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DutchTeenCash · 12-23-2004, 04:15 PM

ok this all sounds great but many times youre stuck with a fake email fake adress etc etc then what ?

Top Jimmy · 12-23-2004, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ADL_JD

I have some experience in this and it just doesn't work. Once they have charged back it is really difficult. The best thing to do is try to manage it before they chargeback... obviously much easier to do if you have your own merchant account.

I agree. I have sent almost identical letters. People get all scared, then call their bank, and the bank calms them down.

Best thing is to have a support system, make sure refunds are done. Let your customers know when updates are going to happen, basically keep them happy. You will always get CB's. The above at least ensures it won't be of rht wrong reasons.

Mr. Mike · 12-23-2004, 04:20 PM

Just tell them you know where they live, and you will send a crew to stand infront of their house with signs that say "Remove this pervert from our neighborhood".

It'll work.

this is not good advice.

Diligent · 12-23-2004, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by lloyd

or better yet address it to Mrs.. even if you get stuck with the chargeback at least if there is a wife/mother in the household you'll have the satisfaction of knowing the probably got their ass kicked

You turned 15 the 22:nd this month?

Couple of days late but.. congrats!

Ehhrm.. which sponsor allows You to promote for them though?

iBanker · 12-23-2004, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by thinkx

ok this all sounds great but many times youre stuck with a fake email fake adress etc etc then what ?

We get a ton of fake emails, hack attempts, etc. If its fake, then they provided fraudulent information to begin with and most of those charges don't go through. The ones that do on the other hand, the bank is easily shown it initial intent was fraudulent, so they wont chargeback or at least reverse it.

Rictor · 12-23-2004, 05:14 PM

I'm all for it. I also favor shooting them.

PMdave · 12-23-2004, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

We get a ton of fake emails, hack attempts, etc. If its fake, then they provided fraudulent information to begin with and most of those charges don't go through. The ones that do on the other hand, the bank is easily shown it initial intent was fraudulent, so they wont chargeback or at least reverse it.

uhm... couldn't it be the " initial intent was fraudulent"-part is a valid reason to charge back? People that sign up with hacked, stolen,...,... creditcards are probably not using the correct (email)adress of the card holder

NaughtyAlysha · 12-23-2004, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by villageidiot

why don't you register www.nationalnegativedatabase.org, and put that URL in your letter, and when they go to the site, have one of those IP checker scripts on there that says, "Your IP is xxx.xxxx.xxx, and you are in City, State. Your account is currently pending an investigation with XXX.com porn company, because you have allegedly fraudulently charged back access to porn content... bla bla bla" you get the idea.

LOL

i am not a lawyer. doing this could get you into big trouble for all i know... but i do think it would be funny. it's probably a really bad idea. don't do it. LOL

-vi

Not a bad idea, but I don't get that many of them, so I don't know if it would be worth it for me, lol.

iBanker · 12-23-2004, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by PMdave

uhm... couldn't it be the " initial intent was fraudulent"-part is a valid reason to charge back? People that sign up with hacked, stolen,...,... creditcards are probably not using the correct (email)adress of the card holder

Yeah, but we are the program, its the shithead enduser charging back, we are trying to lower the number of chargebacks.

But yeah, lol, you are right, and that it the reason we are "trying" to use.

Easton · 12-23-2004, 06:09 PM

this thread is a good read...

Hentaikid · 12-24-2004, 09:05 AM

I got a chargeback recently and looked up the domain the email was from and it turns out the guy has a website where he posts adult stories using paypal to sell/accept donations.

Heh heh. Payback time.

Matt Frackas · 12-24-2004, 10:39 AM

yea...good in theory ...

however its my experience that a majority of the email addresses associated with these types of members/chargebacks are not valid....so they are unreachable.

lloyd · 12-24-2004, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Just-Anotha-Mack

You turned 15 the 22:nd this month?

Couple of days late but.. congrats!

Ehhrm.. which sponsor allows You to promote for them though?

holy shit somebody noticed that! i dont promote anyone i'm just here for the free porn like any 15 yr old.

nah, i jsut changed it in my profile once the calender feature was added with v3.0 thought it would be kinda funny. sadly its not true or i would have been on the board since i was like 12.

Kimmykim · 12-24-2004, 12:21 PM

If I'm not mistaken, the fact that you had a CDC can still be counted against you if the acquiring bank or card association chooses to do so, regardless of the outcome.

Devilporn · 12-24-2004, 12:41 PM

I do not run paysites yet but....why not tell the people signing up in the welcome e-mail you send them that you will track every use of the website they make and that if ever they chargeback you'll have proof to dispute it?

Drake · 12-24-2004, 12:50 PM

Let us know if you wind up using this approach.

brizzad · 12-24-2004, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

All joking aside, it is still fraud, even if it is only for 3.95, right?

he's doing a chargeback on $3.95 ?

dcortez · 12-24-2004, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Devilporn

I do not run paysites yet but....why not tell the people signing up in the welcome e-mail you send them that you will track every use of the website they make and that if ever they chargeback you'll have proof to dispute it?

Let's not forget we're being paid to provide adult entertainment to people who mostly are NOT going to defraud us.

To treat them with an attitude assuming they are untrustworthy will do more harm than good. Why bum them out with a 'big brother is watching' approach. The ones who will cheat, will only laugh when they read your 'promise to track their butts to embarrasment'. The honest ones may regret having signed up with such an unfriendly service.

-Dino

Drake · 12-24-2004, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by brizzad

he's doing a chargeback on $3.95 ?

I though a chargeback could only be made for a subscription over $20 or some value like that?

TonyL · 12-24-2004, 01:47 PM

Awesome. I will be implimenting this into our system next week.

-Tony

Alex From San Diego · 12-24-2004, 01:52 PM

Why not just have the enduser, click on a link within his email to activate his username/password in order to enter the site. that might eliminate the bogus emails.

Zprogramz · 12-24-2004, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by netbilling

Hi,

Actually I just checked with Erin in merchant services and she verified that the app was faxed to us from you last Thursday (December 16th) and missing statements whcih you supplied to us last Friday (December 17th). We received the original from you this past Tuesday (December 21) and it was sent to the bank for approval yesterday and is in progress. Of course, not much will happen over the holidays at the banks as you probably would imagine.

Be sure to stop by our booth at Internext so we can meet. We will also be speaking at both processing seminars.

Thank you, Mitch Farber

You guys are really on top of things over there. Cheers and Merry Christmas. Thanks for the awesome gift basket that you sent us.

Z

hottoddy · 12-24-2004, 02:19 PM

Do what you feel is best for your business. But keep in mind, from a cost/benefit standpoint, you're gonna be paying $300+/hour for an attorney.

iBanker · 12-24-2004, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by brizzad

he's doing a chargeback on $3.95 ?

Yup $3.95, and we got to more today totaling over $100. Here is what blows my mind.

They sign up using their real name, their real address, a matching IP address, AND here is the kicker.....they pay BY CHECK!!!!

And some of them charge back within 1 hour of when they signed up. It is so obvious they actually did it cause who could get a bank statement that fast. Even if they could, what are the odds of them to be checking their online statement and its actually there ON TIME....

It about time we all put our heads together and figure this out.

detoxed · 12-24-2004, 03:05 PM

Interesting, maybe he charged back because he thought the site was shit?

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Originally Posted by iBanker

We all know how shitty chargebacks can be for both affiliates and programs the same. I would like to know what other people think about a response like this, and the possible effectiveness of it:

Dear Mr. XXXXXXXX,

You are receiving this email because of your successful attempt to chargeback a transaction made on blackdickswhitechicks.com. Your IP address of XX.XXX.XXX.XXX is an exact match based on location for XXXX XXXXX Rd, North Carolina, 28105. If you were unhappy with the service provided to you by that website, we would be happy to give you a CREDIT on the purchase, back to your checking account.

You have decided to chargeback the item instead, claiming it was a fraudulent transaction. Our systems and FIT (Fraud Investigation Team) have flagged your dispute as inaccurate. We are informing you of this in advance to try and resolve this matter amicably. We are offering you a credit on the account, which would require you to return to your bank and cancel the chargeback.

If you chose not to cancel the chargeback, and remain under the claim that this was not a valid transaction, we will peruse a fraud investigation against you through the use of our attorneys, and state and federal court. Convictions of such offenses could cost you a minimum fine of $5,000.00 and 6-12 months imprisonment.

Please work with us on this matter, and it will be solved immediately. You will have to respond to this email with your intentions for us not to peruse legal action against you.

Sincerely,

JSA Media Group, Inc.

It is sad that the people who buy from the industry have learned they can chargeback almost anything, and too often programs flirt with that upper 1% where the gray line become black. Something need to be done about it.

PS. Im new here, so hi everyone.

Kimmykim · 12-24-2004, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike33

I though a chargeback could only be made for a subscription over $20 or some value like that?

Most banks simply issue a credit without cdc on very small transactions, they're already in the red on tiny trans by the time they read the request online or talk to the consumer.

Not all of them do though.

iBanker · 12-24-2004, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by dcortez

Let's not forget we're being paid to provide adult entertainment to people who mostly are NOT going to defraud us.

To treat them with an attitude assuming they are untrustworthy will do more harm than good. Why bum them out with a 'big brother is watching' approach. The ones who will cheat, will only laugh when they read your 'promise to track their butts to embarrasment'. The honest ones may regret having signed up with such an unfriendly service.

-Dino

Please dont missunderstand the intent I initially and still hold. The intent is to:

Limit the total number of chargebacks.

I have no intentions of embarassing anyone, as that is not good business. I can tell you this though, everyone here is sick of having to tell an affiliate he/she lost a sale cause it was fraudulent. It costs us money, but more importantly, it costs the affiliate money. Unhappy affiliates = Less Traffic = Less Joins = Less overall profit.

What we are trying to do, is keep that money in the affiliates pocket, not embarass anyone (although we have little emotion against scammers).

iBanker · 12-24-2004, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by detoxed

Interesting, maybe he charged back because he thought the site was shit?

Very cute. If that were the case, the Amp would be a shitty designer, 2one3 would be shitty production, Nats doesn't function, CCBill and/or Epoch doesn't work. All things we utilize that we know are above the industry standard, and works better than we imagined.

I think not, but hey, its your opinion. Have fun with it. Kind of knew if I posted a real thread on here, someone would be a jackass. And people wonder why I stay off the boards.

To those of you with the great imput thanks. My attorney will have it done after the new year if anyone wants a final copy of the letter we plan on sending. Merry Christmas!

iBanker · 12-24-2004, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by detoxed

Interesting, maybe he charged back because he thought the site was shit?

Just re read your post, wanted to clarify I thought you were calling our sites shit. Apologies if you weren't. Thanks.

killshot · 12-24-2004, 03:26 PM

I've started getting pre-emptive about chargebacks and reduced them by at least 75%

There are certain things people put in email addresses when they think they are clever and going to sign up and do a chargeback .. like 0wn3d@ or any other fake email with an abnormal amount of numbers instead of letters.. f

I'll cancel, refund, and ban the account as soon as i see it.

I probably end up losing some valid sales but the amount of money i have saved in penalties, not to mention keeping my overall percentage low has been worth it.

iBanker · 12-24-2004, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by killshot

I've started getting pre-emptive about chargebacks and reduced them by at least 75%

There are certain things people put in email addresses when they think they are clever and going to sign up and do a chargeback .. like 0wn3d@ or any other fake email with an abnormal amount of numbers instead of letters.. f

I'll cancel, refund, and ban the account as soon as i see it.

I probably end up losing some valid sales but the amount of money i have saved in penalties, not to mention keeping my overall percentage low has been worth it.

That sounds like a very viable solution. Something as well we should look at implementing.

d00t · 12-24-2004, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by killshot

I've started getting pre-emptive about chargebacks and reduced them by at least 75%

There are certain things people put in email addresses when they think they are clever and going to sign up and do a chargeback .. like 0wn3d@ or any other fake email with an abnormal amount of numbers instead of letters.. f

I'll cancel, refund, and ban the account as soon as i see it.

I probably end up losing some valid sales but the amount of money i have saved in penalties, not to mention keeping my overall percentage low has been worth it.

you can still dispute a refunded charge hehe

Zprogramz · 12-24-2004, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

That sounds like a very viable solution. Something as well we should look at implementing.

I know in our Netbilling fraud scrubbing settings, we have it set to void a transaction and kill the password if the email bounces back within a 12 hour period. It is a good filter to use. They have a bunch like that in their admin.

Z

Major (Tom) · 12-24-2004, 04:02 PM

I have found that chargebacks are mainly legit. It's the refunds that piss me off. Most chargebacks really are fruad. I would say 85-90% of chargebacks are really an innocent persons card being used. Refunds, however, is a different story. Those are the fuckers that piss me off. With refunds, the most common excuse is a minor used the card. If they refund more than a few months at a time usually its an irate wife.
I wish billers were more stern about refunds.
Duke

iBanker · 12-24-2004, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Zprogramz

I know in our Netbilling fraud scrubbing settings, we have it set to void a transaction and kill the password if the email bounces back within a 12 hour period. It is a good filter to use. They have a bunch like that in their admin.

Z

Yeah I read about that with NetBilling, thus the reason we just applied for an account through them. Just wish it didn't take 4-6 weeks. Especially for a company in the process of going public. Oh well, all in due time I guess.

That is one of the many reasons we are going over to them.

solonline · 12-24-2004, 05:20 PM

Think this is always a good idea. We mail each wanker who does a cb to us.
this past year we managed to recover around 20 percent of cbacks through the user posting payment or sending in a check. The dollar value was low but it makes me feel better...fuck em!
Thing i love best is when a user writes in screaming he cant sign up, car rejected and they we find he has cback history. Nothing gives me greater pleasue than emailing the fuck and telling him why his ass is blocked.
Every webmaster should write an email for every chargeback in my view.

NETbilling · 12-24-2004, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

Yeah I read about that with NetBilling, thus the reason we just applied for an account through them. Just wish it didn't take 4-6 weeks. Especially for a company in the process of going public. Oh well, all in due time I guess.

That is one of the many reasons we are going over to them.

Hi,

What part are you referring to that takes 4-6 weeks.

Below is what I posted yesterday about your application...

"Actually I just checked with Erin in merchant services and she verified that the app was faxed to us from you last Thursday (December 16th) and missing statements whcih you supplied to us last Friday (December 17th). We received the original from you this past Tuesday (December 21) and it was sent to the bank for approval yesterday and is in progress. Of course, not much will happen over the holidays at the banks as you probably would imagine."

Be sure to stop by our booth at Internext so we can meet. We will also be speaking at both processing seminars.

Thank you, Mitch Farber

12-23-2004, 04:15 PM	#51
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12-23-2004, 04:20 PM	#53
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12-23-2004, 06:09 PM	#60
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12-24-2004, 10:39 AM	#62
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12-24-2004, 12:41 PM	#65
Devilporn Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Montreal , Quebec Posts: 676	I do not run paysites yet but....why not tell the people signing up in the welcome e-mail you send them that you will track every use of the website they make and that if ever they chargeback you'll have proof to dispute it? __________________ TASTY DOLLARS Solo Girls \| Hardcore Teens \| Milfs Need a good upsell for your members area? Check our TastyFreeFeeds Contact me: ICQ: 323729438 \| E-mail: hubert at tastydollars.com

12-23-2004, 05:14 PM	#56
Rictor Old Timer Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 12,208	I'm all for it. I also favor shooting them.

12-24-2004, 09:05 AM	#61
Hentaikid Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 1,249	I got a chargeback recently and looked up the domain the email was from and it turns out the guy has a website where he posts adult stories using paypal to sell/accept donations. Heh heh. Payback time.

12-24-2004, 12:21 PM	#64
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	If I'm not mistaken, the fact that you had a CDC can still be counted against you if the acquiring bank or card association chooses to do so, regardless of the outcome.

12-24-2004, 12:50 PM	#66
Drake Hello world! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 12,508	Let us know if you wind up using this approach.

12-24-2004, 01:47 PM	#70
TonyL Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: "A measure of a man is his post count". Write that down. Posts: 900	Awesome. I will be implimenting this into our system next week. -Tony

12-24-2004, 01:52 PM	#71
Alex From San Diego Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: San Diego Posts: 1,642	Why not just have the enduser, click on a link within his email to activate his username/password in order to enter the site. that might eliminate the bogus emails. __________________ We are what we repeatedly do.-Aristotle

12-24-2004, 02:19 PM	#73
hottoddy Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: PacNorWest Posts: 3,048	Do what you feel is best for your business. But keep in mind, from a cost/benefit standpoint, you're gonna be paying $300+/hour for an attorney. __________________ - *** -

12-24-2004, 03:26 PM	#80
killshot Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: OGG / PDX Posts: 456	I've started getting pre-emptive about chargebacks and reduced them by at least 75% There are certain things people put in email addresses when they think they are clever and going to sign up and do a chargeback .. like 0wn3d@ or any other fake email with an abnormal amount of numbers instead of letters.. f I'll cancel, refund, and ban the account as soon as i see it. I probably end up losing some valid sales but the amount of money i have saved in penalties, not to mention keeping my overall percentage low has been worth it. __________________

12-24-2004, 04:02 PM	#84
Major (Tom) Boomer Woffen Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Null Posts: 30,571	I have found that chargebacks are mainly legit. It's the refunds that piss me off. Most chargebacks really are fruad. I would say 85-90% of chargebacks are really an innocent persons card being used. Refunds, however, is a different story. Those are the fuckers that piss me off. With refunds, the most common excuse is a minor used the card. If they refund more than a few months at a time usually its an irate wife. I wish billers were more stern about refunds. Duke __________________ My mother said, to get things done You'd better not mess with Major Tom

12-24-2004, 05:20 PM	#86
solonline Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: EU- Posts: 718	Think this is always a good idea. We mail each wanker who does a cb to us. this past year we managed to recover around 20 percent of cbacks through the user posting payment or sending in a check. The dollar value was low but it makes me feel better...fuck em! Thing i love best is when a user writes in screaming he cant sign up, car rejected and they we find he has cback history. Nothing gives me greater pleasue than emailing the fuck and telling him why his ass is blocked. Every webmaster should write an email for every chargeback in my view.