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Old 12-20-2007, 11:00 AM   #51
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spy on them, watch them having sex... then it will go from visualizing to watching
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Old 12-20-2007, 11:28 AM   #52
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Meeting someone new always makes the past history even more distant.

This time of year - You can nail down a new babe fast.
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Old 12-20-2007, 03:39 PM   #53
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Thanks for the comments.

Most of the things I already know and do, except for the therapist, hookers and other women ;)

My kid is with me 4 out of 7 days, so that's cool. He loves me a lot as I always took care of him being a self employed, working from home dad. Whenever there's an issue, he comes to me.

I do need to work on the "talk about us when I am there on on the phone" thing, I can't stop bringing it up, haha.
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You are seriously fucked in the head, when i see an ex with someone else it makes me feel even better because then i see that if they have moved on it is obviously also time for me to move on.
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:12 PM   #55
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Jerk off until you lose your sex drive, bet you won't think about her then!
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:16 PM   #56
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shit just move on...
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:17 PM   #57
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If your not ready to be with someone else, keep yourself distracted. Go work out, find a hobby, work on business, just keep yourself occupied to the point that you don't have the time to think about your girl.
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Thats what I would do to, keeping yourself occupied will for sure help out - Work to make more money and reward yourself or play WoW for example if you work to much already - There's a true time killer.
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:25 PM   #58
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:28 PM   #59
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www.lexapro.com

and im not joking either. You may have an anxiety disorder you've never been diagnosed with if its THAT HARD for you.

I been there, I lost my mom and found out my wife (ex wife now) cheated on me in a 1 month period.
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:29 PM   #60
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:30 PM   #61
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and all you guys shitting on this guy are disgusting.

Someone opens up their feelings because they need help. And you do your best to put them into a further depression. You should be fucking ashamed of yourselves.
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:35 PM   #62
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You need to hit some new pink tacos. At least 5. Then you won't have visions of her getting railed anymore. You're not with her anymore. There's a reason and that's because you're better than her, and you'll find someone that will suit your needs better. Just go out, enjoy life and have some fun.

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Old 12-20-2007, 04:40 PM   #63
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:42 PM   #64
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Old 12-20-2007, 04:47 PM   #65
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Yes, it also helps to imagine her having multiple orgasms and telling him "you're sooooo much bigger than <insert your name here>"
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Old 12-20-2007, 05:25 PM   #66
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Now, when you say you are not ready to "move on" does that really mean that each girl you've tried to ask out since your breakup has turned you down?

Think of the positives, like, at least you aren't visualizing the new boyfriend and YOU having sex.

Seriously, it just takes time. There will be a day where you might even be happy for her that she is with another guy (if you think the guy is genuinely good for her). Hang on! As someone once said, "Love stinks!"
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Old 12-20-2007, 05:30 PM   #67
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If so, you should e-mail yourself.
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Old 12-20-2007, 05:36 PM   #68
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post a pic so I can visualize it too. then I'll figure out a way for me to stop and pass the idea on to you.
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Old 12-20-2007, 05:42 PM   #69
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Time heals all wounds.

Fucking other chicks helps speed up the process.
It's unfair how when guys ask for advice on how to get over a chick people always say "fuck another chick" but when a female asks how to get over a guy no one says "fuck another guy". Fuck the double standards. It's 2007. Women should be able to fuck guys as well in order to get over someone and not be labeled sluts because of it. I fucken hate double standards!
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Old 12-20-2007, 06:19 PM   #71
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Mental pictures are a bitch! I feel for you. The best thing to do is to stay busy, hang out with your friends, and just try to keep your mind of it. be strong yo!
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It's unfair how when guys ask for advice on how to get over a chick people always say "fuck another chick" but when a female asks how to get over a guy no one says "fuck another guy". Fuck the double standards. It's 2007. Women should be able to fuck guys as well in order to get over someone and not be labeled sluts because of it. I fucken hate double standards!
so go fuck another guy.
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It's unfair how when guys ask for advice on how to get over a chick people always say "fuck another chick" but when a female asks how to get over a guy no one says "fuck another guy". Fuck the double standards. It's 2007. Women should be able to fuck guys as well in order to get over someone and not be labeled sluts because of it. I fucken hate double standards!
I specialize in girls on the rebound, call me anytime


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Old 12-20-2007, 09:48 PM   #75
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I would take up a new hobby or sports activity so it keeps you occupied and not always in the house thinking about your ex. Also gets you out with other people so you can talk and get your mind freed up.

Sucks man, I have been there (so have many others). You will get over it in time

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Old 12-28-2007, 02:07 AM   #76
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new hobby should work... or try playing games you never experienced
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Someone opens up their feelings because they need help. And you do your best to put them into a further depression. You should be fucking ashamed of yourselves.
I don't recall the forum being called "drphil.com" - it's called Go Fuck Yourself for a reason
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Old 12-28-2007, 04:17 AM   #78
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You haven't been getting any either I guess?
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see a therapist. they can help you let go of the obsessive thoughts.. they also have some kicks ass meds if you find yourself with intrusive thoughts on a regular basis.


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Old 12-28-2007, 04:32 AM   #81
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sometimes i wish real life has an undo button
Haha, well. It is all a learning experience though. This x-mas i spent alone with my son (and some family), she did not call once to ask how our baby is doing. That was a real eye opener for me. I think I am beginning to see the light.

I bookmarked this thread, I will post in it when I am truly done.
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Old 12-28-2007, 04:56 AM   #82
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there is a ton of half-assed advice posts in this thread but a couple good ones... but maybe thats cause there isn't a whole lot you can do about it in the first place... Nonetheless...

Mainly, realize the fact that millions of people have felt and are dealing with the same thing you are and eventually 99.9&#37; of them get over it, you know why? Time. Fact is, you will get over it... one year later? two, three? you can't force it just roll with it.

also understand that it's not your fault that she has to be with someone all the time, thats her own problem and there's not much you can do to change that.

i would also advise hitting the gym up in some of your free time. nothing like making yourself feel good the ol fashion way--- by getting healthier and looking better than ever.

its pretty clear you're not really looking for another relationship at this point (from what i can tell) so i would say fucking some random chick isn't going to do much either. yeah its 10 minutes of fun for ya (or 3 hours of pleasure town if you're like me) but you're not gonna be satisfied just yet cause it's not with the girl you REALLY want to be with. keep going out with your friends but dont go looking for love, chances are it will find you.

don't fall into the drugs and drinking bullshit constantly to make the pain go away. man up, do what you gotta do to press on and you'll be back on your feet in no time.

i wish you and the kid all the luck!
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Rule #1 - Make sure the kid doesn't suffer because of your mistakes.
Rule #2 - Don't argue with her around the child
Rule #3 - Dont argue with her on the phone about shit that doesn't matter. Keep the convo's only about the child and keep it movin. Talking about relationship is only going to hurt more.
Rule #4 - Spend as much time with your kid as you can and dont miss anything like school event's, soccer games, any of that. Always be there.
Rule #5 - Don't try to fuck her when you pick up or drop off the kid. That only creates more drama unless you honestly think there is a chance of you two getting back together. Chances are if she had a boyfriend a week after you guys broke up, she was probably cheating on you. She can't be trusted so why waste your time? Get along with her for the sake of the child and that's it.
Fantastic advice for the best interests of your child. If you focus on this, you'll see that you can also be friends with her with time. (Worked for me)


As for your issue - like everyone else said - keep yourself busy. Try to get out in public more with people that are interesting. No need to hook up rightaway if you don't want to. Make sure you're always in good company - it will distract you and it will keep the thoughts to a minimum. Also - you are not an idiot, you are human. Anyone who's been hurt goes through similar issues. Trust me on that one.
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Old 12-28-2007, 07:27 AM   #85
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Old 12-28-2007, 07:39 AM   #86
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Old 12-28-2007, 07:53 AM   #87
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Dude, you have the ultimate chick magnet.. a baby. It's time to move on.. who wants a girl whom they cant trust or will drop you when she is bored.. she is the loser.
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man, seems your ego is greatly affected and thinking that your ex has someone already kills you... May I ask, did you love her? If not.. it's only your ego man
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Fuck!! Some of you guys are so cruel... Hahahahahahaha....

Naughty: I feel for you, but don't sweat it. DON'T go bang a hooker. You'll regret it. Drown yourself in work for a while. You'll get more business, especially when you start promoting LiveCamNetwork.com. In fact, you should really start promoting this girl, Pixie.




Look how cute she is! See? Aren't you starting to forget your girlfriend already? She converts about 1:80, and average spending with her is $60.00 a pop, 8 times a month!

Anyway, seriously, just drown yourself in work, and you'll forget ol' whatshername after a while. Time heals. Go Absence makes the heart go yonder. etc, etc.

Good luck!
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I run a site for this kind of thing.

http://www.exgfs.net/forum/

Post her there.
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Old 12-28-2007, 09:02 AM   #92
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Great posts (almost) everybody. Obviously my ego is affected, I do love her, but i did complain a lot before all this too. So, time to focus on different things for sure.

On a sidenote: Today she said she regretted 'moving' on so fast and letting me go. Knowing her, that'd be some other story tonight, so ... I don't take it too seriously.
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that was a nice start naughty. forget her and move on.. i know these are simple words to say and hard to do. you can make it man!
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That is honestly the best advice. Fuck meds, fuck a therapaist, fuck hookers (well, don't fuck hookers;)..).

I think people are forgetting that she left you (according to your post) which means if it we're up to you, you would still be with her. So we're not only dealing with the thought of her sleeping with someone else, but you actually care about her. I can understand why you're not ready to deal with other women yet. When you really care about someone it's more than just pussy. My advice to you bro is to take RyanL's advice. I know it hurts but life goes on and time heals all wounds. You'll get over it enventually. Just make sure you take care of your son, don't bad mouth her in front of the kid, tell her to do the same. Tell her to watch them men she has around your son and you do the same with the women. No child needs to be exposed to the adult habits of his parents. You created this situation so now you need to make the best of it.

Rule #1 - Make sure the kid doesn't suffer because of your mistakes.
Rule #2 - Don't argue with her around the child
Rule #3 - Dont argue with her on the phone about shit that doesn't matter. Keep the convo's only about the child and keep it movin. Talking about relationship is only going to hurt more.
Rule #4 - Spend as much time with your kid as you can and dont miss anything like school event's, soccer games, any of that. Always be there.
Rule #5 - Don't try to fuck her when you pick up or drop off the kid. That only creates more drama unless you honestly think there is a chance of you two getting back together. Chances are if she had a boyfriend a week after you guys broke up, she was probably cheating on you. She can't be trusted so why waste your time? Get along with her for the sake of the child and that's it.

Good luck to you man. You got a long road ahead of you but how you act will determine if it's a hard road or not.
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It's unfair how when guys ask for advice on how to get over a chick people always say "fuck another chick" but when a female asks how to get over a guy no one says "fuck another guy". Fuck the double standards. It's 2007. Women should be able to fuck guys as well in order to get over someone and not be labeled sluts because of it. I fucken hate double standards!
Well usually when a guy dumps a chick its because she is already fucking someone else. If not, hell go for it. Either way women dump guys more than guys dump women by a ratio of at least 2:1. at least that has been my observation.
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Don't be weak and deal with it like a man...i hate when man is crying over girl.....it's just so weak for me,sorry
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Old 12-30-2007, 04:51 PM   #98
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hoe into housewife....doesn't work.

You knew what she was about when yo meet her, now suck it up and be a man
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Old 12-30-2007, 04:56 PM   #99
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Old 12-30-2007, 06:16 PM   #100
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I know the feeling, it's gonna take you 1 or 2 years to get rid of it
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