Ladies: Whats do you mean when you say "Call me later, if you want" - GoFuckYourself.com

hateman · 11-28-2007, 02:55 PM

call or dont call?

Mediachick · 11-28-2007, 03:20 PM

what is it not to understand? You call if you want, its that simple. Why do guys always try to see some kind of between the line message with whatever we tell them? Not all of us play these stupid games.

PerrieBelle · 11-28-2007, 03:32 PM

CALL.. lol... She wouldn't say call if you want, if she didn't want you calling! lol

O MARINA · 11-28-2007, 03:35 PM

call ....

RevengeBucks_Monica · 11-28-2007, 03:36 PM

Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.

CurrentlySober · 11-28-2007, 03:41 PM

Stalk...

baddog · 11-28-2007, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.

Sounds about right.

hateman · 11-28-2007, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.

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Originally Posted by Mediachick

Not all of us play these stupid games.

Mediachick · 11-28-2007, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by hateman

what's so funny? The fact that she doesnt want to sound needy doesnt mean she's playing a game. Its normal that she doesnt want to sound as if she's gonna be stuck to your ass. To me that's a sign that she wants to respect you.

BlackCrayon · 11-28-2007, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediachick

what's so funny? The fact that she doesnt want to sound needy doesnt mean she's playing a game. Its normal that she doesnt want to sound as if she's gonna be stuck to your ass. To me that's a sign that she wants to respect you.

What i find funny is that neither party feels as though they can act too interested. Oh the games we play.

IllTestYourGirls · 11-28-2007, 04:03 PM

I think she is telling you its ok to do anal...

G-Rotica · 11-28-2007, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.

I second that.

Mediachick · 11-28-2007, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

What i find funny is that neither party feels as though they can act too interested. Oh the games we play.

Its not that, she tells him to call later 'if he wants'. If she would've said 'call me later, you better do otherwise im gonna be disappointed' you put pressure on the guy and he might think that you're a whacko because alot of guys run away when a girl sound a little too serious. I dont know why but its very common.

BlackCrayon · 11-28-2007, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediachick

Its not that, she tells him to call later 'if he wants'. If she would've said 'call me later, you better do otherwise im gonna be disappointed' you put pressure on the guy and he might think that you're a whacko because alot of guys run away when a girl sound a little too serious. I dont know why but its very common.

But then the guy probably won't call because he doesn't want to seem like he is coming on strong either. Then the girl will think hes not interested when he really is but just trying to play by these "rules". I'm no expert and everyone is different but chances are a girl showing interest is not going to scare the guy away unless he is just looking for a fling. of course there are limits but it just seems that everyone is doing what they feel they have to do instead of doing what they feel.

frostyimpressions · 11-28-2007, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.

I as a girl second that.

Mediachick · 11-28-2007, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

But then the guy probably won't call because he doesn't want to seem like he is coming on strong either. Then the girl will think hes not interested when he really is but just trying to play by these "rules". I'm no expert and everyone is different but chances are a girl showing interest is not going to scare the guy away unless he is just looking for a fling. of course there are limits but it just seems that everyone is doing what they feel they have to do instead of doing what they feel.

I think to this point, both parties need to make a little work if, ofcourse, they both like each other... the girl would say call me later, if you want, and the guy would call her the next day or a couple days later to not seem so pushy, how's that?

seeric · 11-28-2007, 05:14 PM

im single because i got tired of reading between the lines. give it to me in black and white or dont speak at all.

i dont have time for bullshit anymore. the time i've wasted trying to figure out women i could have built an empire.

its all about fuckbuddys now.

Vick! · 11-28-2007, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.

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Originally Posted by G-Rotica

I second that.

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Originally Posted by frostyimpressions

I as a girl second that.

So, would not I sound needy if I call later? As you added, "if you want.."

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

What i find funny is that neither party feels as though they can act too interested. Oh the games we play.

who · 11-28-2007, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by A1R3K

im single because i got tired of reading between the lines.

CaptainHowdy · 11-28-2007, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediachick

what is it not to understand? You call if you want, its that simple. Why do guys always try to see some kind of between the line message with whatever we tell them? Not all of us play these stupid games.

! I'm falling for you...

AaronM · 11-28-2007, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediachick

I think to this point, both parties need to make a little work if, ofcourse, they both like each other... the girl would say call me later, if you want, and the guy would call her the next day or a couple days later to not seem so pushy, how's that?

I think you have been pretty on target in this thread but I would like to offer another spin on this post.....

Yes, call the girl but do so when YOU KNOW that she will not be around to answer the call. Call when she is at work or whatever....Leave her a message. This shows your interest but at the same time it dumps the deal back in her lap.

Now she can call you back knowing that you are interested and without seeming needy...If she doesn't call then she was never truly interested in you to begin with.

carol.prime · 11-28-2007, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by hateman

call or dont call?

For me it means either of the two: "It doesn't matter if you call or not.. I don't care much."

OR

"I'm feeling you so call me if you're interested as well."

tony286 · 11-28-2007, 07:14 PM

that means call.

Spunky · 11-28-2007, 07:14 PM

I've always wondered why women did that to me,when they know I work full time..sneaky manipulators!

Xrated J · 11-28-2007, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by IllTestYourGirls

I think she is telling you its ok to do anal...

i was thinkin this too

whudup-yo? · 11-28-2007, 07:19 PM

she have to play it cool otherwise she is more needy which would make her less attractive to most strong males. So either she considers you strong or she doesnt give a shit. either way its a good sign.

teg0 · 11-28-2007, 07:21 PM

translation: I really hope that you give me a call later, and that you do it because you want to, not because I want you to

AaronM · 11-28-2007, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by whudup-yo?

she have to play it cool otherwise she is more needy which would make her less attractive to most strong males. So either she considers you strong or she doesnt give a shit. either way its a good sign.

3+ years since you registered and this topic prompted you to make your 2nd post?

WTF are you doing here...Besides not posting?

whudup-yo? · 11-28-2007, 07:32 PM

i have been busy building an empire off of your knowledges

AaronM · 11-28-2007, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by whudup-yo?

i have been busy building an empire off of your knowledges

Which language did you do that with?

11-28-2007, 02:55 PM	#1
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11-28-2007, 05:14 PM	#17
seeric .......... Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: .......... Posts: 41,917	im single because i got tired of reading between the lines. give it to me in black and white or dont speak at all. i dont have time for bullshit anymore. the time i've wasted trying to figure out women i could have built an empire. its all about fuckbuddys now.

11-28-2007, 07:14 PM	#23
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	that means call.

11-28-2007, 07:14 PM	#24
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11-28-2007, 07:19 PM	#26
whudup-yo? Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 15	she have to play it cool otherwise she is more needy which would make her less attractive to most strong males. So either she considers you strong or she doesnt give a shit. either way its a good sign.

11-28-2007, 07:21 PM	#27
teg0 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Gringo in Puerto Rico Posts: 4,204	translation: I really hope that you give me a call later, and that you do it because you want to, not because I want you to

11-28-2007, 07:32 PM	#29
whudup-yo? Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 15	i have been busy building an empire off of your knowledges