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You seem like you have an annoying personality but you're not alone in that. 99.99% of women are bloody fucking annoying when guys are trying to do something.
They love to nit pick and annoy the living shit out of us for sheer pleasure. Guys do it too, but usually know when to stop.
Now, you say he smacked you. Ok, a smack is really no big deal if it's just smacking your leg and chucking a wallet at you, after all, you did refuse to give him space and leave the house when asked to. I guess you can say that you had it coming.
Ok, still following me?
Now. You also say that he chocked you. That's a line that should not have been crossed under any circumstance. That's a very violent thing to do and he could have killed you. You say it wasn't that bad but do you realise that if you had weak vessels in your neck that you could have lost consciousness and perished? What if he got even angrier and snapped your neck by accident? When someone is angry they can easily escalade to killing a person when choking them and not realize it until it's too late. What is going to happen the next time he does this? trust me, he will. It's how he deals with things apparently. This guy sounds like he resorts to violence too easily and finds excuses for it that stem from 1950's 'bitch belongs in the kitchen' thinking. Thinking like that usually resulted in domestic abuse complaints and killings..
You're in denial like any abused woman is. Sure, the provocation was your fault, but the violent actions of being chocked are not your fault at all. That's over the line.
You should seriously place a restraining order on him and stay away from him until her gets anger management help. One of these days you'll annoy him and he'll end up killing you. He said so himself that that's why people kill their mates. Take that as a sign.
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