12 month grandchild ban minimum.
I wouldn't say lifetime ban.. because, well.. its Texas & he was probably raised that way. I'm sure he bites his tongue all day long. It's a programmed way of thinking.
I'm sure many parents get upset with their kids and call them something they don't really mean to call them.
He was just probably raised in a very prejudice family.
Just explain to him that the reason that his pappy and grandpappy felt that way was because of the penis envy that started with the original slave masters.
Pat him on the back and tell him not to worrry, that it's O.K. to not have the biggest dick in the world. (and then say under your breath) "Not that I would know anything about that".
Unfortunately, with 6 kids, you may or may not be able to ween yourself from the freedom that grandparents can bring
