Reason for a guy to hit me? - GoFuckYourself.com

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:02 AM

I posted this in the wrong thread so I'll repost it here again:

Before I even say anything, I just want to say that the guy in question DID NOT hit me HARD, I don't have any bruises or anything! I don't want people to think that I get beaten on, or that my bf abuses me, or ANYTHING alike. I only got a little bit red and that was all, and it's the first time this has happened. But I am almost afraid to state what the reason was for the fight happened between me and my bf and I am hesitant that you all will think it is my fault.

What happened was that my bf was on the laptop on the pc, and I came outside to see what he was doing, and I kept on bugging him and reading over his shoulder, so he told me to go back into the bedroom. I didn't feel like going inside so I kept by his side and according to him I was annyoing him really badly (which is probably true) . So eventually he told me 5 times to go in the room, but he said it in a mean tone "Go in the room now." But the thing is that if he said it in a nice way, I probably wouldn't have gone inside anyways, because I'm stubborn. So instead I said
"Why do I have to always listen to YOU. You can't tell me what to do."

So he got really pissed off, and when we went into the room he was extremly pissed, like almost shaking and hyperventilating. He says that he does always listen to me (which is mostly true btw) and that he listens the first time whenever I tell him something, and that I am exaggerating and making it seem like he is always forcing me to obey him. And then he told me to get out of his house, and I wouldn't, so after he said it a few times, he got pissed and hit me on my thighs and slapped me (not too hard though) and threw my wallet me. It was hard enough that I could feel it, and I turned red, but i's not abuse I think, because I did not even get bruises or anything.

Even after the fight he still doesn't think he is wrong because he claims that I provoked him because I didn't listen to him when he told me to go inside 5x. And then he said that if I was a guy he would have punched me for "fucking with him in his house". And he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates, because they get "pushed" emotionally.

And then he said that women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war." WTF, he never even joined the military, which I told him. But he said that if the troops in Iraq died and USA got invaded, the first line of defense would be the MEN, and that would include him, so therefore the women (I) should show more respect because the men fight for the women and children.

He is trying to say that I am being a hypocrite for thinking that it's not ok for him to hit me, just because I'm a girl, because it's the MEN who go to war. And the he asked why it's ok for me to hit him, but not vice versa? The thing is that I hit him playfully, and not with as much force as he did me, and I NEVER did it during a fight. Plus he was choking me too (not hard to the point where I am even close to dying, but just enough that I felt tingling). and then he STILL says that it's my fault because I was annoying
him while he was on the laptop.

He says that he was looking to order something for Valentines day for us, and he was mad because I was just bugging him non-stop. It's true that I can be very very very annoying sometimes, but I don't feel that's enough reason for him to hit me! He still will not admit that he is wrong and he still thinks that I deserve it, and I don't know what to do.

smack · 02-14-2005, 03:03 AM

-edit- gfy fuckup

Kapitan Ivanov II · 02-14-2005, 03:07 AM

You don't seriously think anybody in here cares enough about you to read this ridiculously long post, do you?

webgurl · 02-14-2005, 03:10 AM

weird ... strange relationship u got there . No comment really ...

webgurl · 02-14-2005, 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Kapitan Ivanov II

You don't seriously think anybody in here cares enough about you to read this ridiculously long post, do you?

i read the whole thing out loud

Manowar · 02-14-2005, 03:11 AM

I don't really know what to say, sounds like a bad situation.

Jakke PNG · 02-14-2005, 03:13 AM

You sound like an annoying bitch. I wouldn't hit you though. But I hate annoying girls.

webgurl · 02-14-2005, 03:13 AM

Did you end up finding out what he got u for valentine's day ??

titmowse · 02-14-2005, 03:14 AM

men are stupid. get a dog.

Shoplifter · 02-14-2005, 03:14 AM

Is this the guy you got into a fight with cos you caught him getting lapdances?

Anyhoo it is wrong to ever hit women so as to hurt them.

The worst thing I've ever done to a woman was once I broke my lazy assed GF's cereal bowl cos she was sitting around too much. I deeply regret even that as it just made me look like an idiot.

If you care for the guy talk it all out with him, if you think he has a violence issue leave.

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 03:15 AM

Ok you'r in denial, he slapped you. So you say it wasnt hard? Ok it will be full blown abuse after few years with him. Fuck that looser, get out now.

Kapitan Ivanov II · 02-14-2005, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by titmowse

men are stupid. get a dog.

There are large dogs which have larger average penis size than adult male humans. But I'm sure I don't need to tell YOU that.

tical · 02-14-2005, 03:15 AM

yeah, you do sound like you had that one coming...

Jakke PNG · 02-14-2005, 03:15 AM

Oh, I didn't mean I hate you.. but I'm 100% sure I wouldn't date you.

"I didn't feel like going inside so I kept by his side and according to him I was annyoing him really badly (which is probably true) . So eventually he told me 5 times to go in the room"

"He says that he does always listen to me (which is mostly true btw)"

"He still will not admit that he is wrong and he still thinks that I deserve it, and I don't know what to do."

Dump him, the best thing that ever happened to him.
Happy valentines day.

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Shoplifter

Is this the guy you got into a fight with cos you caught him getting lapdances?

Anyhoo it is wrong to ever hit women so as to hurt them.

The worst thing I've ever done to a woman was once I broke my lazy assed GF's cereal bowl cos she was sitting around too much. I deeply regret even that as it just made me look like an idiot.

If you care for the guy talk it all out with him, if you think he has a violence issue leave.

No this is a different guy.

titmowse · 02-14-2005, 03:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Kapitan Ivanov II

There are large dogs which have larger average penis size than adult male humans. But I'm sure I don't need to tell YOU that.

meow. scratch me again with those sexy claws of yours.

Shoplifter · 02-14-2005, 03:17 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

No this is a different guy.

I don't know you but I remember reading some of your past posts. I think you may have some problems with picking winners.

sonofsam · 02-14-2005, 03:17 AM

i would fucking freak.. i can't stand being bothered while i'm trying to do something... and being told 5 times is more then enough... but i wouldn't hit you..

and him saying "i would go to war if usa got invaded" ... uhhh yeah... okay...

V_RocKs · 02-14-2005, 03:19 AM

If you dig a hole you need to deal with the hole. On the other hand, restraint says more about your character than action.

Part of me says, if you want to go to Iraq and you want to be CEO and you want to be treated like anyone else, well, when I fight my buddy Gary and either of us kicks the others as, neither of us is going to go to jail because we both are not pussies.

Another part of me says that anyone who can't control themselves and needs to resort to physical violence is a pussy. Anyone can walk into a bar and pick a fight with someone, not everyone can sit down and have a beer with everyone at the bar.

So, you need to decide for yourself... I'd explain to him that he doesn't need to hit you and that you are an idiot for provoking him into doing it in the first place. So call it a truce and get on with living your lives (together). Next time he says, "Hey! I need some space!" Give it.

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:21 AM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

Oh, I didn't mean I hate you.. but I'm 100% sure I wouldn't date you.

"I didn't feel like going inside so I kept by his side and according to him I was annyoing him really badly (which is probably true) . So eventually he told me 5 times to go in the room"

"He says that he does always listen to me (which is mostly true btw)"

"He still will not admit that he is wrong and he still thinks that I deserve it, and I don't know what to do."

Dump him, the best thing that ever happened to him.
Happy valentines day.

I think being annoying" someone is not enough reason for someone to hit me.
Especially if that person claims he loves me. Really provoking him would include cheating on him, or stealing his money, or messing with his business; that would deserve a beating. Being "annoying" is not a good reason for him to hit me. And him saying that he understands why people kill their mates in rage, to me is not normal either.

If my attitude was annoying me, he should have discussed it with me, not use force. Because obviously he is much more stronger physically than me.
So, I think that is very weak to use force against someone not as strong as you.

The Sultan Of Smut · 02-14-2005, 03:21 AM

No, that's not a good reason to hit you. It may be a good reason to dump you but not a good reason to hit you.

Chris · 02-14-2005, 03:22 AM

any drugs or booze involved toinght?

almost sounds fake?
wtf is he going off about going tow ar and the us being invaded?
this guy is a whack job if this is true

Kapitan Ivanov II · 02-14-2005, 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by titmowse

meow. scratch me again with those sexy claws of yours.

My tongue is much sharper than my claws.

titmowse · 02-14-2005, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Kapitan Ivanov II

My tongue is much sharper than my claws.

it must really hurt to eat

Jakke PNG · 02-14-2005, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

So, I think that is very weak to use force against someone not as strong as you.

True. But it's very weak to abuse that power, ie. act as YOU please and expect no action. If he would yell at you, you'd be just as upset and whine here.

So, tell me HOW should he act when YOU annoy him to no end? Hug you and let you do what you want?

Kapitan Ivanov II · 02-14-2005, 03:27 AM

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Originally Posted by titmowse

it must really hurt to eat

I survive on a diet of vodka, bread, and mushrooms. Generally combined into a soup.

Gunni · 02-14-2005, 03:27 AM

I hit my gf all the time

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:29 AM

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Originally Posted by JupZChris

any drugs or booze involved toinght?

almost sounds fake?
wtf is he going off about going tow ar and the us being invaded?
this guy is a whack job if this is true

No drugs or booze, it's not fake

His point about Iraq is that he thinks that women today are taking advantage of men, because it's not politically correct for men to hit women and that women overexaggerate it when they get hit sometimes, because they probably provoked the men. But his point is that men go to war to fight FOR the women, so women should more respect.

My point is that he has never went to war for himself, so he shouldn't take credit for other men's deeds. He is basically saying that I should respect him more and listen to him the first time when he says something, because of that. Hopes this makes sense.

He is saying that men fight war, so why do women (he means ME) complain when they get slapped? He is saying I should take it, because it's the man who suffers for it.

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 03:30 AM

Your making this thread like you want to defend this fucking idiot. I will never ever ever ever ever hit a women no matter how bad things get (things never get bad btw, im nice, they are always happy ). Ok here are some things i picked up on your little LOOSER boyfriend who abused you (it dont matter it if he hit you hard or soft, he still hit you so its abuse).

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1} He doent even want you in the house!!
"..and then he told me to get out of his house..."

2} He abuses you!!
...hit me on my thighs and slapped me and threw my wallet me.

3} He is fucking psycho!!!!!
..he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates...

4} He hates women!!
women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war.

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Are you seriously still with him after this?? You can do better then this guy.

Jakke PNG · 02-14-2005, 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

Your making this thread like you want to defend this fucking idiot. I will never ever ever ever ever hit a women no matter how bad things get (things never get bad btw, im nice, they are always happy ). Ok here are some things i picked up on your little LOOSER boyfriend who abused you (it dont matter it if he hit you hard or soft, he still hit you so its abuse).

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1} He doent even want you in the house!!
"..and then he told me to get out of his house..."

2} He abuses you!!
...hit me on my thighs and slapped me and threw my wallet me.

3} He is fucking psycho!!!!!
..he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates...

4} He hates women!!
women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war.

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Are you seriously still with him after this?? You can do better then this guy.

You're single, aren't you?

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

You're single, aren't you?

No likeee no wayyyyyyyyy. Me and my b/f are happyyyyyyyyy. Want to 3some?

Btw i get more pussy than you any day of the week. I am single, i dont want a fucking g/f. Why do i need a g/f to get pussy!

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:37 AM

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xlogger · 02-14-2005, 03:37 AM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

You're single, aren't you?

Btw sorry i said i dont hit women, i guess that makes me a looser?

iwantchixx · 02-14-2005, 03:38 AM

You seem like you have an annoying personality but you're not alone in that. 99.99% of women are bloody fucking annoying when guys are trying to do something.

They love to nit pick and annoy the living shit out of us for sheer pleasure. Guys do it too, but usually know when to stop.

Now, you say he smacked you. Ok, a smack is really no big deal if it's just smacking your leg and chucking a wallet at you, after all, you did refuse to give him space and leave the house when asked to. I guess you can say that you had it coming.

Ok, still following me?

Now. You also say that he chocked you. That's a line that should not have been crossed under any circumstance. That's a very violent thing to do and he could have killed you. You say it wasn't that bad but do you realise that if you had weak vessels in your neck that you could have lost consciousness and perished? What if he got even angrier and snapped your neck by accident? When someone is angry they can easily escalade to killing a person when choking them and not realize it until it's too late. What is going to happen the next time he does this? trust me, he will. It's how he deals with things apparently. This guy sounds like he resorts to violence too easily and finds excuses for it that stem from 1950's 'bitch belongs in the kitchen' thinking. Thinking like that usually resulted in domestic abuse complaints and killings..

You're in denial like any abused woman is. Sure, the provocation was your fault, but the violent actions of being chocked are not your fault at all. That's over the line.

You should seriously place a restraining order on him and stay away from him until her gets anger management help. One of these days you'll annoy him and he'll end up killing you. He said so himself that that's why people kill their mates. Take that as a sign.

chemicaleyes · 02-14-2005, 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by titmowse

men are stupid. get a dog.

BSleazy · 02-14-2005, 03:40 AM

You probably started going crazy and all out swinging on him, and come here with a different story. Why post this here?

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 03:40 AM

btw phogirl69 your a fucking looser for still being with him. Any smart women would already have picked up her bag and left. Especially after this comment "...sometimes that's why people kill their mates..."

Furious_Female · 02-14-2005, 03:41 AM

What the... ugh. Forgive me for saying this, but he sounds like an asshole. It starts with small things like that and will escalate in time. God forbid you have kids with this man... he will take his hatred out on them. You think it's no big deal now, but it will get worse. Trust me, it's inevitable. Forget him admitting he's wrong... worry more about getting away from him before it's too late.

Relentlessly annoying someone when they ask several times not to isn't right either. He can't control his anger and you can't control your immaturity. Incompatible. Move on.. before it's too late.

Mr Pheer · 02-14-2005, 03:43 AM

There are 2 sides to every story, but if someone tells you to get out of thier house, its best to just do it. If you dont, mosts states allow the homeowner to use reasonable force to put you out. Not saying its right, but he did tell you to leave?

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:47 AM

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Originally Posted by MrPheer

There are 2 sides to every story, but if someone tells you to get out of thier house, its best to just do it. If you dont, mosts states allow the homeowner to use reasonable force to put you out. Not saying its right, but he did tell you to leave?

He did tell me to leave, and I admit that I didn't after he told me many times. So you are right in that regard. He also said the same thing that you did, about using force because i didn't leave.

To BCyber, I did not swing at him or even touch him. I admit that I was wrong to not leave him alone the first time, but I never even layed a hand on him. And as for the reason why i posted this here, I wanted to know if the majority of people think that it was my fault for provoking him (which I did not do on purpose).

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 03:51 AM

You know what you should do? Give up on all men, we are all assholes..all we want is the pussy. Just become a lesbian, its will me mush better.

ADL Colin · 02-14-2005, 03:52 AM

Borderline situation. How long have you been with him? If for a short time, could be heading toward real trouble. If for a long time, maybe an isolated incident. His defense for hitting you sounds like bad news though.

Scrapper · 02-14-2005, 03:53 AM

So you're mad because you would not STFU and he had to bring out the pimp hand?

Never forget you're a lady and you will never have these problems. Men respect women who respect themselves. You don't because you disrespected his privacy. Let me guess? You both met online and you?re worried that when he?s online he will meet another? So you will bug him to validate your own insecurities by looking over his shoulder?

Also if you accept this abuse statistically it will get worse. So I guess you don?t respect yourself because you?re still with him.. You should be hit then fucked in the ass and put on the streets because you?re a whore.

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Scrapper

So you're mad because you would not STFU and he had to bring out the pimp hand?

Never forget you're a lady and you will never have these problems. Men respect women who respect themselves. You don't because you disrespected his privacy. Let me guess? You both met online and you?re worried that when he?s online he will meet another? So you will bug him to validate your own insecurities by looking over his shoulder?

Also if you accept this abuse statistically it will get worse. So I guess you don?t respect yourself because you?re still with him.. You should be hit then fucked in the ass and put on the streets because you?re a whore.

Not true, we did not meet on-line. I was not even close to worrying that he was talking to someone else. It was late at night, and I just wanted him to go inside to sleep with me or hang out with me, instead of being on the pc for so long.

As for being put out on the street, I have my own place and my own money, so don't be too worried about that.

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Almighty Colin

Borderline situation. How long have you been with him? If for a short time, could be heading toward real trouble. If for a long time, maybe an isolated incident. His defense for hitting you sounds like bad news though.

For 7 months. I know it's very borderline, that's why I wanted the input of others.

ADL Colin · 02-14-2005, 04:00 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

For 7 months. I know it's very borderline, that's why I wanted the input of others.

I think you should tell him that if he ever hits you again in any way that you will leave him. If he does not respect that and debates you then it will only lead to more trouble.

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 04:01 AM

...be a lesbian...

Jakke PNG · 02-14-2005, 04:18 AM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

Btw sorry i said i dont hit women, i guess that makes me a looser?

Lol. Where did I justify hitting women?
I just noted that you're not probably in a relationship if you think everything is always dreamy and at the sight of an argument someone is a psycho who should be dumped immediately. Your post was ridiculous in it's impossibility.

Hitting women is out of the question and I've never done it, but your post was ignorant.

xlogger · 02-14-2005, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

Lol. Where did I justify hitting women?
I just noted that you're not probably in a relationship.

Im not, relationships are for pussys.

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:29 AM

I did not read all of it, but I read enough.

You must have some serious self-esteem issues if you think what he did was alright.

02-14-2005, 03:02 AM	#1
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	Reason for a guy to hit me? I posted this in the wrong thread so I'll repost it here again: Before I even say anything, I just want to say that the guy in question DID NOT hit me HARD, I don't have any bruises or anything! I don't want people to think that I get beaten on, or that my bf abuses me, or ANYTHING alike. I only got a little bit red and that was all, and it's the first time this has happened. But I am almost afraid to state what the reason was for the fight happened between me and my bf and I am hesitant that you all will think it is my fault. What happened was that my bf was on the laptop on the pc, and I came outside to see what he was doing, and I kept on bugging him and reading over his shoulder, so he told me to go back into the bedroom. I didn't feel like going inside so I kept by his side and according to him I was annyoing him really badly (which is probably true) . So eventually he told me 5 times to go in the room, but he said it in a mean tone "Go in the room now." But the thing is that if he said it in a nice way, I probably wouldn't have gone inside anyways, because I'm stubborn. So instead I said "Why do I have to always listen to YOU. You can't tell me what to do." So he got really pissed off, and when we went into the room he was extremly pissed, like almost shaking and hyperventilating. He says that he does always listen to me (which is mostly true btw) and that he listens the first time whenever I tell him something, and that I am exaggerating and making it seem like he is always forcing me to obey him. And then he told me to get out of his house, and I wouldn't, so after he said it a few times, he got pissed and hit me on my thighs and slapped me (not too hard though) and threw my wallet me. It was hard enough that I could feel it, and I turned red, but i's not abuse I think, because I did not even get bruises or anything. Even after the fight he still doesn't think he is wrong because he claims that I provoked him because I didn't listen to him when he told me to go inside 5x. And then he said that if I was a guy he would have punched me for "fucking with him in his house". And he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates, because they get "pushed" emotionally. And then he said that women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war." WTF, he never even joined the military, which I told him. But he said that if the troops in Iraq died and USA got invaded, the first line of defense would be the MEN, and that would include him, so therefore the women (I) should show more respect because the men fight for the women and children. He is trying to say that I am being a hypocrite for thinking that it's not ok for him to hit me, just because I'm a girl, because it's the MEN who go to war. And the he asked why it's ok for me to hit him, but not vice versa? The thing is that I hit him playfully, and not with as much force as he did me, and I NEVER did it during a fight. Plus he was choking me too (not hard to the point where I am even close to dying, but just enough that I felt tingling). and then he STILL says that it's my fault because I was annoying him while he was on the laptop. He says that he was looking to order something for Valentines day for us, and he was mad because I was just bugging him non-stop. It's true that I can be very very very annoying sometimes, but I don't feel that's enough reason for him to hit me! He still will not admit that he is wrong and he still thinks that I deserve it, and I don't know what to do.

02-14-2005, 03:03 AM	#2
smack Push Porn Like Weight. Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Inside .NET Posts: 10,652	-edit- gfy fuckup __________________ Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war.

02-14-2005, 03:07 AM	#3
Kapitan Ivanov II Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 763	You don't seriously think anybody in here cares enough about you to read this ridiculously long post, do you? __________________ Ivanov - The Original Russian Board Guy

02-14-2005, 03:13 AM	#7
Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	You sound like an annoying bitch. I wouldn't hit you though. But I hate annoying girls. __________________ ..and I'm off.

02-14-2005, 03:14 AM	#9
titmowse Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: TEXAS Posts: 5,320	men are stupid. get a dog. __________________ I still love everybody

02-14-2005, 03:10 AM	#4
webgurl Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Clouds with Carebears Posts: 7,954	weird ... strange relationship u got there . No comment really ...

02-14-2005, 03:11 AM	#6
Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	I don't really know what to say, sounds like a bad situation.

02-14-2005, 03:14 AM	#10
Shoplifter Richest man in Babylon Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Posts: 10,002 Posts: 5,705	Is this the guy you got into a fight with cos you caught him getting lapdances? Anyhoo it is wrong to ever hit women so as to hurt them. The worst thing I've ever done to a woman was once I broke my lazy assed GF's cereal bowl cos she was sitting around too much. I deeply regret even that as it just made me look like an idiot. If you care for the guy talk it all out with him, if you think he has a violence issue leave.

02-14-2005, 03:15 AM	#11
xlogger Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: NY Posts: 9,507	Ok you'r in denial, he slapped you. So you say it wasnt hard? Ok it will be full blown abuse after few years with him. Fuck that looser, get out now. __________________ ---------- XLOGGER [REFLECTED] [OH]

02-14-2005, 03:15 AM	#13
tical Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 6,504	yeah, you do sound like you had that one coming... __________________ 112.020.756

02-14-2005, 03:17 AM	#18
sonofsam Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 18,638	i would fucking freak.. i can't stand being bothered while i'm trying to do something... and being told 5 times is more then enough... but i wouldn't hit you.. and him saying "i would go to war if usa got invaded" ... uhhh yeah... okay... __________________ I like turtles.

02-14-2005, 03:19 AM	#19
V_RocKs Damn Right I Kiss Ass! Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Cowtown, USA Posts: 32,409	If you dig a hole you need to deal with the hole. On the other hand, restraint says more about your character than action. Part of me says, if you want to go to Iraq and you want to be CEO and you want to be treated like anyone else, well, when I fight my buddy Gary and either of us kicks the others as, neither of us is going to go to jail because we both are not pussies. Another part of me says that anyone who can't control themselves and needs to resort to physical violence is a pussy. Anyone can walk into a bar and pick a fight with someone, not everyone can sit down and have a beer with everyone at the bar. So, you need to decide for yourself... I'd explain to him that he doesn't need to hit you and that you are an idiot for provoking him into doing it in the first place. So call it a truce and get on with living your lives (together). Next time he says, "Hey! I need some space!" Give it.

02-14-2005, 03:21 AM	#21
The Sultan Of Smut Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 4,325	No, that's not a good reason to hit you. It may be a good reason to dump you but not a good reason to hit you.

02-14-2005, 03:22 AM	#22
Chris Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: icq: 71462500 Skype: Jupzchris Posts: 27,880	any drugs or booze involved toinght? almost sounds fake? wtf is he going off about going tow ar and the us being invaded? this guy is a whack job if this is true __________________ [email protected]

02-14-2005, 03:27 AM	#27
Gunni Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Barcelona Posts: 2,385	I hit my gf all the time

02-14-2005, 03:30 AM	#29
xlogger Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: NY Posts: 9,507	Your making this thread like you want to defend this fucking idiot. I will never ever ever ever ever hit a women no matter how bad things get (things never get bad btw, im nice, they are always happy ). Ok here are some things i picked up on your little LOOSER boyfriend who abused you (it dont matter it if he hit you hard or soft, he still hit you so its abuse). ---------- 1} He doent even want you in the house!! "..and then he told me to get out of his house..." 2} He abuses you!! ...hit me on my thighs and slapped me and threw my wallet me. 3} He is fucking psycho!!!!! ..he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates... 4} He hates women!! women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war. ---------- Are you seriously still with him after this?? You can do better then this guy. __________________ ---------- XLOGGER [REFLECTED] [OH]

02-14-2005, 03:37 AM	#32
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	*****deleted post

02-14-2005, 03:38 AM	#34
iwantchixx Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: The Boonies Posts: 12,860	You seem like you have an annoying personality but you're not alone in that. 99.99% of women are bloody fucking annoying when guys are trying to do something. They love to nit pick and annoy the living shit out of us for sheer pleasure. Guys do it too, but usually know when to stop. Now, you say he smacked you. Ok, a smack is really no big deal if it's just smacking your leg and chucking a wallet at you, after all, you did refuse to give him space and leave the house when asked to. I guess you can say that you had it coming. Ok, still following me? Now. You also say that he chocked you. That's a line that should not have been crossed under any circumstance. That's a very violent thing to do and he could have killed you. You say it wasn't that bad but do you realise that if you had weak vessels in your neck that you could have lost consciousness and perished? What if he got even angrier and snapped your neck by accident? When someone is angry they can easily escalade to killing a person when choking them and not realize it until it's too late. What is going to happen the next time he does this? trust me, he will. It's how he deals with things apparently. This guy sounds like he resorts to violence too easily and finds excuses for it that stem from 1950's 'bitch belongs in the kitchen' thinking. Thinking like that usually resulted in domestic abuse complaints and killings.. You're in denial like any abused woman is. Sure, the provocation was your fault, but the violent actions of being chocked are not your fault at all. That's over the line. You should seriously place a restraining order on him and stay away from him until her gets anger management help. One of these days you'll annoy him and he'll end up killing you. He said so himself that that's why people kill their mates. Take that as a sign.

02-14-2005, 03:40 AM	#36
BSleazy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: USA Posts: 6,721	You probably started going crazy and all out swinging on him, and come here with a different story. Why post this here? __________________ icq 156131086

02-14-2005, 03:41 AM	#38
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	What the... ugh. Forgive me for saying this, but he sounds like an asshole. It starts with small things like that and will escalate in time. God forbid you have kids with this man... he will take his hatred out on them. You think it's no big deal now, but it will get worse. Trust me, it's inevitable. Forget him admitting he's wrong... worry more about getting away from him before it's too late. Relentlessly annoying someone when they ask several times not to isn't right either. He can't control his anger and you can't control your immaturity. Incompatible. Move on.. before it's too late. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

02-14-2005, 03:43 AM	#39
Mr Pheer Retired Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 20,977	There are 2 sides to every story, but if someone tells you to get out of thier house, its best to just do it. If you dont, mosts states allow the homeowner to use reasonable force to put you out. Not saying its right, but he did tell you to leave? __________________ Get your booster! It's safe

02-14-2005, 03:51 AM	#41
xlogger Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: NY Posts: 9,507	You know what you should do? Give up on all men, we are all assholes..all we want is the pussy. Just become a lesbian, its will me mush better. __________________ ---------- XLOGGER [REFLECTED] [OH]

02-14-2005, 03:52 AM	#42
ADL Colin Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Tube Titans, USA Posts: 11,929	Borderline situation. How long have you been with him? If for a short time, could be heading toward real trouble. If for a long time, maybe an isolated incident. His defense for hitting you sounds like bad news though. __________________ Adult Date Link - $50 PPS starting NOW! -- good and JUICY! skype = "adultdatelink"

02-14-2005, 03:53 AM	#43
Scrapper So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Sack Masking Your Face Posts: 491	So you're mad because you would not STFU and he had to bring out the pimp hand? Never forget you're a lady and you will never have these problems. Men respect women who respect themselves. You don't because you disrespected his privacy. Let me guess? You both met online and you?re worried that when he?s online he will meet another? So you will bug him to validate your own insecurities by looking over his shoulder? Also if you accept this abuse statistically it will get worse. So I guess you don?t respect yourself because you?re still with him.. You should be hit then fucked in the ass and put on the streets because you?re a whore.

02-14-2005, 04:01 AM	#47
xlogger Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: NY Posts: 9,507	...be a lesbian... __________________ ---------- XLOGGER [REFLECTED] [OH]

02-14-2005, 04:29 AM	#50
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	I did not read all of it, but I read enough. You must have some serious self-esteem issues if you think what he did was alright.