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Originally Posted by Mediachick
Its not that, she tells him to call later 'if he wants'. If she would've said 'call me later, you better do otherwise im gonna be disappointed' you put pressure on the guy and he might think that you're a whacko because alot of guys run away when a girl sound a little too serious. I dont know why but its very common.
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But then the guy probably won't call because he doesn't want to seem like he is coming on strong either. Then the girl will think hes not interested when he really is but just trying to play by these "rules". I'm no expert and everyone is different but chances are a girl showing interest is not going to scare the guy away unless he is just looking for a fling. of course there are limits but it just seems that everyone is doing what they feel they have to do instead of doing what they feel.