I wouldnt have comfort sex 3 weeks after my better half died. And yes altough
im havent been there i can say ID NEVER DO THAT,

Reading replies like these lead me to 2 possible options:
A. im a complete retard not able to grasp the most essential basics of relationships and emotions.
or
B. people have no fucking clue what this thread is about.

I can honestly, without doubt, say that I would not be having sex with another woman within a week of the supposed "love of my life" dying. I don't have to be in that situation to know that.

Applicable to yourself...isn't it?

it was more like 1 week dude.

You all seem to have no idea what its like to loose a husband/wife.

After my father died my mother went out and had sex with people and you know what I dont hold it against her. she went from being with someone for years to being suddenly alone. And so a little human contact can make a person feel better, and feel not so alone even if its only for an hour.

Good for sara for doing what she needs, who are you to judge her emotional state after such a devistating event?


Sara didnt ask for people her to donate to her. And what makes you think that who ever she went out with has anything to do with her financial state?

I agree with you Mr. Thumbs.

I guess Sluts just heal quicker.

And if you knew Sarah, you'd know that she HAD a lover BEFORE her husband died, and he WAS CONSENTING about it... Suddenly that's supposed to change because her husband passed? She knows what, 2 or 3 people where she lives? I fail to see how how it's your business how she takes comfort? Her husband was already quite ill before he died, he didn't have life insurance.. Sarah could have gotten laid the day after her husband died, it wouldn't have changed the fact that he passed on and she was left with pretty much nothing. I think it's pretty fucking sick that you would make this a public thing when you simply could have asked Sarah yourself, she's open if you actually approach her. This whole thread makes me fucking sick.

Howso? I am not the one pointing fingers and making assumptions?

I guess morons just talk louder.

That is the definitive response.

A week later?

Hmm...I guess you fooled me.

Im getting back to reality.. really tried to be objective but with idiot replies like these its hard to put value to opinions from people that differ from mine.

Its not about whether it is acceptable to ahve a boyfriend while being in an open rel;ationship or whether its ok to have daily orgies with black men:
really.. all the power to Sarah.

Its about how she could be in the mood and do such a thing just weeks after
the 'love of her life" (not not a fuckfriend or a boyfriend) died!!!

:xomunch :xomunch :xomunch

But who are you to put a time limit or some kind of restriction on mourning? Everyone deals with things differently, deals with tragedy differently.. Sarah's husband was very ill before he died, and the eventuality had occured to her often, I'm sure, as she was pretty much taking care of his every single need. So you tell me, what is the proper amount of time she should have "waited"? A day? A week? A month? A year? Is she supposed to be unhappy and alone for her entire lifetime to suit you? All this high and mighty sanctimonious bullshit is just that, a steaming heap of BS. I'm pretty sure that humans don't come with manuals that say how everything is supposed to be, how long everything is supposed to take. When humans are perfect, the formula will add up, but until then, this thread and all the lameass comments in it with regards to Sarah's personal life are about as retarded as they can get. And low. Very very low.

I dont know if you are married but if i were your hubby id be very worried.

Theres no timeframe just that 'a few weeks' is too short. For real.

my first thought was that it's a pretty disrespectful thing to do to the husband, but I've never been in that kind of situation, so I'm not sure what I would do. Anyway, it's her business.

Ok, im out.

Frm a brief summary:

According to Girls of GFY: It is OK to have sex shortly after the death of a loved one.

According to Guys of GFY: Its dispicable to think a girl having sex shortly after is abhorrent and disrespectful.

Guys I think it is safe to say this really shows the differences of guys and girls. So guys do not think you are special or worth mourning after once your gone, your girl will be on the cock as soon as the dirt is thrown on your casket if your lucky!

So you can be unhappy and alone OR you can be sucking the cock. :food-smil

The only thing I see in this thread is the constant " I would have..."

People. Everyone is different. People go through things in their own special way. Deal with it.

This is a stupid, disgusting thread. for someone to go in and look at the respondants to the poll and then to pick on one of them is absolutely abhorrent. Get a real life and business.

I think it's safe to say alot of the women on this board do not reflect the general population of women in the "real" world. I'm sure that a whore (which most of the girls in this industry are, in a technical sense) and a normal everyday girl do not share the same moral codes and values.

I find this thread very insiteful. Even I am surprised at the perspective difference between men and women concerning the Grim Reaper.

It makes sense though. Sad but true.

I find it very insightful as well.

I do not think it makes a fuck all difference between Industry girls and non Industry girls.

Now I goto look up some Male/Female time to sex after loved ones death survey's...

i did not read the whole thread because of the typical childish responses but i can say that no where did i see one woman say it was ok to cock hop after a loved ones death. what i did see was people being told to mind their business. and these are the same people who, if in the same situation, would tell others to mind their business.

does the hypocrisy and double standards ever cease?

Seriously... what's wrong with people?
Why do you care if she got laid or not?
What you are really saying is: "I don't believe her husband died"

Feel like you money is wasted? Just post the amount and i'll donate the same amounty of money to any charity of your choice (after being verified by sextoyking or baddog)

Yes I am and why would he worry? I wouldn't ever expect him to put his life on hold for grief.. I would be disappointed if he didn't enjoy the life he had. I know he'd mourn me like I'd mourn him if I lost him, but to stop living if something like that happened would be to make the life we spent together meaningless.

He didnt put the limit, society and people with values did.
I dont want to make comparasions here, but you should think about it ... there's quite a few things that can put this situation into perspective.

I think it makes a BIG difference. Good or bad, someone who sells their body for money has a very different moral makeup than someone who doesn't.

Now I goto look at my wife and wonder how long till she gets on some ones cock when I die..

I am betting 15 minutes!

There were many women in this thread who said it was ok to cock hop after a loved ones death.

I must say that it is strange if the love of your life died not so long a go and you already have sex. I know we are all humans but....

I would hate to have a wife like you.
But that's your lifestyle, GL with it.

same here... I was really amazed to see that reply of hers before I saw this post, and I decided not to make a comment about this after all, but now I see someone else did.

How is that? Apparently just because a woman is in the industry they are no longer human? They turned into something less? Since when? And as for Sarah, she isn't content, she's an excellent sales rep and webmistress. I'm not quite sure how suddenly because she's in the industry, or any of us, for that matter, we're less than anyone else. I've seen some "Christian mothers" with shittier morals than some porn stars. Who are you to judge anyone? Are you perfect? Please, tell me how we can all attain your moral high ground!

The same could be said for yourself.

Hate to have a wife like me? Why? Because I wouldn't spend my life wasting away crying every second because I lost someone I love? I lost many people I've loved, including the first man I ever loved.. He died to a drunk driver. If I'd spent my life crying over his loss I wouldn't have my husband and three incredible children. Doesn't mean the pain of my loss doesn't still hurt me. It just means that life goes on, and what people do with their lives, if they aren't hurting anyone, is NOBODY's business but their own.

Where are you getting any of this from? All I said was that a women in porn and a woman that is not have two very different set of morals. You dispute this? Seems pretty obvious to me.