Wold your forgive your significant other for stealing from you? - Page 4 - GoFuckYourself.com

woj · 03-07-2007, 11:45 PM

150 thieves...

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-07-2007, 11:46 PM

bah, i failed to read the whole post before replying, she is crazy... just call the fuzz, it's a dirty move on some levels, but when someone fucks with you and they are at legal fault i say it's all good...

bausch · 03-08-2007, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by ismokeblunts

I think you should call her cell phone and ask her about buying the two harddrives. Obviously she is going to realize she is busted, so get in her face with it. Be sure to humiliate her for being the crackwhore she is. She'll probably cry and apologize, then dig for pity. Slap her around and put her ass to the curb. Alternately you can ride out the bullshit apologies, get your dick sucked, fuck her in the ass for good measures, then promptylu put her to the curb. Either way, she should wind up sitting in the same gutter she smokes rocks in. I don't deal with people who cheat my trust and fuck me around, neither should you, or anyone else for that matter. People like this will ride your pity as long as they can.

Yes, I stated in my post above I already did this just a few hours ago. I disguised my voice with Spooftel, we met up. They said the hard drive was theirs and they didn't know what I was talking about. They yelled LOUD in public that I was crazy, and stalking them. They yelled LOUD, like the whole store and street could hear it, everyone in the parking lot etc

The proof I have is a receipt from Newegg and a screenshot of the ad they posted on Craigslist with both showing the EXACT same hard drive down to the MODEL NUMBER. It still won't be good enough because the person can still LIE and say that we both bought it and that it's not stolen.

They even just told someone else that they tried to give it back to me, which they didn't. They are a compulsive liar. No matter what proof I have this person will think of some lie and make it seem like I'm wrong!!!

bausch · 03-08-2007, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by rowan

So, hopefully this helps you to make a firm decision?

Yeah it kind of does, but this person has done much worse things to me before and I didn't leave back then either.

I think I'm very needy and no matter how badly I get treated it's hard for me to leave because then I'll worry about who the person is seeing, if their dating someone new, if they are out partying and meeting new people and then I'll just get really depressed and anxious inside, I have a lot of anxiety.

I don't know why I'm like this, I was never abused physically or sexually when I was younger. My parents fought a lot and divorced but I never saw my parents hitting each other... I don't know why I'm so dysfunctional even though nothing terrible happened to me in my childhood.

rowan · 03-08-2007, 04:42 AM

bausch do you have ICQ?

bausch · 03-08-2007, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by rowan

bausch do you have ICQ?

Yea... I'll be ok though, I don't need mental help counseling on icq

I would feel kind of weird. Thanks though...

I have a feeling you would tell me to leave the person etc, which I already know from reading this board and which I should, so I guess it does help me make a firm decision.

u-Bob · 03-08-2007, 04:49 AM

the whole he/she, him/her, his/hers thing in this thread makes me LOL.

Crasy Bitch · 03-08-2007, 04:52 AM

Trust is not something you can let go of. This girl can't care about you too much if she is not only stealing, but lying to you as well. Its up to you to decide if you should forgive her or not. But i'm sure everyone will advise you to NOT !!!

You seem to have your heart in the right place, helping her out by paying some of her bills. That alone is a sign of loyalty on your behalf. I think you could find someone better, someone you can trust and not write threads about how she is stealing from you.....

Wish you luck with this man

CDSmith · 03-08-2007, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Gentle_Ben

dump their ass, now. imo

Thread should have ended right there at post nine.

And why does the original poster keep calling his girlfriend "them"?

FritzRyan · 03-08-2007, 05:06 AM

every time someone steels from me I see it as a lesson - I don't get uset - i just move on - a guy clipped my car last night we were both doing about 60mph - i lost my drivers mirror - close call - no problem - i lived through a head on once - you lost a few things - wise up - move on with a great life - my ex lives in my old house with i don't know who half the time - but i'm a lot happier than she is...

you got a lot of friends

jasonjackie · 04-03-2007, 12:57 AM

Just move on

baddog · 04-03-2007, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

Thread should have ended right there at post nine.

And why does the original poster keep calling his girlfriend "them"?

because the original poster is a chick (phogirl69 aka rants)

Doctor Dre · 04-03-2007, 01:15 AM

Them = Chiemera or something ? What the fuck ? Who are you reffering as "them" ?

Sarah_Jayne · 04-03-2007, 03:41 AM

No because if they were really my partner they wouldn't have to steal from me if they needed money or help and so if they stole from me it would be done just to hurt ma and I couldn't have that in my life when your partner is suppose to be the person that you can trust the most in your life.

rowan · 04-03-2007, 06:07 AM

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Originally Posted by jasonjackie

Just move on

We did, about a month ago, before you bumped this again.

Barefootsies · 04-03-2007, 07:44 AM

TG Rebecca · 04-03-2007, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by bausch

Well, then the person will "Is that all I'm worth to you, just a few hundred dollars? Is it all about money? I thought I was your baby..." etc and try to make me feel guilty like I caused it.

Plus we've been together for over 2 years now, it's kind of a long time. I'm very attached to this person so it's hard to walk away just cause of this.

i totally understand what it's like to be with someone and put up with their antics because you genuinely care for them and enjoy them. but, it doesn't seem like this person feels the same way for you as you do for them. while it's ultimately your decision what you will put up with and allow someone to do to you, from a third party, unbiased opinion, i think what they're doing to you is wrong on so many levels. and their excuses (or at least what you THINK their excuses would be) are lousy and manipulative.

if you are financially stable enough to continue letting them get away with stealing from you and are comfortable with their reasoning for it, then who are we to tell you not to? however, i'd get as far away as possible IF I WERE YOU.

either way, best of luck with the situation. i would just hate for this to continue happening for a year or two longer, then the relationship just fizzles or it finally gets to you, etc, and then you're out even more money and you're even more attached and even more broken hearted. so just be careful.

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03-08-2007, 04:52 AM	#158
Crasy Bitch Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ottawa, Canada Posts: 598	Trust is not something you can let go of. This girl can't care about you too much if she is not only stealing, but lying to you as well. Its up to you to decide if you should forgive her or not. But i'm sure everyone will advise you to NOT !!! You seem to have your heart in the right place, helping her out by paying some of her bills. That alone is a sign of loyalty on your behalf. I think you could find someone better, someone you can trust and not write threads about how she is stealing from you..... Wish you luck with this man __________________ Behind every great woman, is a guy looking at her ass.

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03-07-2007, 11:46 PM	#152
Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life (felis madjewicus) Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In Mom & Dad's Basement Posts: 20,368	bah, i failed to read the whole post before replying, she is crazy... just call the fuzz, it's a dirty move on some levels, but when someone fucks with you and they are at legal fault i say it's all good...

03-08-2007, 04:42 AM	#155
rowan Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 17,393	bausch do you have ICQ?

03-08-2007, 04:49 AM	#157
u-Bob there's no $$$ in porn Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: icq: 195./568.-230 (btw: not getting offline msgs) Posts: 33,063	the whole he/she, him/her, his/hers thing in this thread makes me LOL.

03-08-2007, 05:06 AM	#160
FritzRyan Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: behind my camera and in front of a screen Posts: 104	every time someone steels from me I see it as a lesson - I don't get uset - i just move on - a guy clipped my car last night we were both doing about 60mph - i lost my drivers mirror - close call - no problem - i lived through a head on once - you lost a few things - wise up - move on with a great life - my ex lives in my old house with i don't know who half the time - but i'm a lot happier than she is... you got a lot of friends

04-03-2007, 03:41 AM	#164
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	No because if they were really my partner they wouldn't have to steal from me if they needed money or help and so if they stole from me it would be done just to hurt ma and I couldn't have that in my life when your partner is suppose to be the person that you can trust the most in your life.