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  • bausch
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    • Jul 2006
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    #1

    Men, it's not a compliment to women when you hit on us...

    I don't think it's a compliment when a man hits on a woman because I'm aware of the fact that for most men it's only a numbers game; they assume that if they hit up 20 chicks at least one will give him her number (or whatever their personal ratio is), so you are basically just "one of the numbers", it doesn't mean you're anything special at all.

    So why should women even be flattered if a guy looks at them or asks for their number, cause fact is that most guys will look at every woman who is remotely attractive.. How is this supposed to be flattering?

    I think it might even be insulting because the man is assuming that the woman will actually feel flattered when he hits on her, while for him it's only a numbers game. It's insulting the woman's intelligence because he is assuming she won't recognize his game.

    What are your thoughts on this?
    Last edited by bausch; 12-20-2007, 09:28 PM.
  • Mutt
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    #2
    you think too much
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    • Odin
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      #3
      Congrats you worked it out.

      Another note to men, stop caring so much what most women want - they tend to rate themselves too highly. If she won't fuck you, or gives you attitude when you approach tell her to fuck off and move quickly along to the next one. Remember, it's a numbers game.
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      • bausch
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        #4
        Originally posted by Chief
        Congrats you worked it out.

        Another note to men, stop caring so much what most women want - they tend to rate themselves too highly. If she won't fuck you, or gives you attitude when you approach tell her to fuck off and move quickly along to the next one. Remember, it's a numbers game.
        It's a numbers game for women too, if the guy gives her an attitude she can also tell him to fuck off and move along to the next one...

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        • bDok
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          #5
          1. your asking gfy this?
          2. I guess your not the 1 out of the 20 then.
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          • WarChild
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            • Jan 2003
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            #6
            Originally posted by bausch
            I think it might even be insulting because the man is assuming that the woman will actually feel flattered when he hits on her, while for him it's only a numbers game.
            Originally posted by bausch
            It's a numbers game for women too
            So basically your premise is that both men and women act foolishly?

            Did you think this out before posting it?
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            • bausch
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              #7
              Originally posted by bDok
              1. your asking gfy this?
              2. I guess your not the 1 out of the 20 then.
              I am not asking for anything. I am TELLING the men out there that I do not consider it a compliment. Just to get it out of my system. I feel better now.

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              • WarChild
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                • Jan 2003
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                #8
                Maybe if men out there wanted you to feel complimented, they would actually pay you a compliment. Maybe when they're "hitting" on you it's not so much they're trying to compliment you but more they're trying to establish a connection, line of communication, common interest, something.
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                • bausch
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                  #9
                  Originally posted by WarChild
                  Maybe if men out there wanted you to feel complimented, they would actually pay you a compliment. Maybe when they're "hitting" on you it's not so much they're trying to compliment you but more they're trying to establish a connection, line of communication, common interest, something.
                  Yes, but it is still not flattering because the men are assuming that if they try to establish that connection with enough women than eventually one will give in, it's still a numbers game to most men... A lot of men are trying to establish that connection with numerous women simultaneously.

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                  • D
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                    #10
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                    • DBS.US
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                      • Aug 2003
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                      #11
                      Don't get mad when men hit on you, get mad when they stop. There a millions of unattractive women that never get hit on, do you want to trade places with them?
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                      • bausch
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by DBS.US
                        Don't get mad when men hit on you, get mad when they stop. There a millions of unattractive women that never get hit on, do you want to trade places with them?
                        I would much rather trade places with a man. I have penis envy.

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                        • Violetta
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                          #13
                          americans...
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                          • MicDoohan
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                            #14
                            stereotyping sucks

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                            • the content guy
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                              #15
                              while we're on the subject, when a guy hits on a girl at a bar and offers to buy her a drink. Why the fuck does she always order one of them multi-color umbrella fuckers that cost 20 bucks? Is that part of the insult? Just wondering...
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                              • Kevin Marx
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by bausch
                                Yes, but it is still not flattering because the men are assuming that if they try to establish that connection with enough women than eventually one will give in, it's still a numbers game to most men... A lot of men are trying to establish that connection with numerous women simultaneously.
                                It's not a numbers game while you are in the moment. It's a 1 on 1 chance. You are not thinking "oh what the hell, I can pass her up for the next one". The intent is to hopefully have that connection work out as it's happening.

                                If you responded with this attitude when someone first interacts with you then why would they want to continue talking to you?

                                I don't talk to girls with the intention of flattering them right off the bat. That comes later. The whole point is to open communication... get something going. Yeah, so what if I talk to you and 20 other girls. My aim is not to get laid (that's secondary). My aim is to interact. If the interaction sucks with you, then yeah, move on to another conversation (could even ben other guys). If it's great with you.. bingo.. keep on talking and see what kind of person you are and where the conversation leads.
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                                • Kevin Marx
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by bausch
                                  I would much rather trade places with a man. I have penis envy.
                                  try using a strapon...
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                                  • Peter Romero
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                                    • Feb 2003
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                                    #18
                                    If I want your number - I'll just hand you my phone and TELL YOU to get creative with it.


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                                    • bausch
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Kevin-SFBucks
                                      It's not a numbers game while you are in the moment. It's a 1 on 1 chance. You are not thinking "oh what the hell, I can pass her up for the next one". The intent is to hopefully have that connection work out as it's happening.

                                      If you responded with this attitude when someone first interacts with you then why would they want to continue talking to you?

                                      I don't talk to girls with the intention of flattering them right off the bat. That comes later. The whole point is to open communication... get something going. Yeah, so what if I talk to you and 20 other girls. My aim is not to get laid (that's secondary). My aim is to interact. If the interaction sucks with you, then yeah, move on to another conversation (could even ben other guys). If it's great with you.. bingo.. keep on talking and see what kind of person you are and where the conversation leads.
                                      Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.

                                      To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.

                                      Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.
                                      Last edited by bausch; 12-20-2007, 10:27 PM.

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                                      • Sebastian Sands
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Peter Romero
                                        If I want your number - I'll just hand you my phone and TELL YOU to get creative with it.
                                        Well aren't you the shizznit

                                        You going to AVN? I still owe you something....

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                                        • Peter Romero
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                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by bausch
                                          Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.

                                          To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.

                                          Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring, kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.
                                          Try David D's www.doubleyourdating.com - "The Game" is a really good one too.


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                                          • Peter Romero
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Sebastian Sands
                                            Well aren't you the shizznit

                                            You going to AVN? I still owe you something....
                                            No. What do you owe me? Mail it of forget it. I'm a lover not a fighter.


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                                            • Sebastian Sands
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by Peter Romero
                                              I'm a lover not a fighter.
                                              Oh, is that so.. ?

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                                              • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Kevin-SFBucks
                                                It's not a numbers game while you are in the moment. It's a 1 on 1 chance. You are not thinking "oh what the hell, I can pass her up for the next one". The intent is to hopefully have that connection work out as it's happening.

                                                If you responded with this attitude when someone first interacts with you then why would they want to continue talking to you?

                                                I don't talk to girls with the intention of flattering them right off the bat. That comes later. The whole point is to open communication... get something going. Yeah, so what if I talk to you and 20 other girls. My aim is not to get laid (that's secondary). My aim is to interact. If the interaction sucks with you, then yeah, move on to another conversation (could even ben other guys). If it's great with you.. bingo.. keep on talking and see what kind of person you are and where the conversation leads.
                                                Originally posted by bausch
                                                Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.

                                                To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.

                                                Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.
                                                Good rap Kevin, she fell for it - the pseudo-intellectual ones are the easiest to nail once you know how to play them...

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                                                • bausch
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                                                  Good rap Kevin, she fell for it - the pseudo-intellectual ones are the easiest to nail once you know how to play them...

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                                                  Nigga please...
                                                  Last edited by bausch; 12-20-2007, 10:51 PM.

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                                                  • baddog
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                                                    • 107089

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by bausch
                                                    I would much rather trade places with a man. I have penis envy.
                                                    no shit Sherlock

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                                                    • donkevlar
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                                                      #27
                                                      you're female, what would you know about picking up women? ;)
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                                                      • bausch
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by donkevlar
                                                        you're female, what would you know about picking up women? ;)
                                                        I read shit like this :

                                                        http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/

                                                        and shit like this:

                                                        http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrati...8225542&sr=8-1
                                                        http://www.amazon.com/Mystery-Method...8225542&sr=8-2
                                                        http://www.amazon.com/What-Dont-Want...8225699&sr=8-1
                                                        Last edited by bausch; 12-20-2007, 11:28 PM.

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                                                        • Adultnet
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                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by Peter Romero
                                                          If I want your number - I'll just hand you my phone and TELL YOU to get creative with it.
                                                          Then next thing you see is no numbers at all at your phone


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                                                          • baddog
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                                                            #30
                                                            Oh fuck. This reminds me of when my sister told me she completely understood bikers because she read a book about them.

                                                            This chick is certifiable

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                                                            • imabro
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by bausch
                                                              I read shit like this :

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                                                              • 96ukssob
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                                                                • Mar 2003
                                                                • 12991

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by bausch
                                                                I don't think it's a compliment when a man hits on a woman because I'm aware of the fact that for most men it's only a numbers game; they assume that if they hit up 20 chicks at least one will give him her number (or whatever their personal ratio is), so you are basically just "one of the numbers", it doesn't mean you're anything special at all.

                                                                So why should women even be flattered if a guy looks at them or asks for their number, cause fact is that most guys will look at every woman who is remotely attractive.. How is this supposed to be flattering?

                                                                I think it might even be insulting because the man is assuming that the woman will actually feel flattered when he hits on her, while for him it's only a numbers game. It's insulting the woman's intelligence because he is assuming she won't recognize his game.

                                                                What are your thoughts on this?
                                                                wow, awesome way to stereotype all men

                                                                how about the women who just talk to men to get free drinks? they have a 50/50 chance imo AT LEAST (as long as you are "somewhat" attractive) to get a man to buy you a drink.

                                                                please, get off your high horse... just because a guy talks to you does not always mean he is playing you for a hookup. maybe some guy actually wants to talk to you for you and get to know you as a person rather than get down your pants.

                                                                I have plenty of friends who actually talk to girls to get to know them, not to get a number. im not saying all men are like this because some of them really could care less about you and more about getting down your pants

                                                                either way looks like you got shot down tonight and have a hate towards men
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                                                                • Peter Romero
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                                                                  • Feb 2003
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by donkevlar
                                                                  you're female, what would you know about picking up women? ;)
                                                                  Studied correctly, women can become beter pick-up artists than men. They arent crippled by "need" like most men are. Which can hinder ambition... until they see the money in it. MONEY IN IT you say??? The most valuable comodoty in our business is beautiful women. We should all be or become experts at them. Don't hate!!!


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                                                                  • Cyrano
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    bausch is obviously an expert, she's read the necessary material.

                                                                    You'll never fully understand us, or our motives. You possess a female brain.

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                                                                    • bausch
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by bossku69
                                                                      either way looks like you got shot down tonight and have a hate towards men
                                                                      It's not possible for me to ever get "shot down" because I never talk to another person/make conversation first.
                                                                      I never publicly show interest in anyone.

                                                                      No, I started this thread because I get annoyed when men try and talk to me or be nice to me, I know they have ulterior motives, therefore I do not even talk back and cut them off immediately because I know to them it's only a game.
                                                                      Last edited by bausch; 12-21-2007, 12:10 AM.

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                                                                      • bausch
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by Cyrano
                                                                        bausch is obviously an expert, she's read the necessary material.

                                                                        You'll never fully understand us, or our motives. You possess a female brain.
                                                                        All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?
                                                                        Last edited by bausch; 12-21-2007, 12:11 AM.

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                                                                        • Paul Markham
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                                                                          • Jun 2001
                                                                          • 52942

                                                                          #37
                                                                          This is why I love living in Czech. Here is you flirt with a girl she's flattered. She's not thinking you're doing anything wrong, it's just a game men and woman play.

                                                                          bausch if you think the only reason a guy will come over to you in a bar and talk to you is because it's a numbers game, that says more about what you think of yourself than men.

                                                                          Get a life girl, flirting is a game. It's natural and normal. Remove the tent pole they stuck up your ass at 12 and stop thinking men are the enemy.

                                                                          I'm assuming it's friendly flirting.

                                                                          Difference between Czech, English and Czech girls.

                                                                          Flirt with a Czech girl and she's confident enough to know it's a compliment.
                                                                          Flirt with an English girl and she'll tell you to fuck off.
                                                                          Flirt with an American girl and she'll phone her lawyer claiming sexual harassment. .



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                                                                          • 96ukssob
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by bausch
                                                                            It's not possible for me to ever get "shot down" because I never talk to another person/make conversation first.
                                                                            I never publicly show interest in anyone.

                                                                            No, I started this thread because I get annoyed when men try and talk to me or be nice to me, I know they have ulterior motives, therefore I do not even talk back and cut them off immediately because I know to them it's only a game.
                                                                            by shot down i was referring to a guy would come up and talk to you, realize after a few minutes that he wanted nothing to do with you and move on... leaving you in the dust hence causing you to be "shot down"

                                                                            whatever tho. point being is not all guys are like that. i dont go around saying that every girl is a money hungry whore who stops putting out and starts sleeping around the minute i dont buy her some expensive gift... although ive found that to be true in the past, i know there are nice women out there.

                                                                            so what really happened that caused all this anger that you have toward us men?
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                                                                            • Odin
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by bausch
                                                                              All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?
                                                                              My first post was more of a joke, but honestly that is a pretty stupid hollywood fed stereotype. I'd say younger guys, sure that's a lot of it. But certainly as guys get older (and a lot of guys in general) really like having a relationship with a person they like to be around, get along with, etc. Most men aren't as easily led around by their cock as most women think. But if your hanging out in a night club and a guy is on the drink and looking for a good night? Well than you are closer to the truth, otherwise you're really not.
                                                                              Last edited by Odin; 12-21-2007, 12:17 AM.
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                                                                              • Peter Romero
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                                                                                • Feb 2003
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by Paul Markham
                                                                                This is why I love living in Czech. Here is you flirt with a girl she's flattered. She's not thinking you're doing anything wrong, it's just a game men and woman play.

                                                                                bausch if you think the only reason a guy will come over to you in a bar and talk to you is because it's a numbers game, that says more about what you think of yourself than men.

                                                                                Get a life girl, flirting is a game. It's natural and normal. Remove the tent pole they stuck up your ass at 12 and stop thinking men are the enemy.

                                                                                I'm assuming it's friendly flirting.

                                                                                Difference between Czech, English and Czech girls.

                                                                                Flirt with a Czech girl and she's confident enough to know it's a compliment.
                                                                                Flirt with an English girl and she'll tell you to fuck off.
                                                                                Flirt with an American girl and she'll phone her lawyer claiming sexual harassment. .
                                                                                My gawd... that's the best thing you've writen on GFY in 5 years I've been reading you. Thank you and good night!!!


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                                                                                • Paul Markham
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by bDok
                                                                                  1. your asking gfy this?
                                                                                  2. I guess your not the 1 out of the 20 then.
                                                                                  I doubt if she's even in the 20, probably does not get hit on at all.



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                                                                                  • Peter Romero
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by Paul Markham
                                                                                    I doubt if she's even in the 20, probably does not get hit on at all.
                                                                                    Best thing you can do to atract a really hot girl is to make a face at her like her hair just turned blue, look away and say: "Whatever..." works every time.

                                                                                    By the way... she needs to buy me a drink... I'm the fuckin prize. But, I don't drink... and stop flirting with me lest I whip my lawyer out.


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                                                                                    • V_RocKs
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I make women come to me. Much more effective.

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                                                                                      • Paul Markham
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by bausch
                                                                                        All men want is sex and they are looking for as much pussy as possible. Is there anything else to understand?
                                                                                        What a loser.



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                                                                                        • bausch
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by bossku69
                                                                                          by shot down i was referring to a guy would come up and talk to you, realize after a few minutes that he wanted nothing to do with you and move on... leaving you in the dust hence causing you to be "shot down"

                                                                                          whatever tho. point being is not all guys are like that. i dont go around saying that every girl is a money hungry whore who stops putting out and starts sleeping around the minute i dont buy her some expensive gift... although ive found that to be true in the past, i know there are nice women out there.

                                                                                          so what really happened that caused all this anger that you have toward us men?
                                                                                          This doesn't happen to me because I don't engage in any conversation in the first place, I always cut the convo and walk away.

                                                                                          I don't have hatred towards men. The world revolves around sex. There is nothing wrong what that, it is what it is. Would most people be as motivated to become financially successful if it were not for the rewards of pussy? Most men are driven with the pursuit of pussy, especially variety in pussy. Who would want to fuck the same pussy over and over again when there are so many varieties to try?

                                                                                          I don't have hatred towards men anyone but I refuse to have someone win in their conquest game over me. I could care less if they fuck 100 girls, but they will not win their game with me. If I were foolish enough to fall for their "techniques" then that means that they have won "the game."

                                                                                          I would rather remain alone forever and be celibate than have someone win "the game" with me.
                                                                                          Last edited by bausch; 12-21-2007, 12:25 AM.

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                                                                                          • Ryan St. Germain
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                                                                                            • Sep 2006
                                                                                            • 1269

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by bausch
                                                                                            Ok, well this is much better. This I understand.

                                                                                            To be honest I never even interact back when people try to open communication with me, I already am assuming the worst and would rather be left alone so I just walk away, I never interact back.

                                                                                            Most guys don't have good intentions like you though, most are looking to get laid. I have been reading this interesting site for men called "FastSeduction" and it's very eye opening, it describes techniques men use to get women such as mirroring (this one I already knew about; mirroring movements, breathing etc), kinesthetics, neg hits, and all sorts of interesting things. I never knew men were so manipulative! I am going to get that book "The Game" by Neil Strauss so that I can be on alert.

                                                                                            Well, if you are treating it like a game, and not receptive to conversation, people will assume that you are not accustomed to men approaching you like that, and, perhaps, it's not flattery but novelty that you are experiencing.

                                                                                            For what it's worth, jerks are typically drawn to the aloof girl, because they think that she will be easier, or will be the sort of challenge they are hoping for.

                                                                                            Take a deep breath and just have fun when you are out.

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                                                                                            • Ryan St. Germain
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • Sep 2006
                                                                                              • 1269

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by bausch
                                                                                              I don't have I would rather remain alone forever and be celibate.
                                                                                              Then save yourself the trouble and don't bother to leave the house.

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                                                                                              • 96ukssob
                                                                                                So Fucking Banananananas
                                                                                                • Mar 2003
                                                                                                • 12991

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by bausch
                                                                                                This doesn't happen to me because I don't engage in any conversation in the first place, I always cut the convo and walk away.

                                                                                                I don't have hatred towards men. The world revolves around sex. There is nothing wrong what that, it is what it is. Would most people be as motivated to become financially successful if it were not for the rewards of pussy? Most men are driven with the pursuit of pussy, especially variety in pussy. Who would want to fuck the same pussy over and over again when there are so many varieties to try?

                                                                                                I don't have hatred towards men anyone but I refuse to have someone win in their conquest game over me. I could care less if they fuck 100 girls, but they will not win their game with me. If I were foolish enough to fall for their "techniques" then that means that they have won "the game."

                                                                                                I would rather remain alone forever and be celibate than have someone win "the game" with me.
                                                                                                well in any case good luck with that.

                                                                                                personally, i would much rather be with someone who is cool and that i share common stuff in, rather than someone that is "hot." ive dated a two girls both long term who people and friends would tell me they are hot, but in reality, it was only looks and 6 months past that, things were increadibly boring.

                                                                                                regardless, i think you need a date with this guy..



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                                                                                                • baddog
                                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                  • Apr 2001
                                                                                                  • 107089

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by bausch
                                                                                                  No, I started this thread because I get annoyed when men try and talk to me or be nice to me, I know they have ulterior motives, therefore I do not even talk back and cut them off immediately because I know to them it's only a game.
                                                                                                  You really should seek professional help

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                                                                                                  • bausch
                                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                                    • Jul 2006
                                                                                                    • 3017

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by DarkCircus
                                                                                                    Well, if you are treating it like a game, and not receptive to conversation, people will assume that you are not accustomed to men approaching you like that, and, perhaps, it's not flattery but novelty that you are experiencing.

                                                                                                    For what it's worth, jerks are typically drawn to the aloof girl, because they think that she will be easier, or will be the sort of challenge they are hoping for.

                                                                                                    Take a deep breath and just have fun when you are out.
                                                                                                    This is not true, I don't think men will think that it's "novelty" that I'm experiencing, they will mainly think that I'm an unfriendly bitch (which I am) and that I am not receptive to meeting new people (which I'm not).

                                                                                                    I don't go out to clubs/bars ever, I'm talking about going somewhere when I absolutely have to, such as going to the store to buy something (usually I buy on-line to avoid situations like this but there are times when I need an item right away).

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