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Semi-Retired-Dave 03-10-2010 01:17 PM

Do people judge you by the way you are dressed? My Ferrari Story...
 
I saw a Ferrari thread here and it reminded me of when my partner bought his Ferrari years ago.

We were driving by the Ferrari dealer and we saw a 355F sitting in the showroom. We said lets go look at it. We walk in to see it and the doors were locked. We asked the only sales person working that night to open the door and he brushed us off. Said they were closing soon and ignored us. We were dressed in shorts, summer clothes. Tennis shoes we were in our early 30s.
So we said fuck it and came back the following day.

We asked that sales person for a co-worker, we were dressed the same way. The guy was so cool. He not only showed us the car, but said do you guys want to drive it. So I got in with him, the guy took me up the canyon, traded seats, didn't even ask for a DL, Never asked anything about us. The car sold itself.

We bought it from that guy while the other guy was next to us regretting the sale.

This is to that guy, :321GFY

Any similar stories? Let's hear it.

pornguy 03-10-2010 01:22 PM

My uncle had something like that happen a long time ago with a caddi.. He ask how much the guy said if you ask you can not afford. So he bought the dealership. Just sold the place about 15 years ago.

grumpy 03-10-2010 01:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberAge-Dave (Post 16935575)
I saw a Ferrari thread here and it reminded me of when my partner bought his Ferrari years ago.

We were driving by the Ferrari dealer and we saw a 355F sitting in the showroom. We said lets go look at it. We walk in to see it and the doors were locked. We asked the only sales person working that night to open the door and he brushed us off. Said they were closing soon and ignored us. We were dressed in shorts, summer clothes. Tennis shoes we were in our early 30s.
So we said fuck it and came back the following day.

We asked that sales person for a co-worker, we were dressed the same way. The guy was so cool. He not only showed us the car, but said do you guys want to drive it. So I got in with him, the guy took me up the canyon, traded seats, didn't even ask for a DL, Never asked anything about us. The car sold itself.

We bought it from that guy while the other guy was next to us regretting the sale.

This is to that guy, :321GFY

Any similar stories? Let's hear it.


same story but then it was me and not my friend :thumbsup

FreeFastHost 03-10-2010 01:27 PM

I never dress nice, unless I have to.

Basically the same thing happened to me. Went to a Bentley dealership, knowing I was going to buy a car that day, and pay in cash. Got there, started looking around, got no attention from anyone. Had to go up to the front desk and ask for a dealer to come out and help me. They took my license, made me sign shit, etc... thought I was some kid trying to test drive a car I couldn't afford.

After the test drive, I told the dealer I would buy the car with cash if he knocked $15k off. I think he shit his pants right there. After I bought it he ended up coming out to my house to set up the car with my gate code and my garage door opener. Now the guy kisses my ass.

Scott McD 03-10-2010 01:28 PM

"this is your Porsche??"

"of course!!"



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GTS Mark 03-10-2010 01:29 PM

I think the Hun has a similar story to this several years back buying a ferrari from an auction or something haha!

Redmanthatcould 03-10-2010 01:37 PM

Happens to me all the time, mainly 'cause to me, dressing up is a choir...so it's not something I do if I don't have to.

xNetworx 03-10-2010 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornguy (Post 16935590)
My uncle had something like that happen a long time ago with a caddi.. He ask how much the guy said if you ask you can not afford. So he bought the dealership. Just sold the place about 15 years ago.

I thought this story was an urban legend. Sounds fishy bro

kane 03-10-2010 01:43 PM

Years ago (back in 1989-1990) I worked for Radio Shack. The store was in an odd area. It was in the city, but all the surrounding areas were very rural. One afternoon a guy comes in and looks like he just came out of the fields. The store manager was helping him and he has a million questions about a CB radio antenna. The manager gets annoyed with the guy and hands him off to me. I spend the next 20 minutes helping this guy out and end up with about a $3 sale. The guy was very happy.

A few weeks later we had satellite dishes on sale for $3000. He came in and bought one. He came in the day before and saw I wasn't there and made sure to come back the next day when I was so he could buy it from me. Over the next few weeks he bought a new TV, VCR and nice surround sound system for his house. The dude was a farmer, had just gotten divorced and was getting the home theater he had always wanted now that the wife was gone.

The manager assumed he was some broke hick and because I treated him nicely I ended up making some nice money off it. (not only that he paid me $500 under the table to come out and help him install the dish :) )

Gals4free 03-10-2010 01:46 PM

Had the exact same thing happen when I recently bought my R8. Went to a completely different dealer in the end to buy it. Soon im gonna go to the other dealership to ask them to fill up my window cleaner or something.. fucking idiots...

whore monger 03-10-2010 01:48 PM

a few years ago i was at a furniture store buying some leather couches when the salesman asked me to give him a minute to greet a young surfer looking dude that had been walking around the showroom for half an hour with no one waiting on him. my salesman said he felt bad for the kid cuz all the other salespeople were ignoring him. he went over talked to the kid for a few minutes came back to finish up with me and my g/f. he told us the kid was a professional jet ski racer for yamaha and made over 500k a year wanted to furnish an entire house he just rented in the area...was payin cash. the salesman told me that shit happens all the time an he is old enough and wise enough not to fooled by someones appearance. he had a great day selling furniture....the other sales people not so much

BradM 03-10-2010 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by whore monger (Post 16935669)
a few years ago i was at a furniture store buying some leather couches when the salesman asked me to give him a minute to greet a young surfer looking dude that had been walking around the showroom for half an hour with no one waiting on him. my salesman said he felt bad for the kid cuz all the other salespeople were ignoring him. he went over talked to the kid for a few minutes came back to finish up with me and my g/f. he told us the kid was a professional jet ski racer for yamaha and made over 500k a year wanted to furnish an entire house he just rented in the area...was payin cash. the salesman told me that shit happens all the time an he is old enough and wise enough not to fooled by someones appearance. he had a great day selling furniture....the other sales people not so much

great story. smart guy, too.

smax 03-10-2010 01:56 PM

never judge a book by its cover

Semi-Retired-Dave 03-10-2010 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornguy (Post 16935590)
My uncle had something like that happen a long time ago with a caddi.. He ask how much the guy said if you ask you can not afford. So he bought the dealership. Just sold the place about 15 years ago.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Hope he fired the guy.

Semi-Retired-Dave 03-10-2010 02:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FreeFastHost (Post 16935603)
I never dress nice, unless I have to.

Basically the same thing happened to me. Went to a Bentley dealership, knowing I was going to buy a car that day, and pay in cash. Got there, started looking around, got no attention from anyone. Had to go up to the front desk and ask for a dealer to come out and help me. They took my license, made me sign shit, etc... thought I was some kid trying to test drive a car I couldn't afford.

After the test drive, I told the dealer I would buy the car with cash if he knocked $15k off. I think he shit his pants right there. After I bought it he ended up coming out to my house to set up the car with my gate code and my garage door opener. Now the guy kisses my ass.

That's funny. :thumbsup Love it.

Semi-Retired-Dave 03-10-2010 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gals4free (Post 16935663)
Had the exact same thing happen when I recently bought my R8. Went to a completely different dealer in the end to buy it. Soon im gonna go to the other dealership to ask them to fill up my window cleaner or something.. fucking idiots...

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh
How do you like that car? I bought one for my wife not too long ago before she got pregnant.

xxweekxx 03-10-2010 02:13 PM

yeah happened to me when i first wanted to buy my g35, its only $40k brand new.. but i was 17yrs, black, and i went to a dealership and they completely ignored me..

Then i went to another one, they treated me well, so i bought the car, then went back to the same dealership, made sure to make noise as i drove into the parking lot so they all saw me, then i went up and asked them what time they close their service dept cause i may need some parts in the future.lol

then i smiled and left.. bastards

Tom_PM 03-10-2010 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kane (Post 16935655)
Years ago (back in 1989-1990) I worked for Radio Shack. The store was in an odd area. It was in the city, but all the surrounding areas were very rural. One afternoon a guy comes in and looks like he just came out of the fields. The store manager was helping him and he has a million questions about a CB radio antenna. The manager gets annoyed with the guy and hands him off to me. I spend the next 20 minutes helping this guy out and end up with about a $3 sale. The guy was very happy.

A few weeks later we had satellite dishes on sale for $3000. He came in and bought one. He came in the day before and saw I wasn't there and made sure to come back the next day when I was so he could buy it from me. Over the next few weeks he bought a new TV, VCR and nice surround sound system for his house. The dude was a farmer, had just gotten divorced and was getting the home theater he had always wanted now that the wife was gone.

The manager assumed he was some broke hick and because I treated him nicely I ended up making some nice money off it. (not only that he paid me $500 under the table to come out and help him install the dish :) )

I was a store manager for them for many years (managed 3 stores, worked in many more along the way) and know of many many stories exactly like yours, lol. Thats awesome when you win someone over like that.


When I needed a new car I specifically put on jeans and sneakers and got treated like a stupid kid by 2 dealers. Third one treated me like I was buying a car, let me take it for a drive, acted like a normal nice guy, so I bought from him. Wasn't a ferrari though.

You can never judge a book by it's cover.

Phoenix 03-10-2010 02:17 PM

awesome...be cool to see someone make a news story about this sort of thing

trevesty 03-10-2010 02:17 PM

I used to hang out with these two venture capitalists from Cinci quite a bit(they sponsored the metal band I worked with at the time).. Anyway, one of 'em was only 26 and the other 32.. both of 'em were BIG TIME trust fund kiddies(if any of you are from Cinci and know real estate.. I'm sure you'd know of 'em).. Anyways, they both dress pretty casually and for whatever reason, liked to live it up with us younger guys(albeit not that much younger). We're all tatted up and everything.. well, the richer of the 2 was wearing mesh shorts, a plain nike tee, some sneakers, and shades and we stopped at a cadi dealership(him + 3 of us tatted up guys).. he wanted to buy the 2009 edition of his 6 month old 2008 caddy haha.. anyway, sales man basically says no white trash allowed on our lot, take a hike.. my buddy pulls out a suitcase with 60k in it, opens it, and says yeah np, fuck off :) went to the dealer down the road instead and he had a new cadi about an hour later

two of the most wealthy guys i know in this area rarely if ever wear anything nicer than mesh shorts and their gym tee shirt unless it's some kind of formal gathering.. people who judge based on appearance(or anything really) usually don't make it far in life :2 cents:

Tom_PM 03-10-2010 02:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smax (Post 16935698)
never judge a book by its cover

Speaking of books and covers, is that sarah jean in your avatar? She was great on ninja warrior! Sexy ninjas for the win.

quiet 03-10-2010 02:21 PM

thats happened to me many times, usually in bmw dealerships. they just straight up ignore me (i dress casual skater/snowboarder). i was thinking about buying an Audi S4 a couple of years ago for the winter, and the salesman was a complete asshole, told me i probably couldn't afford it lol. i was ready to pay cash... basically he talked me out of it, i walked over to the saab dealership, and got a 9-2X instead haha.

Gals4free 03-10-2010 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberAge-Dave (Post 16935715)
:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh
How do you like that car? I bought one for my wife not too long ago before she got pregnant.

Loving it :)

DateDoc 03-10-2010 02:28 PM

Close to a similar story. When I was a lot younger I was at a BMW dealership and the salesman was basically giving me shit and acting like I could not afford the car. Fortunately for him another salesman recognized me from having been in their with my dad and took over. He made a sale.

ottopottomouse 03-10-2010 02:30 PM

I generally feel that if a garage treats you badly before you have even bought the car that they they don't deserve the business and also that they are going to be the last place you want to have it serviced.

I have test driven cars in the past that I then ended up buying at a different garage and it's always nice to go back and rub someones nose in it over their loss of commission.

On a related note, my little brother (24 and he isn't exactly little any more he's taller than me now) was looking at buying a z4 and several BMW garages treated him badly just because they decided he is too young to be able to afford it - he's just ended up buying a new 370z instead :1orglaugh

xxweekxx 03-10-2010 02:34 PM

hehe.. its always fun when people dont think u can afford it, and you rub it in their faces... im going to be buying another car soon and it may be from a dealer, and its cash for $40k+.. im black, young, and ill purposely under dress, to see who pays me any attention.lol

although when i travel nowadays i wear a sport coat with a long sleeve dress shirt.. i used to dress casual but fucking dumb ass passengers keep asking me if im in the wrong line (cause im boarding first class ), plus the flight attendants always want to double verify im supposed to be in first class

FUCK PEOPLE.. Just cause someone is 24 and BLACK and flying first class doesnt mean he sells drugs.. fuck you all bitches.. now im pissed off thinking about how many times ive been asked are you in the right line? after i paid thousands for the ticket..

Gerco 03-10-2010 02:39 PM

Walked into a small town dealership to buy a car back in the late 80's. I had 15k cash with me and knew the car I was going to buy. I was wearing an ACDC tee and my jeans had a hole in the knee, (still today 90% of my jeans have the same damn hole) Anyways.. after standing around for about 30 minutes I finally asked a guy what the deal was. I said I wanted to buy a car. He kind of gave me the "what the fuck ever" look and pointed out the window to the $500 or cheaper lot and told me that all they had. and walked away. I was fuming. So I went down half a block to another dealer. (who where actually friendly to me) and did the same thing. The guy was cool, told me all about th car etc and I bought it on the spot and paid for it in full. I then drove it back to the 1st dealer and ask for the manager and told him my story and showed him my purchase contract and told him the reason he lost the sale. They fired the sales man.

96ukssob 03-10-2010 02:40 PM

kind of bizarre to hear that in LA.

i get that all the time where I am from now. unless im going somewhere fancy, then i will dress up, otherwise its whatever i feel like wearing. hands down I have more cash in my pockets at the bars I go to then most have in their savings accounts, but im not trying to show off and not trying to grab attention of everyone around.

recently i was getting maintenance done on my car (BMW 750Li) so i took out my '05 Tahoe around and decided i would stop at the Range Rover dealer to see if they had any deals, as I was considering trading in the 7 and Tahoe. meanwhile, im just wearing jeans and a hoodie... i had to practically BEG for a salesperson to only be told "you know how much they are?"

I just turned around and left... next day I came in with my 7, wearing a dress shirt, shoes and a coat... before i could get out of the car the SAME sales person came up to me as was super polite, got me coffee, let me drive a few models around, etc. When he asked if i was interested in buying i told him not from him because of how he treated me the day before.

He tried to laugh it off, but I ended up requesting to talk to another salesmen, who was the manager of the dealership. Told him how I felt and he apologized. Never ended up getting a car there tho as they couldnt work any deal

Semi-Retired-Dave 03-10-2010 02:43 PM

Great stories.

People should treat everyone equally for sure. Just because we dress like shit doesn't mean you need to treat us that way.

I'm not a fashion runway model. Not even close. :1orglaugh

xxweekxx 03-10-2010 02:46 PM

i think the worst though was in san diego recently..

i was actually trying to rent beach houses, and they are all like $4-5k a month..

I walked down the beach, and must have walked into 10+ agencies, and they all just kept saying hmm we dont have anything, or are you sure you can afford it? its too much money? lol

anyway i decided not to get a beach spot, will just get a place downtown for the same price range.. anyway funny thing is i laugh about it all cause the rent that seems so high to them, i make in a day or two of work...

anyways i never judge people, ever.. a guy with shorts could be worth $50mil

BradM 03-10-2010 02:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxweekxx (Post 16935819)
FUCK PEOPLE.. Just cause someone is 24 and BLACK and flying first class doesnt mean he sells drugs.. fuck you all bitches.. now im pissed off thinking about how many times ive been asked are you in the right line? after i paid thousands for the ticket..

I've SEEN that happen in public before. I am 25 and white and it pisses me off. Racism is a weird thing.

sperbonzo 03-10-2010 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gerco (Post 16935834)
Walked into a small town dealership to buy a car back in the late 80's. I had 15k cash with me and knew the car I was going to buy. I was wearing an ACDC tee and my jeans had a hole in the knee, (still today 90% of my jeans have the same damn hole) Anyways.. after standing around for about 30 minutes I finally asked a guy what the deal was. I said I wanted to buy a car. He kind of gave me the "what the fuck ever" look and pointed out the window to the $500 or cheaper lot and told me that all they had. and walked away. I was fuming. So I went down half a block to another dealer. (who where actually friendly to me) and did the same thing. The guy was cool, told me all about th car etc and I bought it on the spot and paid for it in full. I then drove it back to the 1st dealer and ask for the manager and told him my story and showed him my purchase contract and told him the reason he lost the sale. They fired the sales man.

Now THAT's a good ending to that story!

xxweekxx 03-10-2010 02:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradM (Post 16935853)
I've SEEN that happen in public before. I am 25 and white and it pisses me off. Racism is a weird thing.

yea are only 25..lol damn nice dude.. you doing well.. but yeah i got tired of the whole ticket shit.. just cause im young and every other guy in first class is 60yrs old doesnt mean i cant afford it.lol

people equate young = poor
young & black = dirt fucking poor with shitty credit...

meanwhile my credit is excellent.lol

kane 03-10-2010 02:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PR_Tom (Post 16935741)
I was a store manager for them for many years (managed 3 stores, worked in many more along the way) and know of many many stories exactly like yours, lol. Thats awesome when you win someone over like that.


When I needed a new car I specifically put on jeans and sneakers and got treated like a stupid kid by 2 dealers. Third one treated me like I was buying a car, let me take it for a drive, acted like a normal nice guy, so I bought from him. Wasn't a ferrari though.

You can never judge a book by it's cover.

Yep, when I worked there it was almost a ongoing joke. If a guy came in was dressed really nicely, had a nice watch and car, chances are he is in debt to his eyes and has no money. A guy pulls up in an average car and dressed like a farmer and chances were he had some money in the bank. It seemed to me that was more often true than not.

Quentin 03-10-2010 02:53 PM

It's really funny to watch the evolving reactions of residents in my neighborhood when they first meet me.

At first glance, I think most of them assume that the unkempt, hairy mess standing in front of them must be some homeless day laborer, who until recently was standing on a median somewhere holding a "will work for food" sign, and has simply wandered away from the yard where he is supposed to be sprucing up some rich fellow's lawn.

Once they engage me in conversation, neighbors I'm meeting for the first time typically get a confused look in their eyes somewhere around the middle of my first sentence. While their nerves are somewhat soothed by my relative eloquence (relative to other people who meander about looking like a half-awake hobo, at least), it's something like the reaction children have to watching a parrot speak for the first time: "How does it do that?"

Usually, within a few minutes of conversation, their initial horror at seeing me in the vicinity of their home has subsided, their body language changes, and they start to relax. The thought "maybe he's a normal guy who just happens to have really long hair and a bird's nest for a beard" has taken root in their brain, and they begin to feel it is really just a conversation with a peer (albeit an odd-looking peer).

Of course, it all reverts back to complete revulsion if I answer honestly the question "So -- what it is that you do for a living?"... but that's another story and another set of assumptions, altogether.

PR_Glen 03-10-2010 02:57 PM

anyone notice a similarity in these stories? They all end up with the person buying from the same place anyway...

If I owned a dealership I would go out on the floor myself and be the 'judgmental' asshole that would ignore everyone and treat them like they were nobody and then i would send out my bleeding heart salesman to coddle them and to close the deal... seems like people, men especially, are so proud that they will buy even if they can't afford it just to prove a point! :) Sounds like a good cop bad cop sales ploy from the get go...

Phoenix 03-10-2010 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Quentin (Post 16935878)
It's really funny to watch the evolving reactions of residents in my neighborhood when they first meet me.

At first glance, I think most of them assume that the unkempt, hairy mess standing in front of them must be some homeless day laborer, who until recently was standing on a median somewhere holding a "will work for food" sign, and has simply wandered away from the yard where he is supposed to be sprucing up some rich fellow's lawn.

Once they engage me in conversation, neighbors I'm meeting for the first time typically get a confused look in their eyes somewhere around the middle of my first sentence. While their nerves are somewhat soothed by my relative eloquence (relative to other people who meander about looking like a half-awake hobo, at least), it's something like the reaction children have to watching a parrot speak for the first time: "How does it do that?"

Usually, within a few minutes of conversation, their initial horror at seeing me in the vicinity of their home has subsided, their body language changes, and they start to relax. The thought "maybe he's a normal guy who just happens to have really long hair and a bird's nest for a beard" has taken root in their brain, and they begin to feel it is really just a conversation with a peer (albeit an odd-looking peer).

Of course, it all reverts back to complete revulsion if I answer honestly the question "So -- what it is that you do for a living?"... but that's another story and another set of assumptions, altogether.

lol i was going to ask what happens when you tell them what you do for a living :)

JFK 03-10-2010 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Quentin (Post 16935878)
It's really funny to watch the evolving reactions of residents in my neighborhood when they first meet me.

At first glance, I think most of them assume that the unkempt, hairy mess standing in front of them must be some homeless day laborer, who until recently was standing on a median somewhere holding a "will work for food" sign, and has simply wandered away from the yard where he is supposed to be sprucing up some rich fellow's lawn.

Once they engage me in conversation, neighbors I'm meeting for the first time typically get a confused look in their eyes somewhere around the middle of my first sentence. While their nerves are somewhat soothed by my relative eloquence (relative to other people who meander about looking like a half-awake hobo, at least), it's something like the reaction children have to watching a parrot speak for the first time: "How does it do that?"

Usually, within a few minutes of conversation, their initial horror at seeing me in the vicinity of their home has subsided, their body language changes, and they start to relax. The thought "maybe he's a normal guy who just happens to have really long hair and a bird's nest for a beard" has taken root in their brain, and they begin to feel it is really just a conversation with a peer (albeit an odd-looking peer).

Of course, it all reverts back to complete revulsion if I answer honestly the question "So -- what it is that you do for a living?"... but that's another story and another set of assumptions, altogether.

"will work for food" finally got a Job Q ?? :Graucho

jimmy-3-way 03-10-2010 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Quentin (Post 16935878)
At first glance, I think most of them assume that the unkempt, hairy mess standing in front of them must be some homeless day laborer, who until recently was standing on a median somewhere holding a "will work for food" sign, and has simply wandered away from the yard where he is supposed to be sprucing up some rich fellow's lawn.

Wait - you're not?

Barefootsies 03-10-2010 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by trevesty (Post 16935747)
people who judge based on appearance(or anything really) usually don't make it far in life

:2 cents:


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