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there is a ton of half-assed advice posts in this thread but a couple good ones... but maybe thats cause there isn't a whole lot you can do about it in the first place... Nonetheless...
Mainly, realize the fact that millions of people have felt and are dealing with the same thing you are and eventually 99.9% of them get over it, you know why? Time. Fact is, you will get over it... one year later? two, three? you can't force it just roll with it.
also understand that it's not your fault that she has to be with someone all the time, thats her own problem and there's not much you can do to change that.
i would also advise hitting the gym up in some of your free time. nothing like making yourself feel good the ol fashion way--- by getting healthier and looking better than ever.
its pretty clear you're not really looking for another relationship at this point (from what i can tell) so i would say fucking some random chick isn't going to do much either. yeah its 10 minutes of fun for ya (or 3 hours of pleasure town if you're like me) but you're not gonna be satisfied just yet cause it's not with the girl you REALLY want to be with. keep going out with your friends but dont go looking for love, chances are it will find you.
don't fall into the drugs and drinking bullshit constantly to make the pain go away. man up, do what you gotta do to press on and you'll be back on your feet in no time.
i wish you and the kid all the luck!
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