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O MARINA 03-25-2008 06:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 13966853)
there's a few of us who are willing to put in a few grand each for this person and actually have them hauled away to a rehab center.

i'm wondering if this would be a good idea....

i know this person will be using in phoenix....




I like how you think. You are a good friend.

severe 03-25-2008 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 13966741)
should I initiate an intervention in phoenix?

if you dont want to enjoy your trip, sure...

cherrylula 03-25-2008 07:59 AM

At an adult webmaster convention?? don't you think that is a terrible place for an intervention??

Someplace away from the party is how you're supposed to do it, and they have to want it anyhow.

If they are going to an adult webmaster convention, drugs are on the schedule already. I would leave them to their own biz. :2 cents:

Interventions never work. Probably some of the best advice in this thread from seasoned users. :1orglaugh

cherrylula 03-25-2008 08:09 AM

..and giving up drugs to drown yourself in the arms of alcoholism isn't okay either. I can't stand seeing a drug addict get "clean" only to get completely trashed drunk every chance they get. THAT isn't cleaning your life up.

Give up alcohol for a year and you'll really see the light. Most people just accept it because its legal.

Alcohol abuse is worse than any drug, and any of you in here pointing the finger at an addict and you drink booze might want to look in the mirror first. An addict is an addict, so be us all.

quesadilla 03-25-2008 08:50 AM

i talked to my interventionist about this and he says terrible idea.

L-Pink 03-25-2008 08:56 AM

The guy is out of town surrounded by his industry peers looking to get business done ..... do it some other time and place if at all.

uno 03-25-2008 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links (Post 13968887)
i will be at this intervention

No doubt.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links (Post 13968887)
i will be th emdoerator

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh sure.



















:upsidedow just kidding man. Sorta.

SleazyDream 03-25-2008 10:01 AM

pretty much the only people against this are the junkies in denial..............

TheLegacy 03-25-2008 10:05 AM

Sleaze you of ALL people should know the value of Tough Love.

Anyone with a drug problem needs to have those who care for them (or in this case a group of strangers) - to humiliate and draw to their attention that Nancy Reagan was right - Just Say No !!

My father if he caught me smoking would stack up on the kitchen table carton's of cigarettes and force me to smoke them to stop me. So if it takes bending a shitload of spoons and using dirty rock salt melting near the 5 last spoons to make them sick and not ever want to do drugs again, then I'm all for it.

Porn Girl 03-25-2008 10:05 AM

I know who you are talking about and I thinks its a good idea

Sexy Rex 03-25-2008 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 13966741)
I can tell someone who I think is a friend is doing way too many drugs.

they need help.

should I initiate an intervention in phoenix?

pretty sure I know who you're talking about. Sounds like a good idea to me!

Jennyfer 03-25-2008 10:07 AM

You definitely should, it is a great idea.

Xrated J 03-25-2008 10:08 AM

say no to drugs

B O B 03-25-2008 10:08 AM

Hmmm...cant be me...I havent drank in over 5 months...

But I think I know who it is, and its a GREAT IDEA...

TheAmericanCannibal 03-25-2008 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 13966853)
there's a few of us who are willing to put in a few grand each for this person and actually have them hauled away to a rehab center.

i'm wondering if this would be a good idea....

i know this person will be using in phoenix....

I hope you have at least 15-20 friends Sleazy....
I good recovery center will set you back about $40,000-$60,000

TDF 03-25-2008 10:11 AM

oh wow.. I definitely think your doing the right thing Scott. Just make sure they are in a good comfortable environment. This person has been out of hand for a few years now

benoitlc666 03-25-2008 10:14 AM

You're doing this one for a reason Sleazy, I'm with you!

SleazyDream 03-25-2008 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheAmericanCannibal (Post 13974037)
I hope you have at least 15-20 friends Sleazy....
I good recovery center will set you back about $40,000-$60,000

there's 10 of us in for 4-5K each

Barefootsies 03-25-2008 10:19 AM


Apparently you can start curing anyone by saying this..

"I see a bunch of people that love you like crazy, and they feel like they are losing you. They're going to say what they want to say, and you're going to say what you're going to say, and that's it. Will you listen to them?"

https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/817388-intervention.html

Raja 03-25-2008 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Porn Girl (Post 13973984)
I know who you are talking about and I thinks its a good idea

Me too. Scott I wish you would have told me earlier about this and I would've come to Phx. Hit me up on ICQ and let me know when your planning it and I'll do my best to come out.

I think some recent business practices only show how far this person will go to fund their addiction.

Your a good man Scott for doing something we should have done a long time ago.

quesadilla 03-25-2008 10:23 AM

the lack of understanding and experience in dealing with addiction is apparent in this thread.

utterly amazing that you'd attempt this at a webmaster event.

so retarded i can't even begin to understand it.

Voodoo 03-25-2008 10:23 AM

This is a great idea Sleazy... I know who it is and I think helping will show what a true friend you are.

Wiseman 03-25-2008 10:25 AM

Interventions are great!! Awesome way to help a good friend out!

Purple Haze 03-25-2008 10:27 AM

I just got off the phone with Scott. He asked me if I'd like to participate in the intervention, now knowing who this person is, I have to agree that it needs to be done. Most of this persons closest friends, will be in Phoenix..and good and bad, this person needs to know that they are loved and surrounded by people that care. They need to stop with the drugs as its taken over their lives and is about to lose everything....almost has really.

Penthouse Tony 03-25-2008 10:32 AM

This is a great thing you are doing for a friend.

Zebra 03-25-2008 10:36 AM

I have a pretty good idea who you are talking about, and you could not honestly call yourself their friend if you did not go through with this.
Sometimes you just have to do things for others, even if you know it might not have a good outcome for yourself.

SHANESWORLD 03-25-2008 10:38 AM

i just called the hotel to see why they would allow this to go on. i told them to have extra securities around and ask sleazy, (gave them his name), if he needs any help when he checks in. you can never be too safe. they said they were going to notify the sheriffs department and have some more undercovers in the hotel to make sure everything goes smoothly. i guess if you're gonna do this, do it right. i know this person needs help so why not, fuck it, you got my blessing now.

good luck.

AL4A 03-25-2008 10:39 AM

Sleazy, You and Me both know that this person really needs the help! To bad I will not be Phoenix this time.

AL ;)

Elli 03-25-2008 10:39 AM

Great idea, Scott. This person definitely needs a wake-up call.

Deej 03-25-2008 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SHANESWORLD (Post 13974264)
i just called the hotel to see why they would allow this to go on. i told them to have extra securities around and ask sleazy, (gave them his name), if he needs any help when he checks in. you can never be too safe. they said they were going to notify the sheriffs department and have some more undercovers in the hotel to make sure everything goes smoothly. i guess if you're gonna do this, do it right. i know this person needs help so why not, fuck it, you got my blessing now.

good luck.

undercover sherrifs?

what are you people doing?


i dont have anything to worry about, but im sure others will encounter issues within this environment...

Im mixed on this...

i like your thoughts and intentions Sleazy, but in the middle of a show?

Im all about people correcting their ways, especially when someone loved as much as this person seems to be...


I dunno, i hope all goes well for you and your friend... I hope he takes the help....


the girls just better be able to stay naked :D

i'll nutt up on any authorities trying to clothe the hunnies :pimp

Evil E 03-25-2008 11:29 AM

Not sure if it's a troll thread or not... but I don't think it's a good idea to do it there. Might want to do it just before or after...

Of course, if the dude ODs during the forum, then you would all say... damn why didn't I do something before...

Anyways, best of luck.

Fuck drugs.

Deej 03-25-2008 11:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil E (Post 13974717)
Not sure if it's a troll thread or not... but I don't think it's a good idea to do it there. Might want to do it just before or after...

Of course, if the dude ODs during the forum, then you would all say... damn why didn't I do something before...

Anyways, best of luck.

Fuck drugs.

Thats IS a good point... i guess Sleazy has a lock on getting the important people in his life together... and im sure if and when done properly that it WILL be secluded ...

Sleazy has never hit me as a morally stupid or uncaring person so if this is all going down, id think hed do it "right"...


i wish you and your friend luck too...


other than all that... i'll see you all (attending) soon...

lets drink and point out idiots...

:pimp

Eric 03-25-2008 11:46 AM

Knowing who this is it pains me to think about how far they have fallen from grace. Some of you may not agree with this, but this is probably the best chance this person has to be surrounded by so many people who care about them and that they respect enough to actually listen to.

It is a tough call and initially I thought this was a bad idea till I was able to reach Scott and find out who it was and how bad the problem has truely become.

When all is said and done I have a feeling that many of you who have disagreed will change your minds and understand a little better what we are trying to accomplish here.

SleazyDream 03-25-2008 11:56 AM

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT GUYS.

This person has touched a lot of lives. the amount of money soo many people from large online companies have donated to help is a testament to that.

Juicy D. Links 03-25-2008 11:59 AM

yo UPDATE

i saw a shitload of cops outside the hotel with a staging bus..... i saw like 3 dogs also ....

damn

Juicy D. Links 03-25-2008 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eric (Post 13974894)
Knowing who this is it pains me to think about how far they have fallen from grace. Some of you may not agree with this, but this is probably the best chance this person has to be surrounded by so many people who care about them and that they respect enough to actually listen to.

It is a tough call and initially I thought this was a bad idea till I was able to reach Scott and find out who it was and how bad the problem has truely become.

When all is said and done I have a feeling that many of you who have disagreed will change your minds and understand a little better what we are trying to accomplish here.

same here man , but it is necessary for his own good ....

_Danielle_ 03-25-2008 12:05 PM

If it's who I think it is...then you DEFINITELY need to do it!

Nader 03-25-2008 12:24 PM

:1orglaughScott i can't guess you it is since there is so many that party
in our industry :1orglaugh

Black Dog 03-25-2008 12:28 PM

I'm glad somebody is finally doing something about this person's drug problem. However I'm afraid they might have already figured it out since I know for a fact that the person visits GFY on a regular basis. I hope he/she still shows up for the Phoenix Forum.

Let me know if I can be of assistance.


Barry

s9ann0 03-25-2008 12:36 PM

put a webcam on GFY so we can see him smack you in the face live


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