFY, Go Fuck Yourself. The whole idea behind the board is being open and speaking your mind freely under any circumstance. She opened herself up for questioning by presenting her tragedy on the board, I'm sure she knew what could happen, she is an established GFY member.

It's her life, they are her actions, people are naturally curious and she will either choose to answer this thread or not to answer - end of story.

See, this is something I really don't like about GFY contributions. Someone always has to find a reason to question it.

If I'm not mistaken, she and Marc also had a boyfriend, (or at least she did with Marc's agreement). If that's the case, then the boyfriend would not only be her rock through this, but sex relieves a LOT of stress. Humans are instensely sexual beings, and though you might not agree with it, it's not for GFY to say how she should or should not live her life.

The love of her life may have died, but there are other loves. To turn away from all of the other loves she has is to die. Leave her alone; let her do her own thing.


(Not pointing fingers, I've read MrThumbs' posts. I'm simply stating what I feel.)

Obviously not. :sleep

This thread is on fire :food-smil

Nah.. unlike stupid me people have learned around here how not to get burned ;)

Jezus, because she had sex doesnt mean she is over her loss yet.

Its just sex, nothing more nothing less.

Just cause you don't understand it, don't mean it don't make no sense
And just cause you don't like it, don't mean it aint no good

Its none of our bussiness...

:small-smi :small-smi :small-smi

I agree with this, and add she is the one that shared her sex life! I could be wrong but I get the feeling that when he says he feels cheated it's not the money. Her story was very touching and now after only a few weeks she having sex again. Sad that someone that was so in love could just go on after such a short time. :sadcrying

Backing mrthumbs.

The question was about getting laid, not about making love, its a big difference. Besides, its not our job to keep track of her sexlife. We should be glad that she is OK and moving on.

Exactly!! thank you. Just me confusing love with sex again :(

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oooooh, didn't we used to say that in Junior High and High School?? LOL

See you next year?

Unfortunately sex has been transformed from something of high meaning and value to something as ordinary and meaningless as flipping through channels. But it isn't our place to judge, to each his/her own. It isn't our business, but curiosity is a part of human nature.

He's a friend. Can't blame him :costumed-

:1orglaugh I always thought polls were confidential..

definately backing mrthumbs, that is just wrong to do, i don't care how liberal people are.

Thank god it was fucking 2 weeks ago. When did this info turn into public knowledge?

I think MrThumbs is just getting the backlash of everyone leaving sleazy alone for a day.

Nice that you got his back, problem is - it's none of your biz, and why do you care?

Morals and sex are decided on by each person, not your place..

Quite a few judgemental fucks here huh?

Please someone tell me that her user was hacked... Please...

So why are you commenting my morals and my need to express my opinions?

I've found that sex is definitely a great release during extremely emotional times. When I first seperated from my ex-wife I was a wreck. I was sleeping on the floor in my office, contemplating suicide, etc. I found a great person to talk to. She'd listen to me and hold me as I had those big huge sobs that seems to make your body want to explode. At times we'd have sex. Even though I was going through a horrible breakup (that ended in divorce) I was able to find comfort in the arms of another. That is a very normal human reaction. I'm sure Sarah is experiencing the same thing.

And if her husband is watching her I'm sure he's clapping with approval. If I died and was able to watch my fiance's life I'm sure my heart would break with her and I'd celebrate when she was able to get any sort of comfort from that pain.

Did anyone even read Tala's post?
Just because it is not how YOU would handle things doesn't mean it is not possible for someone else to handle things.
Usually when there is a tragedy, people respond by having sex..it's life-affirming.
It never ceases to amaze me how most men can easily separate sex and love, but those same men can't accept that some women can, as well.
Just let it be..if he was aware and encouraging of her bf, then who are any of us to say otherwise?

This thread is a joke (not a funny joke) to read, so many fools on GFY! - It's her life let her live the damn thing how she wants to. So she had sex & what? Get over it already.

and all these idiots with "I'm backing mrthumbs" go back to school already, lol

I think you would feel pretty much fucked and heartbroken.

Wow...

A two page thread just cause someone gets laid.

Men bring me their wives to get gang banged.
I fuck all the time. No Drama.

Are we not in the Adult Industry?

Judgemental pornographers?!?
Give me a fucking break!

Oh mr thumbs, I am not going to waste my time commenting on your comments :)

You posted a stupid thread about something that had nothing to do with you, none of your biz, etc.

For you I would just chalk it up to a lesson learned :)

Happy Holidays

Some people really need to learn when to mind their own business and shut the fuck up.

500% We have to catch up.

This thread is waaaay too personal. :2 cents:

with you on this one

No, I wouldn't. I'd be glad she found a release from the heartbreak, if only for a short time. Once you're dead you can't come back. If you truly love someone you'd never ever want them to feel pain. You'd want their pain to go away as quickly as possible.

I can't believe people can't see why this happens. It's completely normal, natural, and healthy. Ever heard of "rebound sex"? Example: rebounding off someone else when you've JUST broken up with someone you love? Do you think the same thing doesn't happen when the one you love dies? I think it's even more so when a death occurs because you know you can never get your lover back. I think I'd rebound hard. You probably would too. One can only sit around crying the blues for so long.

If you have really no idea where im coming from and why i felt the need to post this thread im happy i dont have the exciting life some of you seem to be having.

When it comes down to morals it is perfectly legit to question this behaviour.

No need to assault me like that.