Originally Posted by Sly

What probably happened is the guy casually mentioned to your neighbor "I'm looking for Sherie, we were good friends in school and I wanted to catch up." They reply, "oh I think she's in Las Vegas this week, or maybe Phoenix, she's gone so often its hard to remember." Not really their fault.

Tell the dude we're getting married and I'll run over his foot if he doesn't back the fuck off. That usually works...