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Originally posted by vicki
well personally I would ask for his side of the story ... or were you present when he said it? has he shown prejudice towards you in the past? Does he treat the children badly?
lots of questions here
perhaps its a silly misunderstanding ..... I mean I can't see you letting the children go around him if you knew he was a vocal bigot
good luck whatever you decide
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I wasn't there. I get woken up by my 3 year old asking me what a ****** is?? I ask her where she got that from and she says Paw Paw called her that. I asked her why he called her that. She said she was playing in the house and he told her to stop that you little ******. Then, she asks me again what a ****** is? I told her that I would explain it later. At 3, SHE WON'T FORGET HER QUESTION! So, later on today, she'll ask me again and I need to have an answer for her. I can't go with the traditional "It's someone stupid and ignorant." b/c then her little feelings will be hurt and she'll start thinking she's stupid and ignorant. As most of you know that have been around on this board very much, I have a short temper. I feel like drop kicking him or something like that but the dude is in his 60s and I would probably end up killing him if I did that. Any suggestions on what I should tell her to explain what a ****** is?