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TurboAngel · 09-21-2005, 07:23 AM

I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all. Have you ever had to deal with a suicide? I hope this is the last one I have to deal with.

karlm · 09-21-2005, 07:24 AM

My dads best mate commited suicide that was a hard time

pawsregd · 09-21-2005, 07:25 AM

That sucks, sorry to hear about that

Gungadin · 09-21-2005, 07:25 AM

Go talk to someone about it

amateurcanada · 09-21-2005, 07:28 AM

Thats aweful. They chose not to live, its unfortunate but we all have that ultimate choice. Its not easy to deal with and I am no exception.

I wish you well.

Ace-wtf · 09-21-2005, 07:29 AM

try and get it out
with a professional.

it will help

Huge Cock · 09-21-2005, 07:31 AM

I have had to deal with a few suicides during the duration of my lifetime as well. It is unfortunate that people take the "easy" way out. It is a selfish act usually brought on by severe depression. If it is hard to cope with I suggest you go to some couseling sessions to deal with your pain. Good luck in your edeavors

kosta · 09-21-2005, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all.

You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.

TurboAngel · 09-21-2005, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by kosta

You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.

Now that nice to say.

Huge Cock · 09-21-2005, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by kosta

You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.

That was mean and uncalled for

sherie · 09-21-2005, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by kosta

You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.

You are an idiot. That was totally uncalled for.

Sorry to hear about your loss. Perhaps talking to a professional about it will help you out. Good luck.

TurboAngel · 09-21-2005, 07:45 AM

Thanks Sherie, it's sad the trolls around here.

[CG] · 09-21-2005, 07:46 AM

I did, a couple years back. A family friend has 3 kids. Justin (the eldest son/middle kid Age 13) was very hyper, active etc... his mom (single mom but dad stayed involved) didn't neglect any of the kids & actually spoiled them allot. Mom works, eldest child (daughter) was in one of the higher grades in HS so she hung out with friends after school etc... They came home late one night, Justin wasnt there, they figured he was out playing with friends etc... when mom went to the washroom she found justin had hunh himself. He & his girlfriend had got into a fight & he didn't know how to deal with it.
Very sad & no one would have ever expected it. The kid could get crazy sometimes but he was always a good kid for the most part (all kids get into a little trouble)
Ceremoney was great since the mom was activley involved with the school etc, the whole school went, (he had changed schools since he moved) & even almost the whole previous school came out, teachers etc...
He'll always be missed.

Dont understand why he would do that though

dynastoned · 09-21-2005, 07:54 AM

yeah had a friend just last november hang herself over some piece of shit guy. sucks but what can you do?

LauraLee · 09-21-2005, 07:58 AM

I am sorry to hear this TurboAngel

I have dealt with suicide as well. One of my very dearest friends took their own life on July 6th. As you know, nothing can prepare you for that phone call. The feeling of complete helplessness and guilt quickly manifested. Naturally i also felt anger at my friend for taking the selfish way out.
I am still dealing with alot of these emotions, and for me it's a daily process. Very cliche, but getting these feelings out and off your chest is mega important.
If you want someone nuetral just to chat, hit me up on icq.
Wishing you some peace.
LauraLee

Furious_Male · 09-21-2005, 07:59 AM

No but I have faced plenty of death the past 2 months.

You have my condolences. Don't be afraid to seek advise from a professional if needed.

u-Bob · 09-21-2005, 07:59 AM

lost an uncle 8 months ago...

Peaches · 09-21-2005, 08:05 AM

My son in March of this year.

LiveDose · 09-21-2005, 08:08 AM

I have had to & my wife has had to. It leaves you feeling empty inside and terrible about the torment that person must have been going through to actually do it.

TurboAngel · 09-21-2005, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

My son in March of this year.

I'm so sorry to hear that and all the others.

DonX · 09-21-2005, 08:11 AM

Sorry about that, I had a friend of mine that I grew up with and partied with him for years. Then one do he committed suicide. Knowone know's why, he just did. I can feel what your going through, once again sorry to hear that. Sorry to everyone else that has had the same thing happen to someone they love or care about.
Keep your head up, peace

EroticySteve · 09-21-2005, 08:17 AM

I had a friend who tried in high school but he was discovered before he died. He used a pool hose from his tailpipe to fill his car with exhaust. Someone came home early and found him before he died.

eroswebmaster · 09-21-2005, 08:23 AM

My mother took her own life.
My best friend for 20+ years now is in real bad shape, mentally due to drugs etc.

He showed up unannounced last week and I had to explain to hiim the hole my mother's death left in this family because he was thinking about doing the same thing.

Rinaldo · 09-21-2005, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all. Have you ever had to deal with a suicide? I hope this is the last one I have to deal with.

2, I dated one of them and that one hurts to this day.

adonthenet · 09-21-2005, 08:35 AM

ohh damn thats not easy to deal with at all.. hope you the best.

Cyndalie · 09-21-2005, 08:39 AM

I have dealt with 3 as well. Some family, some were good friends.
There is no rationalizing it. It's horrible to go through and guilt gets passed around emotionally. Only thing you can do is try to live life better, refuse to make the same awful mistake, and keep an eye out for the signs in others you love.

Damian_Maxcash · 09-21-2005, 08:42 AM

Ignore Kosta - Hes like NoFX without the class.

Try and see a positive - suicide is a selfish act, but its not one that is carried out lightly.

tranza · 09-21-2005, 08:42 AM

man, i'm sorry to hear that...this is really a huge problem

iwantchixx · 09-21-2005, 08:46 AM

I must say I am lucky to have never had to deal with suicides yet but I know, eventually, somewhere, someone I know will and I think it will be my mother. I don't look forward to it.

Nancy M00re · 09-21-2005, 09:23 AM

I am very sorry to hear that TurboAngel.
The father of my two sons commited suicide 2 years ago.
I can't beleive he did that to our kids.

We will leave with it for the rest our lives. He was very sick and depressed and he tried everything to get out of this, but doctors kept on giving him medications that was making him worst.

It's not easy and it never will... Hang in there.
What's important is that you are alive and that you know more than ever that fighing for your survival will worth every moment that diserve to be lived

TurboAngel · 09-21-2005, 09:28 AM

Thank you all so much.

Sosa · 09-21-2005, 09:29 AM

damn, sorry for the loss.

detoxed · 09-21-2005, 09:42 AM

I havent had to deal with it yet, but a friends grandfather committed suicide and i know it had an effect on him.

panchodog's izzy · 09-21-2005, 10:19 AM

All losses are hard to deal with. Professional help is the best way to go, and just feeling that you need help to cope with it is the best sign to seek out somebody to help out. It'll do you a world of good, I'm sure. Your friend had to be going through a lot of pain to make a choice like that one, and one has to accept that for some people, it just gets too hard, sadly. It's not something "selfish", it's not something somebody does in an attempt to be "selfish". It's very easy to see the shore when you're on firm land, much different when you're the one drowning. Take care, okay?

loverboy · 09-21-2005, 11:11 AM

one of my cousin committed suiced but their family never really opened the real
story why he took his own life. RIP Jeff

09-21-2005, 07:23 AM	#1
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Have you had to deal with a suicide? I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all. Have you ever had to deal with a suicide? I hope this is the last one I have to deal with.

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Huge Cock I have 6 credit cards, each buying 1 trial a day Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Boston, MA Posts: 68	I have had to deal with a few suicides during the duration of my lifetime as well. It is unfortunate that people take the "easy" way out. It is a selfish act usually brought on by severe depression. If it is hard to cope with I suggest you go to some couseling sessions to deal with your pain. Good luck in your edeavors __________________ :: Nothing To See Here ::

09-21-2005, 07:45 AM	#12
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Thanks Sherie, it's sad the trolls around here.

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[CG] Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Montreal Posts: 306	I did, a couple years back. A family friend has 3 kids. Justin (the eldest son/middle kid Age 13) was very hyper, active etc... his mom (single mom but dad stayed involved) didn't neglect any of the kids & actually spoiled them allot. Mom works, eldest child (daughter) was in one of the higher grades in HS so she hung out with friends after school etc... They came home late one night, Justin wasnt there, they figured he was out playing with friends etc... when mom went to the washroom she found justin had hunh himself. He & his girlfriend had got into a fight & he didn't know how to deal with it. Very sad & no one would have ever expected it. The kid could get crazy sometimes but he was always a good kid for the most part (all kids get into a little trouble) Ceremoney was great since the mom was activley involved with the school etc, the whole school went, (he had changed schools since he moved) & even almost the whole previous school came out, teachers etc... He'll always be missed. Dont understand why he would do that though __________________ Jeff Brown

09-21-2005, 07:54 AM	#14
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09-21-2005, 07:58 AM	#15
LauraLee Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: (Still) One Touch Cockie Posts: 3,821	I am sorry to hear this TurboAngel I have dealt with suicide as well. One of my very dearest friends took their own life on July 6th. As you know, nothing can prepare you for that phone call. The feeling of complete helplessness and guilt quickly manifested. Naturally i also felt anger at my friend for taking the selfish way out. I am still dealing with alot of these emotions, and for me it's a daily process. Very cliche, but getting these feelings out and off your chest is mega important. If you want someone nuetral just to chat, hit me up on icq. Wishing you some peace. LauraLee __________________ Priority Payout skype lauralee.bunker LL's Email

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DonX Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: San Jose, California Posts: 1,917	Sorry about that, I had a friend of mine that I grew up with and partied with him for years. Then one do he committed suicide. Knowone know's why, he just did. I can feel what your going through, once again sorry to hear that. Sorry to everyone else that has had the same thing happen to someone they love or care about. Keep your head up, peace __________________ Monkey Spanking Cash 50/50 Rev Share Program DonX: 300599159 Galleries Click Here Last edited by DonX; 09-21-2005 at 08:12 AM..

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adonthenet Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 16,753	ohh damn thats not easy to deal with at all.. hope you the best.

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Cyndalie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Cherry Hill, NJ Posts: 3,615	I have dealt with 3 as well. Some family, some were good friends. There is no rationalizing it. It's horrible to go through and guilt gets passed around emotionally. Only thing you can do is try to live life better, refuse to make the same awful mistake, and keep an eye out for the signs in others you love. __________________ Cyndalie Marketing Director StoriesTraffic.com

09-21-2005, 08:42 AM	#27
Damian_Maxcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: MaxCash.com Posts: 12,745	Ignore Kosta - Hes like NoFX without the class. Try and see a positive - suicide is a selfish act, but its not one that is carried out lightly.

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09-21-2005, 08:46 AM	#29
iwantchixx Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: The Boonies Posts: 12,860	I must say I am lucky to have never had to deal with suicides yet but I know, eventually, somewhere, someone I know will and I think it will be my mother. I don't look forward to it.

09-21-2005, 09:23 AM	#30
Nancy M00re Pegas Productions Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 2,288	I am very sorry to hear that TurboAngel. The father of my two sons commited suicide 2 years ago. I can't beleive he did that to our kids. We will leave with it for the rest our lives. He was very sick and depressed and he tried everything to get out of this, but doctors kept on giving him medications that was making him worst. It's not easy and it never will... Hang in there. What's important is that you are alive and that you know more than ever that fighing for your survival will worth every moment that diserve to be lived __________________ www.pegasmoney.com www.chickpasscash.com Telegram: @Nancym00re

09-21-2005, 09:28 AM	#31
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Thank you all so much.

09-21-2005, 09:29 AM	#32
Sosa In Tushy Land Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 40,149	damn, sorry for the loss.

09-21-2005, 09:42 AM	#33
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	I havent had to deal with it yet, but a friends grandfather committed suicide and i know it had an effect on him.

09-21-2005, 10:19 AM	#34
panchodog's izzy Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 335	All losses are hard to deal with. Professional help is the best way to go, and just feeling that you need help to cope with it is the best sign to seek out somebody to help out. It'll do you a world of good, I'm sure. Your friend had to be going through a lot of pain to make a choice like that one, and one has to accept that for some people, it just gets too hard, sadly. It's not something "selfish", it's not something somebody does in an attempt to be "selfish". It's very easy to see the shore when you're on firm land, much different when you're the one drowning. Take care, okay? __________________ Freelance Adult, Dating and Mainstream Writer since 2008 $0.02 cents per word. No job too big or small. Now accepting Paxum, Payoneer, Mastercard and Visa! ICQ: 244-185-772 e-mail: dizzidente (at) hotmail.com

09-21-2005, 11:11 AM	#35
loverboy When it rains, it pours Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 20,609	one of my cousin committed suiced but their family never really opened the real story why he took his own life. RIP Jeff