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Originally Posted by bausch
Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.
To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.
Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.
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Well, if you are treating it like a game, and not receptive to conversation, people will assume that you are not accustomed to men approaching you like that, and, perhaps, it's not flattery but novelty that you are experiencing.
For what it's worth, jerks are typically drawn to the aloof girl, because they think that she will be easier, or will be the sort of challenge they are hoping for.
Take a deep breath and just have fun when you are out.