Originally Posted by Kevin-SFBucks

It's not a numbers game while you are in the moment. It's a 1 on 1 chance. You are not thinking "oh what the hell, I can pass her up for the next one". The intent is to hopefully have that connection work out as it's happening.

If you responded with this attitude when someone first interacts with you then why would they want to continue talking to you?

I don't talk to girls with the intention of flattering them right off the bat. That comes later. The whole point is to open communication... get something going. Yeah, so what if I talk to you and 20 other girls. My aim is not to get laid (that's secondary). My aim is to interact. If the interaction sucks with you, then yeah, move on to another conversation (could even ben other guys). If it's great with you.. bingo.. keep on talking and see what kind of person you are and where the conversation leads.

Originally Posted by bausch

Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.

To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.

Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.