Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

From man to man...

Fuck that shit!

Every man who gets married should expect a few "tests" in that period right before you get hitched, but what she did is a deal breaker - no matter how much history you two have. IF she respected the relationship and the commitment that you two were about to embark upon, stuff like this would never happen.

And don't fall for the kiss-ass period when she realizes that she fucked up. Run, not walk, away!

Disappear if you can - Take an extended vacation or live with a buddy or a family member out of state for a month. Clear your head by getting some distance from the situation. Remember that it doesn't matter how much you value the relationship, if she doesn't think that it's worth anything, it's not going to work - no matter how hard you try.