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Old 03-07-2007, 02:51 PM  
BlackCrayon
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Originally Posted by bausch View Post
I didn't meet this person on-line but through a friend. The thing is that I feel like no one's perfect and whomever I am going to be with will have something wrong with them. I chose this person because their sibling is my friend of over 10 years and told me the best quality about this person is that they are faithful.

I feel like I can chose between someone who doesn't mooch and steal from me but cheats on me, or someone who might mooch and have some flaws but remain faithful. I don't feel like there are good people left in the. world. If this doesn't work out I. won't have the willpower to even meet someone else. I will just give up and stay alone for the rest of my life until I die.

Also, this person is also my best friend. I don't have much friends and don't get along with my family and if I leave this person I'll basically be on my own all alone in the world.
wow, sounds like you are only with this person because you are afraid to be alone, which i guess is something a lot of people fall into but is certainly no way to spend the rest of your life. you saying you won't have the willpower to meet someone else is just a way for you to justify staying with them. sure, everyone has their flaws but it sounds like you are dealing with a full out mental patient. personally i'd rather be alone than deal with that bullshit.
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