everything i do upsets my fiance
 

lol, i think this is night 4 straight of me getting in trouble. No matter what I do, she gets upset lol.

MELTDOWN AFTER MELTDOWN.

How old are each of you?

Well, if it's your fiance, get use to it or...

can't live with em, can't live...... actually can live without 'em :1orglaugh

20 almost 21. I know I'm young, but I've known her for about 8 years.

I've been in trouble for:
- Not wanting to hang out with her friends > I end up going anyway.
- Making fun of her for raiding her friend's fridge.
- Various arguments over her not doing enough work around the place (like we're talking she got an extra week of vacation and all I asked her to do is paint the bedroom with me. It's Friday now ......HURRR??
- She almost broke up with me last night ... at the end of it all, she's like now you know how it feels. (HURRR! I'm confused!)

EDIT! EDIT MOTHERFUCKA! >>> SHE ENDS THE NIGHT SAYING LEAVE ME ALONE UNTIL THE MORNING I'LL GET OVER IT!.... I TOLD HER I'LL BRAINSTORM NEW WAYS TO FIGHT FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK!

It's one of those relationships, we have history and a lot of good history, but all this bullshit surfaced just recently.

The thing is, she'll never break up with me, she needs me and I can't count how much I've supported her. Don't get me wrong, she does things for me, we're not even talking sexual either..... how long has it been? Who knows!

All I know is that if I break up with her it'll suck because we have a decent history minus now. But no more financial burden, emotional burden and I'll actually have time to work on my sites.

Yeah one more thing, do you think it's bad that I want to spend time on my sites? I mean it seems like she wants to do something every day and I can't get steady time on my work without interruption lol!

Love the girl, just not so sure it's right.

If she gets upset at whatever you do, it's a sign that there's a deeper issue...

Well most things lately... so not exactly everything.

a mistake I and many friends have made when we were younger is thinking that it will get better :2 cents:

She's freaked out over the idea of marrying you and spending the rest of her life with you :2 cents:

You are pretty damn young, you'd think working in porn you wouldn't be so quick to settle down.

You are nuts. Same thing I would tell my son if he did something that dumb.

"20 almost 21. "

'nuff said.

I think a relationship can go beyond repair sometimes, even with just conflicting personalities.

anytime you say "almost xx years old" or "I'm xx and a half" you're still a fucking baby.

Your too young to have a girlfriend yet alone a fiance... but that's my opinion
Wait till your at least 25 ..

and also

Your quote "I mean it seems like she wants to do something every day and I can't get steady time on my work without interruption lol!"

Another reason not to be in a relationship

Women like that = dreamkillers....

Start listening to tom leykis and he will help pull your head out of your ass " i say this in a good way"

www.blowmeuptom.com 3-7pm Weekdays :thumbsup

Thanks Persius!

Tom Leykis is hilarious :thumbsup

Learn this phrase and commit it to memory; "dump that bitch."

when you get old like babddog it's like a fucking badge of honor.

Me - "Baddog how old are you"

Baddog - "credit card"

Me - "No, Baddog. Your age. How old are you?"

Baddog - "Did you get my peanuts?"

Me - "ok, I'll get your peanuts, but how old are you?"

Baddog - "Sure is cold out here"

Me - "Nevermind"

No problem, listen to that show tho u will see people in the same type of situation you are in and you can get a good outlook...

relax, it's not you, she's just fucking somebody else

The thing is our lives are kind of simple, she's not leashed, but I can tell you this is not the case.

I'm in the same situation.

Luckily mine is moving away at the end of the month :) FREEEEEDOM!!!


btw, fuck history, don't be afraid to break lose and be alone for awhile, its the only way you'll become a real man

You better communicate with her. Ask what's the problem.

it's easy man.... just dtb

No. He should say, "what the fuck was I thinking?" then begin enjoying life. It is not too late. You should get her a very nice thank you for waking you up gift.

you're young, this will be a moot point soon....you'll be with someone else, then some one else after that...and then....you get the point

You just don't know this yet :)

For sure, I always do, I think I'm even too nice. I don't think girls actually like good guys do they?

Anyway, she's all upset we don't do enough, but yet has no credit to her name... my credit is running on my last dollar, seriously, as I have a forced extended holiday from my work. I know a lot of our fights relate to money and when you don't have it and want to do stuff, it makes it hard.

It just seems too fucked up now, maybe I'll just talk to her tomorrow morning this isn't getting better.

can't say my opinion before i see some nude shots of her , it will really tell alot :drinkup

another stat :2 cents:

you asked her to paint the bedroom? shit man i ask my gf to clean the house, do the dishes and make some food now and then and she cant even manage to do that.

damn to young.. so 8 years together is you were together since you are at the age of 12/13 man that's crazy.. you missed you teenagers years!!!

and at 1 time she or you will brake loose and you want to do all those things you missed in your teenagers years..

she have borderline personality disorder by any chance?

omg this is funny :1orglaugh


the problem is she's a nutty girl, they all are at that age, there is no logic, there is nothing to be gained by "communicating" and trying to find reason and logic out of it, she probably has no clue why she lives for drama and miserableness either, they just do.... so many girls can have the best thing going with the best most accomodating guy ever and they will pull shit to fuck with it all the time, unhappiness for the sake of unhappiness which has to include the guy in the miserableness, etc etc..... if it's not one thing it will be something else, there is no winning..... some guys end up like Al Bundy and just turn off their brain and go through the motions of a dead end life, others get out when the getting is good
:2 cents:

read these two quotes over and over....





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and dude, you're to young to have a "history"....when you're 35, you'll look back at that "history" and it won't even be a consideration.

GET OUT NOW. Plain and simple.
I know you won't though, cause the pussy does some weird shit to guys.

Remember this.
You're not staying with her because of her, you're only staying because it's FAMILIAR. Do not be that guy...seriously, you'll be fucked.

- So repeat after me, "I'm only with her cause it's FAMILIAR."

Once you wrap your little self around that realization, you'll have no problem walking out the door...

Find a good woman man.

Looking at the way you describe your relationship I'm suprised you haven't put an end to it yet.

You're not treating her bad enough.

Kick her out on her ass for a while, let her see the real world problems then she wont have to come up
with stupid things to worry about.

have you both had other relationships?

If not..I know of a couple that were together all during their teen years.. got married at the age of 19 and 22... then went through some trying times primarily because neither one of them had ever been with anyone else so they were wondering "what am I missing?" and "Is it this way with other relationships?"

PK

so you know her since you was 12? nice

:thumbsup:thumbsup

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAA! lol!

If you both live to 80, you got another 60 years to find out the problem.

Best of luck.

having trouble now? wait until you get married.

You will make some lucky man a great first wife someday!:thumbsup

13ish. We dated at the beginning and remained friends through the rest. After highschool, I GOT KICKED OUT OF MY HOUSE FOR WORKING ON MY PORN SITES and she had a room at her place.

I know I chose to move in with her, but in all honestly I have learned a hell of a lot since doing so!

Yeah, like how she drives you batshit crazy and how to log on to a porn board and gripe about her.

Young, immature, drama loving young girls like the bad boys. I am not 35 and had my share of jerk offs and Ill admit gave up quite a few decent guys when I didnt know better. I am with someone now that is great to me in everyway. He doesnt support me financially, we work together.
Anyone that gets upset that you have ambitions and are trying to make something of themselves is someone that requires WAY too much attention. She needs to grow up and honestly thats not going to happen when she is in the sheltered situation such as your relationship.
My advice would be for you to concentrate on building your life and future. You both should experience living on your own and having seperate life experiences. Hopefully, even if the break up is tough, you will both do some growing (Especially her) and can maybe get back together in the future and have it work.
People only treat you the way you allow them too.

Exactly right.
:2 cents:

Where to start? You are engaged at 20 years old? I mean seriously now.. You are?

I'm 25. Been with my girlfriend for almost 9 years and we're not even engaged. We live together and everything but we know we're still too young right now. I think you're both a bit immature and shouldn't be worrying about getting married etc at your age.

PS. When I was 20 I was wondering what amazing car I was gonna buy when I turned 21 coz I could finally get insurance for it. Jesus!