So! My stalker is back!! ACK!
 

Long story short, I had this stalker dude about 7-8 years ago. I moved to Vancouver, he found me out there. He didn't come out there, but found my number and address and would write and call me. I then moved back to Toronto and he then found me out here about 2.5 years ago. He would drop by here and there and I would freak right out and threaten him and shit.

Don't get me wrong, he's completely harmless (to me anyway, himself, well I am thinking perhaps) Finally, I told him that I was getting married and that he just just die. That was like 2 years ago then SHAZAM, dude called me this year on my birthday, then on New Years and then the other day. Now I can handle that, tell him to fuck off and hang up, no biggie. WELL, when he called the last time he started to ask me about "Precious" my dog. I was shocked because he had no clue about my dog or so I thought. As it turns out, he's been sniffing around my house and my neighbours told him all about my dog, that I travel a lot etc.,.

My question is, do I talk to my neighbours and tell them about my displeasure of them yammering about shit to a stranger and that they have no right, or do I brush it off and let it go? I am moving soon so it's not really going to matter, but I am still choked that they would even fathom telling a stranger about me or anything related to me.

I'm not threatened at all by this guy, it's more of an annoyence than anything, but I am concerned about the neighbours talking to people that come sniffing around my house...

End of rant, I can't leave my house because of the bitter cold and the snow, so here I bitch! lol

I would feel threaten and put restraining order on his ass that's spooky shit and if he has been doing this for years you have no idea to what extent this man might go. Years is along time for someone to dedicate to a obession....That's my two cents

i'd be fuckin PISSED at my neighbors!!

go tell them that you're gonna go down to the local jail and tell immates that get out next week where they live and what kind of valuable things they have in their house to steal.

im sorry sherie.. i just love too much :(

What probably happened is the guy casually mentioned to your neighbor "I'm looking for Sherie, we were good friends in school and I wanted to catch up." They reply, "oh I think she's in Las Vegas this week, or maybe Phoenix, she's gone so often its hard to remember." Not really their fault.

Tell the dude we're getting married and I'll run over his foot if he doesn't back the fuck off. That usually works...

Yo lady!!! that is soooooooooo not cool.
Yes tell the neighbours off royally!!! and a bitch slap too for being so freaking stupid ya know!!
you may not feel in danger and not wanting to freak you ou or anything BUT..........he has found you before , several times in different places............seems he may find ya again.
you have a leak in your "inner" group or something??
I'll beat him up for you if ya want :winkwink:

This makes ZERO sense. The guy has been stalking her for years. I am sure he knows more than enough to convince the neighbors he is a friend. They're just supposed to magically know she has a stalker and that this guy is nuts? It's not like they gave out big secrets like her alarm code or something. If you have a problem like this, you need to inform people ahead of time. Otherwise, don't get your panties in a twist when they let something leak. As if the neighbors are supposed to know not to tell anybody that this woman has a dog named Precious.

SpaceAce

Wow, I had no idea you had a stalker like that, at for 7-8 years!! If he's really harmless, then I doubt he would have gone to your neighbors to just chit chat about you and find out more info. It sounds more like he's very obsessive and wants to know everything about you and your life. I would tell your neighbors about the guy, that way if they do see him around, they'll at least know about him and could tell him off as well. But honestly, I would file a police report and probably want to get at least a restraining order against him. If he is talking to your neighbors, the next step is likely getting closer and closer to you... I hope it doesn't get to that, but I think the odds are likely he will.

WG

that sucks, do you have the guys' name and shit? report him, there is no reason why you should be taking shit from him

Go See A Lawyer!!

how does the guy know you in the first place?

Like wiredguy said he's obsessed with you and wants to know everything. You being a female im sure youve dealt with at least 1 desperate/needy guy. When you didnt answer the phone or respond to his calls you just kep ignoring him and the more you did it the more obsessed he was for your attention right? Next time he calls just tell him everything about you but change some stuff like where you grew up but stay in line with things like where you live now (he obviously knows) and that you have a dog. Don't give out any sensitive info just things like your favorite color, favorite foods, favorite car etc etc. The more you push from these stalkers the more they try to pull you in. Again, im no expert just my suggestion but if you havn't gottent help from the police you need to do so asap.

Cant help it sherie, sorry

Yeah, I guess I will have to let them know. Up until now I didn't think it was necessary to warn anyone about him, now I see that it is. After I told him I was getting married, I didn't think he'd be sniffing around again.

sherie, I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything but nobody wants your fat ass. so stop making up story .
bye

Sherie ..

You should be concerned. You have a crazy person interrested in you for several years. You should be very careful. I would be concerned about your neighbors as well, not that they probably meant any harm or wrong doing at all.

They are simply living in Canada where nothing really happens much and it would be rude to NOT be friendly and answer someone's questions about you.

I WOULDN'T hesitate to tell them to keep their mouth shut about your personal business though, but that's kind of past tense now anyhow :(

Your stalker.. How would you like to have 2 dogs now? Most people are scared shitless of anything that's black and tan and resembles anything like a dobie or rottie . :thumbsup

I would pay to see you run people over.

It's a fat belly you moron, I have no ass!

Invite him over and then shoot him. End of stalker.

If someone asks me anything about my neighbors, I NEVER tell them anything. I'd be pissed. And I'd also get authorities on this guy ASAP.

Call his wife! ;)

I?m sure when the police arrest him they will find duct tape, gloves and a knife in his car.

Call the police otherwise it will continue (as it has).

We lived in the same building about 10 years ago.

After you told the cops and they did nothing you couldn't in the last 7-8 years find a boyfriend that would just go beat him up? I know it's barbaric but somethimes there's very little that can be done.

He sounds pretty threatening to me.

I would not get angry at the neighbors, but I would advise them for future referrence to not disclose info like that again to people they do not know.

I'm pretty sure I could beat him up. I never did go to the police, I have just thought of him as harmless and I use to feel sorry for him to be honest. And for some reason he tends to come around when I am single. Odd.

u shud definitely speak with your neighbors, not only to tell them to STFU, but so they are apprised of the situation so they will alert someone if he's snooping around again..

you do have killer boobs though :thumbsup

You need one of these Sheri my love:

http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view.php?id=2137

a 98 pound schoolgirl can kill hulk hogan with a handgun.

you made some good points as well (she should have informed her neighbors, i totally agree!) but on the flipside of that, i know my neighbors would never give out info about my life to ANYONE. if someone were to ask them which car on the street was mine (for example), they wouldnt tell them.

her neighbors, assuming they have common sense, wouldnt even have a CONVERSATION with a stranger, let alone, give out a little detail or two about her life.