Wold your forgive your significant other for stealing from you? - Page 3 - GoFuckYourself.com

sternyduke · 03-06-2007, 08:04 PM

stealing is just the tip of the iceberg. you'll wish you dropped their ass when they admit to giving you herpes or ass warts. fuck second chances unless you enjoy being shit on or something...

Aussie Rebel · 03-06-2007, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Ok, I just wanted to know if stealing is considered crossing lines.

Fuck yeah! I hate thieves of any kind

bausch · 03-06-2007, 08:17 PM

Rowan, do you remember the post I made a few years ago about seeing someone who was hypochondriac and reading that strange chinese site? You asked me what happened about that on another board...

It's the same person that I'm talking about in this thread. I think I know what was wrong with them back then. I think it was a nervous breakdown...

03-06-2007, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

A few weeks ago I ordered two hard drives, one for myself and one for someone I'm dating as a gift. I didn't even have time to open the box so I just left it there until one day I noticed it was gone. It's not very noticeable because my house is kind of messy and there's other boxes laying around so it kind of blended in... I asked the person that I was seeing if they took it, and they were like no of course not. And this person is a good actor, they were totally pretending to be worried that someone broke into my house etc

Until right now, I saw this person on Craigslist selling the hard drive I bought for them, I recognize their cell number. Well, I guess if I bought it for them, they can do whatever they want with it, but they lied to me, and not only that but they took my hard drive too!

I've been dating this person seriously for around 2 years or so.

Anwyays, we got in a big fight a few days ago and I noticed my Ipod was gone too! I have a feeling this person took it as well.

Now this person has financial problems and I actually was helping them out, help paying some of their bills etc. But I didn't know they would take stuff from my house and sell it.

Anyways, I would never call the cops because well I just wouldn't... Also, I have money and I'm not poor so it's not like took huge amounts of money from me.

I guess this person felt I wasn't helping them enough... Or since we got in a fight they know I'm not going to bail them out so they just decided to sell it, but the thing is when we were cool with each other, they didn't tell me that they took my stuff either...

Is it really a big deal? I can buy new hard drives easily, maybe it's not that big of a deal? Or is it the principle of it? I would get totally angry if a stranger stole from me but if it's something I care for I tend to overlook it, like it's not a big deal... perhaps they needed money or whatever...

You can forgive people but I would never trust them again. It is a big deal to steal, but it is worse to steal from someone you are dating. I would cut all ties with this person. There is no excuse for their behavior.

rowan · 03-06-2007, 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Rowan, do you remember the post I made a few years ago about seeing someone who was hypochondriac and reading that strange chinese site? You asked me what happened about that on another board...

It's the same person that I'm talking about in this thread. I think I know what was wrong with them back then. I think it was a nervous breakdown...

I was wondering if you'd remember that was me

To be honest, the relationship sounded quite shaky and uncertain even back then...

Blingbaby · 03-06-2007, 11:50 PM

My question is what kind of fucked up relationship do you have with this *person* that after two years together you can't lend a helping hand and they have to resort to stealing from you. Shame on you both, what a sham!

bausch · 03-07-2007, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Blingbaby

My question is what kind of fucked up relationship do you have with this *person* that after two years together you can't lend a helping hand and they have to resort to stealing from you. Shame on you both, what a sham!

I already help them with their bills, we got in a fight so that's why this person decided to sell it. They take it when they are mad during a fight. I always help this person out, I spent thousands on them already!

bausch · 03-07-2007, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by rowan

I was wondering if you'd remember that was me

To be honest, the relationship sounded quite shaky and uncertain even back then...

Yes I remember. I also pm'ed you on the other board and asked you something but you never responded...

It's not important now anyways, it had to do with one of my threads in the past but that one is already done with.

This person is still taking those weird "herbal medicines", I think they are placebo and don't do anything. I had to buy a lot of the medicines for the person too because they said they were "dying" and their "head hurted so much."

Also back then I didn't know what was bothering them, if they took steroids or had health probs. Now I know. It was all in the head.

Blingbaby · 03-07-2007, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch

I already help them with their bills, we got in a fight so that's why this person decided to sell it. They take it when they are mad during a fight. I always help this person out, I spent thousands on them already!

Well then your choice is clear, go all the way or get out of this mess..

DarkJedi · 03-07-2007, 01:22 AM

You are a fucking idiot.

And stop saying "them" it's fucking retarded. It's either he or she.

You are probably a fag, because no real man would even think twice about it.

beemk · 03-07-2007, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

they would rather watch porn than sell it of course...

you must not be pleasing them in bed then, chances are they are going to cheat on you if they arent already.

beemk · 03-07-2007, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Yes, cheating is MUCH worse than stealing because I would forget about the money real fast because there's always more coming in.

Cheating would be traumatizing forever because I would always wonder;

"What did the other person look like? Were they better than me? Why did they choose that person over me? What did that person have that I don't have? Why am I not good enough? What could I do to prevent this from happening again? Oh great, now I'll die alone cause I'm traumatized for life. How was the sex with the other person? Where they really good? " etc etc

I would lose a lot of sleep over it. I would be mad if someone stole from me but I wouldn't lose any sleep over it unless it was big amounts...

Cheating is the ultimate betrayal.

the morals are pretty closely related, someone who would be ok with stealing from their significant other wouldnt think twice about cheating on them.

Sluggo · 03-07-2007, 02:39 PM

Fuck her. Kick her to the curb.

Kimo · 03-07-2007, 02:46 PM

get rid of them NOW

seriously

BlackCrayon · 03-07-2007, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

I didn't meet this person on-line but through a friend. The thing is that I feel like no one's perfect and whomever I am going to be with will have something wrong with them. I chose this person because their sibling is my friend of over 10 years and told me the best quality about this person is that they are faithful.

I feel like I can chose between someone who doesn't mooch and steal from me but cheats on me, or someone who might mooch and have some flaws but remain faithful. I don't feel like there are good people left in the. world. If this doesn't work out I. won't have the willpower to even meet someone else. I will just give up and stay alone for the rest of my life until I die.

Also, this person is also my best friend. I don't have much friends and don't get along with my family and if I leave this person I'll basically be on my own all alone in the world.

wow, sounds like you are only with this person because you are afraid to be alone, which i guess is something a lot of people fall into but is certainly no way to spend the rest of your life. you saying you won't have the willpower to meet someone else is just a way for you to justify staying with them. sure, everyone has their flaws but it sounds like you are dealing with a full out mental patient. personally i'd rather be alone than deal with that bullshit.

BlackCrayon · 03-07-2007, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Yes, cheating is MUCH worse than stealing because I would forget about the money real fast because there's always more coming in.

Cheating would be traumatizing forever because I would always wonder;

"What did the other person look like? Were they better than me? Why did they choose that person over me? What did that person have that I don't have? Why am I not good enough? What could I do to prevent this from happening again? Oh great, now I'll die alone cause I'm traumatized for life. How was the sex with the other person? Where they really good? " etc etc

I would lose a lot of sleep over it. I would be mad if someone stole from me but I wouldn't lose any sleep over it unless it was big amounts...

Cheating is the ultimate betrayal.

sounds like you were hurt by a previous relationship where the other person cheated and now let it cloud your judgement so much that the person could be a serial killer as long as he didn't fuck other people. there are plenty of people out there who are faithful, just because you met a few that weren't doesn't mean they all aren't.

Z · 03-07-2007, 03:27 PM

Buh bye...

chaze · 03-07-2007, 03:43 PM

No questions about it, NO

Doctor Dre · 03-07-2007, 03:48 PM

Jesus christ...

A relationship is based on trust... no way in hell I could live with that person.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

you must not be pleasing them in bed then, chances are they are going to cheat on you if they arent already.

What I meant was that it's too strenuous for them to work, it gives them headaches. They can't do it. This person doesn't watch porn hardly actually. I was trying to say that they aren't capable of working selling porn due to too many mental probs, it's stressful for them to do even simple things like submitting. They say it stresses them out.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

sounds like you were hurt by a previous relationship where the other person cheated and now let it cloud your judgement so much that the person could be a serial killer as long as he didn't fuck other people. there are plenty of people out there who are faithful, just because you met a few that weren't doesn't mean they all aren't.

Umm no, not true. I never got cheated on, but I have been what I consider "betrayed".

bausch · 03-07-2007, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

you must not be pleasing them in bed then, chances are they are going to cheat on you if they arent already.

What I meant was that if given the choice they would rather watch something than work. They however much rather just surf around on the internet instead of selling it. That's what I meant.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Blingbaby

My question is what kind of fucked up relationship do you have with this *person* that after two years together you can't lend a helping hand and they have to resort to stealing from you. Shame on you both, what a sham!

Also, one more thing, I feel like I MORE than lend a hand to this person. This is a fully GROWN adult who has the nerve to dare ask me for a monthly ALLOWANCE on top of me paying their bills!! Don't you feel that goes beyond "just helping" someone??

Another thing I didn't mention is that this person is very resentful of me because I send money to my mother each month (even though we aren't that close). They feel that since I give my mother, I should give THEM money too, because they should be the #1 person in my life. They are very jealous of the fact that I give MORE money to my mother than I do to them. They are also mad because I never told them that I gave money to my mother. The reason why I didn't is because it is 100% MY money and I didn't feel like I needed to ask permission on how to spend my own money.

During Thanksgiving me and my significant other planned to go to Vegas. I spent over 1k on both our tickets and hotel, and my significant other asked me for "spending money" in Vegas. I refused, and just because of that this person decided not to go with me on the day of the flight and drove there with their brother instead, leaving me to fly in on my own. I was so angry that I didn't even want to fly in and lost the airfare plus hotel because it was non-refundable and too late to cancel.

So you can't say I don't help this person, I help them ALL the time.

I refused the allowance because it made me feel TOO MUCH taken advantage of, but I still put up with a lot of stuff.

porno jew · 03-07-2007, 04:42 PM

send her over to me. i'll straighten the bitch out.

u-Bob · 03-07-2007, 05:01 PM

are you gay?

germ · 03-07-2007, 05:14 PM

run like the motherfucking wind, dude.

dysthymic · 03-07-2007, 05:54 PM

he's probably going to use the money to fuck a whore.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 05:56 PM

The hd drive is still for sale. I don't have anyone to call for me though to pretend to be the buyer and set up a meeting so I can meet them up. I don't know how to do it because this person tends not to not pick up calls from anon numbers on the caller id, and if you are calling from a different area code than 714 or 949 then this person would know you're not a legit buyer. Or perhaps I could try and dialing from my number as an anonymous caller and just hope this person picks up. I need someone to talk for me though, obviously I can't because my voice would be recognized.

TigerDragon · 03-07-2007, 05:59 PM

omg.....

d00t · 03-07-2007, 06:13 PM

Read and read again....

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Originally Posted by bausch

I've been dating this person seriously for around 2 years or so.

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Originally Posted by bausch

we got in a big fight a few days ago and I noticed my Ipod was gone too! I have a feeling this person took it as well.

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Originally Posted by bausch

Now this person has financial problems and I actually was helping them out, help paying some of their bills etc.

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Originally Posted by bausch

Anyways, I would never call the cops because well I just wouldn't... Also, I have money and I'm not poor so it's not like took huge amounts of money from me.

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Originally Posted by bausch

I guess this person felt I wasn't helping them enough...

bausch · 03-07-2007, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by dysthymic

he's probably going to use the money to fuck a whore.

Ummm ok. I am flattered you used your first post on me. Your nickname means refers to some type of depression : http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-md04.html

Did you chose this nickname just to make this post?

dysthymic · 03-07-2007, 06:27 PM

I am flattered you googled my name.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by dysthymic

I am flattered you googled my name.

Does your first name happen to start with the letter "W"?

dysthymic · 03-07-2007, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Does your first name happen to start with the letter "W"?

maybe, maybe not, maybe fuck yourself

bausch · 03-07-2007, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by dysthymic

maybe, maybe not, maybe fuck yourself

Why are you so angry? Did I do something to you?

gimo33 · 03-07-2007, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Also, one more thing, I feel like I MORE than lend a hand to this person. This is a fully GROWN adult who has the nerve to dare ask me for a monthly ALLOWANCE on top of me paying their bills!! Don't you feel that goes beyond "just helping" someone??

you help them yet they steal from you? only a fucked up person would do that. ditch 'em

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Another thing I didn't mention is that this person is very resentful of me because I send money to my mother each month (even though we aren't that close). They feel that since I give my mother, I should give THEM money too, because they should be the #1 person in my life. They are very jealous of the fact that I give MORE money to my mother than I do to them. They are also mad because I never told them that I gave money to my mother. The reason why I didn't is because it is 100% MY money and I didn't feel like I needed to ask permission on how to spend my own money.

you mother gave birth to you, you are here because of your mother. a person who is jealous of their partners mother is once again a fucked up person. ditch 'em.

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I feel TOO MUCH taken advantage of, but I still put up with a lot of stuff.

ya think?! they are fucked up... ditch 'em

trust is one basis of a good relationship, if there is no trust there i don't think the relationship would work out...

gimo33 · 03-07-2007, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Why are you so angry? Did I do something to you?

maybe they are your significant other...

dysthymic · 03-07-2007, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Why are you so angry? Did I do something to you?

I was just joking, I guess you didn't see The Departed

s9ann0 · 03-07-2007, 06:49 PM

no way! get rid of them!

BlackCrayon · 03-07-2007, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

What I meant was that it's too strenuous for them to work, it gives them headaches. They can't do it. This person doesn't watch porn hardly actually. I was trying to say that they aren't capable of working selling porn due to too many mental probs, it's stressful for them to do even simple things like submitting. They say it stresses them out.

any lazy piece of crap could say that. either this person is the biggest wimp in the world or should be on disablity.

BlackCrayon · 03-07-2007, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Umm no, not true. I never got cheated on, but I have been what I consider "betrayed".

oh. well you seem very worried about being cheated on. i remember you posting about how all guys fuck hookers, ect. well personally i don't know any guy who has ever fucked a hooker. you have a very skewed view of guys for whatever reason. i could say that all women cheat and are always looking for the next best things and post thousands of examples but it doesn't make it true.

Nodtveidt · 03-07-2007, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

you must not be pleasing them in bed then, chances are they are going to cheat on you if they arent already.

That's not necessarily true. My wif and I have amazing sex, yet I am an very avid pornophile. :D

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oh. well you seem very worried about being cheated on. i remember you posting about how all guys fuck hookers, ect. well personally i don't know any guy who has ever fucked a hooker. you have a very skewed view of guys for whatever reason. i could say that all women cheat and are always looking for the next best things and post thousands of examples but it doesn't make it true.

Yeah, that's definately a dangerous mindset to have. I could easily say that all women are backstabbing, abusive bitches because my first one was just that and I was too stupid to leave her...doesn't mean it's true about all women.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 10:42 PM

What happened was that I used Spooftel to change my voice and called this person and pretended to want to buy it. We met up in a public place just right now and this person said I was crazy really loud and yelled it out loud so everyone can hear it. And was yelling that I was stalking them. They had the hard drive with them too and it was covered in a jacket but I knew what it was. They also went inside Jamba Juice (where we met) and yelled out loud : " (Insert My name here) is crazy!! xxxx is stalking me!!!"

They totally denied and said it was their hard drive and didn't know what I was talking about. And went off their way and I drove back.

beemk · 03-07-2007, 10:43 PM

well you gotta admit, you are pretty damn crazy.

bausch · 03-07-2007, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

well you gotta admit, you are pretty damn crazy.

Am I really

tony286 · 03-07-2007, 10:52 PM

yes i would forgive her as she was packing her shit to get out of my house lol

GAMEFINEST · 03-07-2007, 10:54 PM

i would forgive..loll

he-fox · 03-07-2007, 10:57 PM

I can´t believe this thread is still on the first page

rowan · 03-07-2007, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by bausch

What happened was that I used Spooftel to change my voice and called this person and pretended to want to buy it. We met up in a public place just right now and this person said I was crazy really loud and yelled it out loud so everyone can hear it. And was yelling that I was stalking them. They had the hard drive with them too and it was covered in a jacket but I knew what it was. They also went inside Jamba Juice (where we met) and yelled out loud : " (Insert My name here) is crazy!! xxxx is stalking me!!!"

They totally denied and said it was their hard drive and didn't know what I was talking about. And went off their way and I drove back.

So, hopefully this helps you to make a firm decision?

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-07-2007, 11:44 PM

I think you should call her cell phone and ask her about buying the two harddrives. Obviously she is going to realize she is busted, so get in her face with it. Be sure to humiliate her for being the crackwhore she is. She'll probably cry and apologize, then dig for pity. Slap her around and put her ass to the curb. Alternately you can ride out the bullshit apologies, get your dick sucked, fuck her in the ass for good measures, then promptylu put her to the curb. Either way, she should wind up sitting in the same gutter she smokes rocks in. I don't deal with people who cheat my trust and fuck me around, neither should you, or anyone else for that matter. People like this will ride your pity as long as they can.

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bausch Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,017	Rowan, do you remember the post I made a few years ago about seeing someone who was hypochondriac and reading that strange chinese site? You asked me what happened about that on another board... It's the same person that I'm talking about in this thread. I think I know what was wrong with them back then. I think it was a nervous breakdown... Last edited by bausch; 03-06-2007 at 08:19 PM..

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bausch Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,017	The hd drive is still for sale. I don't have anyone to call for me though to pretend to be the buyer and set up a meeting so I can meet them up. I don't know how to do it because this person tends not to not pick up calls from anon numbers on the caller id, and if you are calling from a different area code than 714 or 949 then this person would know you're not a legit buyer. Or perhaps I could try and dialing from my number as an anonymous caller and just hope this person picks up. I need someone to talk for me though, obviously I can't because my voice would be recognized. Last edited by bausch; 03-07-2007 at 05:59 PM..

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bausch Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,017	What happened was that I used Spooftel to change my voice and called this person and pretended to want to buy it. We met up in a public place just right now and this person said I was crazy really loud and yelled it out loud so everyone can hear it. And was yelling that I was stalking them. They had the hard drive with them too and it was covered in a jacket but I knew what it was. They also went inside Jamba Juice (where we met) and yelled out loud : " (Insert My name here) is crazy!! xxxx is stalking me!!!" They totally denied and said it was their hard drive and didn't know what I was talking about. And went off their way and I drove back. Last edited by bausch; 03-07-2007 at 10:43 PM..

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sternyduke Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: scottsdale Posts: 1,082	stealing is just the tip of the iceberg. you'll wish you dropped their ass when they admit to giving you herpes or ass warts. fuck second chances unless you enjoy being shit on or something...

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Blingbaby Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,079	My question is what kind of fucked up relationship do you have with this person that after two years together you can't lend a helping hand and they have to resort to stealing from you. Shame on you both, what a sham!

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Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life (felis madjewicus) Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In Mom & Dad's Basement Posts: 20,368	I think you should call her cell phone and ask her about buying the two harddrives. Obviously she is going to realize she is busted, so get in her face with it. Be sure to humiliate her for being the crackwhore she is. She'll probably cry and apologize, then dig for pity. Slap her around and put her ass to the curb. Alternately you can ride out the bullshit apologies, get your dick sucked, fuck her in the ass for good measures, then promptylu put her to the curb. Either way, she should wind up sitting in the same gutter she smokes rocks in. I don't deal with people who cheat my trust and fuck me around, neither should you, or anyone else for that matter. People like this will ride your pity as long as they can.