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sherie · 01-22-2005, 03:32 PM

Long story short, I had this stalker dude about 7-8 years ago. I moved to Vancouver, he found me out there. He didn't come out there, but found my number and address and would write and call me. I then moved back to Toronto and he then found me out here about 2.5 years ago. He would drop by here and there and I would freak right out and threaten him and shit.

Don't get me wrong, he's completely harmless (to me anyway, himself, well I am thinking perhaps) Finally, I told him that I was getting married and that he just just die. That was like 2 years ago then SHAZAM, dude called me this year on my birthday, then on New Years and then the other day. Now I can handle that, tell him to fuck off and hang up, no biggie. WELL, when he called the last time he started to ask me about "Precious" my dog. I was shocked because he had no clue about my dog or so I thought. As it turns out, he's been sniffing around my house and my neighbours told him all about my dog, that I travel a lot etc.,.

My question is, do I talk to my neighbours and tell them about my displeasure of them yammering about shit to a stranger and that they have no right, or do I brush it off and let it go? I am moving soon so it's not really going to matter, but I am still choked that they would even fathom telling a stranger about me or anything related to me.

I'm not threatened at all by this guy, it's more of an annoyence than anything, but I am concerned about the neighbours talking to people that come sniffing around my house...

End of rant, I can't leave my house because of the bitter cold and the snow, so here I bitch! lol

irishfury · 01-22-2005, 03:36 PM

I would feel threaten and put restraining order on his ass that's spooky shit and if he has been doing this for years you have no idea to what extent this man might go. Years is along time for someone to dedicate to a obession....That's my two cents

Babagirls · 01-22-2005, 03:36 PM

i'd be fuckin PISSED at my neighbors!!

go tell them that you're gonna go down to the local jail and tell immates that get out next week where they live and what kind of valuable things they have in their house to steal.

Napolean · 01-22-2005, 03:38 PM

im sorry sherie.. i just love too much

Sly · 01-22-2005, 03:39 PM

What probably happened is the guy casually mentioned to your neighbor "I'm looking for Sherie, we were good friends in school and I wanted to catch up." They reply, "oh I think she's in Las Vegas this week, or maybe Phoenix, she's gone so often its hard to remember." Not really their fault.

Tell the dude we're getting married and I'll run over his foot if he doesn't back the fuck off. That usually works...

Painted Princess · 01-22-2005, 03:39 PM

Yo lady!!! that is soooooooooo not cool.
Yes tell the neighbours off royally!!! and a bitch slap too for being so freaking stupid ya know!!
you may not feel in danger and not wanting to freak you ou or anything BUT..........he has found you before , several times in different places............seems he may find ya again.
you have a leak in your "inner" group or something??
I'll beat him up for you if ya want

SpaceAce · 01-22-2005, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Babagirls

i'd be fuckin PISSED at my neighbors!!

This makes ZERO sense. The guy has been stalking her for years. I am sure he knows more than enough to convince the neighbors he is a friend. They're just supposed to magically know she has a stalker and that this guy is nuts? It's not like they gave out big secrets like her alarm code or something. If you have a problem like this, you need to inform people ahead of time. Otherwise, don't get your panties in a twist when they let something leak. As if the neighbors are supposed to know not to tell anybody that this woman has a dog named Precious.

SpaceAce

WiredGuy · 01-22-2005, 03:41 PM

Wow, I had no idea you had a stalker like that, at for 7-8 years!! If he's really harmless, then I doubt he would have gone to your neighbors to just chit chat about you and find out more info. It sounds more like he's very obsessive and wants to know everything about you and your life. I would tell your neighbors about the guy, that way if they do see him around, they'll at least know about him and could tell him off as well. But honestly, I would file a police report and probably want to get at least a restraining order against him. If he is talking to your neighbors, the next step is likely getting closer and closer to you... I hope it doesn't get to that, but I think the odds are likely he will.

WG

tungsten · 01-22-2005, 03:44 PM

that sucks, do you have the guys' name and shit? report him, there is no reason why you should be taking shit from him

tranza · 01-22-2005, 03:48 PM

Go See A Lawyer!!

Entropy · 01-22-2005, 03:49 PM

how does the guy know you in the first place?

hydro · 01-22-2005, 03:50 PM

Like wiredguy said he's obsessed with you and wants to know everything. You being a female im sure youve dealt with at least 1 desperate/needy guy. When you didnt answer the phone or respond to his calls you just kep ignoring him and the more you did it the more obsessed he was for your attention right? Next time he calls just tell him everything about you but change some stuff like where you grew up but stay in line with things like where you live now (he obviously knows) and that you have a dog. Don't give out any sensitive info just things like your favorite color, favorite foods, favorite car etc etc. The more you push from these stalkers the more they try to pull you in. Again, im no expert just my suggestion but if you havn't gottent help from the police you need to do so asap.

Dalai lama · 01-22-2005, 03:50 PM

Cant help it sherie, sorry

sherie · 01-22-2005, 03:51 PM

Yeah, I guess I will have to let them know. Up until now I didn't think it was necessary to warn anyone about him, now I see that it is. After I told him I was getting married, I didn't think he'd be sniffing around again.

Viet Hung Low · 01-22-2005, 03:55 PM

sherie, I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything but nobody wants your fat ass. so stop making up story .
bye

Adult Site Traffic · 01-22-2005, 04:04 PM

Sherie ..

You should be concerned. You have a crazy person interrested in you for several years. You should be very careful. I would be concerned about your neighbors as well, not that they probably meant any harm or wrong doing at all.

They are simply living in Canada where nothing really happens much and it would be rude to NOT be friendly and answer someone's questions about you.

I WOULDN'T hesitate to tell them to keep their mouth shut about your personal business though, but that's kind of past tense now anyhow

Your stalker.. How would you like to have 2 dogs now? Most people are scared shitless of anything that's black and tan and resembles anything like a dobie or rottie .

uno · 01-22-2005, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

What probably happened is the guy casually mentioned to your neighbor "I'm looking for Sherie, we were good friends in school and I wanted to catch up." They reply, "oh I think she's in Las Vegas this week, or maybe Phoenix, she's gone so often its hard to remember." Not really their fault.

Tell the dude we're getting married and I'll run over his foot if he doesn't back the fuck off. That usually works...

I would pay to see you run people over.

sherie · 01-22-2005, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Viet Hung Low

sherie, I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything but nobody wants your fat ass. so stop making up story .
bye

It's a fat belly you moron, I have no ass!

bjs24 · 01-22-2005, 04:24 PM

Invite him over and then shoot him. End of stalker.

sickkittens · 01-22-2005, 04:28 PM

If someone asks me anything about my neighbors, I NEVER tell them anything. I'd be pissed. And I'd also get authorities on this guy ASAP.

shann · 01-22-2005, 04:32 PM

Call his wife! ;)

Hey You . . . I Know You! · 01-22-2005, 04:32 PM

I?m sure when the police arrest him they will find duct tape, gloves and a knife in his car.

Call the police otherwise it will continue (as it has).

sherie · 01-22-2005, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Entropy

how does the guy know you in the first place?

We lived in the same building about 10 years ago.

The Sultan Of Smut · 01-22-2005, 04:44 PM

After you told the cops and they did nothing you couldn't in the last 7-8 years find a boyfriend that would just go beat him up? I know it's barbaric but somethimes there's very little that can be done.

Cory W · 01-22-2005, 04:47 PM

He sounds pretty threatening to me.

I would not get angry at the neighbors, but I would advise them for future referrence to not disclose info like that again to people they do not know.

sherie · 01-22-2005, 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Sultan Of Smut

After you told the cops and they did nothing you couldn't in the last 7-8 years find a boyfriend that would just go beat him up? I know it's barbaric but somethimes there's very little that can be done.

I'm pretty sure I could beat him up. I never did go to the police, I have just thought of him as harmless and I use to feel sorry for him to be honest. And for some reason he tends to come around when I am single. Odd.

kmanrox · 01-22-2005, 04:49 PM

u shud definitely speak with your neighbors, not only to tell them to STFU, but so they are apprised of the situation so they will alert someone if he's snooping around again..

SleazyDream · 01-22-2005, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by sherie

It's a fat belly you moron, I have no ass!

you do have killer boobs though

BradM · 01-22-2005, 04:52 PM

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SleazyDream · 01-22-2005, 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sherie

I'm pretty sure I could beat him up.

a 98 pound schoolgirl can kill hulk hogan with a handgun.

Babagirls · 01-22-2005, 05:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SpaceAce

This makes ZERO sense. The guy has been stalking her for years. I am sure he knows more than enough to convince the neighbors he is a friend. They're just supposed to magically know she has a stalker and that this guy is nuts? It's not like they gave out big secrets like her alarm code or something. If you have a problem like this, you need to inform people ahead of time. Otherwise, don't get your panties in a twist when they let something leak. As if the neighbors are supposed to know not to tell anybody that this woman has a dog named Precious.

SpaceAce

you made some good points as well (she should have informed her neighbors, i totally agree!) but on the flipside of that, i know my neighbors would never give out info about my life to ANYONE. if someone were to ask them which car on the street was mine (for example), they wouldnt tell them.

her neighbors, assuming they have common sense, wouldnt even have a CONVERSATION with a stranger, let alone, give out a little detail or two about her life.

01-22-2005, 03:32 PM	#1
sherie Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 7,020	So! My stalker is back!! ACK! Long story short, I had this stalker dude about 7-8 years ago. I moved to Vancouver, he found me out there. He didn't come out there, but found my number and address and would write and call me. I then moved back to Toronto and he then found me out here about 2.5 years ago. He would drop by here and there and I would freak right out and threaten him and shit. Don't get me wrong, he's completely harmless (to me anyway, himself, well I am thinking perhaps) Finally, I told him that I was getting married and that he just just die. That was like 2 years ago then SHAZAM, dude called me this year on my birthday, then on New Years and then the other day. Now I can handle that, tell him to fuck off and hang up, no biggie. WELL, when he called the last time he started to ask me about "Precious" my dog. I was shocked because he had no clue about my dog or so I thought. As it turns out, he's been sniffing around my house and my neighbours told him all about my dog, that I travel a lot etc.,. My question is, do I talk to my neighbours and tell them about my displeasure of them yammering about shit to a stranger and that they have no right, or do I brush it off and let it go? I am moving soon so it's not really going to matter, but I am still choked that they would even fathom telling a stranger about me or anything related to me. I'm not threatened at all by this guy, it's more of an annoyence than anything, but I am concerned about the neighbours talking to people that come sniffing around my house... End of rant, I can't leave my house because of the bitter cold and the snow, so here I bitch! lol __________________ AIM sherierocks ICQ 127-296-286 Skype traffichor Last edited by sherie; 01-22-2005 at 03:34 PM..

01-22-2005, 03:36 PM	#2
irishfury Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: In the hearts of cowards Posts: 2,611	I would feel threaten and put restraining order on his ass that's spooky shit and if he has been doing this for years you have no idea to what extent this man might go. Years is along time for someone to dedicate to a obession....That's my two cents __________________ Trust no one there all snakes

01-22-2005, 03:36 PM	#3
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01-22-2005, 03:38 PM	#4
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01-22-2005, 03:39 PM	#5
Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,340	What probably happened is the guy casually mentioned to your neighbor "I'm looking for Sherie, we were good friends in school and I wanted to catch up." They reply, "oh I think she's in Las Vegas this week, or maybe Phoenix, she's gone so often its hard to remember." Not really their fault. Tell the dude we're getting married and I'll run over his foot if he doesn't back the fuck off. That usually works... __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available Great for TSS, Nifty Stats, remote work, virtual assistants, etc. Click here for more details.

01-22-2005, 03:39 PM	#6
Painted Princess Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Planet Orange Posts: 44	Yo lady!!! that is soooooooooo not cool. Yes tell the neighbours off royally!!! and a bitch slap too for being so freaking stupid ya know!! you may not feel in danger and not wanting to freak you ou or anything BUT..........he has found you before , several times in different places............seems he may find ya again. you have a leak in your "inner" group or something?? I'll beat him up for you if ya want __________________ WWW.INKEDNATION.COM INKED NATION

01-22-2005, 03:41 PM	#8
WiredGuy Pounding Googlebot Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 34,487	Wow, I had no idea you had a stalker like that, at for 7-8 years!! If he's really harmless, then I doubt he would have gone to your neighbors to just chit chat about you and find out more info. It sounds more like he's very obsessive and wants to know everything about you and your life. I would tell your neighbors about the guy, that way if they do see him around, they'll at least know about him and could tell him off as well. But honestly, I would file a police report and probably want to get at least a restraining order against him. If he is talking to your neighbors, the next step is likely getting closer and closer to you... I hope it doesn't get to that, but I think the odds are likely he will. WG __________________ I play with Google.

01-22-2005, 03:44 PM	#9
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01-22-2005, 03:48 PM	#10
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01-22-2005, 03:49 PM	#11
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01-22-2005, 03:50 PM	#12
hydro Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Dirty 3rd Posts: 4,216	Like wiredguy said he's obsessed with you and wants to know everything. You being a female im sure youve dealt with at least 1 desperate/needy guy. When you didnt answer the phone or respond to his calls you just kep ignoring him and the more you did it the more obsessed he was for your attention right? Next time he calls just tell him everything about you but change some stuff like where you grew up but stay in line with things like where you live now (he obviously knows) and that you have a dog. Don't give out any sensitive info just things like your favorite color, favorite foods, favorite car etc etc. The more you push from these stalkers the more they try to pull you in. Again, im no expert just my suggestion but if you havn't gottent help from the police you need to do so asap.

01-22-2005, 03:50 PM	#13
Dalai lama Strength and Honor Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Europe Posts: 16,540	Cant help it sherie, sorry __________________ A program you can trust. Gallerybooster Run multiply TGPs of 1 script

01-22-2005, 03:51 PM	#14
sherie Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 7,020	Yeah, I guess I will have to let them know. Up until now I didn't think it was necessary to warn anyone about him, now I see that it is. After I told him I was getting married, I didn't think he'd be sniffing around again. __________________ AIM sherierocks ICQ 127-296-286 Skype traffichor

01-22-2005, 03:55 PM	#15
Viet Hung Low So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vietnam Posts: 180	sherie, I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything but nobody wants your fat ass. so stop making up story . bye

01-22-2005, 04:04 PM	#16
Adult Site Traffic Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: South-East of the Border of Disorder Posts: 5,093	Sherie .. You should be concerned. You have a crazy person interrested in you for several years. You should be very careful. I would be concerned about your neighbors as well, not that they probably meant any harm or wrong doing at all. They are simply living in Canada where nothing really happens much and it would be rude to NOT be friendly and answer someone's questions about you. I WOULDN'T hesitate to tell them to keep their mouth shut about your personal business though, but that's kind of past tense now anyhow Your stalker.. How would you like to have 2 dogs now? Most people are scared shitless of anything that's black and tan and resembles anything like a dobie or rottie . __________________ ALL Domains and Websites are GOING AWAY NOW! Ask me! Many great domains, mainstream and adult, some complete sites with databases, some names with traffic and PR, some investment quality names. Come take a look! { Traffic Orders: Please go here } .:: SHARPEN the Elite - BURN the leftovers! Ooh-Rah!! ::.

01-22-2005, 04:24 PM	#19
bjs24 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Location: I Moderate You Posts: 313	Invite him over and then shoot him. End of stalker.

01-22-2005, 04:28 PM	#20
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01-22-2005, 04:32 PM	#21
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01-22-2005, 04:32 PM	#22
Hey You . . . I Know You! Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 1,908	I?m sure when the police arrest him they will find duct tape, gloves and a knife in his car. Call the police otherwise it will continue (as it has).

01-22-2005, 04:44 PM	#24
The Sultan Of Smut Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 4,325	After you told the cops and they did nothing you couldn't in the last 7-8 years find a boyfriend that would just go beat him up? I know it's barbaric but somethimes there's very little that can be done.

01-22-2005, 04:47 PM	#25
Cory W Deeply shallow Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Hollywood, Ca. Posts: 9,133	He sounds pretty threatening to me. I would not get angry at the neighbors, but I would advise them for future referrence to not disclose info like that again to people they do not know. __________________ ICQ: 292310358 Offering writing and content services (mainstream). Marketing for L3 Payments

01-22-2005, 04:49 PM	#27
kmanrox aka K-Man Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: The Gutter Posts: 29,292	u shud definitely speak with your neighbors, not only to tell them to STFU, but so they are apprised of the situation so they will alert someone if he's snooping around again.. __________________ Crypto HODLr Crypto mining Angel investor

01-22-2005, 04:52 PM	#29
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