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  • AaronM
    GFY Royality ;)
    • Oct 2001
    • 46917

    #1

    What does your significant other think about what you do?

    This has been discussed a lot around here but I am trying to prove a point to somebody who is reading the board tonight.

    So...Tell us again...

    What do they think about it, how did they find out, and what was their initial reaction compared to how they feel now?

    Discuss.
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    • Mar 2003
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    #2
    She loves what I do

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    • PurrrsianPussyKat
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      • Jan 2004
      • 2088

      #3
      My man and I work as a team.
      He was working full time managing a website and when that contract ended in July, we both went full force into porn. Before that we only dabbled. Had a paysite, tgp, etc. It's great to work together. We get so much more done than only 1 person could.
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      • InsaneMidget
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        • May 2002
        • 3767

        #4
        I was 15 when I meet my girlfriend, I'm 20 now, she's 21, I was doing porn back when we met, and she thought it was cool as shit. Now however, she wishes I had a real job so she didn't have to hide whta I do from people, I personally don't give a fuck if people know, my parents know, my friends know, if someone asks, I tell them. She doesn't like it so much though, but she willa ccept it. I'll probably move into something else eventually, and do this on the side.

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        • digifan
          The Profiler
          • Oct 2002
          • 14618

          #5
          Money is money, it is just as a hard job as anything else.
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          • AaronM
            GFY Royality ;)
            • Oct 2001
            • 46917

            #6
            Originally posted by digifan
            Money is money, it is just as a hard job as anything else.
            Then you are doing something wrong. It's difficult at first due to the learning process. After that it gets a lot easier and less time consuming.

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            • SFBU
              Confirmed User
              • Dec 2001
              • 494

              #7
              It would probably be hard for someone in their mid-50's to come to grips with a spouse that decided to do this, don't you think?

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              • TaDoW
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                • Sep 2001
                • 3875

                #8
                my girlfriend immediately turned to me and said "Who is AaronM, and how can I get his cock buried in me?!?"

                ::shrug:: who knew
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                I've Upped My Standards, Up Yours!

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                • Dildozer
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                  • Jul 2002
                  • 7519

                  #9
                  Girls love money. Period.
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                  • AaronM
                    GFY Royality ;)
                    • Oct 2001
                    • 46917

                    #10
                    Originally posted by TaDoW
                    my girlfriend immediately turned to me and said "Who is AaronM, and how can I get his cock buried in me?!?"

                    ::shrug:: who knew
                    It's all good Tim. Every time I am in Seattle I show her.

                    I'm just about due for another trip up there.

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                    • LadyMischief
                      Orgasms N Such!
                      • Sep 2002
                      • 18135

                      #11
                      We are partners, but he was involved in the industry first. I never had a problem with it even before I started working with him.

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                      • AaronM
                        GFY Royality ;)
                        • Oct 2001
                        • 46917

                        #12
                        Originally posted by SFBU
                        It would probably be hard for someone in their mid-50's to come to grips with a spouse that decided to do this, don't you think?
                        That would be the question of the day.

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                        • plyndrty
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                          • Jul 2003
                          • 1477

                          #13
                          1.Money is Money
                          2.As long as your home
                          3.Your not fucking around
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                          • Herb Kornfield
                            Is on the 1
                            • Sep 2002
                            • 4996

                            #14
                            She digs it since I have a real corporate job as well by day. The pics that you all post make her and her girlfriends at work crack up thru the day.

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                            • TaDoW
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                              • Sep 2001
                              • 3875

                              #15
                              Originally posted by AaronM


                              It's all good Tim. Every time I am in Seattle I show her.

                              I'm just about due for another trip up there.
                              you little rascal.

                              THAT's where she's been sneaking off to when you come up!
                              -TaDoW

                              I've Upped My Standards, Up Yours!

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                              • AaronM
                                GFY Royality ;)
                                • Oct 2001
                                • 46917

                                #16
                                Originally posted by LadyMischief
                                We are partners, but he was involved in the industry first. I never had a problem with it even before I started working with him.
                                For the record...Please state your aproximate age.

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                                • Ironhorse
                                  Pixel Pusher
                                  • Nov 2002
                                  • 7094

                                  #17
                                  My wife of 14 years and I have been separated for over a year. As in any marriage, there were a host of other issues that prompted me to move out and she was pretty tolerant of my porn activities for years even though she never really liked it much.

                                  Although she's pretty jealous type (as am I) I have never cheated on her and didn't plan to because she's an excellent lover and I don't intend to betray her trust. I've invited her to come along to the few conventions I've gone to, but she refused, instead she probably fosters fears of my infidelity, of course as do most people that know me outside of this industry. Ironically I am maybe one of the most faithful mofos out there, and as you all know, temptation is at every corner in this biz and I am such a stud.

                                  I have recently asked for a list of items I could correct, well porn was one of them. I have left porn before for almost a year and got back into it, ultimately it looks like I will have to choose between the two.

                                  As I'm mostly only doing design for a living right now, I have a 3 year plan to eventually stop taking on adult projects and phase into mainstream design but with the current economy it would be pretty suicidal for me to give it up now since I started the year with a bang.

                                  Well, there's my confessional and I just invited her to the Cancun gathering but didn't get an answer yet. I keep hoping she understands the business side of things especially since she doesn't seem to mind the money

                                  .. to be continued..

                                  Edit: I am 35
                                  Last edited by Ironhorse; 01-15-2004, 06:57 PM.
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                                  • LadyMischief
                                    Orgasms N Such!
                                    • Sep 2002
                                    • 18135

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by AaronM


                                    For the record...Please state your aproximate age.
                                    I'm 27.

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                                    • chodadog
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                                      • Apr 2002
                                      • 9736

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by InsaneMidget
                                      I was 15 when I meet my girlfriend, I'm 20 now, she's 21, I was doing porn back when we met, and she thought it was cool as shit. Now however, she wishes I had a real job so she didn't have to hide whta I do from people, I personally don't give a fuck if people know, my parents know, my friends know, if someone asks, I tell them. She doesn't like it so much though, but she willa ccept it. I'll probably move into something else eventually, and do this on the side.
                                      Hiding what i do from people is a non-issue for me. My friend introduces me as "This is Brendan. He's a pornographer"

                                      Goddamn asshole. lol.

                                      My girlfriend doesn't <i>like</i> that i do porn, but she doesn't mind. And we're planning on having children, so she loves the fact that we'll both be at home with the kids and the flexible hours.
                                      26 + 6 = 1

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                                      • WebTitan
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Mar 2003
                                        • 5114

                                        #20
                                        its a business and that is how i look at it. like any other...

                                        Wife is involved 100%, she is my best designer

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                                        • AaronM
                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                          • Oct 2001
                                          • 46917

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by LadyMischief


                                          I'm 27.
                                          I took you for more mature than that.

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                                          • SFBU
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                                            • Dec 2001
                                            • 494

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by AaronM


                                            I took you for more mature than that.
                                            Opps!

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                                            • quiet
                                              we'll miss you our friend. RIP
                                              • Sep 2001
                                              • 25115

                                              #23
                                              no significant other. age: 31.
                                              we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                              • RP Fade
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                                                • Sep 2003
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                                                #24
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                                                • AaronM
                                                  GFY Royality ;)
                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                  • 46917

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by quiet
                                                  no significant other. age: 31.
                                                  31?

                                                  Typo?

                                                  I could swear we both just turned 30.

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                                                  • myjah
                                                    Back in the harbor
                                                    • Sep 2003
                                                    • 11482

                                                    #26
                                                    he loves it. who doesnt love money?
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                                                    • quiet
                                                      we'll miss you our friend. RIP
                                                      • Sep 2001
                                                      • 25115

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by AaronM


                                                      31?

                                                      Typo?

                                                      I could swear we both just turned 30.
                                                      nope, 30 was last year
                                                      we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                                      • LittleMack
                                                        www.pornkings.com
                                                        • Oct 2003
                                                        • 4645

                                                        #28
                                                        My spouse is 100% supportive and has actually given me tons of great ideas. She is not good on the design side but is great at marketing.
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                                                        • AaronM
                                                          GFY Royality ;)
                                                          • Oct 2001
                                                          • 46917

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by SFBU


                                                          Opps!
                                                          STFU and read.

                                                          Age is not the issue. Money and making it a business is.

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                                                          • AaronM
                                                            GFY Royality ;)
                                                            • Oct 2001
                                                            • 46917

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by quiet


                                                            nope, 30 was last year
                                                            You old bastid.

                                                            And here I thought we shared something special.

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                                                            • Rictor
                                                              Old Timer
                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                              • 12208

                                                              #31
                                                              She likes to suck my weiner on webcam with a big audience. What was the question again?

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                                                              • Peter Romero
                                                                Long time no happy ending
                                                                • Feb 2003
                                                                • 10618

                                                                #32
                                                                Who cares. Fuck her if she doesn't like it, the welfare line forms over in the garden of poverty riden do gooders who think I give a shit about what they think about me. Fuck em all! Do what you want, if they follow - cool, if they don't, there will always be another.


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                                                                • AaronM
                                                                  GFY Royality ;)
                                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                                  • 46917

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by POV Porn guy
                                                                  Who cares. Fuck her if she doesn't like it, the welfare line forms over in the garden of poverty riden do gooders who think I give a shit about what they think about me. Fuck em all! Do what you want, if they follow - cool, if they don't, there will always be another.
                                                                  Nice attitude bro.

                                                                  The people in question used to like you. That may have just changed.

                                                                  You may remember some people from dinner in LA and the Holio Party.

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                                                                  • AaronM
                                                                    GFY Royality ;)
                                                                    • Oct 2001
                                                                    • 46917

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by AaronM


                                                                    Nice attitude bro.

                                                                    The people in question used to like you. That may have just changed.

                                                                    You may remember some people from dinner in LA and the Holio Party.
                                                                    Fuck em though...Right?

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                                                                      • Jan 2004
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                                                                      • Smurfette
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                                                                        • Sep 2001
                                                                        • 542

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Me and my man work together.

                                                                        I don't know why so many women have a problem with their men looking at porn.

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                                                                        • quiet
                                                                          we'll miss you our friend. RIP
                                                                          • Sep 2001
                                                                          • 25115

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by AaronM


                                                                          You old bastid.

                                                                          And here I thought we shared something special.
                                                                          hey, we still do
                                                                          we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                                                          • LadyMischief
                                                                            Orgasms N Such!
                                                                            • Sep 2002
                                                                            • 18135

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by AaronM


                                                                            I took you for more mature than that.
                                                                            I've got small children. They tend you age you :P

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                                                                            • AaronM
                                                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                              • 46917

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by quiet


                                                                              hey, we still do
                                                                              Then drag your ass to Cancun and she me that you old people can still party like us young bucks.

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                                                                              • AaronM
                                                                                GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                • Oct 2001
                                                                                • 46917

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by LadyMischief


                                                                                I've got small children. They tend you age you :P
                                                                                Yeah but isn't Joel about 70?

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                                                                                • Brad Xtremepay
                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                  • Dec 2003
                                                                                  • 2000

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  My mom is fine with it.

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                                                                                  • DTK
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                                                                                    • Feb 2002
                                                                                    • 4546

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by LadyMischief
                                                                                    We are partners, but he was involved in the industry first. I never had a problem with it even before I started working with him.
                                                                                    Same as my wife and I.

                                                                                    Thanks again for posting that '70 challenger pic...brought back great memories
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                                                                                    • LadyMischief
                                                                                      Orgasms N Such!
                                                                                      • Sep 2002
                                                                                      • 18135

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by AaronM


                                                                                      Yeah but isn't Joel about 70?
                                                                                      7 you say? hehe.. He doesn't have QUITE enough grey hair yet.. but it's coming (he's gonna KILL me for saying that).

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                                                                                      • LadyMischief
                                                                                        Orgasms N Such!
                                                                                        • Sep 2002
                                                                                        • 18135

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by DTK


                                                                                        Same as my wife and I.

                                                                                        Thanks again for posting that '70 challenger pic...brought back great memories
                                                                                        You're welcome, there's quite a few more car pics on my site.

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                                                                                        • Peter Romero
                                                                                          Long time no happy ending
                                                                                          • Feb 2003
                                                                                          • 10618

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by AaronM


                                                                                          Nice attitude bro.

                                                                                          The people in question used to like you. That may have just changed.

                                                                                          You may remember some people from dinner in LA and the Holio Party.
                                                                                          Then I guess they shouldn't be reading a site called GO FUCK YOURSELF

                                                                                          They don't like me cause I'm not spineless? Here's a nicer way to put it:

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                                                                                          2. And, who will go with me?
                                                                                          The moment these 2 questions are reversed, you're fucked!

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                                                                                          I used to roll about life living everyone else's. Then, one day, as I sat broke, politically correct, and depressed in my hovel dank stinky apartment in Hollywood - it became aparent to me that what everyone else thought about me meant very little compared to what I thought about me. In fact, I was living a lie unless I was following my own path in life and sharing it's riches with those close to me. As long as I follow my code, i'm OK - Don't hurt anyone, Don't hurt yourself, and don't do anything illegal. That was also the day that I lost judgement on everyone else for living a life that I didn't approve of - because you know what? It's none of my fucking business what you do with your life, as longf as it doesn't interfere with mine. What did madonna say? "Whore is the man, who's pleasures depend - on the permission of another.


                                                                                          That day, BTW, was the day I got into porn - October 15th 1996.


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                                                                                          • vicki
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                                                                                            • Feb 2002
                                                                                            • 1478

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Without him I'd only get 1/2 as much done lol

                                                                                            we're APPROXIMATELY out of our 30's ;)

                                                                                            oh and no comments from the peanut section that know me!!! (I still wear my silver tipped boots guys!) lol
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                                                                                            • SL|M!
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                                                                                              • Mar 2003
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              My gay lover isnt crazy that I do straight porn

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                                                                                              • jact
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                                                                                                • Sep 2002
                                                                                                • 9134

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by AaronM


                                                                                                Yeah but isn't Joel about 70?
                                                                                                I don't feel a day over 67, thank you very much. However in actuality I'm 28.
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                                                                                                • HeadPimp
                                                                                                  Bad Mo-Fo
                                                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                                                  • 2772

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Hmmm... You know how my woman feels about it.

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                                                                                                  • LadyMischief
                                                                                                    Orgasms N Such!
                                                                                                    • Sep 2002
                                                                                                    • 18135

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by jact
                                                                                                    I don't feel a day over 67, thank you very much. However in actuality I'm 28.
                                                                                                    Just wait, in 6 more weeks when baby comes, you're going to feel 85!

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