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Originally Posted by Skillz Unlimited
Rule #1 - Make sure the kid doesn't suffer because of your mistakes.
Rule #2 - Don't argue with her around the child
Rule #3 - Dont argue with her on the phone about shit that doesn't matter. Keep the convo's only about the child and keep it movin. Talking about relationship is only going to hurt more.
Rule #4 - Spend as much time with your kid as you can and dont miss anything like school event's, soccer games, any of that. Always be there.
Rule #5 - Don't try to fuck her when you pick up or drop off the kid. That only creates more drama unless you honestly think there is a chance of you two getting back together. Chances are if she had a boyfriend a week after you guys broke up, she was probably cheating on you. She can't be trusted so why waste your time? Get along with her for the sake of the child and that's it.
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Fantastic advice for the best interests of your child. If you focus on this, you'll see that you can also be friends with her with time. (Worked for me)
As for your issue - like everyone else said - keep yourself busy. Try to get out in public more with people that are interesting. No need to hook up rightaway if you don't want to. Make sure you're always in good company - it will distract you and it will keep the thoughts to a minimum. Also - you are not an idiot, you are human. Anyone who's been hurt goes through similar issues. Trust me on that one.