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Originally Posted by CDSmith
You are the exception then.
As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.
Do unto others and all that. :D
Frankly I'm a bit surprised by some of the ho-hum no-biggie replies in this thread, but on the other hand seeing as this is gofuckyourself... I guess it isn't such a big surprise after all.
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Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.
Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.