Ladies: Whats do you mean when you say "Call me later, if you want"

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  • hateman
    So Fucking Banned
    • Jul 2003
    • 1623

    #1

    Ladies: Whats do you mean when you say "Call me later, if you want"

    call or dont call?

  • Mediachick
    Confirmed User
    • May 2006
    • 897

    #2
    what is it not to understand? You call if you want, its that simple. Why do guys always try to see some kind of between the line message with whatever we tell them? Not all of us play these stupid games.
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    • PerrieBelle
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      • Apr 2006
      • 678

      #3
      CALL.. lol... She wouldn't say call if you want, if she didn't want you calling! lol
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      • O MARINA
        I'm clockin' ya, Versace shade watchin' ya
        • Mar 2003
        • 13796

        #4
        call ....

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        • RevengeBucks_Monica
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          • Sep 2007
          • 775

          #5
          Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.
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          • CurrentlySober
            Too lazy to wipe my ass
            • Aug 2002
            • 38944

            #6
            Stalk...


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            • baddog
              So Fucking Banned
              • Apr 2001
              • 107089

              #7
              Originally posted by RevengeBucks_Monica
              Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.
              Sounds about right.

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              • hateman
                So Fucking Banned
                • Jul 2003
                • 1623

                #8
                Originally posted by RevengeBucks_Monica
                Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.
                Originally posted by Mediachick
                Not all of us play these stupid games.

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                • Mediachick
                  Confirmed User
                  • May 2006
                  • 897

                  #9
                  Originally posted by hateman
                  what's so funny? The fact that she doesnt want to sound needy doesnt mean she's playing a game. Its normal that she doesnt want to sound as if she's gonna be stuck to your ass. To me that's a sign that she wants to respect you.
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                  • BlackCrayon
                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                    • Jun 2003
                    • 19634

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Mediachick
                    what's so funny? The fact that she doesnt want to sound needy doesnt mean she's playing a game. Its normal that she doesnt want to sound as if she's gonna be stuck to your ass. To me that's a sign that she wants to respect you.
                    What i find funny is that neither party feels as though they can act too interested. Oh the games we play.
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                    • IllTestYourGirls
                      Ah My Balls
                      • Feb 2007
                      • 14311

                      #11
                      I think she is telling you its ok to do anal...

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                      • G-Rotica
                        Confirmed User
                        • Aug 2005
                        • 4258

                        #12
                        Originally posted by RevengeBucks_Monica
                        Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.
                        I second that.

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                        • Mediachick
                          Confirmed User
                          • May 2006
                          • 897

                          #13
                          Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                          What i find funny is that neither party feels as though they can act too interested. Oh the games we play.
                          Its not that, she tells him to call later 'if he wants'. If she would've said 'call me later, you better do otherwise im gonna be disappointed' you put pressure on the guy and he might think that you're a whacko because alot of guys run away when a girl sound a little too serious. I dont know why but its very common.
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                          • BlackCrayon
                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                            • Jun 2003
                            • 19634

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Mediachick
                            Its not that, she tells him to call later 'if he wants'. If she would've said 'call me later, you better do otherwise im gonna be disappointed' you put pressure on the guy and he might think that you're a whacko because alot of guys run away when a girl sound a little too serious. I dont know why but its very common.
                            But then the guy probably won't call because he doesn't want to seem like he is coming on strong either. Then the girl will think hes not interested when he really is but just trying to play by these "rules". I'm no expert and everyone is different but chances are a girl showing interest is not going to scare the guy away unless he is just looking for a fling. of course there are limits but it just seems that everyone is doing what they feel they have to do instead of doing what they feel.
                            you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                            • frostyimpressions
                              Confirmed User
                              • May 2007
                              • 918

                              #15
                              Originally posted by RevengeBucks_Monica
                              Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.
                              I as a girl second that.
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                              • Mediachick
                                Confirmed User
                                • May 2006
                                • 897

                                #16
                                Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                But then the guy probably won't call because he doesn't want to seem like he is coming on strong either. Then the girl will think hes not interested when he really is but just trying to play by these "rules". I'm no expert and everyone is different but chances are a girl showing interest is not going to scare the guy away unless he is just looking for a fling. of course there are limits but it just seems that everyone is doing what they feel they have to do instead of doing what they feel.
                                I think to this point, both parties need to make a little work if, ofcourse, they both like each other... the girl would say call me later, if you want, and the guy would call her the next day or a couple days later to not seem so pushy, how's that?
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                                • seeric
                                  ..........
                                  • Aug 2004
                                  • 41917

                                  #17
                                  im single because i got tired of reading between the lines. give it to me in black and white or dont speak at all.

                                  i dont have time for bullshit anymore. the time i've wasted trying to figure out women i could have built an empire.

                                  its all about fuckbuddys now.

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                                  • Vick!
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Nov 2005
                                    • 6882

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by RevengeBucks_Monica
                                    Translation: I would love to hear from you, so please call, but I don't want to sound needy, so I added "if you want to" on the end.
                                    Originally posted by G-Rotica
                                    I second that.
                                    Originally posted by frostyimpressions
                                    I as a girl second that.
                                    So, would not I sound needy if I call later? As you added, "if you want.."


                                    Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                    What i find funny is that neither party feels as though they can act too interested. Oh the games we play.
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                                    • who
                                      So Fucking Banned
                                      • Aug 2003
                                      • 19593

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by A1R3K
                                      im single because i got tired of reading between the lines.

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                                      • CaptainHowdy
                                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                                        • Dec 2004
                                        • 94733

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Mediachick
                                        what is it not to understand? You call if you want, its that simple. Why do guys always try to see some kind of between the line message with whatever we tell them? Not all of us play these stupid games.
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                                        • AaronM
                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                          • Oct 2001
                                          • 46923

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Mediachick
                                          I think to this point, both parties need to make a little work if, ofcourse, they both like each other... the girl would say call me later, if you want, and the guy would call her the next day or a couple days later to not seem so pushy, how's that?

                                          I think you have been pretty on target in this thread but I would like to offer another spin on this post.....

                                          Yes, call the girl but do so when YOU KNOW that she will not be around to answer the call. Call when she is at work or whatever....Leave her a message. This shows your interest but at the same time it dumps the deal back in her lap.

                                          Now she can call you back knowing that you are interested and without seeming needy...If she doesn't call then she was never truly interested in you to begin with.

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                                          • carol.prime
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Jul 2006
                                            • 6960

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by hateman
                                            call or dont call?

                                            For me it means either of the two: "It doesn't matter if you call or not.. I don't care much."

                                            OR

                                            "I'm feeling you so call me if you're interested as well."
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                                            • tony299
                                              lurker
                                              • Aug 2002
                                              • 57021

                                              #23
                                              that means call.

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                                              • Spunky
                                                I need a beer
                                                • Jun 2002
                                                • 133986

                                                #24
                                                I've always wondered why women did that to me,when they know I work full time..sneaky manipulators!

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                                                • Xrated J
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • Sep 2006
                                                  • 4347

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by IllTestYourGirls
                                                  I think she is telling you its ok to do anal...
                                                  i was thinkin this too

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                                                  • whudup-yo?
                                                    Registered User
                                                    • Jun 2004
                                                    • 15

                                                    #26
                                                    she have to play it cool otherwise she is more needy which would make her less attractive to most strong males. So either she considers you strong or she doesnt give a shit. either way its a good sign.

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                                                    • teg0
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Jan 2006
                                                      • 4204

                                                      #27
                                                      translation: I really hope that you give me a call later, and that you do it because you want to, not because I want you to

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                                                      • AaronM
                                                        GFY Royality ;)
                                                        • Oct 2001
                                                        • 46923

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by whudup-yo?
                                                        she have to play it cool otherwise she is more needy which would make her less attractive to most strong males. So either she considers you strong or she doesnt give a shit. either way its a good sign.


                                                        3+ years since you registered and this topic prompted you to make your 2nd post?

                                                        WTF are you doing here...Besides not posting?

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                                                        • whudup-yo?
                                                          Registered User
                                                          • Jun 2004
                                                          • 15

                                                          #29
                                                          i have been busy building an empire off of your knowledges

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                                                          • AaronM
                                                            GFY Royality ;)
                                                            • Oct 2001
                                                            • 46923

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by whudup-yo?
                                                            i have been busy building an empire off of your knowledges

                                                            Which language did you do that with?

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