What does your significant other think about what you do? - Page 2 - GoFuckYourself.com

jact · 01-15-2004, 09:30 PM

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Originally posted by LadyMischief

Just wait, in 6 more weeks when baby comes, you're going to feel 85!

In 6 weeks I'm going to be begging for death to come swiftly.

Edit: 50 unknowing spouses

Ironhorse · 01-15-2004, 09:32 PM

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Originally posted by jact
In 6 weeks I'm going to be begging for death to come swiftly.

Edit: 50 unknowing spouses

No just someone else to change the diapers

Peter Romero · 01-15-2004, 09:33 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM

Fuck em though...Right?

Yeah, fuck em if they judge me for being in porn. Who are they to judge me? I don't lie about it, I don't hurt anyone, I'm not doing anything illegal - but I'm definetely not a people pleaser. I don't run around asking permission to think the way i want nor do I judge those who think diferently than I - unless they are in my face about it, telling me i'm wrong for sharing diferent views than them.

DTK · 01-15-2004, 09:35 PM

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Originally posted by LadyMischief

You're welcome, there's quite a few more car pics on my site.

Url please? Love classic muscle. My current money pit is a black '76 Vette.

quiet · 01-15-2004, 09:38 PM

hey pov porn guy - do you have a website with more info for exclusive video orders? btw i don't have sigs turned on... thanks.

LadyMischief · 01-15-2004, 09:39 PM

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Originally posted by DTK

Url please? Love classic muscle. My current money pit is a black '76 Vette.

Icq me 3522039

I don't wanna turn this into a spam thread :P

Peter Romero · 01-15-2004, 09:40 PM

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Originally posted by quiet
hey pov porn guy - do you have a website with more info for exclusive video orders? btw i don't have sigs turned on... thanks.

could you call me on the telephone? I got a splitting headache & I gotta lay down 818-360-4352 and I'll give you the URL's.

quiet · 01-15-2004, 09:42 PM

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Originally posted by POV Porn guy

could you call me on the telephone? I got a splitting headache & I gotta lay down 818-360-4352 and I'll give you the URL's.

if you could you shoot me an email when you get a chance ultraquiet at mac dot com that'd be great thanks

Holly · 01-15-2004, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by quiet
no significant other. age: 31.

digifan · 01-15-2004, 09:48 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM

Then you are doing something wrong. It's difficult at first due to the learning process. After that it gets a lot easier and less time consuming.

Sorry I forgot the quotation marks

That was he said.

BlackCrayon · 01-15-2004, 09:55 PM

i don't have a significant other at the moment. the girls i have been with have been cool with it for the most part. only one made issue with it but once she realized i wasn't going to change what i was doing for her, she didn't make it much of an issue.

the way i see it is if you meet the person and they are already in the industry, making sites or whatever you can't expect them to change for you. this is how you met them and if you don't like what they do, don't get involved. now i can see it as being something of a problem if you are with a person for 5-10-whatever years and you decide you want to get into porn, your significant other might feel threatened by this, and uncomfortable with the social taboo around porn. depends on what kind of background the person came from, ect. not all of us are so open minded about things.

slapass · 01-15-2004, 10:12 PM

This is the serious donwside of this business. Even though she might be supportive she will be less so when the thought of her family knowing etc.

Stewie · 01-15-2004, 10:17 PM

We joined the business together about 5 years ago. We've been married for almost 15 years, and love working together.

Honez · 01-15-2004, 10:28 PM

I am 39 and have had my own amateur website for over 5 years. I was one of the original, amateur, live, streaming video sites and got myself on Howard Stern (he loved my feet and he shut my cc processor's server down after mentioning my URL. God love him and fuck DMR) Sally Jesse Raphael (Springer didn't want me. Why? I had all my teeth. Seriously! That was one of the questions) I was Miss Nude Florida Runner up and Showgirl of the Year 2000 in Florida. I got divorced after 10 years of being married to a man that took credit for all of it, when I was the talent, webmistrress, marketing director and all around geek. I was the one that had her server crash while recovering in the hospital after having a hysterectomy (no kids and now can never have my own), got released early because I begged the Dr and went home to spend 3 days at my desk, abdominal stitches and all., to get everything back online. I moved across country, spent 2 years on my own, met a very obnoxious asshole, 7 years my junior, at an industry party who had no idea what kind of party he was at, spent 2 nights with him doing things I thought I would never do (hell, I would never see him again, right?) then couldn't get him to stop calling me. Oh and those two days he spent with me? He was on my travel cam being broadcast to all of my members. (Yes I have the model release) After a few visits between here (Phoenix) and there (San Diego) he ended up moving in with me. That was a year and a half ago. Today, he and I both are in the industry and we love it. We aren't so much talent anymore as we are a photography/videography team for a few companies. To answer your original questions, my significant other loves what I do, he found out by waking up to a JVC Cyber Cam in his crotch, he reacted by wanting to surf porn and tell all of his buddies he was a 'porn star' and today he is still an asshole (that does the dishes and realizes cumming on que ain't all it's cracked up to be). And I love that about him. Shhh.
My sister on the other hand? She needs a ball gag and a good fucking. Anyone want to volunteer?

Honez · 01-15-2004, 10:59 PM

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Originally posted by overlord
We joined the business together about 5 years ago. We've been married for almost 15 years, and love working together.

If you ever get tired of working with her, bath her and bring her to me. www.vanilladeville.com is SMOKIN' hot. And damn, to think I have, um, *known* her since day one. Sexy mama. Vanilla rocks my world. Overlord, you rock too. :-Þ

brand0n · 01-15-2004, 11:01 PM

what does she think? she helps me and offers new ideas to make shit better! so would say she loves it

Stewie · 01-15-2004, 11:07 PM

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Originally posted by Honez

If you ever get tired of working with her, bath her and bring her to me. www.vanilladeville.com is SMOKIN' hot. And damn, to think I have, um, *known* her since day one. Sexy mama. Vanilla rocks my world. Overlord, you rock too. :-Þ

Bathe her? Now I'm offended, that you think she needs bathing after living with me.

Voodoo · 01-15-2004, 11:15 PM

She's in the same industry.

SFBU · 01-15-2004, 11:23 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM
This has been discussed a lot around here but I am trying to prove a point to somebody who is reading the board tonight.

So...Tell us again...

What do they think about it, how did they find out, and what was their initial reaction compared to how they feel now?

Discuss.

So who is this somebody? Oh, thats right, it's me...

Honez · 01-15-2004, 11:24 PM

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Originally posted by overlord

Bathe her? Now I'm offended, that you think she needs bathing after living with me.

Oh you are such a guy. No, bathe her means throw her ass in the tub with lots of bubbles and let me watch, then bring her to me so I can throw her ass in bed, then in the hottub, then in bed, then in the shower, then in bed, then in the tub, then in, well, you get the idea. Brat.

Stewie · 01-15-2004, 11:29 PM

Don't try and be nice now - I know all about you - you're just trying to use me to molest my wife! I'm on to your little scheme!

I feel so cheap...

So... how's 12:30?

GTS Mark · 01-15-2004, 11:35 PM

Errr I think she thinks it is ok? She works for me after all.

DH

Peter Romero · 01-15-2004, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by SFBU

So who is this somebody? Oh, thats right, it's me...

So, you're ofended that I don't apologize about what I do?

baddog · 01-15-2004, 11:44 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM

Nice attitude bro.

The people in question used to like you. That may have just changed.

You may remember some people from dinner in LA and the Holio Party.

Tell them I said hello, and I don't have a significant other, so I really don't worry about it.

undermyspell · 01-15-2004, 11:50 PM

well considering my hubby is the one that got me into the business he better damn well be ok with it.. especially since I told him that he could enjoy any of the lovely ladies he sees as long as I get to watch and/or participate....

Honez · 01-15-2004, 11:51 PM

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Originally posted by overlord
Don't try and be nice now - I know all about you - you're just trying to use me to molest my wife! I'm on to your little scheme!

I feel so cheap...

So... how's 12:30?

Use you? Hell yea I am trying to use you! But you have it all wrong. I am using her to get to your sexy ass. Mmmmm

Forkbeard · 01-15-2004, 11:57 PM

She loves it. She wants me to double my porn income so I can quit my day job and have more time to play with her.

SFBU · 01-15-2004, 11:58 PM

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Originally posted by POV Porn guy

So, you're ofended that I don't apologize about what I do?

Nope, AaronM is just being protective of my spouses sensibilities in case she read this thread. You met us at either the HardRock Cafe or the party the next night, so he thought we might get upset at your comment. I do beleive we all have a right to our opinion as do you. No worrys.

SleazeQueen · 01-16-2004, 12:02 AM

I'm 36 and my fiance doesn't mind what I do. He's not crazy about sharing the info at the very conservitive office he works in, but it's not a big deal for us.

He sure likes the house we were able to buy last month and adult made that possible.

Babagirls · 01-16-2004, 12:39 AM

my man loves that i do porn sites/gallerys...free pics all over the computer for him to see

however, he now REFUSES that I do WebCamming anymore. He was cool with it a few years back but not anymore. (So i only do requested shows in the mornings he works...he doesnt bitch when I go out a buy a new toy for the house, so why not do it?)

GonePhishing · 01-16-2004, 12:52 AM

My woman is cool with it. She didn't like it when she first met me, but now she is used to it, so she is cool.

xxxoutsourcing · 01-16-2004, 12:59 AM

It's a business and she knows that, no worries and sometimes she even comes up with great ideas for a new shoot!

No points for not telling the other half, if they don't accept it then it's there problem.

I have other companies too, so not everyone knows everything i do and why should they.

Some things are a need to know basis.

Peter Romero · 01-16-2004, 01:02 AM

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Originally posted by SFBU

Nope, AaronM is just being protective of my spouses sensibilities in case she read this thread. You met us at either the HardRock Cafe or the party the next night, so he thought we might get upset at your comment. I do beleive we all have a right to our opinion as do you. No worrys.

The important thing is that she likes you for you, not me & my abrupt views. I make no excuses for my behaviour, and don't ask permission. I am a free thinker, and respect others free thinking too. Besides, I would rather people like or dislike me for who I really am, not a facade that I create not to offend anyone or so that people like me. Honesty is BIG with me, and I wont apologize for it.

1/3 of the people will like you
1/3 of the people wont like you
and...
1/3 of the people wont care about you or even notice you at all.

Girlie · 01-16-2004, 01:51 AM

My significant other gets off on what I do, as I do him

Yeah baby!

XOXO
Girlie

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
This has been discussed a lot around here but I am trying to prove a point to somebody who is reading the board tonight.

So...Tell us again...

What do they think about it, how did they find out, and what was their initial reaction compared to how they feel now?

Discuss.

siccmade · 01-16-2004, 03:52 AM

I have my girlfriend help me with galleries and freesites, picking out pictures, etc.

I know she is getting a bit frustrated, because we've had to take a lot of time off of work for funerals and trips, etc, and it's really hurting us right now when it comes to money.

But we'll be alright

mistersoft · 01-16-2004, 04:06 AM

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Originally posted by POV Porn guy

There are 2 questions a man must ask himself:
1. Where am i going?
2. And, who will go with me?
The moment these 2 questions are reversed, you're fucked!

Sam Keen author of "Fire in the belly" on becoming a man.

I used to roll about life living everyone else's. Then, one day, as I sat broke, politically correct, and depressed in my hovel dank stinky apartment in Hollywood - it became aparent to me that what everyone else thought about me meant very little compared to what I thought about me. In fact, I was living a lie unless I was following my own path in life and sharing it's riches with those close to me. As long as I follow my code, i'm OK - Don't hurt anyone, Don't hurt yourself, and don't do anything illegal. That was also the day that I lost judgement on everyone else for living a life that I didn't approve of - because you know what? It's none of my fucking business what you do with your life, as longf as it doesn't interfere with mine. What did madonna say? "Whore is the man, who's pleasures depend - on the permission of another.

That day, BTW, was the day I got into porn - October 15th 1996.

Kassidy · 01-16-2004, 07:31 AM

My hubby loves what I do. I work from home, our kids haven't been to a daycare in over 3 years, his dinner is always ready when he gets home...and I know where to find all the good porn

Joesho · 01-16-2004, 07:37 AM

My significant other, says it is all good as long as I keep taking them ther penis enlargment pills..... if it was not for getting a bunch of them free at the shows, she would never let me out of the house!

Sarah_Jayne · 01-16-2004, 08:48 AM

my husband has no problem at all with me working in porn. I started working in it after we met and it has allowed me to work from home and look after him as he gets older and his disablity gets worse.

It is just like any other industry AND it works as a good way of screening friends. If someone has too much of an issue with it when they find out what I do then they most likey aren't going to be the kind of people with whom I could develop a long term friendship.

JunkyardDog · 01-16-2004, 09:52 AM

She's ok with it.

Most people I have met havent had an issue with it. The ones that do, who needs them.

01-15-2004, 09:38 PM	#55
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	hey pov porn guy - do you have a website with more info for exclusive video orders? btw i don't have sigs turned on... thanks. __________________ we'll miss you our friend. RIP

01-15-2004, 09:55 PM	#61
BlackCrayon Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Ottawa Posts: 19,631	i don't have a significant other at the moment. the girls i have been with have been cool with it for the most part. only one made issue with it but once she realized i wasn't going to change what i was doing for her, she didn't make it much of an issue. the way i see it is if you meet the person and they are already in the industry, making sites or whatever you can't expect them to change for you. this is how you met them and if you don't like what they do, don't get involved. now i can see it as being something of a problem if you are with a person for 5-10-whatever years and you decide you want to get into porn, your significant other might feel threatened by this, and uncomfortable with the social taboo around porn. depends on what kind of background the person came from, ect. not all of us are so open minded about things. __________________ you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

01-15-2004, 10:28 PM	#64
Honez Confirmed Brat Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Posts: 6,636	I am 39 and have had my own amateur website for over 5 years. I was one of the original, amateur, live, streaming video sites and got myself on Howard Stern (he loved my feet and he shut my cc processor's server down after mentioning my URL. God love him and fuck DMR) Sally Jesse Raphael (Springer didn't want me. Why? I had all my teeth. Seriously! That was one of the questions) I was Miss Nude Florida Runner up and Showgirl of the Year 2000 in Florida. I got divorced after 10 years of being married to a man that took credit for all of it, when I was the talent, webmistrress, marketing director and all around geek. I was the one that had her server crash while recovering in the hospital after having a hysterectomy (no kids and now can never have my own), got released early because I begged the Dr and went home to spend 3 days at my desk, abdominal stitches and all., to get everything back online. I moved across country, spent 2 years on my own, met a very obnoxious asshole, 7 years my junior, at an industry party who had no idea what kind of party he was at, spent 2 nights with him doing things I thought I would never do (hell, I would never see him again, right?) then couldn't get him to stop calling me. Oh and those two days he spent with me? He was on my travel cam being broadcast to all of my members. (Yes I have the model release) After a few visits between here (Phoenix) and there (San Diego) he ended up moving in with me. That was a year and a half ago. Today, he and I both are in the industry and we love it. We aren't so much talent anymore as we are a photography/videography team for a few companies. To answer your original questions, my significant other loves what I do, he found out by waking up to a JVC Cyber Cam in his crotch, he reacted by wanting to surf porn and tell all of his buddies he was a 'porn star' and today he is still an asshole (that does the dishes and realizes cumming on que ain't all it's cracked up to be). And I love that about him. Shhh. My sister on the other hand? She needs a ball gag and a good fucking. Anyone want to volunteer? __________________ Your Paysite Partner Hone at YourPaysitePartner dot Com Skype - Stressmonkey Last edited by Honez; 01-15-2004 at 10:35 PM..

01-15-2004, 11:01 PM	#66
brand0n been very busy Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: the queen city Posts: 26,983	what does she think? she helps me and offers new ideas to make shit better! so would say she loves it __________________ want to buy this spot for cheap? it is of course for sale. long term deals are always the best bet. brand0n/ at/ a o l dot commies.

01-15-2004, 11:15 PM	#68
Voodoo ♥ ♦ ♣ ♠ Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 10,592	She's in the same industry. __________________ "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

01-15-2004, 10:12 PM	#62
slapass Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Earth Posts: 14,622	This is the serious donwside of this business. Even though she might be supportive she will be less so when the thought of her family knowing etc.

01-15-2004, 10:17 PM	#63
Stewie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: In bed with Vanilla Posts: 3,670	We joined the business together about 5 years ago. We've been married for almost 15 years, and love working together.

01-15-2004, 11:29 PM	#71
Stewie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: In bed with Vanilla Posts: 3,670	Don't try and be nice now - I know all about you - you're just trying to use me to molest my wife! I'm on to your little scheme! I feel so cheap... So... how's 12:30?

01-15-2004, 11:35 PM	#72
GTS Mark Vrume Mark Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 20,912	Errr I think she thinks it is ok? She works for me after all. DH

01-15-2004, 11:50 PM	#75
undermyspell Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 875	well considering my hubby is the one that got me into the business he better damn well be ok with it.. especially since I told him that he could enjoy any of the lovely ladies he sees as long as I get to watch and/or participate....

01-15-2004, 11:57 PM	#77
Forkbeard Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: I Roam Around Posts: 2,236	She loves it. She wants me to double my porn income so I can quit my day job and have more time to play with her. __________________ Offering sponsored blog posts and custom writing services.

01-16-2004, 12:02 AM	#79
SleazeQueen Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Western WA Posts: 634	I'm 36 and my fiance doesn't mind what I do. He's not crazy about sharing the info at the very conservitive office he works in, but it's not a big deal for us. He sure likes the house we were able to buy last month and adult made that possible. __________________ Bush can no more fire Rove than Charlie McCarthy could fire Edgar Bergen.

01-16-2004, 12:39 AM	#80
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	my man loves that i do porn sites/gallerys...free pics all over the computer for him to see however, he now REFUSES that I do WebCamming anymore. He was cool with it a few years back but not anymore. (So i only do requested shows in the mornings he works...he doesnt bitch when I go out a buy a new toy for the house, so why not do it?) __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

01-16-2004, 12:52 AM	#81
GonePhishing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Blah Posts: 2,474	My woman is cool with it. She didn't like it when she first met me, but now she is used to it, so she is cool. __________________ If Biff Fucks My Mom... I Might Never Be Born...

01-16-2004, 12:59 AM	#82
xxxoutsourcing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 3,888	It's a business and she knows that, no worries and sometimes she even comes up with great ideas for a new shoot! No points for not telling the other half, if they don't accept it then it's there problem. I have other companies too, so not everyone knows everything i do and why should they. Some things are a need to know basis. __________________ xxxoutsourcing.com ICQ:119936 \| Aim:xxxoutsourcing \| MSN:msn@ xxxoutsourcing.com \| Yahoo:xxxoutsourcing Submitters, Designers, Programmers, Cartoonist, Creative Writers, Video & Photo Editors Convert your Paysite into a cartoon site convert2toons.com

01-16-2004, 03:52 AM	#85
siccmade Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Canton, Ohio Posts: 1,641	I have my girlfriend help me with galleries and freesites, picking out pictures, etc. I know she is getting a bit frustrated, because we've had to take a lot of time off of work for funerals and trips, etc, and it's really hurting us right now when it comes to money. But we'll be alright __________________ Adult XXX Hits - Adult Traffic Exchange. Get free traffic!

01-16-2004, 07:31 AM	#87
Kassidy Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Vancouverish... ICQ# 111432084 Posts: 1,219	My hubby loves what I do. I work from home, our kids haven't been to a daycare in over 3 years, his dinner is always ready when he gets home...and I know where to find all the good porn __________________ The ORIGINAL micro niche program- All Original and exclusive content. Paying 60% recurring through CCBill, FHG, free content & gallery templates Well researched niches with on-target content. SUBSTANCE SELLS!

01-16-2004, 07:37 AM	#88
Joesho want to get in shape Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: on the lake Posts: 12,329	My significant other, says it is all good as long as I keep taking them ther penis enlargment pills..... if it was not for getting a bunch of them free at the shows, she would never let me out of the house! __________________ Got any domains to sell? I proudly host all my stuff at www.rackco.com

01-16-2004, 08:48 AM	#89
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	my husband has no problem at all with me working in porn. I started working in it after we met and it has allowed me to work from home and look after him as he gets older and his disablity gets worse. It is just like any other industry AND it works as a good way of screening friends. If someone has too much of an issue with it when they find out what I do then they most likey aren't going to be the kind of people with whom I could develop a long term friendship. Last edited by Sarah_Jayne; 01-16-2004 at 08:51 AM..

01-16-2004, 09:52 AM	#90
JunkyardDog Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Swamp Posts: 788	She's ok with it. Most people I have met havent had an issue with it. The ones that do, who needs them.