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Men, it's not a compliment to women when you hit on us...
I don't think it's a compliment when a man hits on a woman because I'm aware of the fact that for most men it's only a numbers game; they assume that if they hit up 20 chicks at least one will give him her number (or whatever their personal ratio is), so you are basically just "one of the numbers", it doesn't mean you're anything special at all.
So why should women even be flattered if a guy looks at them or asks for their number, cause fact is that most guys will look at every woman who is remotely attractive.. How is this supposed to be flattering? I think it might even be insulting because the man is assuming that the woman will actually feel flattered when he hits on her, while for him it's only a numbers game. It's insulting the woman's intelligence because he is assuming she won't recognize his game. What are your thoughts on this? |
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you think too much
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Congrats you worked it out.
Another note to men, stop caring so much what most women want - they tend to rate themselves too highly. If she won't fuck you, or gives you attitude when you approach tell her to fuck off and move quickly along to the next one. Remember, it's a numbers game. |
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1. your asking gfy this?
2. I guess your not the 1 out of the 20 then.
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Did you think this out before posting it?
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Let slip the dogs of war.
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Maybe if men out there wanted you to feel complimented, they would actually pay you a compliment. Maybe when they're "hitting" on you it's not so much they're trying to compliment you but more they're trying to establish a connection, line of communication, common interest, something.
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No one likes rejection - no matter how plastic the initial attempt might or might not be.
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Don't get mad when men hit on you, get mad when they stop. There a millions of unattractive women that never get hit on, do you want to trade places with them?
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stereotyping sucks
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while we're on the subject, when a guy hits on a girl at a bar and offers to buy her a drink. Why the fuck does she always order one of them multi-color umbrella fuckers that cost 20 bucks? Is that part of the insult? Just wondering...
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If you responded with this attitude when someone first interacts with you then why would they want to continue talking to you? I don't talk to girls with the intention of flattering them right off the bat. That comes later. The whole point is to open communication... get something going. Yeah, so what if I talk to you and 20 other girls. My aim is not to get laid (that's secondary). My aim is to interact. If the interaction sucks with you, then yeah, move on to another conversation (could even ben other guys). If it's great with you.. bingo.. keep on talking and see what kind of person you are and where the conversation leads. |
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If I want your number - I'll just hand you my phone and TELL YOU to get creative with it.
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To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back. Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert. |
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No. What do you owe me? Mail it of forget it. I'm a lover not a fighter.
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Nigga please...
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you're female, what would you know about picking up women? ;)
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![]() how about the women who just talk to men to get free drinks? they have a 50/50 chance imo AT LEAST (as long as you are "somewhat" attractive) to get a man to buy you a drink. please, get off your high horse... just because a guy talks to you does not always mean he is playing you for a hookup. maybe some guy actually wants to talk to you for you and get to know you as a person rather than get down your pants. I have plenty of friends who actually talk to girls to get to know them, not to get a number. im not saying all men are like this because some of them really could care less about you and more about getting down your pants either way looks like you got shot down tonight and have a hate towards men
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Studied correctly, women can become beter pick-up artists than men. They arent crippled by "need" like most men are. Which can hinder ambition... until they see the money in it. MONEY IN IT you say??? The most valuable comodoty in our business is beautiful women. We should all be or become experts at them. Don't hate!!!
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bausch is obviously an expert, she's read the necessary material.
You'll never fully understand us, or our motives. You possess a female brain. |
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I never publicly show interest in anyone. No, I started this thread because I get annoyed when men try and talk to me or be nice to me, I know they have ulterior motives, therefore I do not even talk back and cut them off immediately because I know to them it's only a game. |
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All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?
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This is why I love living in Czech. Here is you flirt with a girl she's flattered. She's not thinking you're doing anything wrong, it's just a game men and woman play.
bausch if you think the only reason a guy will come over to you in a bar and talk to you is because it's a numbers game, that says more about what you think of yourself than men. Get a life girl, flirting is a game. It's natural and normal. Remove the tent pole they stuck up your ass at 12 and stop thinking men are the enemy. I'm assuming it's friendly flirting. Difference between Czech, English and Czech girls. Flirt with a Czech girl and she's confident enough to know it's a compliment. Flirt with an English girl and she'll tell you to fuck off. Flirt with an American girl and she'll phone her lawyer claiming sexual harassment. ![]() |
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![]() whatever tho. point being is not all guys are like that. i dont go around saying that every girl is a money hungry whore who stops putting out and starts sleeping around the minute i dont buy her some expensive gift... although ive found that to be true in the past, i know there are nice women out there. so what really happened that caused all this anger that you have toward us men?
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My first post was more of a joke, but honestly that is a pretty stupid hollywood fed stereotype. I'd say younger guys, sure that's a lot of it. But certainly as guys get older (and a lot of guys in general) really like having a relationship with a person they like to be around, get along with, etc. Most men aren't as easily led around by their cock as most women think. But if your hanging out in a night club and a guy is on the drink and looking for a good night? Well than you are closer to the truth, otherwise you're really not.
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By the way... she needs to buy me a drink... I'm the fuckin prize. But, I don't drink... and stop flirting with me lest I whip my lawyer out. |
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I make women come to me. Much more effective.
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What a loser.
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I don't have hatred towards men. The world revolves around sex. There is nothing wrong what that, it is what it is. Would most people be as motivated to become financially successful if it were not for the rewards of pussy? Most men are driven with the pursuit of pussy, especially variety in pussy. Who would want to fuck the same pussy over and over again when there are so many varieties to try? I don't have hatred towards men anyone but I refuse to have someone win in their conquest game over me. I could care less if they fuck 100 girls, but they will not win their game with me. If I were foolish enough to fall for their "techniques" then that means that they have won "the game." I would rather remain alone forever and be celibate than have someone win "the game" with me. |
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Well, if you are treating it like a game, and not receptive to conversation, people will assume that you are not accustomed to men approaching you like that, and, perhaps, it's not flattery but novelty that you are experiencing. For what it's worth, jerks are typically drawn to the aloof girl, because they think that she will be easier, or will be the sort of challenge they are hoping for. Take a deep breath and just have fun when you are out. |
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personally, i would much rather be with someone who is cool and that i share common stuff in, rather than someone that is "hot." ive dated a two girls both long term who people and friends would tell me they are hot, but in reality, it was only looks and 6 months past that, things were increadibly boring. regardless, i think you need a date with this guy.. ![]() proclaimed "Master Pickup Artist" ![]()
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I don't go out to clubs/bars ever, I'm talking about going somewhere when I absolutely have to, such as going to the store to buy something (usually I buy on-line to avoid situations like this but there are times when I need an item right away). |
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