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Originally Posted by Blingbaby
My question is what kind of fucked up relationship do you have with this *person* that after two years together you can't lend a helping hand and they have to resort to stealing from you. Shame on you both, what a sham!
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Also, one more thing, I feel like I MORE than lend a hand to this person. This is a fully GROWN adult who has the nerve to dare ask me for a monthly ALLOWANCE on top of me paying their bills!! Don't you feel that goes beyond "just helping" someone??
Another thing I didn't mention is that this person is very resentful of me because I send money to my mother each month (even though we aren't that close). They feel that since I give my mother, I should give THEM money too, because they should be the #1 person in my life. They are very jealous of the fact that I give MORE money to my mother than I do to them. They are also mad because I never told them that I gave money to my mother. The reason why I didn't is because it is 100% MY money and I didn't feel like I needed to ask permission on how to spend my own money.
During Thanksgiving me and my significant other planned to go to Vegas. I spent over 1k on both our tickets and hotel, and my significant other asked me for "spending money" in Vegas. I refused, and just because of that this person decided not to go with me on the day of the flight and drove there with their brother instead, leaving me to fly in on my own. I was so angry that I didn't even want to fly in and lost the airfare plus hotel because it was non-refundable and too late to cancel.
So you can't say I don't help this person, I help them ALL the time.
I refused the allowance because it made me feel TOO MUCH taken advantage of, but I still put up with a lot of stuff.