Your making this thread like you want to defend this fucking idiot. I will never ever ever ever ever hit a women no matter how bad things get
(things never get bad btw, im nice, they are always happy 
). Ok here are some things i picked up on your little LOOSER boyfriend who abused you
(it dont matter it if he hit you hard or soft, he still hit you so its abuse).
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1} He doent even want you in the house!!
"..and then he told me to get out of his house..."
2} He abuses you!!
...hit me on my thighs and slapped me and threw my wallet me.
3} He is fucking psycho!!!!!
..he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates...
4} He hates women!!
women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war.
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Are you seriously still with him after this?? You can do better then this guy.