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baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:30 AM

50 abused Valentines

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

No this is a different guy.

You have great taste in men . . . .were you abused as a child or something? I only ask that because every chick that I have known that goes from one abusive relationship to another was abused as a child.

It is the gift that keeps on giving.

bringer · 02-14-2005, 04:34 AM

unless you're about to stab him or shoot him theres no reason for any man to hit you. next time it'll be harder. get away

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

No drugs or booze, it's not fake

His point about Iraq is that he thinks that women today are taking advantage of men, because it's not politically correct for men to hit women and that women overexaggerate it when they get hit sometimes, because they probably provoked the men. But his point is that men go to war to fight FOR the women, so women should more respect.

My point is that he has never went to war for himself, so he shouldn't take credit for other men's deeds. He is basically saying that I should respect him more and listen to him the first time when he says something, because of that. Hopes this makes sense.

He is saying that men fight war, so why do women (he means ME) complain when they get slapped? He is saying I should take it, because it's the man who suffers for it.

jeez . . . you are dumb

bringer · 02-14-2005, 04:37 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

And as for the reason why i posted this here, I wanted to know if the majority of people think that it was my fault for provoking him (which I did not do on purpose).

sadly, you asking this means you probably think its your fault and will most likely stay with him. believe me, next time you might not cut the crust off his pb&j correctly and will have the same result the whole time thinking its your fault.

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

You have great taste in men . . . .were you abused as a child or something? I only ask that because every chick that I have known that goes from one abusive relationship to another was abused as a child.

It is the gift that keeps on giving.

Nope never. But he got hit when he was a kid and his parents fought a lot. So i know that's where it stems from

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 04:41 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

jeez . . . you are dumb

Why am I dumb? Those are my bf's opinions, not mine. I was clarifying his opnions for JupZChris, because he didn't understand what Iraq had to do with all of it. So I am just explaining to him the opinions of someone else, because he explained to me in length about it.

Of course I don't agree with his opinion, I think it is ridiculous, war has absolutely nothing to do with our fight. I am just explaining to him why my bf brought that subject into the conversation.

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:43 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

Why am I dumb?

How about because you are calling him your boyfriend instead of your ex-boyfriend?

Valentines Day is a perfect day for breaking up.

ADL Colin · 02-14-2005, 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

But he got hit when he was a kid

Bad news then. It's quite likely you are seeing the beginning of a pattern.

Evil Doer · 02-14-2005, 04:45 AM

I think you answered your own question, imbecile. Don't be so god damn annoying.

He is definately wrong for hitting you, but next time don't try to provoke it. I would of dumped you the first sign of "annoying bitch behavior" appeared.

bringer · 02-14-2005, 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

How about because you are calling him your boyfriend instead of your ex-boyfriend?

Valentines Day is a perfect day for breaking up.

she's not getting it

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bringer

she's not getting it

Well, Colin suggested that I tell him that if he hits me again that I should leave him and if he debates that, then that will be the end of it. So I think that is good advice for me, and I think I will do that.

Our fights have never escalated like this before, so it is the first time. That's why I am even considering still being with him.

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:49 AM

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Originally Posted by bringer

she's not getting it

That was evident early on page one. Hopefully she doesn't breed as her children will grow up thinking it is acceptable behavior.

bringer · 02-14-2005, 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

Well, Colin suggested that I tell him that if he hits me again that I should leave him and if he debates that, then that will be the end of it.

Our fights have never escalated like this before, so it is the first time. That's why I am even considering still being with him.

if he justified it then he's done it before and will do it again
it really is as simple as that, really

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

Well, Colin suggested that I tell him that if he hits me again that I should leave him and if he debates that, then that will be the end of it. So I think that is good advice for me, and I think I will do that.

Our fights have never escalated like this before, so it is the first time. That's why I am even considering still being with him.

Colin is giving you too much credit, and you are giving your "boyfriend" too much credit. I can't believe you are going to wait for the next time.

I said it once, and I will say it again, jeez . . . you are dumb

bringer · 02-14-2005, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

That was evident early on page one. Hopefully she doesn't breed as her children will grow up thinking it is acceptable behavior.

too much of this already
very sad

baddog · 02-14-2005, 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by bringer

if he justified it then he's done it before and will do it again
it really is as simple as that, really

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Originally Posted by bringer

she's not getting it

nuff said

IPK · 02-14-2005, 04:57 AM

It'll get worse before it gets better.

gangbangjoe · 02-14-2005, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

You sound like an annoying bitch. I wouldn't hit you though. But I hate annoying girls.

ADL Colin · 02-14-2005, 05:00 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Colin is giving you too much credit, and you are giving your "boyfriend" too much credit. I can't believe you are going to wait for the next time.

I said it once, and I will say it again, jeez . . . you are dumb

I answered before reading his history and hers. The more I read the thread the more I am concerned she was looking for vindication.

So phogirl 69. If either one of you have been in an abusive relationship in the past it would be wise to get out. I don't think you're stupid. People are being mean. You are repeating past behaviors though that are very difficult to escape.
So is he, probably. Consider counciling. It might be good to get professional advice.

hova · 02-14-2005, 05:00 AM

just run away

Dagwolf · 02-14-2005, 05:01 AM

This is a no-brainer. It'll be worse next time.

ADL Colin · 02-14-2005, 05:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Almighty Colin

Consider counciling.

Counseling even.

phogirl69 · 02-14-2005, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Almighty Colin

I answered before reading his history and hers. The more I read the thread the more I am concerned she was looking for vindication.

So phogirl 69. If either one of you have been in an abusive relationship in the past it would be wise to get out. I don't think you're stupid. People are being mean. You are repeating past behaviors though that are very difficult to escape.
So is he, probably. Consider counciling. It might be good to get professional advice.

I've never been in an abusive relationship. I can't speak 100% for him, but I don't think that he has been in one (that I am awar of). I just said that his family is dysfunctional, so that is probably where it comes from, because I know it is learned behaviour and it goes through a cycle. But I know not EVERYONE that comes from a dysfunctional family ends up repeating the behaviours, in some cases, but not all. And he never got that angry before in 7 months, so I am hoping it's an isolated incident.

labeledas · 02-14-2005, 05:06 AM

my 125 lb gf is abusive towards me, can i get some sympathy

btw i am 260lbs

ADL Colin · 02-14-2005, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by phogirl69

I've never been in an abusive relationship. I can't speak 100% for him, but I don't think that he has been in one (that I am awar of). I just said that his family is dysfunctional, so that is probably where it comes from, because I know it is learned behaviour and it goes through a cycle. But I know not EVERYONE that comes from a dysfunctional family ends up repeating the behaviours, in some cases, but not all. And he never got that angry before in 7 months, so I am hoping it's an isolated incident.

I'm not reading carefully. Tread carefully. Why don't you go have that talk with him and report back?

Cassie · 02-14-2005, 06:15 AM

first, why would you post this on a public forum? second, no matter what the situation was that lead up to this, if you have to question if what he did was right or wrong, then you need to do some serious, introspective thinking.

evelknievel · 02-14-2005, 06:44 AM

I'd hit it.

XXXSharonXXX · 02-14-2005, 06:51 AM

I think if a man hit you once he'll do it again and i dont think there is a good reason for a man to hit a woman without women consent!!!

vicki · 02-14-2005, 07:00 AM

phogirl69

How old are the both of you .. under 25 I'll bet?
The immaturity level of what you've posted speaks volumes.
You both need to do some serious growing up, preferrably apart.

GoodStuff · 02-14-2005, 07:09 AM

Furious Female said it best...

Relentlessly annoying someone when they ask several times not to isn't right either. He can't control his anger and you can't control your immaturity. Incompatible. Move on.. before it's too late.

As everybody is saying it will only get worse unless BOTH of you are willing to admit you have issues and seek counseling.

Lee · 02-14-2005, 07:10 AM

His reasoning is the biggest crock of shit I have ever read on GFY, and thats saying something. Your staying with him is the second biggest crock of shit so go figure.

Lets put it this way, if you were my daughter he would be spending the next 8 hours in surgery having a baseball bat removed from his anus thats been pushed up so far you would think he had a lump in his throat.

DaddysGirl · 02-14-2005, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

Your making this thread like you want to defend this fucking idiot. I will never ever ever ever ever hit a women no matter how bad things get (things never get bad btw, im nice, they are always happy ). Ok here are some things i picked up on your little LOOSER boyfriend who abused you (it dont matter it if he hit you hard or soft, he still hit you so its abuse).

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1} He doent even want you in the house!!
"..and then he told me to get out of his house..."

2} He abuses you!!
...hit me on my thighs and slapped me and threw my wallet me.

3} He is fucking psycho!!!!!
..he says that sometimes that's why people kill their mates...

4} He hates women!!
women these days really push it when it's the "man that goes to war.

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Are you seriously still with him after this?? You can do better then this guy.

I agree 100% Get out now, it will only get worse!

gh0st · 02-14-2005, 07:50 AM

You probably exaggerated what he did.. I bet he hardly hit you, you just pushed him to his limit.. and I'm sure you weren't being sarcastic when you were being a bitch to him.. You probably made him lose his mind and continued pushing, Be glad he didn't punch you in the face. If he actually starts HURTING you, get the fuck outta the relationship.

michel · 02-14-2005, 07:53 AM

This will only get worse....

Marie · 02-14-2005, 08:00 AM

You've only been with him for 7 months and he's hit you and choked you.... pfff dump him. Really, do it. He sounds like an asshole. And don't defend him, you already sound like you're being abused!

jimmyf · 02-14-2005, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

Ok you'r in denial, he slapped you. So you say it wasnt hard? Ok it will be full blown abuse after few years with him. Fuck that looser, get out now.

some very very good advice... she should be getting some gone right away.

Jennifer84 · 02-14-2005, 08:20 AM

The fact that you spent the time writing that mini-novel instead of dumping his ass makes me want to hit you.

Phoenix · 02-14-2005, 08:21 AM

there is never a good reason to smack a girl

your bf is a bitch

Rinaldo · 02-14-2005, 08:24 AM

Leave us all alone and leave your SHitty ass boyfriend.... no real man ever even raises a hand to a woman

Corona · 02-14-2005, 08:35 AM

Kick his ass to the curb.

I take it this the same guy that thinks he is going to die because he can't get it up anymore.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=333547

Trixxxia · 02-14-2005, 08:47 AM

phogirl - it's none of my business but here is my opinion - it may not be worth much but here it goes.

By actually seeing his point of view and asking people for opinions on it, you're trying to justify it in your mind, although YOU KNOW it's not right, nor is it sane. When a man justifies his actions for wars fought by people he didn't know and victimizes himself after making someone a victim - you know for sure this guy doesn't take responsibility for his own actions.

I can tell you I've lived with someone like that and it almost cost me my life. If it wasn't for my child who looked at me and told me to smell the roses and distinguish the shit, I wouldn't be here. It starts with a slap and then you justify it in your mind and it progressively goes to the next level until you have no self-esteem or courage to get the fuck out of it.

When he finds out you've written it on here, he'll ask you to leave the biz - mark my words.

You've got so much to offer someone - don't waste it on someone who can't control his 'irritations' and cannot use his brain to relay his feelings of anger. It's classic abused woman syndrome - you want to believe that it was an isolated moment and that it won't happen again - until the next time, then you take blame for it, then the next it's because of his parents, then the next he had a bad day at work - and then next, ...... It goes on and on - if he parents screwed him up - you're not going to save him much less change him. He obviously doesn't see a problem with it - he's telling you that you should accept it because 'they go fight wars for you' - last I checked, women were in Iraq too and doing their part.

Sorry doesn't cut it and the next time you don't know what will trigger it - if you can't feel safe with your man then why have one? You're worth way more than this. I say take another objective look at your relationship and make your decision.

DateDoc · 02-14-2005, 08:53 AM

He should not have hit you but when he said get the fuck out of my house, if he owns it, you should have left and let things cool off. Then when he was calm and you were too you have talked about it. Instead you pushed all his piss me off buttons. If I was him I'd get a dog and for you....find some fucking hobbies and let him have some space!!!

Quickdraw · 02-14-2005, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by TopBucksTrixxxia

phogirl - it's none of my business but here is my opinion - it may not be worth much but here it goes.

By actually seeing his point of view and asking people for opinions on it, you're trying to justify it in your mind, although YOU KNOW it's not right, nor is it sane. ........... I say take another objective look at your relationship and make your decision.

Great Post!

Phogirl,
If I was your man I would have left the computer in a second to give you abit of cunnilingus. After all, that is what you wanted, yes?

I hope you don't have to learn the hard way what kind of guy this is

Kevsh · 02-14-2005, 09:07 AM

studio · 02-14-2005, 09:21 AM

I would say, kick him to the curb... If you had done that to me, I would have put that laptop down. Ask you for a good blow job and a piece of ass... You would have either when away, or we whould have had some great sex... I like my solution better than his... A guy should always respect his girl... and there is never a reason to hit the woman you love.

GoodStuff · 02-14-2005, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by studio

I would say, kick him to the curb... If you had done that to me, I would have put that laptop down. Ask you for a good blow job and a piece of ass... You would have either when away, or we whould have had some great sex... I like my solution better than his... A guy should always respect his girl... and there is never a reason to hit the woman you love.

Yes but her low self esteem makes her annoying as fuck...classic needy girl.

nojob · 02-14-2005, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by JupZChris

any drugs or booze involved toinght?

almost sounds fake?
wtf is he going off about going tow ar and the us being invaded?
this guy is a whack job if this is true

this guy is fucked up. why would he hit you in the first place? He must of been drunk or something. Get away from him.

TDF · 02-14-2005, 09:51 AM

run while you still have your feet!

L0stMind · 02-14-2005, 10:26 AM

you know, there is NO reason for a man to hit and choke a woman, unless she is somehow a threat (knife, guns, etc.) and his life was threatened.

I couldn't ever see myself hitting a girl like that.

Reading your post, almost seems like you are accepting of abuse somehow. Dont turn into one of those women who defend their abusive husband...

I'd say you've picked a real loser and you should just leave.... his going to war bullshit is some weird fucked up shit.

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Evil Doer Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: ICQ: 251-911-362 Posts: 915	I think you answered your own question, imbecile. Don't be so god damn annoying. He is definately wrong for hitting you, but next time don't try to provoke it. I would of dumped you the first sign of "annoying bitch behavior" appeared.

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GoodStuff Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 511	Furious Female said it best... Relentlessly annoying someone when they ask several times not to isn't right either. He can't control his anger and you can't control your immaturity. Incompatible. Move on.. before it's too late. As everybody is saying it will only get worse unless BOTH of you are willing to admit you have issues and seek counseling.

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Lee Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Kernow Posts: 2,977	His reasoning is the biggest crock of shit I have ever read on GFY, and thats saying something. Your staying with him is the second biggest crock of shit so go figure. Lets put it this way, if you were my daughter he would be spending the next 8 hours in surgery having a baseball bat removed from his anus thats been pushed up so far you would think he had a lump in his throat.

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Trixxxia Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 5,600	phogirl - it's none of my business but here is my opinion - it may not be worth much but here it goes. By actually seeing his point of view and asking people for opinions on it, you're trying to justify it in your mind, although YOU KNOW it's not right, nor is it sane. When a man justifies his actions for wars fought by people he didn't know and victimizes himself after making someone a victim - you know for sure this guy doesn't take responsibility for his own actions. I can tell you I've lived with someone like that and it almost cost me my life. If it wasn't for my child who looked at me and told me to smell the roses and distinguish the shit, I wouldn't be here. It starts with a slap and then you justify it in your mind and it progressively goes to the next level until you have no self-esteem or courage to get the fuck out of it. When he finds out you've written it on here, he'll ask you to leave the biz - mark my words. You've got so much to offer someone - don't waste it on someone who can't control his 'irritations' and cannot use his brain to relay his feelings of anger. It's classic abused woman syndrome - you want to believe that it was an isolated moment and that it won't happen again - until the next time, then you take blame for it, then the next it's because of his parents, then the next he had a bad day at work - and then next, ...... It goes on and on - if he parents screwed him up - you're not going to save him much less change him. He obviously doesn't see a problem with it - he's telling you that you should accept it because 'they go fight wars for you' - last I checked, women were in Iraq too and doing their part. Sorry doesn't cut it and the next time you don't know what will trigger it - if you can't feel safe with your man then why have one? You're worth way more than this. I say take another objective look at your relationship and make your decision.

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