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Originally Posted by bausch
Also, one more thing, I feel like I MORE than lend a hand to this person. This is a fully GROWN adult who has the nerve to dare ask me for a monthly ALLOWANCE on top of me paying their bills!! Don't you feel that goes beyond "just helping" someone??
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you help them yet they steal from you? only a fucked up person would do that. ditch 'em
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Another thing I didn't mention is that this person is very resentful of me because I send money to my mother each month (even though we aren't that close). They feel that since I give my mother, I should give THEM money too, because they should be the #1 person in my life. They are very jealous of the fact that I give MORE money to my mother than I do to them. They are also mad because I never told them that I gave money to my mother. The reason why I didn't is because it is 100% MY money and I didn't feel like I needed to ask permission on how to spend my own money.
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you mother gave birth to you, you are here because of your mother. a person who is jealous of their partners mother is once again a fucked up person. ditch 'em.
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I feel TOO MUCH taken advantage of, but I still put up with a lot of stuff.
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ya think?! they are fucked up... ditch 'em
trust is one basis of a good relationship, if there is no trust there i don't think the relationship would work out...
