My Father-in-law called my 3 year old a ******! - GoFuckYourself.com

dougeetx · 11-22-2003, 09:13 AM

As you might or might not know, I'm a brotha married to a white lady. We have 6 kids together. Well, last night, my kids were at my father-in-law visiting and somehow or another, that old bastard came off and called my 3 year old daughter a ******! How the fuck do you explain to a 3 year old what a ****** is??? What the fuck do I do to him? I know that my kids are going to face all kinds of prejudices but for a 3 year old to have to face it so soon in life is just wrong! WHAT DO I DO????????????

myjah · 11-22-2003, 09:15 AM

and to have to face it from her grandfather is such a shame. Make sure you think before you act...you don't want to be a poor example to your daughter - she will have to live with namecalling her whole life. If it was my child, they would never see that man again. Period. That's so fucked up.
Make sure your daughter knows how beautiful she is and how much you love her and keep her away from assholes like that guy. Good Luck!

vicki · 11-22-2003, 09:15 AM

that is just plain WRONG!

Archie Bunker wouldn't even sink that low

unconnected · 11-22-2003, 09:17 AM

you kick some fucking ass man..
that is total bullshit.. I am sure there is something you could at least charge him with..

But your best bet, is take your wife, and your kids, and move so far away that that fucking peice of shit bigot never see's his daughter or his grandkids ever again and dies sad and alone..

people like that should just be taken out and shot.. The day I am looking forward to the most is when the last man/woman of that hateful ignorant generation dies, and the world can actually start moving on..

Stallion · 11-22-2003, 09:17 AM

pop a cap in that old man's ass..

In all seriousness. That is fucked up and I would have bitch slapped that old bastard if I was in your situation. That is just plain wrong. Did you talk to your wife about it, hopefully she is not ok with it as that is pretty serious. I would your kid over there were they can be subjected to such ignorance.

unconnected · 11-22-2003, 09:18 AM

watch Monster's Ball.. That guy had the right idea man..
NEVER forget this day, and when he gets to be 75 and senile, put him in an All Black old folks home, let him be surrounded by what his bigot ass hates the most..

Either that or send me his address and I will go and remove his racist fucking tongue myself

Forest · 11-22-2003, 09:19 AM

dude im white and IM OFFENDED

be more than happy to come kick his rascist ass for you

vicki · 11-22-2003, 09:20 AM

well personally I would ask for his side of the story ... or were you present when he said it? has he shown prejudice towards you in the past? Does he treat the children badly?
lots of questions here

perhaps its a silly misunderstanding ..... I mean I can't see you letting the children go around him if you knew he was a vocal bigot

good luck whatever you decide

Adulter · 11-22-2003, 09:22 AM

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If it was my child, they would never see that man again. Period. That's so fucked up.

Good luck, man

goBigtime · 11-22-2003, 09:22 AM

12 month grandchild ban minimum.

I wouldn't say lifetime ban.. because, well.. its Texas & he was probably raised that way. I'm sure he bites his tongue all day long. It's a programmed way of thinking.

I'm sure many parents get upset with their kids and call them something they don't really mean to call them.

He was just probably raised in a very prejudice family.

Just explain to him that the reason that his pappy and grandpappy felt that way was because of the penis envy that started with the original slave masters.

Pat him on the back and tell him not to worrry, that it's O.K. to not have the biggest dick in the world. (and then say under your breath) "Not that I would know anything about that".

Unfortunately, with 6 kids, you may or may not be able to ween yourself from the freedom that grandparents can bring

brizzad · 11-22-2003, 09:24 AM

dude.. you're a black guy.. just kick his ass

BRISK · 11-22-2003, 09:25 AM

This situation should definitely be resolved on Jerry Springer or Jenny Jones.

goBigtime · 11-22-2003, 09:28 AM

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Originally posted by BRISK
This situation should definitely be resolved on Jerry Springer or Jenny Jones.

Nah this is more of a Montel moment.

Forest · 11-22-2003, 09:31 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Just explain to him that the reason that his pappy and grandpappy felt that way was because of the penis envy that started with the original slave masters.

did ur parents have any children that lived?

justined · 11-22-2003, 09:33 AM

give him a fucking big slap and tell him to stay the hell away from ya' kids man, that is just so fucked up.

siccmade · 11-22-2003, 09:38 AM

throw a new years party in their house, and bring all the homies

CDSmith · 11-22-2003, 09:43 AM

Nevermind getting violent, that solves nothing. I would confront him and point-blank ask him what happened and what his deal is. If I didn't like the answer, I would tell him in no uncertain terms that he will never see his grandkids again in this lifetime should he ever open his racist hole like that. Then walk away.

If you do allow further visits, make sure you are there at all times. Leaving your kids with this kind of moron is not a wise idea anymore.

HeadPimp · 11-22-2003, 09:44 AM

Well, if it was my kid, I would have busted his nose, then made sure he never saw any of my kids again. But I am a vindictive evil bastard. If you are going to insult my family you had better be speaking the truth ie. call my mother a drunk. If not, then you had best be prepared to die. At three she isn't old enough to be getting called that.

brand0n · 11-22-2003, 09:45 AM

crack him in the head with the butt end of a pistol.

rooster · 11-22-2003, 09:45 AM

if my daugher married a black guy, id just disown her and never see her and then this type of problem woudlnt come up.

It sounds as this guy has actually been tollernt of this relationship, but saying that to the kid was a big slip up and not right. Not the kids fault.

BrentD · 11-22-2003, 09:46 AM

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Originally posted by Forest
dude im white and IM OFFENDED

be more than happy to come kick his rascist ass for you

Yeah, what he said

fun2cboys · 11-22-2003, 09:47 AM

hate and ignorance suck........

BRISK · 11-22-2003, 09:50 AM

Folks like that are always tryin to keep the black man down!

Just tell them "Fool, you best recognize a brotha and show some respect!"

CDSmith · 11-22-2003, 09:50 AM

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Originally posted by rooster
if my daugher married a black guy, id just disown her and never see her and then this type of problem woudlnt come up.

Man, it's just sad to see people still focus on the color of someone's skin rather than what's inside the person.

dougeetx · 11-22-2003, 10:00 AM

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Originally posted by vicki
well personally I would ask for his side of the story ... or were you present when he said it? has he shown prejudice towards you in the past? Does he treat the children badly?
lots of questions here

perhaps its a silly misunderstanding ..... I mean I can't see you letting the children go around him if you knew he was a vocal bigot

good luck whatever you decide

I wasn't there. I get woken up by my 3 year old asking me what a ****** is?? I ask her where she got that from and she says Paw Paw called her that. I asked her why he called her that. She said she was playing in the house and he told her to stop that you little ******. Then, she asks me again what a ****** is? I told her that I would explain it later. At 3, SHE WON'T FORGET HER QUESTION! So, later on today, she'll ask me again and I need to have an answer for her. I can't go with the traditional "It's someone stupid and ignorant." b/c then her little feelings will be hurt and she'll start thinking she's stupid and ignorant. As most of you know that have been around on this board very much, I have a short temper. I feel like drop kicking him or something like that but the dude is in his 60s and I would probably end up killing him if I did that. Any suggestions on what I should tell her to explain what a ****** is?

steffie · 11-22-2003, 10:00 AM

You have 6 kids so your respectivly older than 21 and have a bit more brain.. and are a bit mature,, here is what I would do
But than of course you could also do what every other looney toon just told you.

First talk to your daughter, she is 3 so she propably doesn't understand half of it. Explain her that in the 1950's when pop pop was growing up it was common to call people of brown skin niger - nigra - negro - ****** - etc.. That he still loves her and that he was propably mad about something. That some african american's will call each other ****** as a act of brother hood, but when a white person calls an african american that word its bad. Tell her that you will ask Grandpa why he said that

And leave it at that - Within 2 short hours your kid will forget it ever happend.

Than call your father in law - calmly -
Tell him - Dad, we need to talk in person - Don't do it over the phone.

When you get together with him, ask him why he said it, tell him you had to sit down and explain her the history of the word ****** and that you and his daughter are hurt by the fact he would call his grand daughter a ******.

Let him explain it. Always keep in mind that you have 6 kids, you have one grandpa. He might not be perfect, he might grew up in a different time and it might slipped out by accident. It's not an excuse, but going on the board and screaming about it is no answer.

We are not living your life, you only can. You have to deal with him every day, so you need to be mature enough to talk to him calmly.

Thats what I would do, however I am quite a bit older and I also have 6 kids, so my patience is a lot bigger than other peoples and a lot more forgiving when it comes to certain things

Phoenix · 11-22-2003, 10:01 AM

damn..racism is everywhere it is really sad to see people carry that much hatred around with them anywhere.

Advice? couldnt really say never been in those shoes..not really...well...my girls parents would die if they found out she was dating a white guy...but that doesn't really bother me.

I think ya, a private calm conversation with him. And yeah i think you'd need to keep an eye on him around your kids for sure.

Never know what he would be telling them out of ear shot.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 11-22-2003, 10:02 AM

Hmmmmmm on a light note.. teach her to call him granpa honky cracker

still fucked up.. would have kicked his ass for sure

KingK7 · 11-22-2003, 10:03 AM

He called his grandson a ******?

Thats gotta be one of the most fucked up things I have heard.

Forest · 11-22-2003, 10:07 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
Hmmmmmm on a light note.. teach her to call him granpa honky cracker

thats fucking stupid even as a joke

Forest · 11-22-2003, 10:10 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime
12 month grandchild ban minimum.

Just explain to him that the reason that his pappy and grandpappy felt that way was because of the penis envy that started with the original slave masters.

just as i thought

MeatHead

dead from the neck up

nap · 11-22-2003, 10:10 AM

fucked up situation but you really should have been prepared for something like this from her family

ChumpChange · 11-22-2003, 10:11 AM

lol, what did you expect...that's some cold shit, but welcome to the real world

chemicaleyes · 11-22-2003, 10:12 AM

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Originally posted by myjah
and to have to face it from her grandfather is such a shame. Make sure you think before you act...you don't want to be a poor example to your daughter - she will have to live with namecalling her whole life. If it was my child, they would never see that man again. Period. That's so fucked up.
Make sure your daughter knows how beautiful she is and how much you love her and keep her away from assholes like that guy. Good Luck!

good advice

ChumpChange · 11-22-2003, 10:15 AM

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Originally posted by rooster
if my daugher married a black guy, id just disown her and never see her and then this type of problem woudlnt come up.

It sounds as this guy has actually been tollernt of this relationship, but saying that to the kid was a big slip up and not right. Not the kids fault.

What if your daughter married a white dude to please you,but on the side take black dick in all holes and you just happened to promote one of the sites that she was on.

What you do, take the revshare or PPS?

Carrie · 11-22-2003, 10:15 AM

You're in a bad spot.
If you tell her it's nothing bad, then she might start calling everyone a ******. The kids she plays with etc. Then again she might just forget the whole thing.
If you tell her it *is* something bad, then her feelings will be hurt and you can bet the next time she's hurt and angry at someone she'll stomp that little foot and scream out that they're a ******.

Maybe you could try telling her he said "knicker" which is something lacy and pretty, and tell her he must've been saying it wrong because of his accent.

KingK7 · 11-22-2003, 10:17 AM

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Originally posted by ChumpChange

What if your daughter married a white dude to please you,but on the side take black dick in all holes and you just happened to promote one of the sites that she was on.

What you do, take the revshare or PPS?

chemicaleyes · 11-22-2003, 10:19 AM

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Originally posted by ChumpChange

What if your daughter married a white dude to please you,but on the side take black dick in all holes and you just happened to promote one of the sites that she was on.

What you do, take the revshare or PPS?

that's to fucking funny hahaaahaha

triumph · 11-22-2003, 10:21 AM

fuck that old prejudice basterd. You should cut your ties with him and make him regret saying that, and have his ass apologise

Ad3pt · 11-22-2003, 10:32 AM

I' d tell that old fuck that when his time comes he's going straight to the old folks home, don't pass 'go', don't collect $200. Some of my family was like that growing up. For that sack of shit to say that to a 3 yr old gets me steamed. Tell that fucker to check for a dick and balls because he's obviously a pussy.

Greg B · 11-22-2003, 12:07 PM

Avoid the rush, tell her the truth.

Ask him and your mother in law and your wife and all family members ta sit down and confront him with it.

Let him know how you feel and see how the rest of the family responds. Try not to cause a schism between bloo kin but you now must take the high ground and discipline the grandfather in FRONT of your kids with family present to show that th family unit as a whole, no matter how young or old must be hed accountab for their actions. This will show the kids that rank in the collective group is established by good deeds and respect and responsibility.

That way the kids will realize that parents and grandparents make boo boos too and say bad words. Once that's done have a " Boo Boo Bad Word Party " with a cake and grandpa can only have a piece if he takes responsibility and asks forgiveness. Then when that is done have the 3 year old cut the cake and give grandpa his piece.

(Make sure it's a butter knife or you may have to sew alot of people up )

Ironhorse · 11-22-2003, 12:13 PM

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Originally posted by BRISK
This situation should definitely be resolved on Jerry Springer or Jenny Jones.

Yes this sounds like a Jerry Springer comes to the rescue story.

But seriously that's fucked up. At the very least he should get a sit down chat and you and your lady should take steps to remove this negative influence or at the least restrict his access to our kids.

dirtyone · 11-22-2003, 12:19 PM

What does your wife say about all of this?

pamphage · 11-22-2003, 12:21 PM

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Originally posted by BRISK
Folks like that are always tryin to keep the black man down!

Just tell them "Fool, you best recognize a brotha and show some respect!"

funny shit

SuicideMachine · 11-22-2003, 12:22 PM

bust a cap already.

Ic3m4nZ · 11-22-2003, 12:25 PM

6 kids

that's way too much.

rdunn404 · 11-22-2003, 12:26 PM

You need to OJ his old ass.

CDSmith · 11-22-2003, 12:27 PM

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Originally posted by dirtyone
What does your wife say about all of this?

Good question. To me this is serious shit, I have no tolerance whatsoever for this sort of ignorance. I would consider going out and finding a nice homeless man and paying him to stand in as my daughter's "new gampa".

Kick the old racist gampa to the curb.

alias · 11-22-2003, 12:30 PM

0wn3d like a sl4v3

Serge_Oprano · 11-22-2003, 12:30 PM

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Originally posted by dougeetx
As you might or might not know, I'm a brotha married to a white lady. We have 6 kids together. Well, last night, my kids were at my father-in-law visiting and somehow or another, that old bastard came off and called my 3 year old daughter a ******! How the fuck do you explain to a 3 year old what a ****** is??? What the fuck do I do to him? I know that my kids are going to face all kinds of prejudices but for a 3 year old to have to face it so soon in life is just wrong! WHAT DO I DO????????????

tell your father in law Serge said he is a MORON

11-22-2003, 09:13 AM	#1
dougeetx Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 6,163	My Father-in-law called my 3 year old a **! As you might or might not know, I'm a brotha married to a white lady. We have 6 kids together. Well, last night, my kids were at my father-in-law visiting and somehow or another, that old bastard came off and called my 3 year old daughter a ****! How the fuck do you explain to a 3 year old what a **** is??? What the fuck do I do to him? I know that my kids are going to face all kinds of prejudices but for a 3 year old to have to face it so soon in life is just wrong! WHAT DO I DO???????????? __________________ Coming Soon! A NEW revolution in black adult social networking!

11-22-2003, 09:15 AM	#2
myjah Back in the harbor Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 11,482	and to have to face it from her grandfather is such a shame. Make sure you think before you act...you don't want to be a poor example to your daughter - she will have to live with namecalling her whole life. If it was my child, they would never see that man again. Period. That's so fucked up. Make sure your daughter knows how beautiful she is and how much you love her and keep her away from assholes like that guy. Good Luck! __________________ VP of Marketing AVN Media Network Skype: AVNJill [email protected]

11-22-2003, 09:15 AM	#3
vicki Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Deep in the heart o' Texas Posts: 1,478	that is just plain WRONG! Archie Bunker wouldn't even sink that low __________________ If at first you do succeed - try to hide your astonishment. HR merchant accounts from 3.45% solid biz since 98 victoriakozub AT gmail.com skype: victoria.kozub \| ICQ: 74296746

11-22-2003, 09:17 AM	#4
unconnected Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,025	you kick some fucking ass man.. that is total bullshit.. I am sure there is something you could at least charge him with.. But your best bet, is take your wife, and your kids, and move so far away that that fucking peice of shit bigot never see's his daughter or his grandkids ever again and dies sad and alone.. people like that should just be taken out and shot.. The day I am looking forward to the most is when the last man/woman of that hateful ignorant generation dies, and the world can actually start moving on.. __________________ "Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music." Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989

11-22-2003, 09:18 AM	#6
unconnected Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,025	watch Monster's Ball.. That guy had the right idea man.. NEVER forget this day, and when he gets to be 75 and senile, put him in an All Black old folks home, let him be surrounded by what his bigot ass hates the most.. Either that or send me his address and I will go and remove his racist fucking tongue myself __________________ "Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music." Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989

11-22-2003, 09:17 AM	#5
Stallion Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: FL Posts: 6,632	pop a cap in that old man's ass.. In all seriousness. That is fucked up and I would have bitch slapped that old bastard if I was in your situation. That is just plain wrong. Did you talk to your wife about it, hopefully she is not ok with it as that is pretty serious. I would your kid over there were they can be subjected to such ignorance.

11-22-2003, 09:19 AM	#7
Forest Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Hollywood Fl. Posts: 8,988	dude im white and IM OFFENDED be more than happy to come kick his rascist ass for you

11-22-2003, 09:20 AM	#8
vicki Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Deep in the heart o' Texas Posts: 1,478	well personally I would ask for his side of the story ... or were you present when he said it? has he shown prejudice towards you in the past? Does he treat the children badly? lots of questions here perhaps its a silly misunderstanding ..... I mean I can't see you letting the children go around him if you knew he was a vocal bigot good luck whatever you decide __________________ If at first you do succeed - try to hide your astonishment. HR merchant accounts from 3.45% solid biz since 98 victoriakozub AT gmail.com skype: victoria.kozub \| ICQ: 74296746

11-22-2003, 09:22 AM	#10
goBigtime Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,761	12 month grandchild ban minimum. I wouldn't say lifetime ban.. because, well.. its Texas & he was probably raised that way. I'm sure he bites his tongue all day long. It's a programmed way of thinking. I'm sure many parents get upset with their kids and call them something they don't really mean to call them. He was just probably raised in a very prejudice family. Just explain to him that the reason that his pappy and grandpappy felt that way was because of the penis envy that started with the original slave masters. Pat him on the back and tell him not to worrry, that it's O.K. to not have the biggest dick in the world. (and then say under your breath) "Not that I would know anything about that". Unfortunately, with 6 kids, you may or may not be able to ween yourself from the freedom that grandparents can bring

11-22-2003, 09:24 AM	#11
brizzad holla Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: KFC Posts: 11,769	dude.. you're a black guy.. just kick his ass

11-22-2003, 09:25 AM	#12
BRISK Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,240	This situation should definitely be resolved on Jerry Springer or Jenny Jones. __________________ I post on GFY so that when people ask me what I do, I can tell them that I work with the mentally retarded.

11-22-2003, 09:33 AM	#15
justined Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 169	give him a fucking big slap and tell him to stay the hell away from ya' kids man, that is just so fucked up. __________________ People are more violently opposed to fur than leather because it's safer to harass rich women than motorcycle gangs.

11-22-2003, 09:38 AM	#16
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11-22-2003, 09:43 AM	#17
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11-22-2003, 09:44 AM	#18
HeadPimp Bad Mo-Fo Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 2,772	Well, if it was my kid, I would have busted his nose, then made sure he never saw any of my kids again. But I am a vindictive evil bastard. If you are going to insult my family you had better be speaking the truth ie. call my mother a drunk. If not, then you had best be prepared to die. At three she isn't old enough to be getting called that.

11-22-2003, 09:45 AM	#19
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11-22-2003, 09:45 AM	#20
rooster Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 2,384	if my daugher married a black guy, id just disown her and never see her and then this type of problem woudlnt come up. It sounds as this guy has actually been tollernt of this relationship, but saying that to the kid was a big slip up and not right. Not the kids fault.

11-22-2003, 09:47 AM	#22
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11-22-2003, 09:50 AM	#23
BRISK Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,240	Folks like that are always tryin to keep the black man down! Just tell them "Fool, you best recognize a brotha and show some respect!" __________________ I post on GFY so that when people ask me what I do, I can tell them that I work with the mentally retarded.

11-22-2003, 10:00 AM	#26
steffie Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Somewhere in the Mountains, far far away Posts: 2,422	You have 6 kids so your respectivly older than 21 and have a bit more brain.. and are a bit mature,, here is what I would do But than of course you could also do what every other looney toon just told you. First talk to your daughter, she is 3 so she propably doesn't understand half of it. Explain her that in the 1950's when pop pop was growing up it was common to call people of brown skin niger - nigra - negro - **** - etc.. That he still loves her and that he was propably mad about something. That some african american's will call each other ** as a act of brother hood, but when a white person calls an african american that word its bad. Tell her that you will ask Grandpa why he said that And leave it at that - Within 2 short hours your kid will forget it ever happend. Than call your father in law - calmly - Tell him - Dad, we need to talk in person - Don't do it over the phone. When you get together with him, ask him why he said it, tell him you had to sit down and explain her the history of the word ** and that you and his daughter are hurt by the fact he would call his grand daughter a ****. Let him explain it. Always keep in mind that you have 6 kids, you have one grandpa. He might not be perfect, he might grew up in a different time and it might slipped out by accident. It's not an excuse, but going on the board and screaming about it is no answer. We are not living your life, you only can. You have to deal with him every day, so you need to be mature enough to talk to him calmly. Thats what I would do, however I am quite a bit older and I also have 6 kids, so my patience is a lot bigger than other peoples and a lot more forgiving when it comes to certain things __________________ Partying since '96 and not going anywhere Anna's Dorm

11-22-2003, 10:01 AM	#27
Phoenix BACON BACON BACON Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Poems everybody, the laddie fancies himself a poet Posts: 35,462	damn..racism is everywhere it is really sad to see people carry that much hatred around with them anywhere. Advice? couldnt really say never been in those shoes..not really...well...my girls parents would die if they found out she was dating a white guy...but that doesn't really bother me. I think ya, a private calm conversation with him. And yeah i think you'd need to keep an eye on him around your kids for sure. Never know what he would be telling them out of ear shot. __________________ Skype Phoenixskype1 Telegram PhoenixBrad https://quantads.io

11-22-2003, 10:02 AM	#28
C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	Hmmmmmm on a light note.. teach her to call him granpa honky cracker still fucked up.. would have kicked his ass for sure

11-22-2003, 10:03 AM	#29
KingK7 Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 6,372	He called his grandson a ******? Thats gotta be one of the most fucked up things I have heard.

11-22-2003, 10:10 AM	#32
nap Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: midwest Posts: 2,765	fucked up situation but you really should have been prepared for something like this from her family

11-22-2003, 10:11 AM	#33
ChumpChange Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 329	lol, what did you expect...that's some cold shit, but welcome to the real world

11-22-2003, 10:15 AM	#36
Carrie Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Virgin - nee Posts: 3,162	You're in a bad spot. If you tell her it's nothing bad, then she might start calling everyone a *****. The kids she plays with etc. Then again she might just forget the whole thing. If you tell her it is* something bad, then her feelings will be hurt and you can bet the next time she's hurt and angry at someone she'll stomp that little foot and scream out that they're a ******. Maybe you could try telling her he said "knicker" which is something lacy and pretty, and tell her he must've been saying it wrong because of his accent.

11-22-2003, 10:21 AM	#39
triumph Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 3,433	fuck that old prejudice basterd. You should cut your ties with him and make him regret saying that, and have his ass apologise

11-22-2003, 10:32 AM	#40
Ad3pt Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: California Posts: 476	I' d tell that old fuck that when his time comes he's going straight to the old folks home, don't pass 'go', don't collect $200. Some of my family was like that growing up. For that sack of shit to say that to a 3 yr old gets me steamed. Tell that fucker to check for a dick and balls because he's obviously a pussy. __________________ Don't look here for the joke. It's in your pants. South O - World Class surfer destination since 2001.

11-22-2003, 12:07 PM	#41
Greg B So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: EARTH (for the time being) Posts: 7,014	Avoid the rush, tell her the truth. Ask him and your mother in law and your wife and all family members ta sit down and confront him with it. Let him know how you feel and see how the rest of the family responds. Try not to cause a schism between bloo kin but you now must take the high ground and discipline the grandfather in FRONT of your kids with family present to show that th family unit as a whole, no matter how young or old must be hed accountab for their actions. This will show the kids that rank in the collective group is established by good deeds and respect and responsibility. That way the kids will realize that parents and grandparents make boo boos too and say bad words. Once that's done have a " Boo Boo Bad Word Party " with a cake and grandpa can only have a piece if he takes responsibility and asks forgiveness. Then when that is done have the 3 year old cut the cake and give grandpa his piece. (Make sure it's a butter knife or you may have to sew alot of people up )

11-22-2003, 12:19 PM	#43
dirtyone Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: God's Country (Georgia) Posts: 3,706	What does your wife say about all of this?

11-22-2003, 12:22 PM	#45
SuicideMachine Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: los angeles Posts: 1,141	bust a cap already.

11-22-2003, 12:25 PM	#46
Ic3m4nZ Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Montreal! Posts: 6,285	6 kids that's way too much.

11-22-2003, 12:26 PM	#47
rdunn404 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 999	You need to OJ his old ass.

11-22-2003, 12:30 PM	#49
alias aliasx Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 19,010	0wn3d like a sl4v3