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uno · 01-09-2009, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

OMG is this her Danny? FUCK me, you and I are twins... we're with fat bitchy cunt women. Get the fuck out - I'm already on phase 1 myself.

She looks like she raids fridges on a daily basis. OH GOD I feel so sorry for you, and that makes me feel sorry for myself at the same time.

Aww and I remember your promise ring thread too. How time flies.

wyldblyss · 01-09-2009, 03:26 PM

The best advice I ever got in my life regarding relationships was from my dad. He said before getting angry regarding something stop and ask yourself just one question.

Will the circumstances regarding this situation matter to me in 10 years or will I even remember it?

If the answer is no drop it, it is not worth fighting for.

So that means....if your boy/friend/husband/ whatever beats the crap out of you, it WILL matter in 10 years and you need to deal with it.

If he leaves his dirty socks on the chair but breaks his ass providing for you....stop worrying about the socks...if he died tomorrow would you say "thank god he died, now I don't have to pick up his socks...or would you say "I would do anything in the world just to see his stupid socks on the chair again".

In other words, don't sweat the small stuff. When you are young, you tend to make a big deal out of everything. She could be stressed about the wedding, stressed about a lot of things.

PSSuperstars · 01-09-2009, 03:31 PM

I'd also like to say that I married UBER young... it was my choice... and the worst times of the marriage were ages 21-23... I just was not emotionally ready... and there was tons of fighting.

It had nothing to do with sex or wanting to date other people or "sewing oats"... it's just mentally hard to share responsibilities when you are just birthing into adulthood... It's really, really fucking hard.

I will be 25 in March.. and the relationship is probably an 8 or 9 on the 10 scale.. whereas when I was 21.. it was a 3-4.. lol

If you don't foresee her emotionally maturing or making an effort to work on making herself better.. then DUMP HER..

Also, make sure she's taking her birth control and you're pulling out.

Nothing worse than being trapped because of a kid.

polle54 · 01-09-2009, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Libertine

If she gets upset at whatever you do, it's a sign that there's a deeper issue...

100% spot on.

And it's up to you to find the issue because she sure aint gonna tell what's really bothering her. That's why relationsships are so fucking hard

uno · 01-09-2009, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Imortyl Pussycat

RED FLAG sorry if this has already been said as i haven't read the responses yet. i saw this and her "recent" behavior and knew immediately what was goin on here. SHE MET SOMEONE ELSE. not saying she has cheated YET. she is now comparing you to him and finding every fault she can with you to justify making a move forward (if she hasn't already) with this other dude. i'm tellin ya as if you were my lil bro, this is the case.

let's say for sake of arguement that i'm wrong (but i'm not). this is simple math boys: after you tie the noose/knot, take everything you love about a woman prior to marriage and divide those qualities by 10, that is what you have left of the good stuff. take everything that annoys you and makes you want to slit her throat and multiply that by 10. that is what you have left period. (except for with me, i am an angel *giggle*)

cut your losses sweetpea and live a little before you even think of settling down

Yah, IME women always have a new cock waiting before they break off the relationship and move on leaving the guy dumbfounded.

CDSmith · 01-09-2009, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by d-null

can't live with em, can't live...... actually can live without 'em

Nice. I may have to get that put on a t-shirt.

baddog · 01-09-2009, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss

The best advice I ever got in my life regarding relationships was from my dad. He said before getting angry regarding something stop and ask yourself just one question.

Will the circumstances regarding this situation matter to me in 10 years or will I even remember it?

If the answer is no drop it, it is not worth fighting for.

I wonder if he gave the same speech to your brother.

RayBonga · 01-09-2009, 04:30 PM

if you're planning on breaking up with her please make sure you make a sextape before to post here

BradM · 01-09-2009, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by RayBonga

if you're planning on breaking up with her please make sure you make a sextape before to post here

No please don't. No one needs to see that.

DannysReviews|com · 01-10-2009, 12:48 PM

She took her ring off, that was the last straw.

O MARINA · 01-10-2009, 12:49 PM

no more feonce

DannysReviews|com · 01-10-2009, 12:54 PM

It really sucks having spent so much time with her... things were good for the longest time but got way too sour.

I'm going to possibly need some backup work, so if anyone has any blogging / webmaster work they need done, I'm up for it.

d-null · 01-10-2009, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

She took her ring off, that was the last straw.

you left the "last straw" way too late, who is the one in charge of "you" here, by the sounds of it she should have gotten the boot from you far before that even happened?

DannysReviews|com · 01-10-2009, 04:06 PM

She was a great friend. She's moving out, I'm not sure how it's going to work but we're gradually going to drift apart into our own realm in independence.

WarChild · 01-10-2009, 04:09 PM

Before you get married at age 21, you NEED to listen to Tom Leykis's show. Trust me just listen.

http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

eroticsexxx · 01-10-2009, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

She took her ring off, that was the last straw.

From man to man...

Fuck that shit!

Every man who gets married should expect a few "tests" in that period right before you get hitched, but what she did is a deal breaker - no matter how much history you two have. IF she respected the relationship and the commitment that you two were about to embark upon, stuff like this would never happen.

And don't fall for the kiss-ass period when she realizes that she fucked up. Run, not walk, away!

Disappear if you can - Take an extended vacation or live with a buddy or a family member out of state for a month. Clear your head by getting some distance from the situation. Remember that it doesn't matter how much you value the relationship, if she doesn't think that it's worth anything, it's not going to work - no matter how hard you try.

GAMEFINEST · 01-10-2009, 04:42 PM

I sense pussy whipped in u

F-U-Jimmy · 01-10-2009, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by d-null

Tom Leykis is hilarious

He's also a huge fat ulgy fuck who can only get women by flashing the green

DannysReviews|com · 01-10-2009, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

From man to man...

Fuck that shit!

Every man who gets married should expect a few "tests" in that period right before you get hitched, but what she did is a deal breaker - no matter how much history you two have. IF she respected the relationship and the commitment that you two were about to embark upon, stuff like this would never happen.

And don't fall for the kiss-ass period when she realizes that she fucked up. Run, not walk, away!

Disappear if you can - Take an extended vacation or live with a buddy or a family member out of state for a month. Clear your head by getting some distance from the situation. Remember that it doesn't matter how much you value the relationship, if she doesn't think that it's worth anything, it's not going to work - no matter how hard you try.

Oh I know, she did it almost instantly. She's moving out and signing a note of promise for the money she owes me.

baddog · 01-10-2009, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

She took her ring off, that was the last straw.

She is smarter than you.

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

It really sucks having spent so much time with her... things were good for the longest time but got way too sour.

You just thought they were . . . . they weren't.

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

She was a great friend. She's moving out, I'm not sure how it's going to work but we're gradually going to drift apart into our own realm in independence.

About time.

Mr.Right - Banned For Life · 01-10-2009, 05:01 PM

You sound like a pussy.

Oh, and she's fucking someone else on the side.

DannysReviews|com · 01-10-2009, 05:04 PM

Mr. Right, maybe so because of this experience, but not so pussy for not giving in to her pleads to stay?

Mr.Right - Banned For Life · 01-10-2009, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss
The best advice I ever got in my life regarding relationships was from my dad. He said before getting angry regarding something stop and ask yourself just one question.

Will the circumstances regarding this situation matter to me in 10 years or will I even remember it?

If the answer is no drop it, it is not worth fighting for.

Your dad sounds like a fucking loser.

Best advice he could give you is not to fight and just roll over?

Anyway, if the photo posted earlier in this thread is real, the OP should hang his head in shame for bringing here so much drama about some fatass skank.

spacedog · 01-10-2009, 06:13 PM

I have the answer to your problem.

Don't get married!!

I know.. I've been with my wife for 11yrs now.. All she does is bitch,piss,moan and complain 24/7/365 no matter what.

Vicious_B · 01-10-2009, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

She was a great friend. She's moving out, I'm not sure how it's going to work but we're gradually going to drift apart into our own realm in independence.

Better now than getting married and you end up feeling like you are trying to build your life with a stranger.

Si · 01-10-2009, 07:23 PM

tell her to go fuck herself

eroticsexxx · 01-10-2009, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

Oh I know, she did it almost instantly. She's moving out and signing a note of promise for the money she owes me.

Don't look back.

Don't give her any reason to have to contact you or "stay in touch". Tell her thanks, but no thanks.

It WILL hurt. It will be tough. It will be tempting to keep ties and be "friends", but it is better from your perspective to drop everything cold turkey.

Conniving behavior such as what you have experienced must not be rewarded. She does not deserve your time or your patience in any manner shape or form.

Now is the time to get your best buds around you too. You will be tempted to take it easy and give her some leeway. Give your buds the permission to give you a firm slap in the face if they see that happening.

Good luck and learn the lesson. Replay the "signs" in your head, write them down and/or put them into long term memory. It'll save you a lot of trouble later.

Oh yeah, get some new pussy as soon as possible.

lofasz · 01-10-2009, 09:37 PM

You need to get your butt over here so I can kick you in the head.

21 - bad age for having a fiancee cause you're both still newbies

hehe maybe you're just trying to give the forum a good laugh.

Agent 488 · 01-10-2009, 09:52 PM

what is she sitting on you? get the fuck out of there man ....

nolongerexists · 01-11-2009, 05:20 AM

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Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

Don't look back.

Don't give her any reason to have to contact you or "stay in touch". Tell her thanks, but no thanks.

It WILL hurt. It will be tough. It will be tempting to keep ties and be "friends", but it is better from your perspective to drop everything cold turkey.

Conniving behavior such as what you have experienced must not be rewarded. She does not deserve your time or your patience in any manner shape or form.

Now is the time to get your best buds around you too. You will be tempted to take it easy and give her some leeway. Give your buds the permission to give you a firm slap in the face if they see that happening.

Good luck and learn the lesson. Replay the "signs" in your head, write them down and/or put them into long term memory. It'll save you a lot of trouble later.

Oh yeah, get some new pussy as soon as possible.

listen to the man..

funelephant · 01-11-2009, 05:45 AM

i learned to keep my mouth shut and not criticize either way its my dick that gets up frustrated and unappreciated first. i just let it do all the thinking for me

Blingbaby · 01-11-2009, 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by DannysReviews|com

20 almost 21. I know I'm young, but I've known her for about 8 years.

I've been in trouble for:
- Not wanting to hang out with her friends > I end up going anyway.
- Making fun of her for raiding her friend's fridge.
- Various arguments over her not doing enough work around the place (like we're talking she got an extra week of vacation and all I asked her to do is paint the bedroom with me. It's Friday now ......HURRR??
- She almost broke up with me last night ... at the end of it all, she's like now you know how it feels. (HURRR! I'm confused!)

EDIT! EDIT MOTHERFUCKA! >>> SHE ENDS THE NIGHT SAYING LEAVE ME ALONE UNTIL THE MORNING I'LL GET OVER IT!.... I TOLD HER I'LL BRAINSTORM NEW WAYS TO FIGHT FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK!

It's one of those relationships, we have history and a lot of good history, but all this bullshit surfaced just recently.

The thing is, she'll never break up with me, she needs me and I can't count how much I've supported her. Don't get me wrong, she does things for me, we're not even talking sexual either..... how long has it been? Who knows!

All I know is that if I break up with her it'll suck because we have a decent history minus now. But no more financial burden, emotional burden and I'll actually have time to work on my sites.

Yeah one more thing, do you think it's bad that I want to spend time on my sites? I mean it seems like she wants to do something every day and I can't get steady time on my work without interruption lol!

Love the girl, just not so sure it's right.

If it's like this now it's going to get A LOT worse as you two mature in different ways. Of course there is always an exception to the rule but couples that start this young never make it past 30 and that assumes that at your age it's the blissful years which sounds like it isn't for you. Do yourselves both a favor and get out now, give yourself a chance to have a happy and fulfilling relationship while you still can..

HorseShit · 01-11-2009, 06:31 AM

lol after seeing the pictures of the gf, I too was like WTF who cares, she doesn't even have looks going for her.

romeo22 · 01-11-2009, 06:32 AM

ok My advice for you is to fuck her as many as you can maybe that would help a bit....and if doesnt you know whats the best for you ... dont get married

01-09-2009, 03:26 PM	#102
wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	The best advice I ever got in my life regarding relationships was from my dad. He said before getting angry regarding something stop and ask yourself just one question. Will the circumstances regarding this situation matter to me in 10 years or will I even remember it? If the answer is no drop it, it is not worth fighting for. So that means....if your boy/friend/husband/ whatever beats the crap out of you, it WILL matter in 10 years and you need to deal with it. If he leaves his dirty socks on the chair but breaks his ass providing for you....stop worrying about the socks...if he died tomorrow would you say "thank god he died, now I don't have to pick up his socks...or would you say "I would do anything in the world just to see his stupid socks on the chair again". In other words, don't sweat the small stuff. When you are young, you tend to make a big deal out of everything. She could be stressed about the wedding, stressed about a lot of things. Last edited by wyldblyss; 01-09-2009 at 03:28 PM..

01-09-2009, 03:31 PM	#103
PSSuperstars Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 1,477	I'd also like to say that I married UBER young... it was my choice... and the worst times of the marriage were ages 21-23... I just was not emotionally ready... and there was tons of fighting. It had nothing to do with sex or wanting to date other people or "sewing oats"... it's just mentally hard to share responsibilities when you are just birthing into adulthood... It's really, really fucking hard. I will be 25 in March.. and the relationship is probably an 8 or 9 on the 10 scale.. whereas when I was 21.. it was a 3-4.. lol If you don't foresee her emotionally maturing or making an effort to work on making herself better.. then DUMP HER.. Also, make sure she's taking her birth control and you're pulling out. Nothing worse than being trapped because of a kid. __________________ Porn's Best Kept Secret : PSOCash.com : Make Money Promoting Phone Sex in Members Areas, TGPs, and MORE! : Lifetime 30% Payout *Best Webcam Referral Payouts*

01-10-2009, 12:48 PM	#110
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01-10-2009, 12:54 PM	#112
DannysReviews\|com Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 402	It really sucks having spent so much time with her... things were good for the longest time but got way too sour. I'm going to possibly need some backup work, so if anyone has any blogging / webmaster work they need done, I'm up for it. __________________ ADULT / MAINSTREAM - LOOKING FOR LINK TRADES! ICQ: 438-336-726 Solo Girls \| Porn Sites

01-10-2009, 04:06 PM	#114
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01-09-2009, 04:30 PM	#108
RayBonga too cool for highschool Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: East side, West side, Worldwide! Posts: 12,164	if you're planning on breaking up with her please make sure you make a sextape before to post here

01-10-2009, 12:49 PM	#111
O MARINA I'm clockin' ya, Versace shade watchin' ya Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: internet Posts: 13,795	no more feonce

01-10-2009, 04:09 PM	#115
WarChild Let slip the dogs of war. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Bermuda Posts: 17,263	Before you get married at age 21, you NEED to listen to Tom Leykis's show. Trust me just listen. http://www.blowmeuptom.com/ __________________ .

01-10-2009, 04:42 PM	#117
GAMEFINEST Make STACK$ Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: sexy time Posts: 14,465	I sense pussy whipped in u __________________ Compound interest.

01-10-2009, 05:01 PM	#121
Mr.Right - Banned For Life I guarantee it Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 18,314	You sound like a pussy. Oh, and she's fucking someone else on the side.

01-10-2009, 05:04 PM	#122
DannysReviews\|com Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 402	Mr. Right, maybe so because of this experience, but not so pussy for not giving in to her pleads to stay? __________________ ADULT / MAINSTREAM - LOOKING FOR LINK TRADES! ICQ: 438-336-726 Solo Girls \| Porn Sites

01-10-2009, 06:13 PM	#124
spacedog Yes that IS me. Bitch. Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 14,149	I have the answer to your problem. Don't get married!! I know.. I've been with my wife for 11yrs now.. All she does is bitch,piss,moan and complain 24/7/365 no matter what.

01-10-2009, 07:23 PM	#126
Si Such Fun! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 13,900	tell her to go fuck herself

01-10-2009, 09:37 PM	#128
lofasz Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 120	You're 21 and she's 20 You need to get your butt over here so I can kick you in the head. 21 - bad age for having a fiancee cause you're both still newbies hehe maybe you're just trying to give the forum a good laugh.

01-10-2009, 09:52 PM	#129
Agent 488 Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 22,511	what is she sitting on you? get the fuck out of there man ....

01-11-2009, 05:45 AM	#131
funelephant Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 51	i learned to keep my mouth shut and not criticize either way its my dick that gets up frustrated and unappreciated first. i just let it do all the thinking for me __________________ Make $ selling HUGE COCKS in teens

01-11-2009, 06:31 AM	#133
HorseShit Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 17,513	lol after seeing the pictures of the gf, I too was like WTF who cares, she doesn't even have looks going for her.

01-11-2009, 06:32 AM	#134
romeo22 你自己去他媽的 Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 23,347	ok My advice for you is to fuck her as many as you can maybe that would help a bit....and if doesnt you know whats the best for you ... dont get married