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Originally Posted by Almighty Colin
I answered before reading his history and hers. The more I read the thread the more I am concerned she was looking for vindication.
So phogirl 69. If either one of you have been in an abusive relationship in the past it would be wise to get out. I don't think you're stupid. People are being mean. You are repeating past behaviors though that are very difficult to escape.
So is he, probably. Consider counciling. It might be good to get professional advice.
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I've never been in an abusive relationship. I can't speak 100% for him, but I don't think that he has been in one (that I am awar of). I just said that his family is dysfunctional, so that is probably where it comes from, because I know it is learned behaviour and it goes through a cycle. But I know not EVERYONE that comes from a dysfunctional family ends up repeating the behaviours, in some cases, but not all. And he never got that angry before in 7 months, so I am hoping it's an isolated incident.