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ultimatebbwdotcom · 03-15-2006, 10:37 AM

If you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.

dynastoned · 03-15-2006, 10:38 AM

thats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..

WebairGerard · 03-15-2006, 11:07 AM

definatley dipping her toes into the cheating pool

Denis_SC · 03-15-2006, 11:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xclusive

I totally agree i'd let her go if she's willing to kiss another guy she will probably do anything else.

Not probably but definitely will !

DutchTeenCash · 03-15-2006, 11:12 AM

if it wasnt a friendly kiss on the cheek id have a serious talk with her...

p2p chad · 03-15-2006, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by brand0n

shes not that good of a kisser.. my bad..shesh

hahaha, you're asking for it with those kinda comments Brandon! lol

rowan · 03-15-2006, 11:34 AM

I personally think it's stepping over the line but I'm not sure you should unconditionally dump her for it.

How did you find out?

karlm · 03-15-2006, 11:42 AM

Mutual friend

Shes upset and says she wants me back ect

I dunno wtf too do anyone been in any simillar sits?

Quote:

Originally Posted by rowan

I personally think it's stepping over the line but I'm not sure you should unconditionally dump her for it.

How did you find out?

sperbonzo · 03-15-2006, 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karlm

Mutual friend

Shes upset and says she wants me back ect

I dunno wtf too do anyone been in any simillar sits?

I took a girl back after she pulled a stunt like that. She cried and wailed and wanted me back, so I relented.

....a year later I caught her cheating on me.

Save yourself the time. I wish I had just moved on when I had the chance.

karlm · 03-15-2006, 12:03 PM

Yea ive been told the same thing once a cheater always a cheater

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Originally Posted by sperbonzo

I took a girl back after she pulled a stunt like that. She cried and wailed and wanted me back, so I relented.

....a year later I caught her cheating on me.

Save yourself the time. I wish I had just moved on when I had the chance.

sperbonzo · 03-15-2006, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by karlm

Yea ive been told the same thing once a cheater always a cheater

Exactly, within one relationship, I think that's true. She may not be a cheater in a later time in her life, but with you, the pattern is set.

Who knows, maybe you will teach her a lesson and she won't screw up with her next relationship. You'll be doing yourself a favor, and doing her a favor at the same time. I'm not saying that it's easy to break up with someone, but it's a lot easier than staying with the wrong one ...over the long run.

p2p chad · 03-15-2006, 12:17 PM

well, what was her reasoning for the kiss? just too drunk? or is it something deeper? everyone IS entitled to (pardon the expression) Fuck up once in a while, doesn't mean she'll do it again.....just playin devil's advocate here!

Platinum Red · 03-15-2006, 12:20 PM

cheating for sure though you did not tell us the whole story! did you get into a fight with her before hand? does she know that you think she is your gf?
tell us all of it

if you were fighting maybe it is not cheating

Mighty Chin · 03-15-2006, 12:22 PM

It's pathetic that you would have to ask.

How about this. Did it bother you that she was kissing another man. If Yes! than it is cheating.

Wiggles · 03-15-2006, 12:23 PM

my wife considers it cheating, so yeah i guess so.

LiveDose · 03-15-2006, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karlm

Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club

Whhooops. Time to go and fuck one of her best friends.

p2p chad · 03-15-2006, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

Whhooops. Time to go and fuck one of her best friends.

HAHAHA...yes, the ULTIMATE retaliation!! Make sure to pick the hottest one tho! Really piss her off! lol

zigx · 03-15-2006, 12:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karlm

Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club

smack that silly bitch the fuck down!

volante · 03-15-2006, 12:55 PM

Here's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?

Vitasoy · 03-15-2006, 12:59 PM

If it's only a peck on the lips now, but anything more, then hell yes.

The Sultan Of Smut · 03-15-2006, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by volante

Here's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?

Yup it's still cheating, it doesn't matter if it's a girl or guy but I suppose if it was my girlfriend I wouldn't mind it quite as much if she was kissing a chick. I suppose the test is to ask her if you can kiss the chick as well and see what she says.

axelcat · 03-15-2006, 01:01 PM

cheating for sure

WWC-Pajio · 03-15-2006, 01:05 PM

with no doubt.. i will call that cheating!!

amandaspost · 03-15-2006, 01:09 PM

Definitely cheating...

Viewfinder · 03-15-2006, 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karlm

Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club

Kissing lips is borderline cheating, kissing dick is solidly cheating, and kissing puckered anus is so badly mega-slut-class cheating that you'll have to assume she's been doing all your friends and their dogs for the past 6 and a half years.

calibra · 03-15-2006, 01:57 PM

It's cheating for sure. BUT it's a kind of "minor" cheating, when you forgive but not forget.

Tricksy · 03-15-2006, 02:01 PM

cheating for sure... at least that means that I don't care about my boyfriend much... If I kiss someone I mean

and for my boyfriend... God, I would kill him

Jennyfer · 03-15-2006, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Platinumpimp

I agree. If you love somebody you definately shouldn't feel the need to make out with somebody else, whether its kissing or fucking.

I agreed...unless she was completely wasted

ilbb · 03-15-2006, 02:19 PM

CHEATING you should leave because she is not worth it...

...and sure kick the bastard's balls

Herb Kornfield · 03-15-2006, 02:27 PM

So, thats what you know about?

Imagine all the shit that you DONT know about my man.

Shit like this is why its just easier to swing..... You dont have this silly bullshit get in the way.

CDSmith · 03-15-2006, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by dynastoned

thats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..

I would be wondering why my girlfriend (or wife, as the case may be) is out sucking face with some other guy.

It amazes me that some of you don't seem to mind (or care) if your woman is out sucking face with some other guy.

A friendly peck on the cheek given to a known friend is a different matter. THAT I can understand, as it's perectly fine. But actually kissing some guy on the lips? I don't think so. I'm not the jealous type at all, I'm the type that would tell her to keep right on kissing the guy and "See ya"...... in other words I'd give her the kiss off. :D

fl_prn_str · 03-15-2006, 02:43 PM

what type of kiss? kiss that you would give your blood relative or kiss that would determine what a person had for lunch.

Ivana Fukalot · 03-15-2006, 02:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karlm

Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club

oh, i think thats not good. But maybe she was a very very drunk?
If she was kissing with a girl, its ok.

CDSmith · 03-15-2006, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Ivana Fukalot

But maybe she was a very very drunk?

That's no excuse.

Kevin - The PNN · 03-15-2006, 03:14 PM

Depends on what set of lips he was kissing.

Horzintal - Not Cheating

Vertical - Cheating

polish_aristocrat · 03-15-2006, 03:16 PM

send her to Dirty Danza and make her puke on his cock

GlydeGirl · 03-15-2006, 03:23 PM

What I think is totally crazy is that you folks don't have a conversation with your girlfriends/boyfriends when you first start dating as to what is cheating and what isn't cheating.

I'm a swinger and have negotiated all the things that I (and my man) are allowed to do with full approval of the other partner. You know what WE consider cheating and a total deal breaker??? Fucking somebody WITHOUT USING CONDOMS. That's the only thing that we consider cheating.

Next time you want to figure out if what your girlfriend/boyfriend was doing was cheating, have a conversation with them (ideally when you first start dating) and negotiate the ground rules. Then everybody knows up front what is acceptable and not, so when a rule is broken it is completely clear that this is a violation of the relationship agreement.

You crazy serial monogamists and your lack of communication and negotiation skills!

bdld · 03-15-2006, 03:30 PM

thats no big deal, let her have her fun.

Babagirls · 03-15-2006, 03:36 PM

depends on the situation. if they were both drunk as balls, and HE made the move, then its not really cheating ONLY IF she told him to never do that again.

BUT if shes all over some dude and kissing on him all night, then thats cheating lol

pick your battles.

Dveron · 03-15-2006, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by ultimatebbwdotcom

If you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.

I agree. Thats a rule I live by in my relationship.

Kevin - The PNN · 03-15-2006, 03:45 PM

It is amazing to me. You are in the Porn Biz and you are getting worked up about your girffriend kissing another guy. WTF

I bet if she kissed a another girl - you would be boasting about it - no bitching about it.

Dose she give you shit if your cock gets hard when you look at a hot chick? Get over it.

MetaMan · 03-15-2006, 03:52 PM

def. cheating, she is obviously scandalous, break her off now.

these types of girls will only end up cheating on you in the future. any girl going out to clubs and acting like she is single should be that indeed SINGLE.

it IS different though if the guy came up and out of no where kissed her. as long as she shoved him away and told you then those are grounds for forgivness.

CDSmith · 03-15-2006, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

I'm a swinger

You are the exception then.

As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.

Do unto others and all that. :D

Frankly I'm a bit surprised by some of the ho-hum no-biggie replies in this thread, but on the other hand seeing as this is gofuckyourself... I guess it isn't such a big surprise after all.

GlydeGirl · 03-15-2006, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

You are the exception then.

As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.

Do unto others and all that. :D

Frankly I'm a bit surprised by some of the ho-hum no-biggie replies in this thread, but on the other hand seeing as this is gofuckyourself... I guess it isn't such a big surprise after all.

Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.

Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.

CDSmith · 03-15-2006, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.

Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.

Romantic relationships aren't business deals Maura. Do you not know this?

Swingers do need to set boundaries.
But in regular relationships it is normally understood that once you're together you're together, no outside contact. At least that's the way it is with most people I know (who aren't swingers)

You being someone who prefers the open-ended style of relationship might find it hard to grasp that other people don't go around "negotiating" with each other every time they meet someone new.

No worries, I'm just as befuddled about your way of life, as I have no idea how people can watch their lover get laid by someone else.

To each their own.

CDSmith · 03-15-2006, 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating.

Do you really think that in most cases if a guy tells his girlfriend that kissing someone else is a no-no that she won't go do it anyway?

Seriously, I am laughing here.

adultfora · 03-15-2006, 04:17 PM

drop the bitch - if she allready kisses someone.. then she also would fuck another.. dump her and post naked pictures on the fucking net so she can feel how it is to be fucked over

sherie · 03-15-2006, 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by woj

I was just giving stupid response to a stupid question, it should be pretty obvious that kissing another guy when you are in a relationship is not cool...

I figured as much, hense my response haha :P

polish_aristocrat · 03-15-2006, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith

Do you really think that in most cases if a guy tells his girlfriend that kissing someone else is a no-no that she won't go do it anyway?

Seriously, I am laughing here.

she's a swinger

stev0 · 03-15-2006, 04:43 PM

definately cheating... probably bringing you home herpes from the club, watch out.

03-15-2006, 11:07 AM	#53
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03-15-2006, 11:12 AM	#55
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03-15-2006, 12:17 PM	#62
p2p chad Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Toronto, Ontario Posts: 127	well, what was her reasoning for the kiss? just too drunk? or is it something deeper? everyone IS entitled to (pardon the expression) Fuck up once in a while, doesn't mean she'll do it again.....just playin devil's advocate here! __________________ Paysite/Affiliate Program Owners, Let Console Broker Sell Your Exit Traffic For Guaranteed Revenue! ICQ# 309102723 E-mail: [email protected]

03-15-2006, 12:20 PM	#63
Platinum Red Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: In heart of Toronto Posts: 517	cheating for sure though you did not tell us the whole story! did you get into a fight with her before hand? does she know that you think she is your gf? tell us all of it if you were fighting maybe it is not cheating __________________ Platinum Red any questions - [email protected] ICQ # 167818595

03-15-2006, 12:22 PM	#64
Mighty Chin Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Burnaby BC Posts: 781	It's pathetic that you would have to ask. How about this. Did it bother you that she was kissing another man. If Yes! than it is cheating. __________________ Do you need design work done. I am available check out my site TMC Web Designs

03-15-2006, 10:37 AM	#51
ultimatebbwdotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 591	If you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.

03-15-2006, 10:38 AM	#52
dynastoned mmm yeah! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: roseville, ca Posts: 5,061	thats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..

03-15-2006, 11:34 AM	#57
rowan Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 17,393	I personally think it's stepping over the line but I'm not sure you should unconditionally dump her for it. How did you find out?

03-15-2006, 12:23 PM	#65
Wiggles Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 14,423	my wife considers it cheating, so yeah i guess so. __________________ no sig

03-15-2006, 12:55 PM	#69
volante Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: LAX Immigration Posts: 2,940	Here's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?

03-15-2006, 12:59 PM	#70
Vitasoy GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 58,202	If it's only a peck on the lips now, but anything more, then hell yes. __________________ [email protected]

03-15-2006, 01:01 PM	#72
axelcat Adult Locals Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: West Coast Posts: 25,450	cheating for sure

03-15-2006, 01:05 PM	#73
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03-15-2006, 01:09 PM	#74
amandaspost Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 1,935	Definitely cheating...

03-15-2006, 01:57 PM	#76
calibra Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 4,357	It's cheating for sure. BUT it's a kind of "minor" cheating, when you forgive but not forget. __________________ GetCyberCash.com

03-15-2006, 02:01 PM	#77
Tricksy Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: USA Posts: 2,601	cheating for sure... at least that means that I don't care about my boyfriend much... If I kiss someone I mean and for my boyfriend... God, I would kill him __________________ Real-Bucks.com - Real Bucks for Real Webmasters.

03-15-2006, 02:19 PM	#79
ilbb Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2005 Location: EU - Czech republic Posts: 3,025	CHEATING you should leave because she is not worth it... ...and sure kick the bastard's balls

03-15-2006, 02:27 PM	#80
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	So, thats what you know about? Imagine all the shit that you DONT know about my man. Shit like this is why its just easier to swing..... You dont have this silly bullshit get in the way.

03-15-2006, 02:43 PM	#82
fl_prn_str Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 5,736	what type of kiss? kiss that you would give your blood relative or kiss that would determine what a person had for lunch.

03-15-2006, 03:14 PM	#85
Kevin - The PNN Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: ICQ: 306431492 Posts: 1,364	Depends on what set of lips he was kissing. Horzintal - Not Cheating Vertical - Cheating __________________ www.ThePNN.com The Porn Niche Network

03-15-2006, 03:16 PM	#86
polish_aristocrat Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 40,377	send her to Dirty Danza and make her puke on his cock __________________ I don't use ICQ anymore.

03-15-2006, 03:23 PM	#87
GlydeGirl Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 1,516	What I think is totally crazy is that you folks don't have a conversation with your girlfriends/boyfriends when you first start dating as to what is cheating and what isn't cheating. I'm a swinger and have negotiated all the things that I (and my man) are allowed to do with full approval of the other partner. You know what WE consider cheating and a total deal breaker??? Fucking somebody WITHOUT USING CONDOMS. That's the only thing that we consider cheating. Next time you want to figure out if what your girlfriend/boyfriend was doing was cheating, have a conversation with them (ideally when you first start dating) and negotiate the ground rules. Then everybody knows up front what is acceptable and not, so when a rule is broken it is completely clear that this is a violation of the relationship agreement. You crazy serial monogamists and your lack of communication and negotiation skills!

03-15-2006, 03:30 PM	#88
bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	thats no big deal, let her have her fun.

03-15-2006, 03:36 PM	#89
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	depends on the situation. if they were both drunk as balls, and HE made the move, then its not really cheating ONLY IF she told him to never do that again. BUT if shes all over some dude and kissing on him all night, then thats cheating lol pick your battles. __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

03-15-2006, 03:45 PM	#91
Kevin - The PNN Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: ICQ: 306431492 Posts: 1,364	It is amazing to me. You are in the Porn Biz and you are getting worked up about your girffriend kissing another guy. WTF I bet if she kissed a another girl - you would be boasting about it - no bitching about it. Dose she give you shit if your cock gets hard when you look at a hot chick? Get over it. __________________ www.ThePNN.com The Porn Niche Network

03-15-2006, 03:52 PM	#92
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	def. cheating, she is obviously scandalous, break her off now. these types of girls will only end up cheating on you in the future. any girl going out to clubs and acting like she is single should be that indeed SINGLE. it IS different though if the guy came up and out of no where kissed her. as long as she shoved him away and told you then those are grounds for forgivness.

03-15-2006, 04:17 PM	#97
adultfora Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 498	drop the bitch - if she allready kisses someone.. then she also would fuck another.. dump her and post naked pictures on the fucking net so she can feel how it is to be fucked over __________________ yes i know - im a rabbit

03-15-2006, 04:43 PM	#100
stev0 Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Calgary, Alberta Posts: 6,801	definately cheating... probably bringing you home herpes from the club, watch out.